grilledstuffed Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for me How do people find relationships? The same war you make real, genuine friendships. First and foremost: Shared values. Do you care about the poor? Or are you all about the hustle of your career? Personal development? The societal value of the arts? Shared values is the first way you find people to connect with. Incidentally, this is the stage you’re having problems with in regards to your hookups. You place a different values on sex than the girls you’re sleeping with, so you resent them rather t…	/r/seduction	29/07/22 09:54 PM
1	Friend who posts dates on snap story to make other women jealous I’ve never heard this phrase before, but this is so applicable it’s absolutely crazy.	/r/seduction	24/06/22 03:26 PM
2	Getting shamed for dating women younger than me Not sure why you’re being downvoted. Being frustrated by things outside of your control is a very universal human experience. Have a question, though. Based upon everything discussed in this thread, why don’t you just date dudes in their 40s?	/r/seduction	01/04/22 09:43 AM
9	If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way. Like walking up to random strangers during the day. Huh. I regularly do this a dozen times in a day. Other dudes, grandmas, attractive women, people working their job, pretty much any and everyone. Hell, I’ll probably talk to 6 people just in a quick trip to the grocery store. I don’t understand where this expectation of isolation in public comes from?	/r/seduction	18/09/21 04:23 AM
3	[deleted by user] Then you’re a fool. Social circles are the 21st century tribes. Everything from your career prospects, to people that will help you move, to how many women you meet that might like sucking your dick can all be improved through your social circles. And you don’t even have to be at the center, you just have to do well enough that people are excited to see you. Don’t spend years doing things the hard way for no reason.	/r/seduction	16/09/21 01:48 AM
35	Some surprising (and not surprising) insights from a guy who had an honest chat with his girlfriend Most dudes haven't figured out themselves. It's a much more productive place to spend the effort.	/r/seduction	10/11/20 05:28 AM
1	Are you TRULY happy single? I know that's part of the philosophy here, but I'm struggling to get there after a break up. Just want to chime in and say I understand exactly what you're describing. I met a girl and we fell in love, hard. We were engaged in two weeks, married in 10 months. In six months we'll celebrate our 12 year anniversary. I had previously been in a 5 year on again, off again relationship and had several other relationships that were pretty significant. When I met my wife I laughed at the thought I'd been in love before. Loosing her in any way would be DEVASTATING in a way I can't even describe. …	/r/seduction	22/03/20 03:01 PM
4	This is why you're freezing up when you see your dream girl: I mean, not to be an ass, but: If a guy isn't confident enough to talk to a girl without falling to pieces, why on Earth would she think he'd be confident enough to be in her life romantically? Whether that's in a LTR, a fling, or fucking her brains out in the utility closet.	/r/seduction	14/02/20 12:59 PM
116	I'm not the most successful man, but the few successes I've had were straight forward. Its really not that hard I'm not the most successful man Bro, ladies aside, you're living a life worth living. That's highly successful, above and beyond what most people are doing. That's huge in and of itself. Good for you.	/r/seduction	09/02/20 01:06 AM
9	Nothing you read will make you feel better Good job acknowledging and accepting criticism. That exhibits growth and maturity as much as what you wrote. Well done!	/r/seduction	31/01/20 09:07 PM
7	How i went from virgin at 23 to a seduction master (sucsess story?) This isn't directed at you, but a general observation. If you're that level of shit you need to be in /r/socialskills not /r/seduction . Learn to treat your friends like people. Learn to treat random dudes like people. Learn to treat platonic women like people. Learn to treat women you're interested in like people. And then work on converting that last group into lovers. I get there's a lot of inexperienced guys out there, but if your longest conversations in life have been on chat while gaming,…	/r/seduction	08/12/19 03:27 PM
1	Hilarious reaction from this girl when I didn't fall for her shit test. Being immature and fixing a problem aren't mutually exclusive.	/r/seduction	16/11/19 08:26 PM
5	Hilarious reaction from this girl when I didn't fall for her shit test. I missed this my first read through, nice catch.	/r/seduction	16/11/19 08:21 PM
1	Hilarious reaction from this girl when I didn't fall for her shit test. No, it's not. See my other comment in reply to the OP, he completely misread what was happening.	/r/seduction	16/11/19 02:11 PM
91	Hilarious reaction from this girl when I didn't fall for her shit test. You dingus, that was her trying to move to the bedroom without saying she wanted to have sex. She wanted you to tell her you were tired too. She would have suggested that you could take a nap together. And then sex would have just 'happened'. She even reframed it with 'just lay with me for bit.' She is immature and insecure and afraid of appearing like a slut, so she was trying to orchestrate having sex again as some spontaneous magical thing that 'just happened'. She's not confident enough to j…	/r/seduction	16/11/19 02:08 PM
2	Lost my virginity You need to sort that out for the benefit of rest of your life, girls aside.	/r/seduction	17/06/19 06:09 PM
6	Learn to blurt out what's on your mind. It's just being sociable. I swear basic social competency is 75% of what everyone calls "outer game". Being able to engage people about what excites them makes you a decent human being first, attractive to women second. How To Win Friends And Influence People is a classic for a very good reason...	/r/seduction	29/06/16 02:52 AM
9	"Finally sent child support" Married 5 years actually. And I love them dearly, and would cover the cost of everything without even making an issue of it except for the fact that every word out of their father's mouth (in front of a judge, mediator, state attorney, my wife, the kids. Yes, the kids.) is "my rights, my rights, my rights... don't bring up my responsibilities".	/r/MensRights	23/08/13 01:54 PM
6	"Finally sent child support" This is not about your mortgage. This is about you freaking paying for the cost of your kid(s) existence. As a stepdad who had to have my kids biological father freaking threatened with jail time before he was willing to pay a dime, I'm so tired of fathers complaining about paying for the kid's food and clothing. It's not 50/50. On average I pay for 26 out 30 days of food, clothing, electricity, water, gas for travel to extra-curricular activities, school supplies, games, toys, birthdays, whatev…	/r/MensRights	23/08/13 01:37 PM