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WHAAAAAAAAAAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:50 PM
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And you can’t imagine how happy I am to have found a place where there is so much resources about dating men. I’ll definitely stick to what you’re saying, and I am not regretting one part of it. It’s way better and healthier to leave the kind of man I met behind early !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:49 PM
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You’re right, and there are enough red flags as it is for me not to regret ditching him one way or another. I’ll just let him go by never answering. I don’t want to give him any more of my attention as it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:46 PM
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I’ve been all through the FDS Wiki :) Even re-read it before posting ! Sorry my perception of the guy was shaky, I truly am trying and didn’t mean to appear like someone who isn’t putting in the work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:44 PM
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Hm, don’t think so. Don’t know the guy that much and the community here got me very decided that the best thing to do will be never answering :) I’m pretty good at that part !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:43 PM
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We went to see a play, (théâtre in french)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 05:19 PM
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Of course, and my intentions when posting here were not to complain or a call for attention because I am frustrated. I am just very new to dating with the female dating strategy mindset, and my goal is to better understand to be better at it. I was using this situation to gain insight, and I in no way consider posting about these two dates and this guy a waste of time. I’m gaining huge insight from the comments, insights I couldn’t win if dating two guys at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 05:10 PM
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Ok, I was scared the kiss part was going overboard. It’s ok to kiss on date 2 but it’s never an indicator of good behaviour for the man to start flaking. Noting that down. I also acknowledge the fact that I am just re-entering the dating game and I will need to date a few before things flow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 05:08 PM
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I actually responded to another comment just now and asked about ghosting instead of blocking (which is too much of an emotional response and indicator of frustration on my part). I was thinking about just getting his next message, leave him on read and never give this man attention again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 05:04 PM
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Is blocking not a bit extreme ? I can just ignore him next time he reaches out no ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 05:02 PM
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And I will move on. I feel really dumb about the kiss now. Still trying to figure out female dating strategy in real life, and I guess mistakes are part of the process ! Will not be writing or answering his message if he comes back. Thank you for your kind words and insight !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:47 PM
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Sounds like two options that I can do ! I’ll be honest and tell him if he ever texts back. I really feel stupid about kissing him now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:44 PM
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Why would you waste what little time you do have trying to convince this self centered prick to initiate conversation? Absolutely needed to hear that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:30 PM
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Perfect insights, thanks you. I think one of my main points is that when the check comes I automatically reach for my wallet. I'll stop doing that and let them handle the situation, and just smile when the check comes as you said !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 03:10 PM
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Should I answer him if he texts back though ? Don't want to give him the opportunity to fade if I'm already dissatisfied ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:59 PM
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You're absolutely right. Thing is, I do not have enough free time to date several or even text several people at the same time. My work, my friends, my familly and my hobbies are my absolute priorities in life, and I make this point clear with the men I date anyway, but it doesn't give me tons of space to have several targets in a simultaneous timeframe. I will bear that question in mind though, and make sure to remind myself that if I was talking to mister right, his fading away wouldn't even b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:57 PM
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Also : should I stop him right here ? Not give him the chance to slow fade and never answer to his next message myself ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:50 PM
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This is golden. Thank you so much ! I didn’t often come across the actual « perception » vs. « proof » that a HVM is a HVM. I definitely need to let him do the work and never get to focused on what appears to be HVM characteristics. Will definitely keep that in mind as I continue exploring dating ! Your comment is amazing help
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:46 PM
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Jesus I truly need to read this over and over again. I always feel so utterly bad when someone pays for me - it doesn’t stem from insecurity or guilt, but my own mother raised me to be a successful, hard working and financially independent woman. I think the men I date are somehow attracted to that, and think they can get their way without paying because chances are I make more money than they do anyway. I seriously need to work on that part. How do you do it when the bill comes ? For them to pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:40 PM
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Thanks for the silver award ! I’m happy I can purposely use jesting in this sub rather than humoring yet another cringy LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 12:46 AM
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Can I give a high five to all my Osama Bin Ladies out there ? 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 11:22 PM
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RED FLAG ALERT. One of my exes did this. Boy of boy would I have loved to know better. Completely obsessed with the women he could attract and loved to rub it in my face even when we were in a relationship. Worst bred of men I ever dealt with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 05:53 PM
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Men in music have such a worrying ratio of rotten apples, I don’t even know where to start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 11:55 PM
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PREACH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 08:08 AM
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I'd say this is some sort of bullshit beta strategy. If you're bellow average or barely in her range these mindgames will do for a while. True female perspective here. There are different ways you can validate a woman. If you managed to talk to her in the first place, you might have come off as having some potential somewhere down the line. I know I got your attention because you think I'm attractive. Females are not as gullible and candid as some of you might think in this sub. You want a game-…
/r/seduction14/10/19 08:50 PM
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Does this work the other way around ? Flaky man = interested woman doesn't care to bother = increased attraction + vision of strong character ? Thank you
/r/seduction14/10/19 07:37 PM
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