greatinven2161 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Wife cyber stalking some out of state dude... DO NOT CONTINUE TO RECONCILE! Go forward with the divorce. Your marriage is OVER! It's time to kick her out and move forward with your life!	/r/Divorce_Men	02/06/24 11:02 AM
8	What do I do? OP, seriously, are you going to let all these Red Flags fly over your head? It is obvious what is going on. You should meet with a PI if you still don't believe what is smacking you in the face and consult a lawyer to see what your options are. Good luck if you want to ignore ALL these red flags slapping you in the face!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/24 02:50 PM
4	20 Months Post Separation, 7 months after divorce final Never forget who you are. I was a shell of my former self when I walked away from my toxic, narcissistic ex-wife (yes, I walked away because the marriage started to affect my boys, which is why i stayed). Hit the gym lost 70 lbs and became the person I was before I met her. I have since been remarried to the love of my life. My current wife was told what my prior life was like as well as who I was before that life, which is who I am now, and I was not going to change anything about myself again …	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/24 09:49 AM
5	Watch out for scammers on here. I just got a DM also. Do you have the user name?	/r/Divorce_Men	12/04/24 08:40 PM
2	Custody of 18yo with one year of school left? Same in PA	/r/Divorce_Men	11/04/24 01:01 AM
1	Divorced man of 40, father of 3 beautiful kids, how difficult is it to have a fresh start at life? Thanks	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/24 10:37 AM
1	Divorced man of 40, father of 3 beautiful kids, how difficult is it to have a fresh start at life? Thanks	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/24 10:37 AM
1	Divorced man of 40, father of 3 beautiful kids, how difficult is it to have a fresh start at life? Thanks	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/24 10:36 AM
1	Divorced man of 40, father of 3 beautiful kids, how difficult is it to have a fresh start at life? Thanks.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/03/24 10:35 AM
19	Divorced man of 40, father of 3 beautiful kids, how difficult is it to have a fresh start at life? I was 38 when I got divorced! 2 great boys who have grown into respectful men. I swore I would not ever get married again! A year after my divorce, I met the true love of my life. We have now been together now for almost 23 years and raised 2 very awesome young men. So, in short, your life can move forward	/r/Divorce_Men	16/03/24 07:39 PM
1	I'm allowed to use refried beans again Try adding some Mexican Rice also	/r/Divorce_Men	20/02/24 07:09 PM
1	Happy ‘V’ day… 🫡 Peace is priceless! You gained that by losing an albatross	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/24 10:49 AM
2	Bracing for a fight Good luck! I hope you have recorded and documented all that you laid out. Unfortunately, you need proof of alienating and using you as an ATM as well as the abuse yiu claim regarding her new spouse. If you don't have the proof, it's he said she said, and the court system will 99% of the rime favor the mother! Keep us updated!	/r/Divorce_Men	15/02/24 10:47 AM
5	I won primary custody of my kids today! Is she stupid or that much entitled that she said that to a judge? 🤦‍♂️	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/24 09:52 PM
7	Sheriff serves the divorce papers tomorrow. Bracing for the drama. Let the police know beforehand that you are serving your stbx, and you might call them. Also, let them know you have camera's around the house for your protection! UpdateMe!	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/24 06:28 PM
4	I saw my x wife at Walmart and I felt Indifferent is the way to be.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/01/24 05:41 PM
1	Did you file or did she? I filed. Best move that took me too long to do.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/01/24 08:21 PM
1	What did you gain through divorce? You gain Peace!	/r/Divorce_Men	27/12/23 10:03 PM
1	Do I tell the kids even though my wife is forbidding it? Not your problem. Tell them the truth	/r/Divorce_Men	12/10/23 09:29 AM
2	Leaving her the house OP, not unusual. When I divorced my ex-wife 24 years ago, I left her a paid car, house, and property all my money. My lawyer said I was nuts, but I left my boys' world intact just without me in it on a daily basis. Best decision I made because of my narcissistic ex and her issues.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/09/23 09:52 AM
1	Anger and hatred I'm more sorry for my 2 sons I had with her.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/23 07:53 PM
2	Anger and hatred In my case she is 6ft under	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/23 01:17 PM
2	Anger and hatred I dispised my ex-wife to the point of worshipping the ground she should be under. 20 years later, Karma hit her hard.	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/23 12:57 PM
1	It’s alimony day and no thank you You got lucky	/r/Divorce_Men	02/09/23 02:11 AM
2	It’s alimony day and no thank you That sucks.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/23 10:23 PM
2	It’s alimony day and no thank you OP. How many more years do you have to Pay Alimony?	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/23 10:12 PM
3	So... how long does the seething hatred last? I loathed my cheating, lying ex. I worshipped the ground she should be under. Those sentiments stayed the same until she was underground. My anger and loathing were not about her lies, cheating, or deception it was how she destroyed my boys emotionally with her lies.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/23 11:09 PM
1	How are you guys able to live alone? Maybe it's me, but I enjoyed my solitude after my first marriage, but I am sorta of a Hermit as my current wife of 22 years refers to me. LOL!	/r/Divorce_Men	22/08/23 05:17 PM
1	Am I screwed for the rest of my life? I was 36, and my wife was 31	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/23 08:57 PM
2	Am I screwed for the rest of my life? Thank you. Lots of communication, trust, and loyalty. Also, we were both cheated on in our first marriages.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/23 02:22 PM
6	Am I screwed for the rest of my life? OP, both myself and my wife are on our second marriages. We just celebrated our 22nd Wedding Anniversary and are more in love with each other with each passing year! Good luck!	/r/Divorce_Men	17/08/23 11:59 PM
4	STBX Wife is not telling mutual friends about her affair partner - correct record or no comment? Always, and I mean always tell the unadulterated truth! Blow up her world!	/r/Divorce_Men	16/08/23 08:59 AM
3	You can't have a successful relationship with someone who doesn't know how to be happy and content with themselves on their own My ex was all about drama 24/7, 365. Non-stop. It was draining. My second marriage is the complete opposite with 22 years of drama free bliss!	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/23 11:48 AM
13	Wife and I are splitting, what to do about the home? OP! Also, record all interactions and, if possible, video them also.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 03:48 PM
2	Wife is the one who wants out, but is putting forth no effort to proceed with the divorce UpdateMe!	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 12:17 PM
2	Wife is the one who wants out, but is putting forth no effort to proceed with the divorce OP! Do this ☝️! This was going to be my advise!	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/23 12:11 PM
3	Divorce initiators, do you regret it? No cannot make something work with a narcissist and cheater! The second marriage is going on 22 years and is fantastic!	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/23 07:56 PM
1	Divorce initiators, do you regret it? Only regret nit doing 11 years prior	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/23 07:55 PM
3	Divorced father's, would you rather live a life alone or live a life with someone who doesn't love you + a kid you adore. DM. Me, and I will give you. More insight. I'm not ready to spill my whole story publicly yet. It is long	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/23 09:44 AM
9	Divorced father's, would you rather live a life alone or live a life with someone who doesn't love you + a kid you adore. Life alone! Why? Because I stayed with an unfaithful woman because I did not want to leave my boys. Big mistake. 10 years of misery that affected my boys. Should have cut the cord 10 years prior. Live and learn.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/07/23 09:13 AM
5	She now regrets her choices after her new man is treating her like shit. She already has no respect for OP! OP! LEAVE GO NC AND SEND HER DIVORCE PAPERS!	/r/Divorce_Men	11/07/23 01:06 PM
1	What did you do with your ring Hmm. It was over 26 years ago, but I think I flushed it down the toilet!	/r/Divorce_Men	28/06/23 12:36 PM