graygirll Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
280	Just a reminder that I thought would help others.	REMINDER 👑	graygirll	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/06/20 04:49 PM
79	"Women, ask men out!"	#JustLVMThings	graygirll	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/20 05:53 AM
31	Will I ever be "feminine" enough?	SEEKING ADVICE	graygirll	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/20 07:19 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	And if you decide we’re splitting the bill, it’s no longer a date I like this idea! I tend to have a very independent mindset and was raised that way, it hard for me to accept things from people even romantic interests. It makes me slightly uncomfortable for friends or family to pay for things for me because I feel like a burden. I worry, as someone else stated, that if the guy pays he'll be expecting something else or hold it over my head. Im slowly getting accommodated to the idea of deserving the gentlemanly treatment but I think this is something I could g…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/20 05:42 AM
5	Men who wear the "I tell truth, take it or leave it, I dont care if you dont like it!!!" badge. Honest or emotionally immature? This is it exactly. I was with someone who refused to communicate about a lot of things. He would be upset and not say why. He was unclear about our relationship and where we stood. I was constantly having to bring up the same issues over and over and getting nothing from him. Like literally he would say no more than two words or change the subject. I begged him to talk and to be honest with me. On the flip side, he complained that I wasn't affectionate enough or open enough and that I seemed gu…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/20 04:55 PM
56	Before discovering FDS Its kind of funny but before I found FDS, most of the advice I would give my friends was actually solid. I'd catch red flags earlier, I'd scoff at them for putting up with bs and LV crap much earlier. But when it came to myself? Lolll. Once that loneliness and societal pressure sunk in, well, this was basically me looking in the mirror.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/05/20 04:31 PM
16	Male friends? What are your thoughts/ experiences? + little story Samee. A lot of my interests are male leaning, and my closest male "friend" is actually my brother--we grew up sharing video games and toys, watching anime together, etc. So I always expected to have more male friends. I don't know if they're put off by that or what, but they rarely ever stuck, even the ones that "liked me." Definitely learned that that personality thing is bs, they'll friendzone you in a heartbeat for someone who looks more attractive but doesn't like any of the things they do,…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/05/20 06:42 PM
7	Male friends? What are your thoughts/ experiences? + little story Yup, this is me. Growing up I was mostly the opposite way--I would catch feelings, tell them, be rejected and avoided and the friendship would end. Then when I got older, it flipped: they'd tell me they liked me, I'd tell them I didn't feel the same but still wanted their friendship, and they were like nope!! And the friendship would still end. Once I made the mistake of giving a chance to a male friend who confessed to me after we were close friends for 3 years. I even met his family, who were …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/05/20 06:34 PM