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| 2 | Escort only moaned because he paid her. Hope he gets the therapy he needs, but I rly hope his wife will leave his toxic ass too. Many comments are advising him on how to hide his fucked up secret or justifying his infidelity & saying the marriage can be saved. Received ‘the wholesome award’? Wtfhe's clearly just posting this to get sympathy so he feels less guilty lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 10:37 PM |
| 27 | Update: Had a HV Date Experience. I will continue to vet but how when we won’t see each other for a couple months?My entire college experience was me being wooed to hell and back by countless guys in the first 1-2 dates only to fall flat on my face and be heartbroken right after. Even a few “long-distance” ones in there. I was SO naive. A sweet date or two doesn’t mean shit, especially when the guy is college-aged. It means literally nothing. I would get so preoccupied with one guy just because he took me out and called me pretty, and I’d end up emotionally destroyed when I realized they really didn’t give … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/22 07:31 PM |
| 276 | Current guy I’m talking to lied about his height on dating applying about this is so pathetic lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 01:57 AM |
| 102 | lowkey don’t even care at this point if a guy wants to screw around with my feelings like that i simply just do not have the time and resources to deal with it - block and deletethis is exactly how it goes. scarily accurate i’m forever sad that college-aged me put herself through this approximately 100 times but at least now i know better i guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 01:41 PM |
| 24 | Be aware of “holiday daters” looking for an entertainment while on vacation.I love when they add something like 'I'm fresh out of a relationship so not looking for anything serious' Sure, Jan! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 02:48 AM |
| 33 | Be aware of “holiday daters” looking for an entertainment while on vacation.LMAO I cannot stand these assholes. When I was in college in NYC, it seemed like half the people on the apps were tourists trying to get laid. Absolutely pathetic and a complete waste of time. It's also hilarious to see the ones who bought Tinder plus to change their location and plop themselves in your results while visibly, according to their profile, actually being 3,000 miles away. The desperation is unreal. The fact that so many of them use the 'here for a good time, not a long time' bio kn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 02:46 AM |
| 68 | Two of the biggest lies patriarchy tells us: “men age like fine wine” & “age gap relationships are totally natural”i can't stop laughing omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 04:26 PM |
| 43 | My date before vs. after FDS + vettingIt’s creepy and lovebomby, tbh. But right after a horrible guy, it all looks like gold. That’s how they get ya | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 03:05 PM |
| 19 | I have no wordsright and like why would having a hair towel make his parents think she’s weird? calm the fuck down loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 10:55 AM |
| 26 | Sexual issues in a HV relationshipBut it doesn't seem like the problem is specific to/because of this particular guy—am I missing something? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 02:17 AM |
| 8 | “Play by ear” 🤮Lol this. He’s aiming for nighttime so he can fuck. The daytime is time for an actual date 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 09:35 PM |
| 18 | Beware of men who claim they’re a “homebody” and love “staying in”.He talked about being a “homebody” and wanting to “cuddle” on dates because he was prepping you for what he wanted—purely sex. So transparent Like, “Oh, it’s not that I want to hook up, I just don’t like being outside” K | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 09:30 PM |
| 36 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!fucking bleak | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 09:24 PM |
| 64 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!LMAO MTE WTF JUST SAY STOP OH MY GOD??? what everyone else is saying, i guess it’s to normalize rape, and guys get off on hearing “no” and acting like they’re raping someone…so depraved it’s unbelievable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 09:24 PM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-injust saw a post about how a woman's male friend and roommate went from being someone she loves hanging out with to someone who sickens her because he said molestation of little girls is no big deal...because it's not sex... wtf will men ever not fail us? i feel like it's only a matter of time before my boyfriend disappoints me in a way we can't come back from and i give up on men for good they already don't exist to me as 'friends.' it's all bullshit lmao they don't see women as people <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 10:09 PM |
| 5 | For real though.FUCKING LITERALLY LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 01:47 AM |
| 18 | Relationship Ambiguity Is The New Backlash, and It's Dangerous and Effective Because of Its Subtletyoh my GOD lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 10:14 PM |
| 36 | The Energy We’re Taking into 2021'go to hell' adkjsfgeif the first tweet is making me laugh so fucking hard omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:05 AM |
| 24 | Another tale from the vault: Before FDS, I used to have to persuade men to wear a condom by telling them I was pro-life. To really sell it, I would look them directly in the eye, smile gleefully, and tell them that if they ever got me pregnant, I would keep the baby.back in my college hookup days (dark times!) it was terrifying how many guys wanted to have sex without a condom when we just met oh, you’re “clean”? sounds legit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Imagine conceiving, birthing, and raising a male only for them to turn into such a pathetic, depraved, disturbed individual as an adult. I’m truly sickened.This turned my stomach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:11 PM |
| 69 | I got you, babe.queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:06 AM |
| 13 | Women risk death and permanent damage to our bodies when we birth children for men and this is our reward.Just once I'd like to see a positive story regarding a boyfriend/husband after birth. My boyfriend is the most wonderful, most adoring, sweetest person I've ever met, and he really wants kids with me in some years. He's the furthest from your average male; he amazes me every day. But I worry that even he won't treat me right after birth, just because I read the worst things about this constantly. It's like it's impossible. It's scary. If I'm having kids with someone, it's because I'm in love wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 12:49 AM |
| 8 | Your friends do not exist for the sole purpose of listening to you whine about some man you don’t plan on leaving.A lot of women see female friendships as placeholders until they get a boyfriend/husband. This irks me as someone who has an amazing boyfriend but wants female friends so badly. Post-college it's hard, especially when I moved away...and with the pandemic and all, I'm lonelier than ever. I want someone to talk to other than my boyfriend. I have a (gay) male friend I talk to daily, but it's superficial...not the same. Ugh. Actually, finally getting a boyfriend made me realize it doesn't satisfy al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Your friends do not exist for the sole purpose of listening to you whine about some man you don’t plan on leaving.I had a close friend like this. I graduated from college and moved away, so communication was sparser. Eventually we began to talk only when she wanted to complain about one of the pathetic Tinder men who used her a sex doll and whom she'd feign relationships with. They're not playing hard to get, baby, they really don't give a fuck! It was so boring and exhausting. We only talked when she wanted to complain about one, or when she sent a screenshot of an app conversation where she totally pwned … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 12:33 AM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020This sub really showed me the way. I had a long sleeping around phase in college, in which I would panic over not getting texts and cry over being treated like a human fleshlight. I went from 20-year-old virgin to pathetic fucktoy in 0.2 seconds. I thought it was a direct reflection of myself, and I internalized it. But last year I met the most incredible guy. He absolutely worships me. He wants to marry me someday (we're relatively young) and have kids with me. Even though coronavirus has had u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered April 12 2020thanks! shockingly, tinder. i was just about hang it up for good but was bored and lonely during an indefinite stopover in my hometown, so it was hard to not opt into getting fawned over and free alcohol. i expected zilch, especially bc i messaged him first, which i never do, and he's a few years younger. but from then on, he pursued me relentlessly; it was 100% him. it was just so easy...he liked me and wanted to see me, so he asked to. i didn't have to do anything. he also doesn't give a singl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 11:54 AM |
| 66 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...I find this a more confusing and perplexing puzzle than consolidating quantum mechanics with relativity. i'm laughing so hard, omg. literally though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 11:45 PM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered April 12 2020My boyfriend has been in constant, consistent contact with me throughout the duration of this whole thing and it's unbelievable. I haven't seen him in 7 weeks now, but he is just obsessed. I love it, but it almost feels like it just means he's crazy or something. It's what we all want but it's so foreign that it feels wrong. I've never had someone care about me this much before. It's weird. I just can't comprehend a male being this kind, caring, sweet, genuine, committed, and porn-free. I truly … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 11:37 PM |
| 12 | I don’t understand pick me women sometimes'my boyfriend gave me corona and then microwaved me a hot pocked now i think i owe him my life?' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 11:50 AM |
| 14 | Old classmate from college messaged me after 5 years asking how I was because of the pandemic. Suddenly sends these pictures. Why do men do this?screaming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:43 PM |
| 5 | Age that women first noticed men were looking at them sexually in graph form. Comments are full of the usual male denial that this ever happens. Gotta wonder why they feel so personally offended at this graph that they’d issue kneejerk rebuttals🤔what's most sad is that i feel like my catcalling 'peak' was when i was 12/13 and younger. disgusting. i know i now walk around with what most call a 'resting bitch face' (anyways), but still. old men are the most shameless. they'll look you straight in the eye as you're glaring and keep staring back. makes me fucking sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:42 PM |
| 84 | anybody else unable to tolerate normal relationship subs anymore?DUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUDE i saw that post and immediately came here to see if anyone had mentioned it. it is so painfully pathetic, and the fact that i only saw like two comments telling her the truth...i'm aghast, really. he just wanted sex. he doesn't give a shit, not remotely. he isn't SHY. oh my god, the shyest of guys will let you know if you like them. guys will let you know. a guy who eats burger king with you on the couch doesn't like you. when a guy actually likes you, you'll be knocked the f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 05:19 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)because guys shame you into thinking that wanting anything above low-effort sex or netflix and chill is desperate, prudish, too serious, etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:25 AM |
| 28 | [QUESTION] What's it like dating a HVM?Gonna throw my hat in the ring since I *think* I have one. I've never met anyone like him, not remotely. He is wonderful. His university won't let him come back because of corona, not even to get his stuff, so a mere two weeks away from each other due to a family trip has turned into...god knows what. I've been sobbing for two days because I miss him so much. I have no idea when I'm gonna see him again. It's maddening. He says he's gonna see if he can come back and at least live in the area in a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 10:33 AM |
| 11 | I wonder why he didn’t get married 🤷♀️🙄🙄yeah lmao wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 10:05 AM |
| 16 | I really LOATHE movies/books that end with the female protagonist giving a chance to the guy she had "friendzoned", just because ONE guy she liked did not treat her right.omg as soon as i saw the title tall girl IMMEDIATELY came to mind lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)yeah doing nothing feels weird. so, basically, candy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:54 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)the hobbit thing made me laugh so much conflicting advice lol :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:53 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)yeah i’m definitely not deeming him HVM yet, just saying that i’m currently very pleasantly surprised. cautiously optimistic but this is good advice, thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 29th 2020)thanks for the heads up :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:37 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Feb. 5th 2020)I have a really new boyfriend, and in that case it seems like FDS's V-Day stance is pretty much that I shouldn't really worry about a gift and let him take the lead? I love giving gifts so it's really hard to not have at least a little fun with that. I could just not, BUT on top of that his birthday is a few days after that, so it's even more confusing. Should I get him anything for that? Either or? The bar is on the floor, always, but. He’s the closest thing to a genuinely good seed I’ve found.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (Jan 29th 2020)I have a really new boyfriend, and in that case it seems like FDS's V-Day stance is pretty much that I shouldn't really worry about a gift and let him take the lead? I love giving gifts so it's really hard to not have at least a little fun with that. I could just not, BUT on top of that his birthday is a few days after that, so it's even more confusing. Should I get him anything for that? Giving something even as small as some chocolate-covered oreos would make me feel stupid if he didn't recipr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 12:41 AM |
| 14 | It's okay to not want to "try new things" in bed.it's really fascinating. guys are scared of you even touching their asses. they want to slap your ass but think it's weird and don't like when you slap theirs. they act like having their prostate stimulated immediately means they're gay. it's sad. they're missing out because they're idiots | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 11:03 PM |
| 39 | Gross guy wants sex with crying girl - can they get any worse?somehow we’ve reached a place where anything, no matter how depraved, is all good and fine if it gets someone off. “no kinkshaming!” as if that shit is sacred. like hell it is, and absolutely can it be criticized and questioned. it makes me sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 02:51 PM |
| 46 | Gross guy wants sex with crying girl - can they get any worse?this is horrific | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 01:17 PM |
| 5 | A moment of silence for our fallen sister 💀 😞oh GOD (52) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 06:03 PM |
| 16 | When he thinks one date will get him a ticket to pound town.yeah it makes it sound really arbitrary, even if it is...don’t tell them that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 03:44 PM |
| 19 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowi can’t deal “oh didn’t wanna take any recent pics because i know i look like shit and no one would swipe on me so i’m masquerading as my former self and catfishing if that’s cool” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 03:42 PM |
| 29 | The 23 year old guy i'd been seeing couldn't get hard, claimed it was because he watched too much pornso he dated her for three months and the second she okays sex, he mounts her without foreplay? amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 05:55 PM |
| 19 | Sisters, NEVER tell a guy about your dating history 👏🏾lmaooo the idea of me personally saying two is cracking me up so hard because it’s SUCH a lie aksjksdnksd. it’s what they deserve tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 04:31 PM |
| 15 | Sisters, NEVER tell a guy about your dating history 👏🏾with my new bf, my “number” (and a quite modest estimate at that but still double digits and WAY more than his) came out on accident early on. somehow the conversation ended up on that. i didn’t want to seem dodgy but next time i’ll never even give a fake number...i just hate that whole concept. but even though the number was high, he somehow still liked me enough to keep seeing me and become exclusive. it’s the most shocking thing ever. i thought for sure he’d be grossed out and i was done for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 02:09 PM |
| 13 | LOL, boy no.last november a guy i hooked up with in my gross phase texted me after LITERALLY three years. talk about scraping the bottom of the barrel for a hole to put your dick into, jfc. shameless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 05:24 PM |
| 3 | We are going to be 50k very soon!! <3i remember a few months ago this sub was less than 10k...crazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 03:49 PM |
| 5 | Another Forever Girlfriend™️ bites the dust ⚰️wow. she was on a show i watch so i looked her up a while back. i saw that she had been with him so long and was impressed and it gave me a little hope...LO fucking L | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 01:41 PM |
| 9 | Literally Menthis is possibly the worst thing i've ever read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 12:19 AM |
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