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No, I think it's considered "normal" for people to not be emotionally honest with themselves, so a lot of people don't know what they want. I think it's considered "normal" for a lot of people to not believe that they are ALLOWED to ask for, let alone have, what they want in relationships.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 09:48 AM
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Women don't have it easy, it just looks that way from the outside. A woman on a dating app will get 300 matches who swiped right on every single girl on the app. Half of them wouldn't have swiped on her at all if they looked at her photos more clearly or if they read her profile. Another quarter of them DID read her profile, but aren't interested in the same thing she is, but assume they can groom or trick her into doing what they want anyway. One in ten of the remaining amount will meet her up …
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 03:26 PM
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If the goal is simply to stop worrying that there are people who find you attractive, go find some men who have a similar phenotype to you that women thirst over and follow them on social media. I wanted to laugh reading your post because in my corner of the internet, everyone loves skinny pretty dudes, and if you made ASMR porn or something like "skinny pretty boy tells you how much he wants to tie you up and choke you out" you'd probably be drowning in validation because people like that type …
/r/ExRedPill11/06/23 02:11 PM
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The girls are the key to their whole formula and I desperately want to know what the criteria is for the women they select to be on the show and how the screening process works. One day, they will mess it up and have a group of young women who all go on the show prepared with talking points and who know one another, though, and they will be on a live stream and suddenly cut the feed for "technical issues" because their peer pressure tactics won't work anymore. You can see how often the facial ex…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 12:46 PM
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That would seem to imply that relationships with men give you depression?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 01:00 AM
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*An illiterate person.
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 01:08 AM
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This sounds like a whole lot of words for "I think this dude is an alpha but he literally has no control over his own life at all and lets women run everything around him."
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 03:18 PM
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If you have a crush on someone and they choose someone else, you are already mentally primed to notice their faults because obviously you dislike them on some level for a while. Redpill men who start out as lonely and finding it difficult to get a relationship have a hard time understanding that men willingly turn down sex and relationships with non compatible partners because they have a scarcity mindset, opening them up to the idea that women are "gatekeepers" and this leads to many of them (S…
/r/ExRedPill01/05/23 02:02 AM
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How's your night going? Cool shirt, is that a band? What type of music is it? I like your earrings. Did you make them yourself? Are you enjoying the party?
/r/ExRedPill28/03/23 12:29 PM
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People with BPD typically have more intense emotional states than average. So it may be a little bit because of your BPD that you have difficulty with things- getting nervous or feeling isolated or depressed could be symptoms. Your lack of a dating history is probably related to the idea that you see it as "lack of women" like any woman will do and all women are a hivemind of people who you are cursed to be hated by forever. If it took you til the age of 30 to start kind of regular conversations…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 11:14 PM
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Yeah! Try to avoid framing it as if you are trying to get her to pity you, because that's unattractive, but a little shyness is sort of cute to a lot of people- it at least lets a girl know you think she's special and you aren't just looking for absolutely anyone who will talk to you who's female, which happens more often than you would think with guys who think they have "game."
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 06:03 AM
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Well, do you ever comment on their photos? Not selfies but normal photos like if she's at a park or posting a meal or talking about one of her hobbies or posting a meme? The more you try to make conversation with her like a friend, the less nervous you'll feel and the more you build a positive bond between the two of her. If she doesn't see you talking to her, you don't need to feel bad- she doesn't know you're too shy to talk to her, right? Just try to let a natural conversation flow. If you ge…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/23 06:02 AM
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Remember that girls are people. A lot of the "tests" we put men to are just "is this guy secretly a rapist or serial killer or someone who will lose respect for me if we have sex or a jerk?" That's pretty much it. Remember that around 40% of people on dating apps never message anyone, they're just swiping to see how many matches they can get. One of the super annoying parts about dating is sometimes you can be doing everything right, but someone isn't compatible. Everyone is bad at dating til th…
/r/ExRedPill16/03/23 05:27 AM
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This girl I’m currently seeing casually likes me quite a bit, and is usually the one contacting me, but im constantly worried about the whole “maintaining frame” thing at all times. We’re really only sexually compatible, and I’m afraid that if I treat her decent might be leading her to want something deeper. At the same time, I’ve been kinda a jerk to her, and I think that if I’m not she might lose interest. But it hurts both of us, because I don’t actually WANT to be a jerk. I want to treat her…
/r/ExRedPill22/12/22 12:37 AM
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Well yeah, but even on OK Cupid, the questions are so overloaded with BS that all you can do is answer like 300 versions of the same thing to get to the things you actually care about, and the things you can search by are all appearance based categories unless they are set up to reflect attitudes that don't exist anymore like "Democrat V Republican" instead of "Leftist V moderate V far right." Not to mention that the majority of users just fill out one paragraph of text with a silly joke or meme…
/r/ExRedPill18/12/22 02:11 AM
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So... Tinder is reporting that they make 1.6 billion swipes a day and only 26 million matches. https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2018/12/the-sex-recession/573949/ 44% of people on dating apps are "just seeing what's out there" or looking for an ego boost from matching and never talk to any of their matches. https://www.marketwatch.com/story/most-people-dont-use-tinder-for-love-or-sex-heres-why-they-really-use-it-2017-03-23?mod=article_inline Literally the people who design the apps on…
/r/ExRedPill01/12/22 01:50 PM
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Finally, the red pill likes to remind us that men are much more likely than women to swipe right on Tinder. Aren't there blogs and stuff that tell men to swipe right on absolutely every girl so they are more likely to match with someone? I've seen people online promoting that tactic. If men are doing that, and women are only swiping right with men they actually find very attractive, the idea that men swipe right more doesn't mean as much. https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/ae55xk/men-who-swi…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/17 09:46 PM
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What if they were? What if there's some other factor like there often is with women with low self esteem that act charming or even narcissistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 03:41 AM
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Okay, because it totally sounded like you were trying to imply that having casual sex makes women crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/15 03:40 AM
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Okay, fine. However, again, the thrust of my argument wasn't that BPD is awesome, it's that BPD is not caused by sleeping around, and a woman's psyche doesn't get a hole in it everytime they touch a new dick. And not all people with BPD chase the same types of behavior. Basically, promiscuity is a symptom of some mental disorders, not the cause. And it's less likely to be mentioned even when it's a symptom of a male person's mental disorders, and more likely to be blamed on a mental disorder of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/15 05:50 AM
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Hi. 29/f and have BPD. My "magic number" is 6. Women with BPD are not damaged by fucking men. Women who have dissociative/boundary related disorders are more likely to just give in to social pressures to do stupid shit and then feel bad about it later/while it's happening. They are more likely to just go with the flow because they enjoy the flirting, then be confused as to how to get out of fucking someone they aren't sure how they feel about yet. Also, "promiscuous" women are more likely to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 09:35 PM
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This, very hard. If you're going to say girls sometimes put guys in the "friend zone" it's fair to say that young men tend to put GFs in the "mom zone" and expect them to take care of them more than is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 09:23 PM
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This was my reaction as well. I didn't know what it was called at the time, but a couple years ago, I thought some guy was doing "The Rules" on me. He was a great guy, but he seemed to be intentionally NEVER contacting me or replying to my texts on the same day they were sent. So I decided to stop bothering with him, because he probably wasn't that into me. Only later it turned out he just kept contacting me, so maybe he was. Women who are rarely like that do not have time for that shit, and it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/15 09:16 PM
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Right, but there are people who don't really care if they think you would enjoy it or not. Not saying they are rapists or anything, I just mean their headspace is "Okay, what combination of buttons do I push to get sex to pop out?" And I wish that sex was less of a big deal, so everyone could be less uptight about it. It bugs me when I feel like someone is being friendly mostly for a chance to see my tits, it makes me feel manipulated but I don't know of a polite way to call them out on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/15 01:54 PM
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For the average girl, giving up the pussy is the biggest single "thing" they can do to get a guy they hope to get This has never been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 12:50 AM
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I agree with this. My main problem in the dating world in the short term seems to be being irritated with guys who appear to be faking interest in me as a person in order to get into my pants- like holding up their end of a longish conversation with one word statements until they have reached the right length of time to start trying to bring the conversation back to sex. Although I would argue that women have a lot of issues later in the dating and mating game with men who already are their boyf…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 12:46 AM
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I feel like the best way to make it not obvious would be to use a "fake dating site" model. Or to use dummy profiles on a few real dating sites where you changed nothing but the income level and checked out how it changed the replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 12:25 AM
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You have two different issues here- and they are caused by different aspects of American culture. There are definitely annoying, not very intelligent people on the internet with just about every opinion. People not wanting children to get spanked is another issue. It still concerns women, since women are mothers of children. But it's not necessarily a feminist issue. It's an opinion some of the same people have, I guess. That means even mothers have less authority than before. Not only fathers. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/15 12:21 AM
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