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| 1 | Reddit please help...single for 2 years and counting...Too busy to find a girl?Well I'd say like Meet up that website helps find things to do around the area. I've gone out a few times around where I live. I've gone out to hike with strangers and you meet some pretty nice people and it helps to mingle and socialize. | /r/seduction | 24/02/15 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Trouble expanding social circleYea I agree that guy's a douche. Next him and find new best bro friends and make more friends and throw your own party and don't invite him to your shindigs. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Decided against sex when it was right thereThis. | /r/seduction | 16/02/15 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Noticed a huge increase of receptiveness from texting by eliminating the following things from my vocabulary;) | /r/seduction | 10/02/15 03:53 AM |
| 3 | I'm 36, and I've begun my initiation into Game. Here are my early results.I totally understand if you want to keep it small for now. I did the same thing. I used to keep myself to either the community college I went to or stores. That was a couple of years ago but you'll eventually "Graduate" to other areas as you feel more comfortable and slowly expand to other areas. Let me also tell you it feels absolutely awesome when you get a date from a strange woman you met. It's really exciting and it also helps gain experience that will help you next time you get a date. | /r/seduction | 30/01/15 06:48 AM |
| 23 | I'm 36, and I've begun my initiation into Game. Here are my early results.I gotta say you're a real go getter man lol Good job! I'm not one to focus on one venue per say. I just spit game where ever an opportunity arises. I don't like to limit myself to things. I approach on buses, street, store, clubs etc etc. And you're right the more you approach, get rejected or get numbers/dates. The better and more used it you become. I was real low self esteem and I was a big boy too. I started by saying hi to everyone came across to build my self esteem up and now I can talk t… | /r/seduction | 30/01/15 06:34 AM |
| 2 | I met a girl and her sister while visiting their city from out of town last night and we all were flirty. They want to have a "sleep over" in my room tonight. I am 99% certain they're looking for more than a "sleep over" so what's the best way to prepare/lead things off?If anything were gonna need an update on what happened man. ;) | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How do I convince myself that girls want sex as much as I do?I agree with others. You are definitely over thinking this man. You need to stop those kinds of thoughts. Just be honest tell her you love sex but it's definitely not all you think about. I'm currently talking to a girl and almost 70% give or take is sexual. She's even down to hit up a strip club with me haha. So girls definitely love to talk about sex. I know because I've asked this girl flat out. Does it reflect all girls? No. But do know they love it ;) | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 05:53 AM |
| 1 | How do you choose which girl to seriously date?This. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 09:37 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop comparing myself to other guys she's seeing?I agree you're seeking validation from this "one" woman. I recently almost got caught up in like last week. I saw her with this dude and I got kinda jealous. You know what I did. I said to myself "Why the f am I even worried about it. I need to keep this train going. I need to talk to other women." And that's exactly what I would recommend for you man. Don't focus on this chick seek out other women. I usually am talking to at least two to 4 chicks at a time. Some I lose interest others lose inte… | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 06:07 AM |
| 5 | I'm 26, live at home, No degree and work part time at a job a high school kid can work. Where do I start?I would advise against leaving your parent's place. Utilize it build your self up. That's what I'm doing right now. I also live with my mom and her husband. I pay very little rent so it helps a ton since it allowed me to save up and get a car. I've been promoted at work so now I make more money. I've also gotten into a start up and I make sales which gives little money here and there. It also helps with meeting people and being comfortable around them. If you need to get laid get a hotel room or… | /r/seduction | 18/01/15 07:46 AM |
| 2 | I don't feel worthy to approach girlsI used to have your way of thinking too. You need to ignore that kind of negative non sense. Just like jjjeremylovesfish said you need to just go up to her and break the ice. | /r/seduction | 17/01/15 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Do you approach women who are reading, listening to music, or walking down the street?I usually don't bother them if they're reading or listening to music. but if they are just walking and happen to make eye contact I'll definitely at least get a hello in there. | /r/seduction | 17/01/15 05:44 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Day 28 Kiss and # close ->blew it...I see what you did there... | /r/seduction | 17/01/15 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Made some serious progress today: my club night:Like a boss! Nice job man you did amazingly well getting out there. Keep up the good work! | /r/seduction | 17/01/15 05:13 AM |
| 1 | I [f/29] going on first date, how to appear not so desperate?Ok so pretty much I would say you're going to be the dominant one here unless he shows you otherwise. I'm an aggressor myself I do most of the work when I get down to it. I would say just start slow. Start with hug some pleasantries proceed with makeout/kissing, take of his shirt or let him take off yours, let him feel an grab your tits, next feel his junk through his pants, after words go for the blow of the d and let him please you orally too If he's down. Now all of this try to do so in a cal… | /r/seduction | 16/01/15 12:21 AM |
| 2 | "You made it easy for me"Don't even think about ratio's. Just go up to her and introduce yourself. | /r/seduction | 14/01/15 01:54 AM |
| 2 | "You made it easy for me"This is spot on man. Some people never get the point at all and are a total mess. Now go forth and conquer! | /r/seduction | 14/01/15 01:52 AM |
| 3 | Picking up Cholas.I'd say just go for it man. They are women just the same. Be confident tell her she looks really hot/cute and you want to take her out. Now the only thing is though they usually live in not so great neighborhoods. So yea you may have that to deal with if you do get a yes from her. | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone have any advice on picking up girls while you are working, specifically in retail?I agree with this too since I'm in a mlm sales company and I have to be outgoing/fun/and I do flirty too and it definitely boosts sales. I also double agree practice, practice, practice! Oh and also its a good way to practice kino Hand shakes, pats on back etc. I sell cosmetics so I just say "hey there pretty lady would you like to try this scented lotion? (while extending my hand to take theirs) most will be like oh yes! and give you their hand. It works wonders! | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 02:03 AM |
| 3 | For my own sanity, I have to get betterI think for starters you need to get your self esteem up my friend. You can do that by getting out of your apartment and go talk to anyone who you come across. Just a simple hello how's it going? will do. Keep doing that everywhere you go. Also make sure to smile too. Start working out maybe join a gym. One of the books that helped me a ton is a book by Dale Carnegie : "How to make Friends and Influence people.", There's also "Models" by Mark Manson, "Skill with People" By les Giblin. Just a few… | /r/seduction | 13/01/15 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Approached the hottest girl at the gym todayI want to congratulate you on your achievement today. Damn fine work sir! Keep it up man. Just like you said go in without expecting anything. I do that all the time and it helps with keeping down anxiety and I'm more confident and give a better impression. | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 09:55 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I went out to help my female friend, and scored myself insteadYou're such boss man! Excellent work and I'm glad you're so nice to others by helping them out. Much respect for you. | /r/seduction | 07/01/15 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Can not having a lot of friends or a good social circle be a problem in pickup?This I agree with also. Friends can definitely be either helpful or down right horrid to have. Some friends will make fun of you right when you get shot down which can in turn push down your moral even lower since you got shot down and are being ridiculed. Also some of your friends may cockblock you. I had one of those and let's just say I only went out once with that guy as a wing man. But otherwise being alone means you need to be confident in yourself and strive to push on. Each failure will … | /r/seduction | 05/01/15 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Success storyThis yes. Do it man if you feel ticklish tickle her back and let your hands explore her body. | /r/seduction | 03/01/15 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Grooming Products, something this sub often overlooksI want to add one more thing for the guys. You may bash me about this but if you're down to do it get a facial at a spa. Don't do it all the time if you're that uncomfortable. I used to work at a spa with a ton of chicks and usually once every month or two was recommended. I do it at least once every two months myself. That along with regular products does real good to your skin too. | /r/seduction | 30/12/14 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Questions about cultivating confidenceI have been working on myself from the age of 18 maybe 17. I'm still lacking on losing weight but my confidence has seen great strides. All I can say is one of the best one's is Fake it until you become it. Or what I did was talk to everyone I met. I did that over and over and over and over again. Until I no longer noticed that I was even trying. It just flowed naturally. You pretty much have to constantly do things that you would normally shy away from. Another example is talk to that cute girl… | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 08:14 AM |
| 0 | How do you deal with competition?This . | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Insecure about lifting a girl.Lol^ | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 05:55 AM |
| 1 | If a girl told you that you were ugly, would you agree and amplify?Hey man always try your best and keep a positive mentality. Also keep practicing your English. The more practice you get the better it'll be. See me I'm Hispanic but I was raised in the U.S. So I had English as my primary language and Spanish was my second. My Spanish is pretty good so far but I require a lot of practice too to make it better. You're written English is pretty good so far too. | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 07:17 AM |
| 1 | If a girl told you that you were ugly, would you agree and amplify?This is gold just gold man. | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 07:31 AM |
| 0 | How to cancel plans?I agree with this. You need to honor your prior commitment. Unless it's something really important you need to state why you're cancelling and offer to reschedule too. | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Question about flirting.I think she just might be friendly. I'd say start teasing her physically. See how she responds. Start touching her shoulders, hands and hugs. Even poking her works and high fives. Ask her to hang out with you for some lunch or take her bowling or something to see how she is around you. | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 08:11 AM |
| 1 | [21M] I was wondering where I should take this. With [21F]You're welcome man. And also in the mean time while you pass the time. Keep getting to know other girls too. Im usually talking to at least two at a time. | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 07:14 AM |
| 2 | [21M] I was wondering where I should take this. With [21F]I'd say send her a message sometime between 3-7 days. Pretty much a week. Ample time to get somewhat better. Its kinda tricky because you have to be considerate since she is sick. | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Question about older women^ I agree with this! I've had this happen to me too. You have to put her on the spot and see if she's all talk and not action. I've had the action part and it was fun. But the one I was with was single haha. I didn't have to worry about the husband. | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 03:41 AM |
| 6 | Party with 500 people on Friday, need advice.Just be direct man. Walk up to a group and say hello my name is so and so, shake everyone's hand and just inquire how everyone's enjoying the event. It'll help build energy so that you won't feel too embarrassed/awkward. I do the same when I'm in a place that I don't know anyone. Once that conversation ends or fizz's out you can up to a bar get a drink and maybe chat up people at the bar waiting for drinks introduce etc and repeat. You can't really tell who's single or not that's why you have to… | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 12:56 AM |
| 2 | [21M] I was wondering where I should take this. With [21F]I'd say wait a few days since she said she was sick. If she ignores you again. Just stop and start talking to other girls. If a girl's into she'll hit you up. You've already done your part in trying to set things up. | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Junior in highschool here, should I attempt to kiss this girl?I would say go for it man. Sounds like she's into you. She sounds shy though. I would say kiss her but don't ask her just do it. | /r/seduction | 24/12/14 12:49 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with bad logistics?I'm in the same situation currently. I on the other hand do pay rent/phonebill/help with food and chores. I make about $15/hr. I don't have a car so I borrow it occasionally from my moms husband or herself. I have a job about 6mins walk from my house. So I guess I got lucky finding a job that close so it doesn't require a car. Currently I'm doing what others have told you. Better yourself. I'm eating better, I have a start up business with Amway. I buy self help/motivational books to help with m… | /r/seduction | 23/12/14 07:30 AM |
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