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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
76	The reason why men marry some women and not others. Warning! ⚠️ Long post. I personally can't imagine feeling ready to commit to someone after 6 months...that scares ME.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 03:10 AM
19	Sad, unfortunate truths about the “friend zone” You just described exactly the awkward space I'm finding myself in with a formerly married friend.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/21 01:59 AM
47	Could you imagine the outrage if women routinely turned down sex with their partners to watch porn and masturbate? How did that become something we have to accept from men? I thought "that hasn't happened to me" and then I thought about all the times that oooohhhhhh. Lightbulb.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/10/21 12:38 AM
173	Help! My climbing partner accused me of “inappropriately touching her boyfriend” and I’m worried she is not a pick-me, but a victim of emotional abuse. What do I do? Because she's in a vulnerable space, I would just add one note of vulnerability to the above. You could say, not only did this never happen, but I'm recovering from an abusive relationship and touching a man is the LAST thing I want right now. I think this could help remind her that you know where you're coming from on the abuse front.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/21 06:22 PM
7	Help! My climbing partner accused me of “inappropriately touching her boyfriend” and I’m worried she is not a pick-me, but a victim of emotional abuse. What do I do? I agree—one attempt.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/10/21 06:19 PM
41	When evaluating a man, don't just look at how you perceive his behaviour. Also look at the factual realities of your life before/after he came into it. THIS. My ex was a mix of HV and LV traits, mostly on the HV side. So it can be hard to remember why it didn't work out when the HV stuff remains in my life. HOWEVER. While we were dating, and for a good six months after, I felt tired, hopeless, and worn down. I lost my confidence. Even after we broke up, I doubted my friends, my goals, my values, and even things like my damn personality and likes. I consider myself a confident, together person who takes no shit. But I had slowly been absorbing a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/21 12:43 AM
9	I was feeling nervous so i cancelled the date Yes! Good self awareness. I've been there. I've also gone on the date with the right guy at the wrong time for me and regretted it. We've stayed in touch and I wish I could re-meet him at this healthier junction but the ship has sailed. Enjoy those gamer gals!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/10/21 07:22 PM

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