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| 1 | How Much Do you Share with your SO?What are some of the topics he cares about and is interested in? Read up on those things so you can discuss with him. I take it as a personal challenge to find and tell my BF a piece of new valuable information (related to his interests) every day. It gets me into the topics and adds to his knowledge too. It does help that he has really varied interests. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/16 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How Much Do you Share with your SO?Asking you to be forthcoming about a specific topic probably means that he feels like you're hiding something. If he's asking you to be more forthcoming in general, he may just want you to be more chatty/open about your thought processes (edit: which is important for him to know in order to vet you as a partner). It's possible that in the effort to be drama-free you end up just never talking about things that are obviously on your mind, and that can come across as being evasive or unwilling to b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/16 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Instructions on how to change your mindsetMy SO always tells me "What you believe is what you perceive is what you achieve (or receive)." One thing I would underline here is the importance of hearing yourself say the things you want to believe out loud. Focusing your thoughts is helpful, but we actually prioritize what we hear our own voice say (study), even over contradictory thoughts. It's transformative to hear yourself say, "I am grateful," or "I trust you." I think this is also linked to why religions always have an aspect of spoke… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/02/16 04:10 PM |
| 2 | My husband thinks he deserves a hotter wife after he got promotedI find it encouraging that the H is now confident to say "I think you can be doing better" (which is what the workout and diet comments boil down to). He's still invested in her, and trying to get her to improve. This is such a key mindset shift to make! We're taught (through whatever societal conditioning) that the man should just head-over-heels adore everything about the woman, no questions asked, and if he says anything critical then that's it, he doesn't love you anymore. When in fact that'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 07:48 PM |
| 3 | What to do when I disagree with his decision??^ I saw this with my parents all the time, my mother tried to force my father into fitting her exact box of "what a man who cares about his family does," which included doing dishes and spending less time at work and turning off his email on weekends, and she only bred resentment in herself because she refused to understand what he defined as caring for his family. I.e. doing the best work he could, providing financially, working extra hours when extra expenses came up. His efforts went unapprec… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/16 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Where to meet men?What things do you value, and where would a man be who shares those values? Do something you're actually passionate about and interested in, and you'll 1) meet men who are there to do something other than look for a hookup, 2) have an automatic common ground for conversation, and 3) expand your own skills and interests, which will make you a better potential partner. Volunteering at a food bank, construction project, library, etc. Rock climbing club. Any kind of clubs, really. Church or religiou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/16 04:34 PM |
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