grcoates Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	My father, a pastor, taught me how to be a real man.		grcoates	/r/MGTOW	05/08/19 05:50 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	What hobbies or projects have you taken up as a single dad? I second this. My spiritual practices have become life giving to me since my divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/01/25 04:33 AM
9	So how many of you believe your ex wife is/was having a midlife crisis? Oh 💯. Some people buy new cars or take up weird hobbies. My wife of 15 years just dumped me for a new bf.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/12/24 03:35 AM
1	A whine about dating We live in “liquid modernity.” Everyone is on the move all the time. It’s really hard to build anything stable when that’s the case. I feel you. Sorry, man.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/12/24 12:57 PM
3	How old were you when you get divorced? 37	/r/Divorce_Men	24/07/24 02:23 AM
1	How long did it take you guys to get over your divorce? It's been 2 years of separation wanting to keep my marriage, now we've finally filed and made it permanent. I'm extremely heartbroken and I'm hurting again. I’m so sorry man. I’ve been divorced for almost five years now and it still hurts, though not as much as it did. The pain ebbs and flows. It’s hardest on the one who did not want the divorce, like you and me.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/03/22 04:47 PM
7	Well it happened just like you guys said it would! They must all use the same playbook. It’s disgusting. If they want a divorce, fine, but why lie about “emotional abuse?!?” Pisses me off…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/11/21 04:22 AM
1	Hi, I’m researching and writing a story on men who went through divorce with high maintenance spouses. I feel for them especially when they were put through a lot by their vindictive spouses. If you would like to share your story, please pm me. Thank you! Oh my do I have a story for you...	/r/Divorce_Men	06/03/21 08:20 PM
1	How can I help my dad? I was in your dad’s situation four years ago (except that I didn’t have any money). It took me 2-3 years to finally accept my marriage had ended, but if a woman doesn’t want to be married anymore, you can’t force her. I feel for him. My own grief made me lose a lot of weight, and I was a mess for a very long time. But he will come through it. I can’t help but be angry at your mom.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/21 03:31 AM
3	Is this verbal abuse? I hear you. You had every right to be angry with her. I think there is a lot of semantic slippage to the term “abuse” these days. It is used as a weapon to demonize the man and allow a woman to do whatever she pleases. This is the tactic my ex wife used against me. And it worked for a long time.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/02/21 04:11 AM