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UH PARDON
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:40 PM
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I fucking hate sex work positivity. I get that everyone has a choice but I used to do it and I’m traumatized from my experience. I’m taking a human sexuality class in school right now and everyone talks about how online sex work and only fans is empowering etc etc and it makes my blood boil
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:09 PM
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Right??? I’ve only been single/sex free for two months and I already feel better than I have in YEARS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:59 AM
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I agree with the drugs and alcohol thing but what’s so terrible about having piercings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 05:22 PM
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I did the same thing last night!! Sending luv queen ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:48 AM
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I found it in the handbook with the recommended readings, it’s by Howard Halpern
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:44 AM
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It’s by Howard Halpern I got it online!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:44 AM
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Agreed!!! For anyone going through something like this read How to break your addiction to a person from the fds reading list. It helped me so much with getting over a LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:06 PM
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I agree with the other comments saying this isn’t exactly the best form of communication. And at least for me, I literally avoid any songs/playlists that remind me of him like the plagueeeeee lol. It’s just pain shopping
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:23 AM
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I haven’t really so I just keep it all inside most of the time lol. It’s absolutely so degrading to deal directly with porn sick limp dick men who feel entitled to have you do whatever they want. So gross. I really don’t give a shit about the sex workers positivity movement because I’ve been on the other side of it and worked with many girls who I know feel the same as me deep down and they’re going to be scarred from it too it’s so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:17 AM
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Amen thanks so much for replying I admire your turnaround with your approach to men/sex/porn and hope to do the same for myself ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:07 AM
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My father is the only HVM I have ever known. He gives me hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 04:02 AM
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Can I ask how you dealt with cutting out porn cold turkey? I’m trying to do the same thing for the same reason as OP. And I am trying to abstain from casual sex because I know that compounds the issue, so since I can’t have sex atm I have to resort to other ways of satisfaction and I’m finding it almost impossible to do it without porn lol. Do you have any advice for that or did you just stop masturbating completely as well as porn? Cuz they’re so linked in my mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:37 AM
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Queens pls don’t use bumble!!! It automatically sets women up to be the pursuer from the jump because we’re forced to message first I hate that feature
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:31 AM
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I absolutely fucking hate the normalization of online sex work I was a camgirl for a year at the beginning of college and it FUCKED me up. I still have unresolved trauma from those days and I know 90% of girls will exit that industry within a few years with the same regrets I had smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:26 AM
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Omg that text reads so awkwardly he’s trying so hard to sound polite and sophisticated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:00 PM
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AHHHHHH WHAT KIND OF TATTOO ARTIST AGREES TO THIS SHIT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:32 PM
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This entire post, including your comments, is a huge mess. You clearly know this is a shit show with your clown makeup comment. Cut this guy off and read the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:26 PM
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If this is your ig account I would recommend maybe not posting it here, there’s a lot of crazies that lurk around!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:41 PM
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THIS ugh OLD is a magnet for LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:44 PM
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The correct response 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 09:55 PM
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Whenever I talk to a guy and the only topics of conversation he can come up with are the tv shows he watches or the video games he plays it makes me so depressed lmao. Like imagine being so one dimensional that your personality is based off tv/media you consume. And then I see girls who are in LTR’s with guys like these. How???? Wtf do y’all talk about???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:15 PM
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I’m laughing so hard at this oh my god she’s probably sitting nice and pretty hydrated af from the cucumbers while he’s drying from the inside out from the alcohol 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:56 PM
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Very true. I had a guy tell me once that he purposely fucks girls that annoy him because he wants to make them “shut up and take it” thinking about that makes my head hurt lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:49 PM
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I had a full on, crying screaming physically violent breakdown with an ex LVM once, because I was so beaten down by how he was treating me and I kept repressing the feelings. He pushed me on the bed and told me if I could “keep my attitude in check” I could keep seeing him, he “didn’t like my attitude”, etc. Bitch that was not an attitude that was a mental breakdown from the constant disrespect, negging, and degradation lol. Men feed off our pain and exasperation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:39 PM
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When she said I’ll sleep in a bed by myself before I sleep next to a guy and still feel alone .. wow I really needed to hear all this. Thanks for posting it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:45 PM
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Omg one time a guy’s opener on tinder for me was “You’re cute but what’s all that metal shit in your face” like??? Ok buddy you think insulting me is gonna get you laid?? Men are weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 09:32 PM
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Because it’s degrading and painful for women 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:14 PM
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Thanks so much!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:42 AM
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Could you recommend some of the self-care subs that you’ve found?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:22 AM
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Thank you for being so honest and brave, I really wish you all the best in recovery. I’m a recovering addict as well and know how difficult it can be when it intersects with relationships. I’m sorry you had to go through this but it’s inspiring to see how strong you’ve become on the other side of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:11 AM
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No ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:06 AM
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Omg girl no you should be able to keep your routine and have your own life separate from the relationship! In my opinion that’s way healthier than letting a bf consume you and your time fuck him if he made you feel bad for wanting your own life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:05 AM
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This is the best comment I’ve read on this sub thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:51 AM
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Former pickmeisha story: I couldn’t stand how dirty this guy’s apartment was, so I vacuumed the floors for him. The vacuum got so clogged with hair that I would have to pull it out in clumps, to the point where there was a pile of his hair on the floor that could’ve made three wigs. He was gaming the entire time I did this. Even after reading the handbook and taking time to level up and be single, it’s soooo hard to forgive myself for moments like those lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:28 AM
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I fucking love this acct lol it hits too close to home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:13 AM
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Thanks so much for linking that post it’s great !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:51 PM
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Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:24 PM
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Thank you so much and I’m sorry you’re going through this too :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:16 PM
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Yes I only have him on insta but I deleted the DM’s and everything that’s good advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:16 PM
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Unpopular opinion is like one of the most toxic subs on reddit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:51 PM
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I’ve always just ignored it because I would feel unsafe retaliating, because they might hurt me, I’ve been jumped before. I have a friend and when we go out together she verbally shoots back when guys hit on us or bother us. It makes me super uncomfortable how snappy she gets with them, part of me wishes I could stand up for myself that way and the other part of me is scared shitless wishing she would stop because I’m scared of us getting hurt. It would be soooo fun to not have to worry about wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:27 PM
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B l o c k. That’s it simple
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:42 PM
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💖💖💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:49 PM
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That’s horrible wow, I’m proud of you for blocking and moving on with your beautiful life!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:42 PM
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Throughout my whole life I’ve been into degradation in bed and I never realized how weird it is/how much it bothers me, personally, until I found FDS. I respect other women’s choices, but personally I am trying to divorce myself from being turned on by choking/slapping/called names/etc because it conflicts with my new mindset. And blowjobs fit in that category too I’m discovering, the thought of being subservient in any way to a man in bed makes me extremely uncomfortable now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:47 AM
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To be honest I don’t think I’ll be into blowjobs when I start dating again, after finding this sub lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:39 PM
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I’m laughing so hard what a fucking clown 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:28 PM
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Beautiful❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:27 PM
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Try to reach it by yourself first, a vibrator is the easiest way IMO! Invest in one of those hitachi wand style ones on amazon, they’re super powerful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:26 PM
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I understand that you’re hurting and I feel for you. Breakups hurt and the only thing that will really change that is time. It hurts until it doesn’t. I’m sorry though but there’s no such thing as a medium value man. He is a LVM. Turn your focus to leveling up your mindset and just fully embracing your own life instead of worrying about all his bullshit. You are a beautiful queen who deserves better! It sounds like he was pulling you down in a major way and good for you blocking him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:07 PM
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I read a ton of the comments in that Reddit thread linked in the article and it’s just.....it made me so sad. The women’s logic behind the justifications for degradation kinks... Someone kept bringing up a really good point: why shouldn’t we be alarmed when a man is aroused by degrading and abusing women, even if it’s only in a sexual context? That means a part of them enjoys that, even if it’s “just in bed”..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:38 PM
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The block list on my phone is literally 40+ numbers long and id say a good 90% of those are from OLD matches. Those apps are toxic cesspits lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:24 AM
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Hey, I really identify with how used you feel in this situation, and I’m sorry this happened to you. I recently dumped a LVM too who I had been letting string me along/use me for sex for almost a year. And i feel so, so disgusting looking back at how I let him treat me. So I feel for you, but seriously, props on blocking him and getting yourself out of there. You deserve better and will find better!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 12:46 AM
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-significant age gap -you’re nervous about getting covid from him -he has no car and is t h i r t y s i x -low effort coffee date -and he didn’t pay for your coffee Ditch him. You can do better than this !!! Don’t settle just because you’re afraid of being single this dude sounds crusty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:36 PM
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Lol “what are we” read what you wrote back to yourself a second time it is clear as day girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:23 PM
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He also has a tik tok saying men should keep a “stable of mares” for sex, and when one of the “mares” asks why it isn’t evolving into a relationship yet, kick her out and find a new “mare” to replace her..........yeah this guy sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:34 PM
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Love this omg!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:23 PM
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Amazing and inspiring!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 11:52 PM
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Hey i made a Spotify playlist with all these songs and some extras lol, I’ll keep adding if there’s more suggestions! PM me if you want the link to it ladies 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:14 PM
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This made my pussy SO dry ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:00 PM
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A grown man ending a text with “hehe” lmao buh bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:56 PM
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YES. It took me a minute to realize that while of course we’d all like a hvm in our lives, the actual point of fds is being 100% complete, happy and whole WITHOUT a man, and not throwing that away to settle with a lvm/nvm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:02 PM
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Men feed off insecurity, it is their ego fuel 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:52 PM
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I’ve completely given up on OLD, especially tinder. Tinder is a cesspit. I have used it on and off for three years, and 90% of my very lengthy block list on my phone is men from tinder lol. It’s just glorified body shopping, men don’t take it seriously at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:50 PM
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Can you dm me the name of that insta account?? Sounds interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:32 PM
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They think, “If I weren’t texting first, splitting the bill, not demanding commitment and having porn star sex with him, he wouldn’t be sticking around.” That IS the point!! Thank you for putting this into words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 03:29 PM
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This made me nauseous to read. To be honest, in my eyes, violence against women in bed regardless of their race just, like, shouldn’t be a thing?? If you stop to think about it?? Think about all the normalization of “choke me daddy” and stuff like that, and how that’s considered relatively vanilla nowadays......lol disturbing as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:50 AM
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I love this sub it has helped me change so much already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:24 AM
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Completely agree. Last night I finally left a LVM situationship because about a week ago, all my anger that I’ve been holding in for 10 months boiled over and I physically attacked him and tried to smother him with a pillow. Did not go over well. But instead of hearing what I was saying and realizing WHY I was angry, he told me if I can keep my “attitude” in check I can continue seeing him, that he didn’t like my “attitude”. That was not an attitude that was suppressed rage and hurt from all the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:20 PM
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