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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s risky 50/50 often means the woman will essentially be a single mum when kids appear. If the man steps up childcare then that's also part of 50/50. It doesn't always have to be money being the metric. The thing is, a man who feels the financial sacrifice should only be on the woman, as in this case, will pretty much not be the kind of man who would share 50/50 with child-rearing. So while being a stingy bastard is not the main metric here, it certainly correlates.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 01:04 PM
7	Q4W: Why do women get so much more leeway in terms of being insecure/jealous in dating/ relationships? They did not "tolerate" anything. They chose it. They saw a sexily dressed woman and decided they wanted her. After getting her, they decided she needs to be wrapped in a security box. Go to church or something and pick a woman from there then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/07/26 01:38 PM
2	Why are western women so hateful toward men? I have. Although you are right that not every Muslim country practices strict Islamic laws. But you cannot use that as a defence against other oppressive Islamic systems. Cultural roots play a huge part and Indonesia had their own cultural roots before Islam arrived. It had elements of Hinduism and Buddhism. Animalism/spiritualism pre-dates other religions, and has resulted in a blend of mixed-Islam. You see this to varying extents in Southeast Asia - someone may go to church but also burn paper…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 09:28 AM
10	Men don't understand what women want because women have been sending mixed signals, not because men have poor understanding. Men don't have poor understanding. They just don't want to understand. Just admit it. "Give me a template on women so I don't have to bother getting to know them, especially when I just want to tick the boxes and get what I can benefit from them." Half the time men don't even know what they themselves want. Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/06/26 01:46 PM
2	Women are being scammed by the empowerment industry harder than men are by red pill, and it's not even close Redpill includes women on its list of "distractions", which you fail to mention. All those camps marketed to install discipline - "no distractions, no women, just you focusing!" Are blaming women for men being unable to better themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/06/26 09:22 AM
–	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool Unfortunately, from the downvotes, you can tell who isn't too happy with my alternative perspective. Lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/26 10:10 AM
1	Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating pool The headline is already the usual blaming women trope. I hope you can see this from another perspective with some genuine questions. 1) Are you actually focusing only on seeing how the "bad boys" get women? (Yes, many of what is termed "confident" men are actually awful bad boys who think it's still cool to be mean). Many guys who feel they are one of the good ones, - and for the sake of argument lets assume you are - only focus on the loud, cockish men and the women they seem to be able to get.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/26 08:44 PM
2	Men Confuse Women Wanting Confident Men With Wanting “Assholes” The problem is when a man "prioritizes their work and hobbies", it often involves relegating labour to women. Even now there are still men who say "I'll have to give golf a miss because I have to babysit the kids". It's not that prioritizing work and having me time is toxic, it's that it is often done at the expense of women. If a man stays single in order to prioritise their career and lifestyle, who faults them for that? Nobody. Because they're not doing it at the expense of someone else makin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/26 03:48 PM
2	Women Keep Bringing Up Rape to Shut Down Male Concerns The problem is... The manosphere is a lot of what they believe women SHOULD do, while women are fighting to ask men to stop doing things they SHOULDN'T do. The baseline is quite different. When the baseline is loneliness vs rape, then yes, rape is always going to be in the conversation. The argument from the loneliness perspective is legit, but it also, unfortunately, reeks of entitlement. A lot of the arguments stemming from that topic usually end up blaming women for not giving in, whether emo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/26 12:44 PM
1	Women Keep Bringing Up Rape to Shut Down Male Concerns You're right, but I'd say that, to use your own analogy, scrubbing your bathroom is for hygiene and that takes priority over your herb bed. A herb bed overrun with weeds still isn't going to cause you sanitary problems like a manky bathroom would. So while both can be true and should be attended to, perhaps one needs to be solved more urgently than the other.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/04/26 12:35 PM
0	Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be. Exactly. I prefer the "find our match" approach. But seems like there are some men who expect to be given "equal attention". I'm not sure how that translates into reality for them.... Like, lurk in a corner acting mysterious and if no woman approaches them it's our fault? I dunno what to say.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/26 10:44 AM
1	Dating isn't fair and it shouldn't be. I agree largely with your comment, OP. Not sure about the other responses to you on evolution arguments because I think that is what many bitter men like to fall back on, slippery slope to incel thought. However, apart from the moral argument of basing perspectives on evolution.... There's also this sort of selective bias going on. Some men have this "men strong women weak so men choose" mentality. Evolutionarily speaking we could put aside morality and yeah, men would probably have a harem and/…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/26 10:27 AM
1	Women definitely equate (involuntarily) single men with losers The same can be said of the way men think of women. There is also the additional disadvantage of being considered less desirable once they're past a certain age - something that men suffer less from. A lot of other comments on women here can also be flipped to apply to men. In my (general) experience, the only time I would be suspicious of a single man is if he repeatedly claims he's "too nice" and complains that women never choose him - and this would be for any man, romantic or not. In all oth…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/25 09:20 AM
2	Men need to stop chasing women. Aiyoooooo cared enough to start a whole debate here then ignore any real debate. Lmao! You do you, bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 02:14 AM
1	Men need to stop chasing women. Metaphors and analogies reflect real concepts and thoughts. I think you need a bit of critical thinking here, and maybe reflection on hour hypocrisy (especially since you consider yourself a leader and provider yet don't want someone who needs to be led and provided for). Suppose women are a monolith and are all followers, and you expect them to come to you rather than having to "chase" them - who should they go to? Aren't they still having to choose which leader to follow? Or do you imagine all…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 01:58 AM
1	Men need to stop chasing women. Lmao. So you want sheep? Basically, you want a brainless woman so... I mean, those shouldn't be too difficult for you, no? What are you complaining about? Haha	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/06/25 01:40 AM
1	Men need to stop chasing women. In one of OP's comments: leaders shouldn't need to chase the people they're leading.... Leaders and protectors have to convince people to follow them. When politicians want the votes of the electorate, they are, in fact, chasing people to convince them they are worthy of their votes. And if there's more than one viable leader, why wouldn't followers look at all the options? Furthermore, what may look like a leader to one person may look like a loser to another based on individual values, or the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/25 02:33 PM