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grillinsteaks/r/askTRP17/02/20 11:26 AM
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Time apart after uni is not unusual so both of you can date around and make sure you’re right for each other. Talk to her about this. It’s a healthy choice. You’ll get back together if you’re meant to be.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 03:07 AM
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There is a solution to everything. Where is your favorite place in the world? When I was younger and I got lonely I always thought, hey I can just sell everything and pick up and move to the Bahamas and start over as a server. While working in a restaurant now is not a good option, the idea is still valid. I’d come back to it often throughout the years, that thought that if it all gets too much I can just end this life by packing it up, and moving somewhere else and starting over. Hang in there.…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 08:55 PM
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She’s really not into you. You’re not going to have the opportunity to say goodbye unless you spill it all out in a text to her. She’s avoiding you for sure. Why did the ONS fail?
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:02 PM
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Bloodfest? Losing her virginity wouldn’t cause that. At all. She had her period. Do you want kids? If so, this woman MAY be for you. Marriage is a business proposition. Sometimes the emotions and sex line up too. If anything, talk all this out with her. You have to or you’ll be surprised and disappointed later.
/r/askMRP01/03/20 12:25 AM
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You were clear from the beginning that marriage is not an option. Remind her of that. Then both of you decide what to do. Accept current situation or move on?
/r/askTRP17/02/20 11:29 AM
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Jesus you’re over thinking it. She sounds awesome. Enjoy the ride and see where it goes. You’ll hate yourself for fucking up this good thing by injecting plates right now. You do not have oneitis. She’s as into you as you are her.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 10:49 AM
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Gross
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 11:04 PM
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To answer the question you posed, no. Pick up on the hints and respond appropriately. Create an opportunity for hints again. Or be direct. But she seems to like the intrigue of things not being planned and expected so figure out how to do that and you’re good.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 06:59 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:48 AM
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You should have friendly rapport but it should never get in the way of your workout. Spending 24 mins chatting means 25 mins of wasted workout time. You can spend a few minutes when you get there and a few when you leave talking to people just to raise your social value.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:56 PM
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My girl got me small heart box of chocolate and weed so we can fuck like animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:54 PM
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Seems you’re more comfortable in a LTR and kind of lost without it. (“Life is boring as shit”) While you’re doing all the alpha things, you may not be feeling alpha from your core right now. That’s ok. Just do you for a while but notice the hot girls and notice if they give you a second look. They may not be approaching but they are probably seeing you. You’ll have to reach out to girls and be receptive to them. But you gotta let the wall down soon. Give it a little time.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 08:45 PM
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That’s funny! Good luck with that in real life ma dude.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 04:11 PM
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As long as it is your past and not your present.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:25 PM
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Be an alpha not a dick
/r/askTRP14/02/20 03:12 PM
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Legendary
/r/askTRP14/02/20 03:12 PM
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Hum. I say gifts then sex. Gifts will make her horny. She WANTS the sex anyway. Make her wait. You say sex then gifts. You want the sex. You are not understanding that she does too because you’re an alpha. She doesn’t really want the gifts unless it’s a new car. Even then, it will make her more horny for you. So gifts first. Then sex. Are you worried that sex isn’t going to happen? Ugh. Something else is wrong there.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 03:10 PM
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If you have the drive to continue lineage, don’t ignore it or you will regret it. Figure out the best way for you to get there. Do you want a LTR? Do you want marriage and if so can you be totally open about all the shit that is going to change in 20 years for both of you? Do you want to be a baby daddy? Do you want a house and a lawn mower and a swing set in the back yard? It is time to be honest with yourself and stop trying to fit yourself into a RP box. Stop trying to be what you think you s…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:31 PM
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You’re in a LTR. Get her something nice dude. Don’t be an asshole. Be an alpha.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:23 PM
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Nope.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:20 PM
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Sorry we are just not on the same page. This discussion is annoying me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 02:18 PM
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Still don’t get it. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 02:13 PM
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Thinking the sex is the treat. Hence the confusion. Who the fuck really wants chocolate or a house plant?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:12 PM
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This. Why didn’t she give you a blow job?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:10 PM
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Can’t do much. The odds are in your favor regarding the timing. But dude, come on. Just a little got in? Just “an incredibly small amount” contains millions of potential human beings.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:07 PM
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You’re sad and needy right now. Girls can smell this. You’re a LTR kinda guy but you’re gonna have to fake it for a while to get there.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 02:01 PM
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The girl wants you and is pissed you have a LTR. Not sure if you want new girl and if not, shut it down. Now.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:59 PM
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Sounds like you want a girl to have sex with. Sounds like you’re actually not fully RP.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:56 PM
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Do you have a girlfriend? Ask her to find a place. If she wants it as much as you, she will search.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:55 PM
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Um why?
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:50 PM
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Don’t make her grab it from your car asshole. Be nice. Be an alpha.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:47 PM
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This but there will be one sexual relationship where you will feel something besides a good orgasm. It will be visceral and you’ll be unable to understand what is going on. You can push it aside and stomp on it, but you’ll know love when you feel it.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:43 PM
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Not cheating because she told you before hand. Be glad she told you now. Consider if you really want her as LTR, as in married some day, and if a bi girl is your style, and if you’re into this type of open relationship. For now, enjoy her honesty, take control, pick the girl and have a threesome. If she just goes behind your back and fucks a girl, this is bad. Really bad. How did you allow that to happen???
/r/askTRP14/02/20 01:39 PM
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Ok I get it. But if you think you want bi experiences in the future, best to be open about it so you have the opportunity to make a LTR last through thick and thin. If she knows this about you, she’ll understand when you’re 45 and want some dick and she’ll be ok with it. If you spring this on her you may be looking at a messy divorce, alimony and child custody issues which would not be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:20 PM
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Yeah I’m calling asshole for not being honest about the gay shit. Go for it. I’m not judging. But as far as entering a new relationship, hopefully she picks up your gay leaning vibe before she has sex with you so she can make an informed decision. Mixing those fluids should be done with the proper knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:15 PM
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This. The cheaters will always lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:12 PM
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That’s the way to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:11 PM
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No don’t lie. Just be vague. If she likes you enough to get in bed with you she won’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:11 PM
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While I encourage keeping your history to yourself, men on men is definitely something you should not lie about. If you are a man and have a proclivity towards men and you are putting yourself out there as a heterosexual, this is a glaring lie that you should not entertain. Tell her this up front. Or you are a jack ass. And it is unforgivable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:09 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:04 PM
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I disagree. I think it is fine to say something like, “yeah I’ve had a history. Doesn’t pertain to me or us now.” I’ve never heard of any situation where volunteering a checkered past helped. Relationships are not the confessional.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:01 PM
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Because sex is a fun hobby. It’s universally understood that sex is a benefit of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. If your hypothetical future “boyfriend” doesn’t want sex from you, there would be something off. My guess is that type of relationship will be hard to find. If this is what you are seeking, advertise yourself that way and perhaps the right asexual guy (or girl?) will come along.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 12:58 PM
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Keep your integrity. No need to lie. No need to volunteer any information about your past relationships either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:51 AM
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Tell the truth but don’t volunteer information about yourself that paints you in a bad light. No need. It will just stick in her mind in a bad way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 03:50 AM
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She like you. Meet up again. Don’t let the insane chemistry walk away.
/r/askTRP13/02/20 01:48 AM
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Not all every night: Gym, cook, eat, read, hang with friends, social media, laundry.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 11:20 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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