greenjadenecklace Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Codependency	ADVICE	greenjadenecklace	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/17 07:34 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How can I strike a balance between "open and honest" with STFU? Thank you.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/01/18 04:54 AM
5	Should I ask if he is sleeping with other women I agree with you so much on this. Hormonal BC made my anxiety so much worse and my previous OB/GYN just kept cycling through different pills until I stopped taking them on my own (with my husband's/boyfriend at time's blessing). OP- I think you might want to look into something like Paragard. Also, I approached the conversation with my husband in a similar manner to how nawinter77 described. I told him I wasn't comfortable having unprotected sex unless I was in a monogamous relationship. It wasn…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/11/17 08:08 PM
2	Codependency The conclusion I came to after lots of therapy is that every interdependent relationship has some codependent qualities. When it becomes a problem for you is when it's a problem. But you do have to be careful of lying to yourself as that's a symptom of codependency too. I think there are things I need to change, like worrying about being a burden if I tell him my therapy is really hard right now. But it's not based on his reaction in the past. It's all in my head. BUT your friend is absolutely c…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/09/17 04:02 PM
1	Codependency Thank you.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/09/17 02:08 AM
1	Codependency Thank you.	/r/RedPillWomen	31/08/17 06:38 PM
2	Codependency I am very dedicated to him and our marriage but I don't think it's necessarily bad or unhealthy. I'm a giving person and I enjoy serving others, including my husband. I worry about making mistakes and disappointing him a lot. I've avoided sharing important things (about my therapy, for example) because I don't want to burden him or disappoint him. This should probably change. I don't cling to him or worry about him leaving me or anything.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/17 09:09 PM
1	Codependency Exactly what negative behaviors is your husband exhibiting? She brought up something called toxic delegation, it's basically when somebody asks you to do something then criticizes you for not doing it "right." She mentioned this in reference to our argument (I wrote about in more detail below). According to her, he tells me deal with my PTSD then criticizes the way I do it. I don't think this is the correct interpretation but I didn't say anything. She also thinks this is going to detrimental to…	/r/RedPillWomen	30/08/17 08:51 PM