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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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-1	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives I’m not reading all of that	/r/MensRights	14/04/24 01:26 PM
1	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Every social group has unique needs and faces unique challenges in society. The fact that civilization is inherently patriarchal doesn't mean that men are immune to social inequality nor that they are less worthy of having their issues addressed on a societal level. However, I also believe that there is a fundamental difference in the social conditions that give rise to the issues that men, compared to women, face today. Acknowledging that difference leads to more productive and solution-driven,…	/r/MensRights	08/04/24 05:40 PM
1	The Rise of Self-Partnership: Why Some Successful Men Are Choosing to Stay Single, Even Attractive Ones Most men and women want and end up having children. Family planning includes choosing a partner who is willing and able to jointly provide an emotionally, socially, and economically stable environment for their children. The vast majority of children in the US grow up in two parent households.	/r/MensRights	08/04/24 03:28 PM
1	The "Women And Children" Narrative I’m not really sure how your reply relates to anything I said so I don’t know how to respond. Can you maybe expand your argument by tying it directly to some of the points I made in my last comment?	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 05:00 PM
1	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Well, damn. I wrote out a thoughtful reply and it disappeared when I hit send. Anyway, thank you for your engaging me in a thoughtful discussion. I actually don't think men should be held accountable at all! More than anything, women (from my discussions with many of them) want men to simply acknowledge that although many women today enjoy equal rights to men, today's world is an extension of society that was built to benefit men. When we talk about the patriarchy we are not referring to a visib…	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 04:41 PM
2	I watched Barbie and it was shit I’m atoning for losing my shit on a bunch of you/them earlier.	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 04:34 PM
3	False narratives that feminists ignore The 19th amendment was passed in 1920, which guaranteed all women in the US the right to vote. About half the states had already granted women the right to vote between 1869 and 1920. The remaining twenty or so states only granted the right to vote when the 19th was passed. Oh also, some of the states prior to 1920 only allowed women to vote for president, not all elections. Single women could own property under specific circumstances but married women could not own property until the mid 1800s …	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 02:41 PM
2	I watched Barbie and it was shit tongue in cheek take on the struggles of being a woman in society a tongue in cheek take on the struggles of being a woman AND a man in society! The movie is so loved because it doesn't promote its message of "patriarchy bad" at the expense of men. Rather it says that a society which centers any one group of people hurts everyone and that we are better together.	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 02:10 PM
-19	Just want yall to know that some of us see you. Is it clear yet that this sub is full of men who hate women? You came in with a positive message and someone still found a reason to shit on you. There are healthier men out there in real life who deserve your love and support.	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 01:56 PM
-6	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives It’s so cute when your arguments can’t stand on their own so you have to resort to tantrums.	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 01:19 PM
-2	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Why would anyone send an army of women to fight an army of men?! What a dumb thing to suggest. And they say women are bad leaders. EDIT: Since y'all little cowards and you keep blocking me: I made a facetious comment to the person who said that an army of women would lose against an army of men and you took it seriously. Literally zero reading comprehension	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 01:12 PM
1	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives There is nothing less attractive than a man with so little self-respect that he resorts to childish retorts just to win an online fight.	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 01:10 PM
-3	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives I thought you guys said that women always victimize themselves. So which one is it?	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 01:00 PM
-1	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives How am I dehumanizing men? EDIT: just because you use loaded words to call something abuse or harassment doesn't in fact make it abuse or harassment. When I posted my original comment 50 of you piled on with your insults like a pack of rabid racoons but when as I responded in kind I am abusing you. I wonder how many women in your lives would still love you if they saw your comment history. I'm muting this shit, have fun arguing with yourselves <3	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 12:59 PM
-4	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives I disagree as that is only one of the many aspects of both men’s and women’s standings in society. Saudi men have been fighting wars but Saudi women were not allowed to travel abroad without permission from their husband or guardian until a few years ago. They were not allowed to operate a bicycle until 2013, not allowed drive until 2018 and they were not allowed to vote or run for office until 2015. Would you also consider them on superior social footing to men? EDIT: @untamed-italian I don't u…	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 12:58 PM
0	Can someone debunk this blatantly "Sexist" article written by a "Feminist"? That's incorrect. A study found that in Europe between 1480 and 1913 there was a 27% increase in wars when a queen was in power compared to a king. Not that queens have been implicated in more wars than kings throughout the entire history. https://www.thecut.com/2016/01/european-queens-waged-more-wars-than-kings.html	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 12:18 PM
0	Can someone debunk this blatantly "Sexist" article written by a "Feminist"? That's incorrect. A study found that in Europe between 1480 and 1913 there was a 27% increase in wars when a queen was in power compared to a king. Not that queens have been implicated in more wars than kings throughout the entire history. https://www.thecut.com/2016/01/european-queens-waged-more-wars-than-kings.html	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 12:17 PM
-7	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Surely there are more respectable ways to win an argument than using strawman arguments.	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 11:34 AM
2	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Babe, if you hate me so much and you pretend to like me just so you can fuck me, then why are so so mad? EDIT: The effort it must take for you to block me and then unblock me just so you can comment on every one of my posts.	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 11:17 AM
-1	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives > the lack of accountability and total victimhood of women like you is asinine This entire sub is men victimizing themselves and using women as a scapegoat. > just how many things socially and systemically are against men. Cool. What does that have to do with women? We are also existing in a society that fifty years ago wouldn't allow us to open up a credit card or buy a car without a husband's permission. And women are the ones that EXPECT you to be the provider? It has NOTHING to do with the f…	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 11:11 AM
0	The "Women And Children" Narrative > The idea of patriarchy relies on this premise that men have all the power. Patriarchy describes a social structure where men have historically held a position of power over women, and a system in which men and women are socialized in an environment that privileges men and devalues women. It does not only refer to societies in which women hold unequal status under law. Patriarchy is socially embedded the same way that systemic racism is embedded in the fabric of America even though outright rac…	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 10:24 AM
-2	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives I'm honestly baffled that our perspectives on parental rights differ so much. I understand your point about men having "zero reproductive rights" and I agree to an extent. But that isn't because of some social imbalance, it's biology. The nature of male and female reproduction is biologically different so there should be no expectation of equal treatment. It cannot be made legally equal. Women carry all the burden of reproduction. Of course men do not have the right to decide if a child will be …	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 09:02 AM
-7	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Why are you so angry?	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 08:47 AM
-3	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Says the man on a sub where every post is about hating women.	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 08:27 AM
-12	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Bro, you’re a man who unironically subs to r/mensrights	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 08:23 AM
-7	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Y’all have had an upper hand for so long that equality feels like oppression to you. If you hate women just say that	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 08:19 AM
-4	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Powerful men start wars. But seeing as you're believing that something inflicted upon men by other men doesn't matter, Please quote exactly where I said it doesn’t matter. what's your take on FGM? Seeing it's inflicted upon innocent girls by older women to benefit women as a class, we simply must not care about it? That’s exactly the opposite of how I feel, my friend. My point is that your anger is misplaced. You are blaming women for things that men perpetuate. If you want change you have to fi…	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 08:16 AM
0	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Aww look at you and your big feelings. Babe, who started WWII? A democratically elected head of state? Or was it a genocidal man, a story as old as time. If women were in charge of every country that was involved in WWII it never would’ve gotten to that point. My favorite thing about arguing with men is when they get so upset they start calling me names. Why are you getting so emotional?	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 07:40 AM
-5	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Your unwillingness to accept that your own gender has created the seemingly unfavorable conditions you live in is not my problem. Cope or stay mad.	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 07:30 AM
-4	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Where did I say I only vote for women? Wouldn’t you respect yourself more if you engaged me in a proper discussion instead of resorting to cheap retorts?	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 07:26 AM
1	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives As it should be, it’s based on merit not gender. But I’d just like to point out that “it’s only come up a few times” is kind of the point I was making. It’s relatively rare for women to hold positions of power. At least disproportionate.	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 07:21 AM
-7	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives If you believe that women being on equal social footing as men is discrimination against men, that says more about you than it says about women.	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 07:18 AM
-72	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Are you purposely missing the point? The comment I was replying to said that women vote for the men in power so they are just as responsible for the laws that they pass. I said I would vote for women if there were more options to vote for women. I said nothing about voting for them solely because they are women. Surely there are more respectful ways to win an argument than using strawman arguments.	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 07:15 AM
-127	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives I can’t vote for a woman unless a woman makes it on the ballot. And a woman will make it on a ballot only if both men and women vote for her. But men tend not to vote for women for whatever reason. Men start wars so men should be fighting in them. And no, you’re not dying for women. You’re dying because a man convinced you it’s patriotic. EDIT: also, don’t cite statistics you don’t understand. Women didn’t start more wars than men in all of history lmao. Use critical thinking. How would that mak…	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 06:10 AM
-9	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Those expectations are inherent to a patriarchal society that men created. Men didn’t allow women to work or have any independence, women in the US weren’t allowed to get a mortgage, sign a car loan, or open a credit card without their husbands permission until the 70s. That was fifty years ago. Of course they had no choice but to rely on men so men were expected to be the providers because that was the price you had to pay to keep women opressed. It’s other men that have created these expectati…	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 06:06 AM
-193	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives The people who are forcing men to go to war are other men. Just food for thought.	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 05:57 AM
-19	Men aren't allowed to prioritise themselves at any point in their lives Whereas if a woman were to abandon her family, abort her child or think of her and her future alone, she's a girlboss and deserves all the love. The absolute hypocrisy. I’m sure it seems that way to you but women are actually held to a much higher standard as mothers than men are as fathers. A woman who abandons her child is judged much more harshly by society, it’s basically the worst thing you can do as a woman. Also, men regularly leave their families to prioritize themselves or because they …	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 05:56 AM
-2	The "Women And Children" Narrative My other account got banned, understandably, but I wanted to respond to you more kindly. Look. I have amazing men in my life. Good men who are intelligent, kind, emotional, protective, and loving. These men also have something that I don’t see a lot in other men: male friendships that are built on emotional vulnerability, trust and intimacy. And I’ve seen how fostering these types of relationships benefits the social and emotional lives of those men. Yes, I generalized about men and women. But t…	/r/MensRights	05/04/24 04:50 AM