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| 1 | (Club setting) keeping excitement high after opener?Some negs to use could be “Hey show’s over here.” “…and back to me.” “Don’t be rude, show’s over here.” You should definitely be taking risks for the practice. | /r/seduction | 20/03/25 06:13 AM |
| 1 | What do you first say to girl on Facebook?A good one to use when texting online is to say that you think you saw them somewhere in real life. Like at the gym, a restaurant or a club say that you swear that you saw them. This grabs their attention and can start a conversation. | /r/seduction | 29/12/24 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on regrets?The times that I’ve went overboard with my negs, I apologized and said that I was just trying to find her boundaries and it won’t happen again. I’ve never really “hurt” a girl with negs, they just got offended or a bit mad so I apologized. I always knew that you shouldn’t say negs or mean things to a girl you’re in a relationship with. You just say a neg once or twice to the target girl while talking to the group in the A2 phase. Show disinterest in the target girl with the negs. If the neg does… | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Help me realize what i did wrongAlways be approaching girls and engaging in fun conversations with them. Try doing this a lot in front of your crushes. Be strictly just friends with some girls to have them around you so that your crushes see you hanging out with girls. Also maybe try to be a little less needy, stuff like waiting in front of her house and getting upset if she doesn’t text you back is behavior of a not so cool guy. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Asking for book recommendationsModels by Mark Manson is one of the worst seduction books ever made. I know the best one but I don’t think I should say it here. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Help me realize what i did wrongFriendzoned. The best thing you could do is make it so she sees you hanging out with another girl. Or tell a made up story involving you hanging out with some girl. The biggest thing that triggers attraction in a girl is if she knows other girls are interested in you. If she sees you walking by and talking with a girl it will make her want you. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 05:01 AM |
| 3 | What's the Value of Seduction?Immensely improved social skills. I don’t immediately hit on the girl, I approach and engage in fun conversation while peppering in subtle implications that I’m awesome to make her feel attracted to me. And then I give her a compliment and start building a connection. It’s about more than sex, it’s about practicing your game as much as possible to build a powerful social skillset that will help you in all the other areas of your life. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 04:44 AM |
| 1 | What's the Value of Seduction?Immensely improved social skills. I don’t hit on the girl, I approach and engage in fun conversation while peppering in subtle implications that I’m awesome to make her feel attracted to me. It’s about more than sex, it’s about practicing your game as much as possible to build a powerful social skillset that will help you in all the other areas of your life. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 04:33 AM |
| 3 | Anyone know of any good free programs to kill approach anxiety?Approach 12 groups of people a day for 4 days per week with fun conversational openers or questions. Smile on the approach. A neat little trick is to say that you’re about to leave or that you can only stay a second, it’s a psychological trick that makes the group want you to stay. | /r/seduction | 10/12/24 04:18 AM |
| 1 | How to tease?Teasing conveys a cocky, playful attitude. It's not perceived as inadvertent but rather as deliberate flirting (but done properly). Examples of this are, "Pull my finger... (make a fart sound with your lips)”! Wow, you fell for it. Weirdo," "You can dress her up, but you can't take her anywhere," "Don't make me come down there," etc. When you call her a knucklehead, your cocky, playful, fun attitude reveals you are confident, unaffected, and in control. Example of Teases: You: I don't think we s… | /r/seduction | 03/12/24 07:24 AM |
| 1 | How can I have my first make outRead the book “The Mystery Method” by Erik Markovik. The book contains a nine step system to kiss and bang any girl. It gives a deep understanding on how to pick up girls and how girls think. Also read the book “Ask Mystery Presents Hey Guys Pickup Openers” for things to say to pick up girls. I highly recommend reading and studying both of these books because they really are very effective for picking up and kissing girls. | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 04:45 AM |
| 2 | 95% cold approach rate and here's my takeInstead of doing 10-15 approaches every 2 years, do 10-15 a week so you can actually build a skillset in pickup. Never be fazed by girls rejecting you, the best pick up guys immediately move on to the next approach after getting rejected without thinking anything of it. Don’t get mad, sad or upset about a rejection, it doesn’t matter, if she rejects you in a harsh way just say “okay have a good day” and approach the next girl. | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Where do you find single girls?One of the best places to pick up single girls are rooftop patio bars. The best two books for picking up girls are The Mystery Method by Erik Markovik and Revelation by Chris Odom. Highly recommend reading those. | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Is it better to be friends first or ask her out?After becoming friends with her demonstrate that you’re a high value guy. The top five traits that girls find attractive are 1. A lot of other girls already like you. 2. Being a leader of other guys. 3. Protects his loved ones. 4. Willingness to show emotion. 5. Successful risk taker. If you can convey those traits in your stories or better yet demonstrate them live, the girl will be attracted to you. If you’re doing a good job showing your value, she will start showing signs of interest. Confir… | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Race and cold approachI disagree completely. If a guy actually has really good game, his race means nothing. Most girls really don’t care. It’s not even a mindset thing, literally the majority of women do not care about your race if your game is tight enough. | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 08:46 AM |
| – | Race and cold approachA guy’s race doesn’t matter one bit as long as they have good game | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Race and cold approachA person’s race doesn’t matter one bit as long as they have good game | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Race and cold approachA person race doesn’t matter one bit as long as they have good game | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 08:14 AM |
| 1 | I want to approach 100 girls tomorrowYou have no game right now. So you should do like 10 a day and then analyze what happened and how you can improve your game. What you should do right now is go up to girls and try to have nice fun conversations with them but don’t hit on them or flirt with them right. Right now you just need to get comfortable talking to girls. After that is when you can keep improving your game. I’d recommend reading the book the mystery method because it’s all about how to get girls without directly flirting w… | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 01:42 AM |
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