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Do not underplay or overplay your job. Do not say it is boring. Say where you work. State your title. What do you do? You help take care of things. The larger issue is that you a) have a job and b) support yourself and a certain lifestyle. That part of the exchange should not last so long that the conversation even has a chance to flat-line. You need to be on other topics by then.
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:51 PM
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It is not me but if I WERE the leader of Ukraine I would allow any person to leave and stamp their passport in a certain way to make them forever unable to return. Stamp it "citizenship renounced." Why does he want a reluctant army. You leave, never come back, we give your house or apartment to an international volunteer who wants to stay in the nation.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 12:19 AM
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Google Squirmy and Grubs for inspiration. Determine what he is doing and model that.
/r/seduction12/02/22 07:08 PM
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The attitude dictates that you are not concerned with the outcome. You make your shot and quickly disengage and move on it does not work.
/r/seduction11/01/22 08:21 PM
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Any issue that falls in the " there's this one girl " is as YOU wrote a stupid question.
/r/seduction11/01/22 08:20 PM
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My advice is to initially focus on yourself. Do not approach anyone or even look at them initially. You do not want to get pegged as the "guy who joined the dance class to get women guy." But act like a man. Stomp in. Don't be too graceful. Wait until one comes to you and the inevitable "why are you here" question say with confidence "hat first started off as a crazy idea to quickly nurse my twisted ankles back to prime condition became an obsession. I just want to be a really good dancer, and t…
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:26 AM
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Are you truly interested in dance and yoga ?
/r/seduction10/01/22 02:16 AM
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Comes and goes. Personally, I have not since 2018 or so but I am working on a renewal.
/r/seduction09/01/22 10:36 PM
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IGNORE THAT PERSON. DELETE ALL DATING ACCOUNTS FOR NOW. TAKE A BREAK. IGNORE HIM. WHATEVER HAPPENS HAPPENS. SAY IF ASKED COULD HAVE BEEN PHOTOSHOPPED. DO YOUR JOB AS NORMAL BUT BE PARTICULARLY PROMPT AND COURTEOUS.
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:23 PM
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But don't pay to the guy. Or you will keep paying.
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:21 PM
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with your face?
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:21 PM
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IN GENERAL: Got engaged verbally in some sort of environmental or situational topic, then bowing out to leave, gave them an option to continue in the future or bow out gracefully.
/r/seduction09/01/22 09:19 PM
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And why did you need a quick phone call ? I would only do that day of when both hitting the streets to meet up.
/r/seduction09/01/22 08:43 PM
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And why did you change subject to New Years instead of talking more about Zaras?
/r/seduction09/01/22 08:41 PM
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By speaking less and listening more.
/r/seduction09/01/22 08:39 PM
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You fucked up by not moving on.
/r/seduction09/01/22 08:17 PM
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Focus the energy you're projecting on her, on your own self. Best way of wording it.
/r/seduction09/01/22 07:08 PM
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All those books about dating and flirting are good and should be read however the underlining (machine code for any programmers out there) is being confident.
/r/seduction09/01/22 05:57 PM
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Go to any book vendors website and put confidence in. It's all the same core principals regurgitated for the last 50 years. Look in self help area of a used book store.
/r/seduction09/01/22 05:55 PM
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I did not read that wall of text but the problem here is your mindset. Any issue that falls in the category of "there is this one girl", then that is the issue. Leave this poor woman be, move on with your life, work on yourself to be ready for the next one and there is always a next one.
/r/seduction09/01/22 05:17 PM
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If you have to ask then no. Only do it with 100% confidence and if you are asking here then you do not have that. And only do it IF prepared to bow out if it's not working. Try making eye contact and smiling. Nodding your head.
/r/seduction09/01/22 05:12 PM
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Work on yourself. Take a shower. Clean your apartment out.
/r/seduction09/01/22 05:10 PM
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Read a generic book about self-confidence.
/r/seduction09/01/22 05:09 PM
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Make an account. Friend the gym. Ask people to spot you. After a couple of weeks, friend people you see the gym.
/r/seduction07/01/22 10:07 AM
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I literally just sleep, eat, study and go to the gym for an hour. So post that. Your gym has an Instagram. Start from there.
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:39 AM
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Cool. Can't wait to check it out.
/r/seduction06/01/22 01:31 AM
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My advise is be around her as much as possible (platonic-ally), with out being a pest, however wait for HER to ask you.
/r/seduction06/01/22 01:30 AM
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Put in a link request. If she links with you, message, "it was great working with you, maybe one day out paths will cross again." Let it go. Put your attentions elsewhere. If she wants to hang with you she will make the next move.
/r/seduction06/01/22 12:09 AM
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Live your life. There is nothing to track. Be confident, put yourself out there.
/r/seduction06/01/22 12:07 AM
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Think of how many of those women are exploited or burn themselves out from that lifestyle.
/r/seduction06/01/22 12:01 AM
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She likely does not need you as a reference.
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:59 PM
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Act the way you would act anywhere.
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:58 PM
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Good. As long as it was not staged.
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:58 PM
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Enjoy the processes. Have the proper attitude. It is not something to be tracked. " The attitude dictates that you don't care whether she comes, stays, lays, or prays. I mean whatever happens, your toes are still tappin'. Now when you got that, then you have the attitude."
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:56 PM
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Put yourself in that same state you did as when you were a waiter. Get yourself BACK in that frame and you are still a waiter and you are serving her the best dish, YOU.
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:25 AM
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The exception is when the girl is visibly horny, then I invite her right away. I've done that an been ok but there is a risk for us as well. Always meet at a public place for a beverage.
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:20 AM
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Do you truly like animals? Only thing that comes to mind is volunteer at an animal shelter. Duplicate your state when NOT touching them. For example, when you go around the cages checking on them and greeting them verbally. Re-frame that sate to interacting with people to some extent.
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:17 AM
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Engage with her in watching them for awhile. Then see what makes her stop and use that vibe the next time.
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:06 AM
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no
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:01 AM
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Carry a tennis racket with you.
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:57 PM
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How were you injured ?
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:02 PM
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So wait until the face to face to make any assessment.
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:01 PM
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You are leading by being the person who chooses among the options she presents to you.
/r/seduction28/12/21 03:20 PM
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For what reason do you need to lead or impress her now ? Ask her for an examples of scenic walks. Choose the one closest to where she lives. Or that interests you.
/r/seduction28/12/21 02:20 PM
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What places that you go to when you hit the streets do you feel the most confident at ?
/r/seduction27/12/21 11:34 PM
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