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| 0 | Outside of sex work your "league" is what you can get.Hoeflation is definitely real. No OLD has not given anyone any perspective on their league. Women are able to conflate sexual value with romantic value because OLD has insulated them in large part from the social consequences of being 'the pass around girl,' i.e. a 6 in a group of 8's would just be nothing but sport to them and passed around. That sort of group dynamic would eventually serve as the sun to Icarus's wings and send the 6 back down. But if the 8's are all from OLD and don't know eac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Dating would be easier if most men stoped being thirsty.What a stupid solution: stop an innate drive. Tbh unless a woman is really thirsty for you from the jump, in 2024 you're better off dropping her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 07:49 AM |
| 0 | If women are hypergamous by nature, then why are there so many women in society who do not 'Date Up'People are so nonsensical with this. Hypergamous sexually. Jesus Christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 07:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Males are more likely to accept being fetishized in a LTR than women.No. Women are more likely to say shit that makes them seem more socially desirable. Go touch grass. Women are fetishized all the goddamned time --- smilingly and willingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 07:47 AM |
| 19 | I come in peace…Why? Because I get where men are coming from a lot of the time. I'm treated the same way. (Masculinity is treated the same way even if the holder of that masculinity is a woman). I'm sorry: no you most certainly are not treated the same way. I've been treated terribly in the last five or so years (I've been on the apps). I've been on dates where the other woman was 30 minutes late and didn't apologise. Where they used their phone and texted other people during. Where they complained about men wh… | /r/MensRights | 01/09/24 07:41 AM |
| 4 | Sincerity in modern dating is dying. Men should live for themselves.Look, I'll be the one to say it and get downvoted. No men should not live for themselves. Men and women going laissez faire = vast majority of males being an underclass subservient to women who are subservient to a very slim overclass of males. That class will strictly be delimited to those with a certain look, status, and wealth. And that's a wrap. The response is for men to start putting women in their place. Women are flippantly, constantly, ruthlessly, rude to men. Especially men who fail to… | /r/MensRights | 19/08/24 05:41 PM |
| 64 | Men Are In Pain TooNope. Reject this nonsense. I hate these stupid hot takes that present 'WHOA THE OTHER GENDER...IS...HUMAN...MAYBE?' Fuck right off. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Men. The boy and The Manlol fuck that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 07:29 AM |
| – | "Women face more external pressure, men face more internal pressure"Men face far more external and internal pressure. The only pressure women feel is from men they desire/view as higher status. Men face pressure from pretty much everyone (outside the apex of course) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Women grossly exaggerate the prevalence of drink spiking2% is in 1 in 50....which is actually pretty high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Why men today struggle in datingPersonality has 0 to do with anything. Women aren't even shallow when it comes to dating. Height race looks money. OP invokes biology yet betrays an ignorance of real biology. Women are not attracted to character traits, that is spergspaceman horseshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 07:26 AM |
| 13 | Cold approaching women is usually taken as a compliment unless the guy is fuck ugly or disrespectfulThe standard for 'fuck ugly' = bottom 90% looks, not tall enough, wrong race, etc. #hoeflationisreal The OP is nonsense. OP tried cold approach and it worked out all right for him. That is the essence of OP. It definitely is not taken as a compliment in the sense that you are treated well for doing so. It is a compliment in the sense that the woman in question now has free ego fuel to complain about, i.e. 'ehrmygawd can u believe wat happened this guy like....talked to me....' = boosts her statu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 07:16 AM |
| – | Pick Up Artists are not RedPill, and the pills are all wrongYou can't just throw out the accepted meanings of terms and substitute your own (inaccurate) perceptions. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 02:40 AM |
| -4 | Many men complain that they dont receive empathy, words of affirmation, and validation from women, and almost no woman wants to do anything with them unless they can exploit him in some way- resources. But they also block and avoid well-meaning female friends who dont see them in a romantic light^ standard issue 'gawd itz so tuff bein' a celebrity humblebrag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:32 PM |
| 0 | Many men complain that they dont receive empathy, words of affirmation, and validation from women, and almost no woman wants to do anything with them unless they can exploit him in some way- resources. But they also block and avoid well-meaning female friends who dont see them in a romantic lightNo, you can't jedi mind trick word salad gaslight your way out of truth. When someone is rejected romantically it most certainly is due to socially defined parameters of attractiveness that are themselves mostly based on very oppressive and unjust regimes, i.e. slavery, classism, etc. Perhaps you believe that rejecting a man due to some innate characteristic of his out of his control, like height or race, "is not done to actively hurt that person." But I'm unsure how it could do anything but tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:31 PM |
| -1 | Many men complain that they dont receive empathy, words of affirmation, and validation from women, and almost no woman wants to do anything with them unless they can exploit him in some way- resources. But they also block and avoid well-meaning female friends who dont see them in a romantic lightTotal LARP. A platonic female friend of a male is probably one of the worst, one-sided terrible dynamics in society. Outliers exist of functional friendship --- but exceptions prove the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:28 PM |
| 2 | I think it's pathetic that if you dig deeper, most of TRP criticisms about how unjust society is for men boil down to "I can't control my wife anymore"OP believes that men wanting women to fuck them and men feeling entitled to respectful treatment from their lifelong partners are "pathetic." OP lacks self-awareness lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:27 PM |
| – | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?The vast majority definitely are. Fantasy land is better suited for you though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?It's not a projection. Women quite literally are for sale by their own stated 'dating mode.' The dating process you just described is what I'm talking about. The traditional form of dating = prostitution. There's no reason a man has to take a woman out on several dates to "get to know her." The entire process is so artificial and covered up with ridiculous appellations ('taking our time,' 'finding out if we're a good fit.'). No, the vetting is for financial stability and emotional investment, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:52 AM |
| 2 | CMV: It's good advice to never settleThe issue is that women fail to realize that their "standards" have been fingered mainly by corporate interests to keep them on the treadmill of various industries spending $$$ and remaining single. The average 5'4 170 lb woman who believes that a 'great above average guy' "is insufficient," is a fucking moron. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward?Classic courtship: dinner and movies, etc. in exchange for sex is prostitution, straight up. Women say they want to do these things to "get to know a man." Mainly his earning potential and current liquidity. Also, having expectations of a quid pro quo social exchange isn't unreasonable entitlement. We expect reciprocal exchange in many social interactions on the daily. Women just increasingly hate any responsibility or obligation and so will indeed complain about "being expected" to do anything.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.If you think services such as police etc. aren't ostensibly intended to protect adults and provide for them, you are extremely naive. I understand that you cannot admit that what you said was wrong. Have fun being immature and incapable of discussing man to man. As well as being illiterate, given your last "parting shot" completely ignores my own comments on the matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.It's amazing how yes, you agree that this statement of yours: Any man with the mentality that fully grown adults need protection and to be provided for is an idiot. Was indeed wrong. Not to mention other facts of life like police, roads, etc. all protection and provision for adults. It's amazing how moronic and ignorant you are of the welfare state you live within. It's like you don't realize that the question of 'can people be left to their own devices and do what they want' was answered in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.Literally the state allows for fully grown adults who need protection and to be provided for a legal category. You're more eager to talk out of your ass than assess reality. That's...pretty unsurprising, given your nonsensical OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:53 AM |
| 1 | I always wondered... those of yall who dont want to date ppl who have been in situationships, polyamorous arrangements, ONSs etc... how will you know someone had a "hoe" phase??Yeah, that data defines "urban area" as city with > 50,000 people. Pretty unhelpful and unconvincing for your counter-point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Women pursue fantasy archetypes not actual men: break the fantasy, goodbye relationshipYes this is correct. Women pursue validation of their identity via men. Again, refer yourself to the social hierarchies of classism. lookism, and racism. You're only there to affirm her opinion of where she should sit in that hierarchy. And yes, if a woman sees you as the bad boy, sure it'll be easy to be some kind of sex god sexy dude to her, but it will be much harder for her to believe you're smarter than her --- even if there's a 30 point IQ difference or huge educational gap. Just the way i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:40 PM |
| -3 | Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininityWomen embrace femininity so long as the man in question checks all the boxes on the racism, classism, lookism, baseball card stats, i.e. he is a socially designated 'superior person.' Men believe femininity is inferior to masculinity because women definitely make it so and enforce hegemonic masculinity. Women become very feminine the higher up on those baseball card stats a man gets. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:38 PM |
| 2 | [Debate] Men shouldn't take dating advice from women, period.This is incorrect. The reason people keep making such a tiff about behavior is because they believe behavior has a significant part to play in attraction. It really doesn't. Most every study dealing with real life speed dating decisions or first impressions or anything remotely resembling a real life scenario assessing how women decide who they are going to 'link up with,' demonstrates that (1) variance and (2) looks = virtually the entire equation. And that first impression women form of you --… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:34 PM |
| 2 | I always wondered... those of yall who dont want to date ppl who have been in situationships, polyamorous arrangements, ONSs etc... how will you know someone had a "hoe" phase??I gave a range of normal. 30 would be at the high end of that range. It's high but not unheard of. Think bell curves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Current day red pillers lie to men about how women are and what men should do to attract women, because red pill not longer wants to help men be successful at dating, but to make men bitter, miserable, angry doomers who stay single and alone and eventually even self-delete.Society has shifted a lot since TRP content first started appearing around 20 years ago. This OP is more reality denial than anything else. The fact of the matter is that looks are king (second only to raw variance) when it comes to female dating decisions. Nothing else matters. Per research. Any intangible personality quality or ability women say they select for is almost completely accounted for by the halo effect. Social skills aren't important because social skills at day's end comes down to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:22 PM |
| -2 | Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid.What a dunderheaded silly post. The only real way to see women as they truly are in this culture is to experience women in many different situations. I'd argue that women do need to be protected and provided for --- by and large in my experience they do not make good decisions for themselves. Does that mean it is worth it to do so in this day and age? Of course not. The culture we are in is very misandrist (and getting worse), so I'm unsure why OP is surprised that men are put in an increasingly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:11 PM |
| 2 | I always wondered... those of yall who dont want to date ppl who have been in situationships, polyamorous arrangements, ONSs etc... how will you know someone had a "hoe" phase??No. Women can do this easily because they don't have to while presenting neutral also move the courtship forward. Anyone can just sit back and assess while being led along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:06 PM |
| 0 | I always wondered... those of yall who dont want to date ppl who have been in situationships, polyamorous arrangements, ONSs etc... how will you know someone had a "hoe" phase??In an urban large city, I'd say it is. You guys look at numbers that include a lot of rural and small town areas. If you're in a big city, things are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:05 PM |
| 6 | I always wondered... those of yall who dont want to date ppl who have been in situationships, polyamorous arrangements, ONSs etc... how will you know someone had a "hoe" phase??This is untrue. People are very easy to read. Asking people, especially women, directly about anything if you are trying to ferret out the truth is always a stupid idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 11:26 PM |
| 5 | I always wondered... those of yall who dont want to date ppl who have been in situationships, polyamorous arrangements, ONSs etc... how will you know someone had a "hoe" phase??I mean, there's more modest women (let's just say reaches 30 with 0-10 partners), more or less normal women (10-30 partners at that age), and then you know....ahem...(50+ around that age). If you're a guy with experience you develop instincts. Not gonna brag but ngl mine are the best in the biz. And it seems like most experienced men develop a similar spidey sense for: manipulation/deception high promiscuity impulsive/risk-taking behavior All you have to do is present yourself as non-judgmental … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 11:23 PM |
| 1 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.And yet here you are engaging in that very thing. It is to laff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 11:11 PM |
| 2 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.Status isn't just career and finance. Status is literally the simian bullshit that appears whenever two or more humans congregate in any kind of social group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 05:28 AM |
| 2 | If a man is not the best sexual partner of his partner, then the relationship is not worth it.I have been a woman's alleged best (their unsolicited praises, not mine) many times. Several times I didn't even find out until years later if it was like an fwb or something like that. So, my buddy boyo, first of all --- try to think about all your sexual encounters. You seem young, so maybe it appears as though you can catalog them all neatly and remember who did what. But really, like I said, I have experience in the triple digits, and what I remember for the most part are connections. People… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 04:46 PM |
| 13 | One reason why the Dating market looks „less damaged“ on paper is because most man lie about they‘re success with woman HUGELY.I legit have a body count well into the triple digits. Vast majority were within the bell curve of average with probably a wider tail trending below average, but with a little blip near the right for a good amount of smokeshows. I have more experience with women, dates, hangouts, etc. than most men will ever have. And the number. one. rule. of interfacing with society --- increasingly feminine by the way, which is why it is becoming more and more risk averse and piss-pooling at its own shadow --… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/24 04:32 PM |
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