grenadinegarden Archive

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2	Being a hoe has it's consequences Not quite the same but I had a female roommate who was promiscuous (rent was paid and she never brought guys home so I didn’t care) and one evening she abandoned me on our night out to go sleep with some random dude. Since it was maybe an hour into things, I went to a bar across the way to have a drink and unwind before going back home, and some guys asked me to sit with them cause I looked pretty upset. I told them about what happened and mentioned her name off hand and one of them immediately …	/r/PussyPassDenied	26/07/22 01:57 PM
10	Men would make the exact same decisions they shame women for Skinny Adele vs Fat Adele would be a better comparison	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 12:07 AM
3	Men would make the exact same decisions they shame women for Amy Schumer and Megan fox wasnt the best comparison, I think most anyone would take Megan over her lmao	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/21 12:05 AM
3	"Body positivity" excludes overweight guys in favor of normalizing BBW fetishism I will say there seems to be a stigma towards men who love bigger women - “chubby chaser” “fat girls are like mopeds, only fun to ride when your friends aren’t looking” “fat girls are only good for sex” etc but less for fat men/thin women (normalized in sitcoms for example, the hot wife and slovenly husband). I’ve dated both obese and in-shape men and oddly enough, the only ones who shamed my boyfriend’s size at the time were my male friends. They’ve also given more open approval to my now more …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/03/21 03:26 PM
1	Female Dating Strategy I would gather to say my boyfriend is actually relatively hot (he’s had his fair share of hookups and has dated a model in the past) and he’s definitely well endowed lol. We earn about the same but I earn more and have a STEM career. But I can’t lie yes that’s how our relationship started, we talked several times platonically over five years but asked each other out a lot and never followed through. After a year cooloff after my abusive relationship ending, I asked him for a coffee catchup which…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 01:32 AM
1	Female Dating Strategy I would not consider myself to be a top prize (I would say I’m easily a 7 in the face but I’m “thicc” with some chub which lowers my dating pool significantly and I also happen to smoke weed and play a lot of video games, which seem to be no-no’s). It worked to slap the pick me in me Into some sense. Maybe not every one else? Maybe it appealed more to the abused woman in me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 01:05 AM
2	Female Dating Strategy People are dumb for not comprehending that they can’t out-wait someone with ulterior motives. I’ve fucked on the first date and enjoyed a fun fling, I’ve had one night stands, I’ve had a relationship. Sex is sex and to pretend women don’t enjoy it is asinine, I LOVE it personally! And I’ve never really regretted sex on the first date - I regret sticking around past what it was because I was in denial but never the act itself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/21 01:02 AM
4	Female Dating Strategy why be the breadwinner? Idk honestly, I’ve always just taken after my dad? I’m competitive? I would love to be a housewife but realize the logistics of that are improbable at best with the current state of the economy and how things are, so I might as well be the primary income provider? I like money but I don’t like asking for help? I really like money lol. My older sister is also the breadwinner in her family as well. I think it’s just how we were raised. Ironically my mom was a spoiled housew…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 03:49 PM
3	Female Dating Strategy On PC... Thanks for that, I’m mostly a lurker if my post/comment history doesn’t make that clear lol. Low priority for men I don’t work a career to impress a man. I work a career because it’s what I value, I’m in an amazing industry, and I’m proud of what we do. My father, while we aren’t close, was a prolific businessman and always instilled in me to work hard and never have to rely on a man financially (except for him). So I definitely can’t jive with the gold digging aspect of FDS. I’ve alway…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 03:03 PM
8	Female Dating Strategy Sorry, I’m not great at formatting on Reddit so I’m just going to answer this point by point: “What did you do to improve yourself, as a result of FDS?” I realized that the behaviour I had been enduring in my relationship was not normal or healthy, nor had it ever been. I had been desperate for love, and I chose my partner accordingly at the time. I put up with cheating, lying, and being spoken down to and degraded all of the time, probably because I had never had a healthy model of a relationsh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 02:27 PM
18	Female Dating Strategy So I’ve been wanting to speak my two cents on FDS and this popped up in my feed though I’m not a participant in this subreddit at all: FDS helped me, personally, a lot. To a point where I’m almost grateful. When the sub was created/started to gain traction, I was in, at the time, a controlling, emotionally/mentally abusive relationship (that eventually turned physical). I stumbled across FDS and started scrolling, and as I read I began to realize that my own habits, lack of self esteem, and desp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/21 12:54 PM
25	Well god damn. My ex to a T. He lost his job and I stayed and supported him through it all and he had the fucking nerve to say that he didn’t know if I would love him without his money BITCH I PAID THE BILLS FOR 6 MONTHS YOU BORROWED MONEY FROM ME WHAT	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/12/19 12:43 AM
2	May I suggest a different kind of HVM? This very much ended up being my situation when I was dating my ex. We broke up, I was depressed, and then the Mastiff that I had, my baby girl, that was very sick died. I was heartbroken, went to a local shelter to volunteer, and on the day that I got there this beautiful boy Mastiff that looked just like her had just arrived. I’ve never fallen for a man so fast in my life, he’s the best and most loving lapdog I’ve ever had.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/19 01:33 PM