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I was wrong then. However, use caution and don’t rush into anything.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 01:41 PM
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I have a feeling you’re being deceived. I don’t think this man is even wealthy. You wouldn’t completely know intimate details of his life until you date for 2-3 years. You make $60k/yr and he’s worth $100+ million and you live in the same building?! Seems improbable to me. Doesn’t matter that he paid cash and you saved for eternity. I suspect he’s a fraud. I’m a mod 30yo man, btw, I’m worth a relatively measly $1-2 million, and a very wealthy man won’t rush to get married or have children with s…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 01:13 PM
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This dude is just a pretentious idiot. Posing as some wealthy intellectual who people can’t handle. You don’t even want a woman who’s from humble background but has worked her way up to an MBA and an executive position, yet from your comment below it’s obvious you attract worse women. Gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 07:28 PM
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You must really be a catch. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/20 08:28 PM
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She’s found someone else, and “properly” ending her previous relationship so she can’t be accused of cheating. Or she’s seeing if you’re still interested before she fully jumps in with the next guy. There’s another guy for sure. That’s my guess. Every time a woman just stops talking after a “fight” and isn’t hysterically trying to mend things within the week that has always been the case.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 01:24 AM
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7 years is a very long time to be with someone. It will take more than a few months to get over her. Give yourself 1-3 years, but it’ll keep getting better along the way. You’re virtually powerless against your thoughts and feelings, but you have full control over your actions. So continue to do things that helps you move on; continue your life, build your career, grow your wealth, work out, socialize, date again, etc. I’m curious though, how old are you? And how were you with someone for so lon…
/r/askTRP29/11/20 07:37 PM
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It’s a huge misconception to think that if a woman didn’t have casual sex then she’s likely to plunge your relationship/marriage into a dead bedroom. My experience completely says otherwise. I’m not even sure the two are related, but if they are I’ll bet my money on it being that women who are very casual with sex rather have issues that engender a dead bedroom, i.e. more likely to get together with you even when they aren’t that interested, not valuing sex, easily bored with monogamy, compariso…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:38 AM
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I think as has been speculated over and over, a woman find a man more attractive if a lot of other women find him attractive. The whole theory on preselection. For men however, in general, a woman who entertains endless attention from other men is off-putting, with regards to a serious commitment. The more untouched a woman is, the more attractive she is to men in a serious way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 05:22 AM
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For me, a woman who's ridden the cock carousel is a woman who's had sex just for the sake of it, or has been so reckless in her dating choices that she ends up sleeping with multiple men in short-lived relationships. To elaborate further, to me, a woman who hasn't ridden the cock carousel will be in her mid 20s to 30s, only had sex in long term relationships, and the number of these relationships is "reasonable", maximum 4. Obviously, some have ridden it more than others, but I think it's diffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 04:27 AM
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I found that women who have a good head on their shoulders don't make this shift. Even in their youth, they date men who are stable, have a good job, etc., but when they're single you find them having commitment-free sex exclusively with these alpha-like men. In my opinion, this betrays what they truly desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:43 PM
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I agree, a woman will definitely not date or marry a man she has no attraction for. The thing is that there are different kinds and levels of attraction. I have women I work with, married and single, who enjoy going to lunch with me. It’s obvious there’s something about me they find attractive but it’s probably not sexual attraction. When a woman friend-zones a man, she find him attractive, just not attractive in a way that she wants to sleep with or date. Maybe he’s a good friend, a good listen…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:09 PM
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In my case when she started refusing sex then it drew my attention to the fact that she didn't even initiate, which also made that fact that she wasn't verbally affectionate all seem like they were connected to something. So in looking for a possible explanation, the only thing that seem to make sense was her relatively high n-count of 15. but I will consider it a yellow flag and look at other things in combination. Partying habits, is she carrying baggage (friends with dudes who've fucked her, …
/r/askTRP12/06/20 10:24 PM
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I'm a man, and here's my opinion. In the recent past I've been consumed by the concept of a woman settling down with a man she doesn't find sexually attractive because I just walked out of a relationship with a woman I intended to marry. I was sensing a lack of adequate sexual desire. She wasn't really initiating sex and would sometime reject my advances, and she kept in contact with exes and FWBs. The simple truth is this: the people you find attractive for marriage or serious relationship is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 12:16 AM
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Thank you sir. You’re one if only few people to give concrete numbers. I hear n-count been thrown around a lot but almost no one ventures to give a number so it becomes a vague rather than a real concept. Whenever I consider committing to a girl I struggle to with how many is too many. Obviously a ridiculously high number like 100 or 50 is just plain unacceptable. But then what about 10 or 20? If I may ask is 15-20 too high for you, and why is that. What logic do you go by to say an n-count is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 01:34 AM
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I'm a guy. 30 y/o, tall (6'2"), well-built, engineer, and I make ~250K. You'd think I have it easy dating, but I've experienced what you're talking about from the other side. Until I changed my dating strategy I would get the run-around, and rejection from all kinds of girls. The problem, I think, is that you're going after men you "like" as you stated. That was my problem too. Chasing after women I "liked". For a man what this means is women who are "hot". For a woman I assume this means a conf…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/20 01:14 AM
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Take what your girlfriend is saying to heart, and start building an interesting life. Do something; learn an instrument and play in band, learn to fly, take improv classes and join a group. This girl might not stick around for long because obviously she’s not enjoying your company anyway. But work on yourself, don’t accept that you’re introvert and a homebody.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 05:08 PM
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I’m 30, my pool of potentials tends to be mid to late 20s. I’ll say for an LTR max of 4, with one or two serious boyfriend and mix of short term boyfriends and flings. I dated a girl who seemed all round great; good education, career, etc. After being together for a while I estimated her n-count to be about 15. I tried to get past that. However, a high n-count has other issues, and they kept cropping up. Like several exes who’ve turned into friends and are still in touch, friends who were never …
/r/askTRP03/12/19 01:21 AM
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Wtf?! Dude! Are you really 34? You need to work on yourself. And do it in overdrive.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 01:32 AM
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God. This sounds like my ex. Are you?
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/19 12:12 AM
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Not OP. I had an LTR, suffered a couple of rejections and no initiation from her. I left last week. I’m still down and trying to get back up. Rejections suck. Breaking up sucks too, but at least you have the chance to move forward.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 12:04 AM
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It looks like I just got one that was unwilling to put in work.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 06:26 PM
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Thanks. Yeah for role of LTR or wife.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:30 PM
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What would you consider a high n-count? What do you think of a 27 year-old with n-count of 15?
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:27 PM
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I’m curious, does this apply also to men? Do men with high n-count also think of the “better” pussy they’ve seen?
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:49 AM
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I think a woman's n-count affects dating and marriage success. I'm a man, 30 years old. I have a low n-count, 4. I've been in 2 LTRs. First LTR had n-count of 1 before me, the other ~15. I was considering marrying them both when I was with them. I've sworn to never go for women with n-count greater than 3 or 4. Ironically women with high n-count don't seem to care much about sex and satisfying you in bed. It's like they're tired from all the sex they've had or they've had better sex so can't be …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 06:43 AM
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She was sleeping at her place. She did offer to come sleep at my place, but I was pissed that she’d even offer a place to this guy when she should know it’s inappropriate and I’m uncomfortable about it.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:16 AM
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Thanks for your advice man. I guess I know what to do. I'm also glad to hear that it's perfectly okay not to want your girlfriend or wife to stay in contact with exes or old fuck buddies. Recently, it seems like there's more acceptance for this kind of behavior, and shame is directed at those you don't accept it. I think a characteristic of humans is that we want to always "improve", "change", or "fix" our situation. We find it hard to accept failure and just walk away. That's an admirable trait…
/r/askTRP23/11/19 01:35 AM
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He might even be the first choice who wouldn't commit easily.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 03:50 AM
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guys that don't mind it go elsewhere and flock in other places, then end up here when they find out their snowflakes were banging their ex- again. Hahaa, definitely seems like you believe it almost ends badly. I'm thinking so too.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 10:15 PM
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Thanks man. Very sound advice. I was thinking along similar. I'm curious though, I see a decent amount of men, and obviously women, on other forums say there's nothing wrong with your LTR girlfriend staying in touch with exes and former FWBs. What could be going on here. Are we in an echo-chamber? And do you see instances where a LTR girlfriend staying in touch with exes and FWBs acceptable?
/r/askTRP21/11/19 09:35 PM
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I'm in Texas.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:02 PM
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Thanks a lot man! Yeah I'm surprised she's pushing marriage quite strongly at this point. I did say in the past that 18 months was good time to make a decision, and I think I have. Just not the decision she wants.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:49 PM
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Will do!
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:39 PM
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Hahaa, I completely agree.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:53 PM
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Yes, just the two of them. He was in town for a day and she offered him her place to stay, and he did. She has an entire house to herself. I was disappointed in her for doing that. That's a critical moment when I seriously doubted the future of our relationship.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:49 PM
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Yep! They talk on the phone and have hanged out once since we've been together. He lives far away.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 05:43 PM
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I don't disagree I must have some insecurities, I bet some guys will not care about this at all. I'll feel badly about myself if I didn't think I could leave her and do better, and I was just complaining. So there must be some element of self-respect too.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 12:32 PM
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I suspect this too. I suspect she must have hoped for more with him, hence the sex. Is it possible he's the one orbiting and she's just allowing it?
/r/askTRP21/11/19 12:28 PM
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Yes, I feel this way. It makes no sense that she'll be friends with that guy when she has a serious boyfriend who's uncomfortable with it. I bet a lot of guys will be uncomfortable with this as well. She's definitely serious about getting married, but yes, she must not believe I'll leave her because of this.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 12:26 PM
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Yeah how dare you tell her to not hang out with other guys she banged already when you're in an exclusive relationship. Do you realise how fucking stupid that sounds? I agree. It's like people feel so entitled these days that they don't even seem to think they have to behave appropriately even when someone has the decency to commit to them longterm. Really, she shouldn't be doing that in the first place. You also should have established boundaries as soon as you found out. I'm afraid I'll be see…
/r/askTRP21/11/19 12:23 PM
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That's right. Making demands seems weak. I also know you can't truly change someone who doesn't want to, they'll end up just resenting you. That's the reason why breaking up is a far better option to me than establishing boundaries.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 12:17 PM
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Yes, I'm afraid of obvious mate guarding. That's why I haven't said much about it. However, she knows that I think it's inappropriate. If I wasn't thinking of marriage then I wouldn't care at all. She wants to get married, and really besides this and some previous deadbedroom situation, I think she's good for marriage.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 07:04 AM
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That's exactly what I've been thinking. It's extremely disrespectful to be talking and meeting up with a guy who just slept with you when you have someone who's thinking of marrying you. I wonder why women would do this, especially since one of her goals is to get married.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:37 AM
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