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| 2 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableI very clearly gave a thorough argument in my last few comments. No you didn't. "I FEEL like men date down and women date up" is not an argument. Shoo. Go away artist. Keep living dictated by your emotions, but don't expect others to see your emotions as arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 07:44 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableWe don't agree on what constitutes an argument. I don't see any arguments in what you're saying, and I gave an argument supported by a study. As I said, you're likely an artist, and I'm not, so we don't speak the same language. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 07:30 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableAdopting a condescending tone doesn't make you right. You can just admit you didn't read the study. We're wasting our time with that attitude of yours. You're trying to appeal to emotion to make it seem like what you're saying is "common sense" and therefore true. I'm out. I can't reason with artists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 07:07 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableNo, you're saying the exact opposite of the truth. Despite women shooting for better men, middle quintile men are more likely to connect with women from higher quintiles than middle quintile women are to connect with men from higher quintiles. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4043335/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Men should lose their hang ups about hookers. Their lives will be a lot better.I call bullshit. If that was the case the men would be okay being with a woman and doing what she feels like doing. But men want their needs fulfilled. They want the sex they want not the sex the woman wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Why is it bad for a woman to "find herself"?Men do it too. My college boyfriend left me to go "find himself". He wanted to travel after college and be single (in case there were opportunities to get laid we can assume). I do support traveling, but he somehow burnt his budget too quickly and had to come back after 1/10 of the time he had planned to be away. I didn't even know you could fail at traveling. I don't think he got laid because he didn't make it to Asia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 12:56 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableWhy is it so hard for you to understand? Men only try to get with women above their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 12:41 AM |
| 4 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableNo, they only go for women above their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 12:39 AM |
| 5 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableThey get attention from men below their league | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 12:32 AM |
| 5 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableBut only the ones above their league. Even if they orbit 6 women, they can find 6 women above their league. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 12:27 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableDoes not compute. There's as many men as there are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/19 12:21 AM |
| 9 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableThey don't. They orbit women out of their league and don't go for their value match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/19 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Which guy would you rather marry?I would pick a meh looking guy working minimum wage with a personality I get along with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/19 11:43 PM |
| 5 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableIt doesn't explain why guys go for hot girls instead of ugly girls. "Girls will love you for you" is not an invitation to ignore your value match and prefer girls out of your league. It's completely irrelevant to said behavior. No one said "hot girls will love you for you more than ugly girls will". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/19 11:38 PM |
| 6 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableHow is that discouraging them from approaching ugly girls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/19 11:36 PM |
| 8 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableThis thread is about men going after girls who are better than them in every way and that multiple other men are also after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/19 11:30 PM |
| 20 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableMen don't orbit girls out of their league because women are shallow and lying about it. Men orbit girls out of their league because they are shallow and hypergamous. Women "lying" that looks don't matter doesn't stop ugly men from going after ugly girls, does it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/19 11:10 PM |
| 8 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailablecut off “butwhataboutmen” replies at the knee Your comment IS a "butwhataboutwomen" reply so how do we cut you off at the knee? Easy comeback aside, I don't have a problem with your comment per se, it's the fact that it gets upvoted the most in response to this thread. It's kind of predictable. Someone points out men are shallow and the top "explanation" is to say that it's really because women are shallow. The fact that they believe women care about personality isn't stopping them from going af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/19 11:04 PM |
| 15 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableSecond top comment in a thread about how ugly guys go for hot girls is also that women are shallow? Your angle doesn't even make sense because the orbiters don't have better personalities than the boyfriends do. Usually the boyfriend has a much better personality than the orbiters do. The orbiters would have to be deluded about how good their personality is too. "We both like Stranger Things, my personality is literally amazing!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/19 10:17 PM |
| 18 | A lot of men fall into orbiting by going after girls well out of their league/girls who are unavailableTop comment in a thread about how ugly guys go for hot girls is that women are shallow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/19 10:14 PM |
| 8 | Q4All: What is your view on weight gain in a relationship? At what point would you put your foot down or even consider leaving?You are projecting. I didn't complain. On the contrary. What I was complaining about was the attitude men here have that women are useless and demanding. I'm saying many women bring a lot to the table without being asked and date men who bring nothing and we're still happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 09:51 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: What is your view on weight gain in a relationship? At what point would you put your foot down or even consider leaving?Besides sex, which looks is a component of, what other “job” did you feel you had in the relationship? As I said, I had all jobs in the relationship. Looking good, having sex all the time, earning money, organizing dates, paying for dates, taking care of the transportation, taking care of the romance, supporting him emotionally, helping him when he needed help with stuff, etc. The guy didn't do anything. If you were happy and stayed ... then ... how come you has multiple iterations of this relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 03:57 AM |
| 7 | Q4All: What is your view on weight gain in a relationship? At what point would you put your foot down or even consider leaving?I'm curious what you would say of a relationship where a woman is doing everything right and the man isn't doing anything. The woman stays fit, goes to the gym every day, runs marathons, etc. She also does the necessary to look good, so she gets waxed, styles her hair, wears nice clothes. She also gives him the best sex life. She's faithful, they have sex every day or more or as often as he wants, she acts like he's the hottest guy on earth, etc. She also works and makes more money than the guy.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 01:46 AM |
| 2 | what goes through your mind when you sleep with someone you find unattractive?How does it make sense that your ex wife was the most attractive woman you could pull yet you call her hypergamous. If she was "ridiculously hypergamous" then she was far below your league and so you should have had dated more attractive women on the regular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/19 07:13 AM |
| 2 | what goes through your mind when you sleep with someone you find unattractive?Sex doesn't feel as good for women as it does for you. That's why less women want casual sex. It's not like taco bell which tastes good to everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/19 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Why can't lower value men show empathy towards their equivalents who are most likely to get pumped and dumped and are as unlucky in finding romantic love?Yeah killing is a good example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Why can't lower value men show empathy towards their equivalents who are most likely to get pumped and dumped and are as unlucky in finding romantic love?You're arguing that women fuck ugly dudes but don't commit to them. Not even incels would agree with that. High f:m ratio = girls are sluttier A) it's because men have leverage so girls have to put out B) it's because girls fuck ugly dudes but don't commit I say A you say B. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Why can't lower value men show empathy towards their equivalents who are most likely to get pumped and dumped and are as unlucky in finding romantic love?there are plenty of unattractive men who would choose to be in a LTR with an unattractive woman I honestly think there aren't any and my life and the life of people around me have proved that and studies have proven that too. Ugly men only fuck ugly women, they don't love them. Ugly women do want to date ugly men. It's well proven in studies. You've got it wrong, not me. You won't agree with me though, so good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 02:29 PM |
| 8 | Why can't lower value men show empathy towards their equivalents who are most likely to get pumped and dumped and are as unlucky in finding romantic love?One is dating a black girl and he dropped out of college but found a job where he works with his hands and he seems good at that and they seem very happy together and very cute (they were childhood friends). The other two are still alone because they couldn't find a girlfriend after me. I never said they traded up, I said they dumped me. They dumped me to be single. They didn't dump me just for the sake of it, it was like we were moving and they wanted to continue alone. If we had kept living in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 02:26 PM |
| 8 | Why can't lower value men show empathy towards their equivalents who are most likely to get pumped and dumped and are as unlucky in finding romantic love?I think I'm low value so re-write your paragraph without a very incorrect chief assumption. I'm low value because I'm ugly. I didn't want to impose my ugly self on others so I went for uglier, poorer, less ambitious, more boring guys than myself. This should be the moral thing to do, right? And because I am ugly I had to put out a lot - fuck them multiple times a day enthusiastically, swallow, never say no - and I had to pay for everything and do the romantic stuff and I had to go the gym every … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 02:04 PM |
| 7 | Why can't lower value men show empathy towards their equivalents who are most likely to get pumped and dumped and are as unlucky in finding romantic love?There's not just sex drive lol. If attractive women wanted more sexual partners, they could get them, but they don't. Also colleges with low f:m ratio are the most monogamous because women have the leverage. Leverage doesn't mean "honey I'm not fucking you if you don't wash the dishes", it means SOCIETAL TRENDS. When women outnumber men, it's harder for women to get a man, and the dating culture is sluttier. When men outnumber women, it's harder for men to get a woman, and the dating culture is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Why can't lower value men show empathy towards their equivalents who are most likely to get pumped and dumped and are as unlucky in finding romantic love?most women want sex just as much as most men in the case of casual sex for example women just have higher standards of who they want to fuck compared to men. not true lol. The relationship between attractiveness and numbers of sexual partners is inversed for men and women. speaks for itself That's a detrimental way of thinking about sex, if you're a woman and you use sex solely as a tool or currency to get what you want then that leads to nothing I'm talking about societal trends not individual … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 01:51 PM |
| 9 | Why can't lower value men show empathy towards their equivalents who are most likely to get pumped and dumped and are as unlucky in finding romantic love?All women on reddit seem to be either proud remorseless former sluts with a “pfft, you just insecure” attitude, or at least pretending to be low n count. Why should people regret their decisions? Healthy people are largely okay with their own actions. Open invitation for any low value women here who want to crawl forward in a posture of deep remorse for your former cack carouseling ways. This is your chance for empathy, speak now or forever hold your piece. I talk about my regrets a lot and it n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Why can't lower value men show empathy towards their equivalents who are most likely to get pumped and dumped and are as unlucky in finding romantic love?I've tried to tell the incels that their valuematch is the whores and single moms not the the cutie high value virgins but they want nothing to do with that. "WoMeN aRe So LuCkY tO gEt SeX". They don't understand that women and men's goals are roughly opposite: have the most sex possible vs. have the least sex possible. When you have leverage you get what you want, when you don't, you give the other what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Assuming a person has a 10/10 personality, what is your minimum requirement for looks?If it's an engineered perfect personality for me then he can be a 0/10 I would fall for his perfect personality like a hand in a glove and be super happy. But that's impossible to encounter unless it's the truman show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | A Persons Pill Color is Directly Tied to Their Native Socioeconomic ClassThat makes no sense. It's a spectrum so purple should be between red and blue. You might as well correlate it to republican/democrat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/19 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Why don't bottom tier women and bottom tier men just get together?They do. But by definition bottom tier people are more likely to know less people and to be unable to meet and connect with new people. And yes bottom tier men don't approach bottom tier women if they stay at home redditing. Bottom tier women don't do any rejecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/19 06:46 AM |
| 3 | "fat ugly girls still get to fuck chad"5,6/10 unremarkable women will get pumped and dumped by your chad and their ego will be larger than the moon after Literally women have smaller egos than men. You've got 5-6/10 men with egos the size of a bus complaining that 5-6/10 women grow their ego from clown car to minivan. "How am I going to easily satisfy my hypergamy if I can't fit a woman's ego 20 times into mine?" asks the modern man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 01:42 PM |
| 2 | Why is the statement "Dating is on a even playing field because men and women are 50/50 as far as population numbers go", false?He's saying that he passes up women by not asking them out. You do too. There are tons of women in your entourage who never strike your fancy and you don't ask them out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/19 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Why is the statement "Dating is on a even playing field because men and women are 50/50 as far as population numbers go", false?You have to prove that women are less interested in being in a relationship and more likely to prefer being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/19 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Why is the statement "Dating is on a even playing field because men and women are 50/50 as far as population numbers go", false?Couples form 1 man to 1 woman, so for coupling up it's not easier for women than it is for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/19 06:18 AM |
| -1 | You married at her worst and when she is at her best she starts to believe that you aren’t “good enough for her” sound like hypergamy to me.I’m not offended by your generalization that a lot of guys cheat I said that as an example of something stupid. I do not think men cheat. I don't think you get my point, but okay. | /r/MGTOW | 28/03/19 11:32 PM |
| 0 | You married at her worst and when she is at her best she starts to believe that you aren’t “good enough for her” sound like hypergamy to me.would she have accepted me or tried to trade up to someone “better”? I guess we'll never know. What we know is that she was less likely to dump you than you were to dump her so we never got the chance to see how likely she would have been to dump you since you were always going to dump her first. She might have accept you as your true self, but you couldn't accept her at her true self. I just think there's no need to invent flaws. You dumped her because she was an asshole, you don't have to star… | /r/MGTOW | 28/03/19 11:08 PM |
| 0 | You married at her worst and when she is at her best she starts to believe that you aren’t “good enough for her” sound like hypergamy to me.Well I'm pointing out that his and the OP's logic are flawed. First of all, there's nothing to be learned from an instance of a woman who wants to leave her husband because she improved herself. Men do the same all the time. Anecdotes offer no insight about a group. It's already dumb enough that you guys circlejerk over that thing. About his comment specifically, his logic is faulty because he in fact left her because he felt he could do better and she did not leave him because she felt she coul… | /r/MGTOW | 28/03/19 10:56 PM |
| -10 | You married at her worst and when she is at her best she starts to believe that you aren’t “good enough for her” sound like hypergamy to me.You commented in a thread about a woman who leaves a man because she feels she deserves better. In your case, you left a woman because you felt you deserved better, yet you jump on the bandwagon and IMAGINE that maybe your girlfriend could have done that to you. That's no longer tied to reality. It's just extreme intellectual dishonesty. If you feel disdain for women who do that, you should feel disdain for yourself. Instead you bend reality to blame others. Is that how you want to live your lif… | /r/MGTOW | 28/03/19 10:34 PM |
| -2 | You married at her worst and when she is at her best she starts to believe that you aren’t “good enough for her” sound like hypergamy to me.I said exactly what I meant. That it's ridiculous that a man who left his girlfriend complains that she could have left him. It proves the logic is faulty here. | /r/MGTOW | 28/03/19 10:24 PM |
| -12 | You married at her worst and when she is at her best she starts to believe that you aren’t “good enough for her” sound like hypergamy to me.I'm just mad because the thread is accusing women of leaving men too much and even men who left women join in in agreeing that women leave men too much. | /r/MGTOW | 28/03/19 10:03 PM |
| -16 | You married at her worst and when she is at her best she starts to believe that you aren’t “good enough for her” sound like hypergamy to me.So basically you left her to monkey branch or trade up and you're rationalizing that maybe if you hadn't done it first she might have done it to you in the future so really you're not the disloyal one, women are. Checkmate women. | /r/MGTOW | 28/03/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Women of The PPD? Would you be upset if you're so asked for a praternity test?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Could male pair-bonding be somewhat female-dependant?There's no link to be made between the fact that you feel like men prefer TV characters who show interest in the main character (unscientific claim, but it's your feeling) and the assumption that when men dump women it's because the women didn't show enough interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Could male pair-bonding be somewhat female-dependant?Alright, but it sounded like you did let it go over your head since you only replied "woosh sound of your bullshit going over my head" without addressing the stuff that supposedly didn't go over your head. It's also not a tag, it's just a slash and a letter s you put there. There is no rule in the written language saying you can't be sarcastic without adding a slash and the letter s. If anything it seems like a crutch for those who don't have a good mastery of the written language. Like if you c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Could male pair-bonding be somewhat female-dependant?You're honestly just confused. This is just bad logic on your part. Mad cow disease kills cows A lot of cows die The cows die of mad cow disease I'm saying "you have no proof that the cows die of mad cow disease, probably most of these cows die when they are slaughtered for meat, you have no reason to blame mad cow disease for the deaths of cows". You reply "are you saying mad cow disease doesn't kill cows???? I'm going to buy a cow, infect it with mad cow disease, and when it dies, I'll say 'oh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Could male pair-bonding be somewhat female-dependant?Woosh. That's the sound of your bullshit going over my head. /s You don't even use the sarcasm tag correctly after you've made a big deal of using it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Could male pair-bonding be somewhat female-dependant?I think you have trouble deciphering the implications of my original comment. It was too succinct and high IQ for you, but it was all there. I haven't said anything new, I've only explained what was said in my original comment. You were discussing my original comment, so I'm not discussing anything we weren't discussing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Could male pair-bonding be somewhat female-dependant?I would argue that a man who leaves a woman simply lost interest in her and that this is unrelated to how much she showed interest in him. You have no proof that men leave women because women don't show enough interest in them. It's seems like a tall claim designed to paint men as eternally faithful creatures. This the rethoric in the manosphere: if a woman leaves a man, she lost interest in him, if a man leaves a woman, the woman lost interest in him. Check mate women! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Could male pair-bonding be somewhat female-dependant?I didn't use sarcasm. My comment was straightforward. I said it was a stretch to posit that when men dump women it's really because the women weren't showing enough interest. That's like saying men can't be the ones to lose interest in an interested partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Could male pair-bonding be somewhat female-dependant?Your low IQ causes you to be confused here. I didn't say it's wrong to leave a woman who isn't showing interest in you, I said I disagree with the assumption that men leave women because the women don't show interest in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/19 07:18 AM |
| 1 | If you take away sex or the promise of sex from women, then all you have is this useless boring person with high cost, high expectations and zero reward.I never thought about it that way. I just saw them as my boyfriends, until they dumped me. I didn't want to cure their drug addiction, I only did it because they asked me to help them with that. I would rather not change people, I think the guys I date should be free to do what they want, and I don't want to interfere. But I also want to do everything they want me to do so if they asked me to help them stop doing drugs then I reluctantly agreed. Helping with homework that's just natural, I alway… | /r/MGTOW | 21/03/19 02:35 AM |
| 1 | If you take away sex or the promise of sex from women, then all you have is this useless boring person with high cost, high expectations and zero reward.Wrong guess. I wanted to stay with them and they dumped me. I did not see it coming and it hurt me. | /r/MGTOW | 21/03/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | If you take away sex or the promise of sex from women, then all you have is this useless boring person with high cost, high expectations and zero reward.Every time I dated I rented my pussy for free. The guys had no status, they were poorer than me, they weren't good looking, they were less fit than me and sometimes shorter than me, they didn't pay for dates, they didn't give me gifts. If anything I bought them stuff and helped them with their homework or with their drug addiction. I wasn't fat, nor old, nor a single mom, nor a drug addict (I've never done drugs), nor anything else that should decrease my "value" in the mgtow book. I wasn't mean… | /r/MGTOW | 21/03/19 01:48 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men rejecting ugly women is as sexist as women rejecting men for their height.1 - The women who require men to be over 6 feet are not the women who struggle to get men. They are already swimming in an unmanageable amount of men so it's logical to add a filter. When you're an unpopular woman, you date short men. When you're a popular woman, you say you want a 6 feet tall man because you have no trouble finding and dating them. 2 - Men are as fat as women (it's only in the US that women are fatter than men, you truly have the ugliest women and the best looking guys, but reg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | If you take away sex or the promise of sex from women, then all you have is this useless boring person with high cost, high expectations and zero reward.Alright so you're saying when a woman divorces a man who makes more money, she's greedy, and when a woman divorces a man who makes less money, she's greedy too. You got it! And you're saying that a pussy is always rented because even if a woman receives no money transfer in her relationship, she's probably getting strangers to buy her drinks at the bar! Genius. No seriously, you're just going to admit that pussy isn't always rented. There are relationships where the woman receives no money from … | /r/MGTOW | 20/03/19 01:24 PM |
| 2 | As a mgtow our philosophy is be better every leaving the plantation was just step one. Make each day count.Well you're lucky you can go your own way. If you were a woman men would never stop trying to convince you to fuck them. | /r/MGTOW | 19/03/19 11:31 PM |
| 1 | If you take away sex or the promise of sex from women, then all you have is this useless boring person with high cost, high expectations and zero reward.A quarter of marriages involve a woman making more money than the man. Add to that all the people who are casually dating and not living together. People don't date by meeting at restaurants. People chill with their friends, pay for their own drinks, cook at home and have sex at home. The man spends zero dollars. You're a dinosaur if you don't date like that. In any case, you didn't answer the question: what do you make of the significant portion of relationships where no money is transferred fr… | /r/MGTOW | 19/03/19 11:14 PM |
| 1 | If you take away sex or the promise of sex from women, then all you have is this useless boring person with high cost, high expectations and zero reward.Call it whatever society wants, but reality is I'm renting their pussy and companionship temporarily. What do you call a relationship where there is no transfer of money from the man to the woman whatsoever? You're generalizing there, but there's a large proportion of relationships in which there is no transfer of money from the man to the woman whatsoever or where there is a transfer of money from the woman to the man. What do you make of that? Serious question. Your model leaves no room for th… | /r/MGTOW | 19/03/19 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: To what extent is your femininity influenced by a man’s masculinity?I try not to be feminine because I've internalized that it's annoying or manipulative. I act more masculine around men I don't like to make sure they don't think I like them, but I also act more masculine around men I like to make sure they don't think I'm cloyingly manipulative. I have a sort of wall that prevents me from being flirty and saying what people want to hear. I am feminine alone, with kids, with animals, with a boyfriend once trust is established, or with someone who treats me like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/19 04:21 AM |
| 8 | Tinder study confirms that 80/20 rules applies to sexual attractionHe also didn't mention it was from 2015 which fooled me into thinking there was some new development on the 20/80 front. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/19 03:54 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Men rejecting ugly women is as sexist as women rejecting men for their height.Women wear high heels to increase height and lordosis. Apparently being taller isn't important enough for men to destroy their backs and feet. Don't say "wearing high heels doesn't look good on men". I'm sure it looked silly at first for women and they must have been shamed by haters. But it grew on people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/19 11:04 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men rejecting ugly women is as sexist as women rejecting men for their height.It's not an advantage. You don't get compared to an abstract idea of what an average homo sapiens sapiens woman looks like. You get compared to the other women around you. They have the same access to makeup that you do. So now the idea of average beauty is an average woman wearing an average amount of makeup. If you wear no makeup, you're at a disadvantage, if you apply makeup better than average, you're at an advantage. If you wear an average amount of makeup with average makeup applying skill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/19 11:00 PM |
| 14 | Tinder study confirms that 80/20 rules applies to sexual attractionWait so you purposefully avoided posting the link because you were embarrassed of how shitty your source was? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Insecurity is not inherently a character flawI have no intention of replying to you further, you may have the last words if you want them. Woah that escalated. I never tried to get the last word, I was just having a fun conversation explaining my point of view. Why are you so mad? Also you don't have to "inform" someone that you "won't be relying anymore". This isn't a relationship. It's reddit. You're not supposed to reply to every comment. You can just read a person's comment and understand their opinion and move on without commenting. N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 10:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Insecurity is not inherently a character flawA hot person coming close to your partner is not a real threat for all the reasons I explained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Insecurity is not inherently a character flawThe character flaw is not controlling your feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Insecurity is not inherently a character flawWell my cyv was that insecurity is alright if it affects only yourself, but it's bad if it affects others, ex. preventing your girlfriend from getting with Chad. You're not just protecting yourself, you're destroying other people's opportunities. I explained this protection / loss of opportunities duality in my original comment. If the protection and loss of opportunity are both on yourself (ex: not doing something that scares you that could be good for you), you're not an asshole. If the protec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 07:12 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Insecurity is not inherently a character flawBut what if she actually hits it off with Chad and she makes the choice to leave you and date him and they are happier than she would ever have been with you? It's bad for you, but it's good for her. If you tell her not to flirt with Chads because it makes you worry and so she never gets to know him, didn't you do something bad? On the other hand, if you got with someone who truly loves you she just won't meet someone with whom she hits it off more and if you got with someone loyal she won't lea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 06:53 PM |
| 2 | If there are so many nice and good guys out there that women are ignoring for assholes, why is getting a good man so competitive?unattractive women have to maybe focus on either a lower quality man. That doesn't mean loser, but that introverted nerd is available usually. I agree. I concentrated on unattractive men, specifically men that no other women wanted to date. Effectively I dated guys who were uglier than me, less fit than me, less smart than me, less rich than me, less fun than me, all of it in the same man. I wasn't trying to intimidate them or anything, I submitted to them and tried to be a fun and chill girlfri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 06:31 PM |
| 2 | If there are so many nice and good guys out there that women are ignoring for assholes, why is getting a good man so competitive?You see a hard working guy with good grades from a good family, odds are he's not going to fail at life and its pre status so to speak that attracts you. But I was a hard working girl with good grades from a good family and guys weren't attracted to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Could male pair-bonding be somewhat female-dependant?Forever blaming women. "If your partner leaves you it's probably because you didn't show enough interest." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 05:01 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Insecurity is not inherently a character flawThere's a difference between insecurity that only hurts yourself and insecurity that hurts someone else. The latter is selfish, sometimes assholish, and not acceptable in my book. It shouldn't be excused as "just insecurity". If you're insecure that a bigger guy might beat you up in prison or that your stand-up comedy routine might be bad, that's only about yourself. You might gain some security and lose some opportunities, but it only affects you. If you're insecure that your girlfriend will ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/19 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Do you think a woman is better or worse off for not engaging in "hookup culture?"For me it's just the balance between what I want and what he wants. What I want is to have sex with just one man for my entire life. I am not interested in diversity. It's not important what this man is like. The only important thing is that it's the same man. For me there's just more fun with familiarity and stability and knowing this person is part of my life, and it just gets better over time, more natural, more pure, more true desire. A new man that I barely know is not titillating, attracti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/19 07:53 AM |
| 1 | The Gender Gap in Criminal SentencingIt's not just for sexual offenses. Male offenders are more likely to re-offend. If the goal of the penitentiary system is rehabilitation, whatever they are doing in sentencing women is working. If I can make some wild extrapolation I would say that maybe the factors that keep women from re-offending also keep women from getting longer sentences. They would be things like being a lowly participant in a larger crime organization, having custody of children, or committing crimes as a result of asso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/19 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herWhy about the women who date men without status/money? Plenty of men without status/money date without being physically more attractive than the men who have status/money. Why would the things that make the women attracted to these men just disappear once you give them money/status? It's just dumb to say there isn't something that makes women attracted to men beside money/status. Remove money/status from the world and women will still be dating men. Just because men have money/status doesn't mea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 03:37 PM |
| 0 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herWell okay most of what I said doesn't hold except I stick to the last part: seems pretty random to say all men are attracted to their partners but not all women are. Both genders have reasons to be with someone and I don't see why you randomly draw the line at saying women aren't attracted to their partners. Maybe you just have rancor against women so you want to think that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herThat's so extremely rare. Why would you see women as such soulless creatures that you think they can't love their husband if he happens to have a job? There are plenty of women who date ugly and jobless men so why would the attraction suddenly be impossible once the man is employed? Women are attracted to an overwhelming majority of men just like men are to women. It's not hard. All you need is a Y chromosome and you're fine. Some women will be attracted to you and the others won't date you. Sto… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Men care more about whether a woman is attracted to him, women care more about whether a man loves herFor men, that is not a given, so it is important. Why would that be true? If there's a man you do not mind spending romantic time with then you're definitely attracted to him. How can you interpret this any other way? I just don't understand what you mean when you say it's not a given that a woman is attracted to her boyfriend. What is she doing with him then? Isn't the very desire to be with someone evidence enough of attraction? You can date someone who isn't attractive, sure, but the fact tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/19 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Why did my wife cheat on me with a younger man?If you're saying she missed out on dating 19 year old dudes when she was a 19 year old gal then she missed out on dating horizontally. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: You cannot look down on working women/mothers and then also oppose hypergamy.Well it's the Millenium Cohort Study where they followed 19,000 children born in the UK in 2000-01. It's a longitudinal study which mean they followed them from birth to adulthood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/18 03:43 PM |
| 3 | CMV: You cannot look down on working women/mothers and then also oppose hypergamy.No it's specially shared-earning shared-parenting. I've shared the study a million times on this sub no one listens. At this point I'd be happy if people just stopped spreading the idea that stay at home mothers are better for the kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/18 02:51 AM |
| 1 | We don't punish women for selfishness because it... benefits us?Imagine you're in an ancient city (like Troy) and all of the women get full choice over the paternity of their child (men have no say). The opposite happened in reality: women had virtually no say in choosing the paternity of their child. It was entirely determined by who their father would sell them to, ie. the economic market place. Men had rules in place to prevent women from sleeping with whom they wanted. What would a father want in exchange for his daughter? Money. So the men with the most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/18 12:06 AM |
| 3 | CMV: You cannot look down on working women/mothers and then also oppose hypergamy.That's just spreading false info though. No matter what your "feelings" tell you, studies are pretty clear that children with 2 working parents get the most psychological benefits and least behavioral issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/18 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Arguing with girlfriend only reminds me of the integral value of MGTOWFeminism is about freedom. Freeing you from economic abuse and freeing women of economic dependence. If you made men and women exactly the same, with the same salary and the same parental rights and responsibility, then they would be equal, indiferentiable and as free as one another. | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/18 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Arguing with girlfriend only reminds me of the integral value of MGTOWI started with don't marry. I gave you two choices. Don't marry or marry a higher earner. Why only two choices? Because you are a man who complains about women taking your money. Those are the two ways to avoid the things you are scared of. Two ways that are up to you. You have the power to control your life. I'm just telling you, given your fears, that I can think of at least two ways for you to avoid your fears becoming real. It's up to you. | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/18 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Why talking about women is important in MGTOWThere's only one thing you should say about women: don't date them. The rest is fear-mongering and I don't see the point because everything's already covered in "don't date women". If you don't date them then none of that fear-mongering stuff will happen. It's easy. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/12/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Arguing with girlfriend only reminds me of the integral value of MGTOWYou don't get married drunkenly by mistake. It's a paper that you sign in front of witnesses after months of thinking about it. Don't marry, but if you must, only marry one of the many women you can find who out-earns you. It's not difficult! Just because there's a trend that women prefer marrying a man who makes more money than them doesn't mean you can't find ONE woman who makes more than you. Do you understand that? Because I personally know 100 women who make more than their husbands and non… | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/18 01:22 PM |
| -1 | All she wanted was a father figure for her slut-prodigé daughter. And ofcourse tingles from ChadNo, because it's a surveys, you can't put cameras to watch everyone. However, it's highly unscientific to just assume that women lie more in one direction than men. You have no scientific proof of that whatsoever. The only rational conduct is to assume that men and women lie about the same and in about the same directions until you can implant brain cameras that watch everyone. | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/18 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Arguing with girlfriend only reminds me of the integral value of MGTOWYou were dumb to spend money on her and to drive her around. Either don't date at all or date one of the many women who will pay her half and take the bus. Easy. Also don't marry but if you do marry only marry a woman who makes as much money as you and make sure you do half of the childcare so that you don't lose custody of the children in the divorce. Easy gender equality. | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/18 05:35 AM |
| 0 | Arguing with girlfriend only reminds me of the integral value of MGTOWI have the opposite impression. Men have been released from the role of provider (women are expected to make as much if not more), but women haven't been released from the role of homemakers (women still do most of the child-raising and housework even if they earn more than the man). Men just have to sit there and do nothing. At least that's how it is in my entourage as the women I know all make more than their husbands. My mother just did everything and earned more than my dad so my dad just sa… | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/18 05:16 AM |
| -11 | All she wanted was a father figure for her slut-prodigé daughter. And ofcourse tingles from ChadAnd you think that's common advice, even though more men cheat than women? | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/18 04:31 AM |
| 0 | Ashamed of myself for expecting anything differentThey are obviously not all like that. I can name you 100 women I know personally have never used a man for a free meal. They aren't hard to find. If you're not an evil person why can't you envision that some women also aren't evil people? | /r/MGTOW | 22/12/18 04:23 AM |
| 2 | CMV: There's nothing wrong with "riding the cock carousel"Here's the thing, supposing the red pill theories are true, the safe boring beta man is a safe boring beta man no matter what, and he'll have to chase pussy no matter what. Girl #1 spent her youth riding the cock carousel chasing hot Chad dick for hot sex, then she got bored of that, wanted a stable family and kids, so she started dating Billy who is exactly what she wants for the rest of her life, but Billy has to chase her pussy because she'd rather watch Netflix or practice her gift wrapping … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/18 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: How horrifying was the realization that the high SMV guys that would fuck you, want nothing to do with you relationship wise?Joke's on you they didn't want to have sex with me either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 05:28 AM |
| 5 | Q4 Incels - How is that every man on My 600lb Life has a wife or girlfriend and you do not?Incels should try stealing their girl if hypergamy is true it should be a done deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 05:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If women actually loved abusers, rapists and serial killers incels would get laid all the time.That is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/18 05:25 AM |
| 1 | [37F] "I've been single by choice for a long time because I needed time to heal myself after being cheated on and abusive relationships. But the last woman in my circle got engaged last week and I've spiraled into depression." (r/relationships)Just curious. What do you think of a woman who did go for the short, unattractive beta in her prime, but who got dumped anyway? Do you always blame the woman for ending up old and alone? Is it never the man that's at fault? When I was 18 and a virgin, I legit went for a 5'5 chubby shy nerd. He wasn't good at school, he didn't have money, but he was kind. I loved him dearly and I did everything he wanted, even if it was bad for me. I helped him with school and with his mental heath issues. After … | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/06/18 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Rate your own SMV and RMV. Are you content with finding someone who matches your own score, or do you want to catch someone with the best SMV and RMV? Or do you have low standards, and will give anyone a shot?I always dated down. In egalitarian milieus we have no such concept of red pill female sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/18 06:55 PM |
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