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Below is pretty golden This is a very touchy subject, right? I'm going to try and convey my thoughts very carefully here, so please try and be receptive. (Context for this is for your bog-standard straight courting scenario--I do not feel qualified to comment on how courting for any other gender scenario works.) ~ In an ideal world, everybody would communicate honestly and openly. You could sit down with a girl, and have a conversation like so: "Hi, I think you're attractive and I enjoy your com…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 08:51 PM
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This shouldn't really surprise any of us. Its well known that seduction material, or rather the idea that men can learn how to become more seductive, more attractive, and more sexual naturally disgusts women and likewise any white knights. Also, the techniques in any standard PUA material can easily be taken out of context as sexual assault, but the same can be said of your typical sex advice on Cosmo. (And I should add that I , and probably many others on this thread, have used the exact method…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/13 05:01 PM
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No, his mother was never on IBM's board. She was on the board of various unrelated non profits and for profit companies, where she met IBM's chairman at the time. Her influence on the matter is certainly not inconsequential, but you overstate it.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 02:33 PM
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He came from an upper middle class family.. certainly better off than most people but by no means enough to leverage their child into becoming a billionaire.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 08:58 PM
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Makes me think... if Tim fucking Duncan, the greatest power forward EVER, multi millionaire, and all around great human being (from what is reported to the press) cannot keep a faithful wife. What chance does regular joe have?
/r/TheRedPill26/05/13 04:20 PM
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Wow great news for guys. That's 3000$ dollars more than I thought he would get! (and something tells me he sold his virginity to a 50 year old gay man)
/r/TheRedPill22/05/13 03:41 AM
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Explain your characteristics that makes you an omega. Write them down. And start fixing them.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 12:20 AM
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Its amazing how many worthless non advice is in that thread.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 12:15 AM
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Wow you can literally feel the discomfort on the faces of some of these people.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/13 12:11 AM
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I think you are right in that "image" is more important than weight lifting. The scientific studies I've seen seem to imply that looking "fit" is more important the looking "muscular" and that the effort required in getting swole may not be worthwhile.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 06:25 PM
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Great topic, I'd also like to know what happened after the said insult was given.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 06:23 PM
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How about you date a girl that doesn't have her father bring a gang to beat you up.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/13 06:07 PM
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I don't think sexual tension and friendship is mutually exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/13 12:45 AM
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Don't rule out the slut in a bar either. They'd probably be easier once you mention you are in med school. Just go to the local watering hole on weekends, and start approaching them.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 11:59 PM
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Yes. Contrary to popular belief, there are females in this world who are actually interesting. If you don't know any, than you don't get out enough or don't get out to the right places ( you usually are not going to find interesting people at a night club called Kiss or Envy or whatever). Or perhaps maybe your only interests are watching football and playing video games, than by that definition you are unlikely to find girls that share your interests. You can even be friends with the beautiful o…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 11:48 PM
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Yes.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 11:38 PM
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TLDR; Study of dutch cyclists confirm that men take more risks.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 11:33 PM
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I WANT to hook-up, but the type of girl that hooks up will be turned off by a virgin. I feel like, at this stage, I have to be in a relationship to lose my virginity. Rationalization. They won't want a relationship with a virgin either, much less hook up with you. The best and only strategy is to fake it till you make it.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 11:27 PM
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I’ve waited so long, part of my brain says it needs to be special. Common rationalization here. Very destructive. It doesn't need to be special, because it wasn't special for the million of us that got laid the first time. Trust me. My first time sucked. Didn't even blow my load. Could barely get hard. You don't have to fuck a fat girl, but you can compromise and fuck an average looking girl. The med school girls split into a dichotomy: the straight-laced, professional, type As ... bla bla bla b…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/13 11:23 PM
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so? doesn't everyone wank it to porn?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 08:40 PM
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No need to engage with stupid people to defend your imaginary honor.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 08:34 PM
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Also: "What do you charge? A beer per hour? two beers? three?"
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 12:17 AM
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Sex sells. Nothing to do with misogyny or patriarch. Just the almighty dollar going to work on your ape brains.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/13 12:10 AM
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The evidence that men dig barely legal chicks is that there are laws against fucking 15 year olds.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/13 06:58 PM
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Heartiste would say go back to your country.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 05:35 AM
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Lose weight. Pretty simple really. 2 kids is a bummer, but not a deal breaker if you are actually attractive. I've seen it done.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 05:33 AM
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I would say just keep plowing and pushing until she expresses total disgust with you. And remember to keep other options open.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 05:23 AM
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It would be very interesting to hear more homosexual perspective on the red pill theory. I know that male female sexual dynamics is the meat and bones of this subreddit, but I think male male sexual dynamics would be quite revealing about what the we (males) expect in a mate regardless of orientation.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 05:10 AM
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Question for you, and I'm not trying to criticize you, I'm genuinely curious. How do you find the energy to go out four nights a week? Do you sometimes get tired of it or has it become something like a routine now? What kind of job do you have?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/13 05:04 AM
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It will be once more and more people opt out of getting married and having kids. But I don't see any where in the article where tax dollar was used for her particular instance.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 04:14 AM
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you know she could just be an ugly nice girl who no one wanted to fuck.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/13 04:13 AM
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ribbonfarm and the main author venkatesh rao (he did not write this particular article) is really good. I'd recommend everyone to read his stuff on the Gervais Principle. http://www.ribbonfarm.com/2009/10/07/the-gervais-principle-or-the-office-according-to-the-office/
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 08:16 PM
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Great advice here. Maybe say something like "oh you're gonna be paying right?" (playfully) and than giving her shit about it would have been good. Also I think sometimes the standard PUA advice of never paying for drinks is not always correct in some situations if you can afford it. You can get so stubbornly caught up in not paying for the drink that you lose your playful frame.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/13 03:14 PM
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All government rests ultimately on force, to which women, owing to physical, moral and social reasons are not capable of contributing. Why? Women's ability to use force is understated, that is typical red pill knowledge. They are fully capable of committing spousal violence, bullying .. etc. to get what they want Women are not capable of full citizenship for the simple reason that they are not available for purposes of national and imperial defence. The effect of introducing a large female eleme…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 11:13 PM
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Kim Jong Um probablly gets laid like a asian Wilt Chamerberlain on a triple dosage of viagra. And also note the hilarious title of this article : Genghis Khan a Prolific Lover, DNA Data implies. Something tells me that "Prolific Rapist" might be more accurate... but hey all is fair in the name of gene spreading. http://news.nationalgeographic.com/news/2003/02/0214_030214_genghis.html
/r/TheRedPill04/05/13 12:06 AM
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I find it to be very dogmatic. While his cites his pick up material with scientific evidence, he often disregards it for his politics. Very romantic view of the past, and not all the interesting. Almost sounds like typical right wing rhetoric that I hear on FOX news. Below is the typical anecdotal rambling that comes out of his mouth that I end up "meh"-ing. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/05/02/fatter-wimpier-more-pathetic/
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 11:18 PM
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I think the red pill is inherently about individual optimization with traces of nihilism. Whenever PUA types start talking about politics (heartsie does this all the time) I cringe because here is a guy that is concerned solely with self optimization and at the same time he is trying to push a political agenda. There's an obvious conflict of interest there. No politician can win once its been revealed that he's running for his own self interest. The red pill being a political movement is about a…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 08:13 PM
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This is a great example of "hamstering", as it puts together a lot of things that makes our ape brain fuck us over. I think we can all learn a lot from her as none of us are immune to the effect of hamstering to a certain extent. Here are the things she does: a complete disregard for social dynamics and human intentions (What she thinks: I fucked a lot of guys even though I'm fat. Reality: guys will fuck anything that moves) inflating small victories (wow a guy can pick me up! amazing! everyone …
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 03:11 PM
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True, but in a modern nation where families don't need to pop out ten babies to cover the mortality rate, and where automatic machinery takes care of most of the house work, the work of a "housewife" is much less time consuming.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 01:19 PM
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When it comes down to it: Maximize my own happiness, and minimize things that can make me unhappy. The three things that makes me happy is money, time, and sex so I try to get more of it. Anything that reduces the amount of money, time , and sex I have makes me unhappy.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 02:32 AM
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Lower your standards and marry an ugly girl. If you make sure your SMV is way higher for her to ever upgrade, you have a good chance. The downside is that you are married to an ugly girl. Some guys can handle that, some guys can't.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 02:26 AM
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For those who doubt that he his alpha (thanks to thebears1986 for digging this up): http://imgur.com/a/gkaFt
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 02:09 AM
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Hahaha, we have a winner, the argument is over. This guy is certified alpha.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 02:08 AM
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has allowed large companies like Berkshire Hathaway to keep wages depressed due to the flood of excess labour entering the job market. Which is what makes a modern economy more competitive than a nation like Saudi Arabia, which has decided to just keep 50% of their workforce at home. Women entering the workforce is just part of the constant human drive for efficiency.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 12:30 AM
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He's right. And Bill Gates said the same thing as well in Saudi Arabia. Basically saying how Saudi Arabia will never be competitive with a modern nation until it allows its women to work. The simple truth is that a society which utilizes 100% of its potential workforce is more effective than a society which utilizes only 50% of its potential workforce. The red pill sometimes focuses too much on the game theory that goes on between male and female interaction, and forgets the game that goes on be…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/13 12:24 AM
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Very interesting hypothesis. It would be interesting to see a study that compares the rate of reported rape (or perhaps activity level of anti rape campaigns) in colleges to the male female ratio of the college.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 02:17 PM
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Depends. 40k in NYC is minimum wage. 40k in Montana is very comfortable.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 02:09 PM
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This is what happens when , as a guy, you marry someone who makes more money and works harder than you. I would really like to see some statistics on the divorce rate of these kinds of couples, would be interesting. EDIT: something I found http://www.slate.com/articles/business/the_dismal_science/2012/12/women_who_earn_more_than_men_men_don_t_like_it.html
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 01:55 PM
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hahaha, so true. The only reason single people travel is to get laid really.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/13 05:06 AM
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If the cost of paying for sex is lower than going out there and getting it yourself, than I'd say it is efficiently using your resources, and thus not beta.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 05:03 AM
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Most women are significantly more aware of everything than you think From my experience, two types of women understand the reality of attraction, impulses, and society (the so called red pill) much better than other people. Very attractive girls, and very unattractive girls that are not fat. Very attractive girls understand from a young age what society looks for in a women, and that she can use her natural talent to get what she wants. Very unattractive girls understand from a young age what so…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 04:51 AM
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I need feminism because that's one less competition i have to deal with.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/13 02:19 AM
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nerdy seems to have somehow morphed into a synonym for intelligent these days.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 10:33 PM
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Watching this makes me remember that the majority of people are not interested in scientific and logical discourse. They just want to look at flashy graphics and feel good about what they already know.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 04:18 AM
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If you value your friends, don't fuck them. If you don't value your friends, fuck them. Pretty simple really. Not sure what kid of answers you are expecting.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 04:14 AM
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And demisexual
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 01:22 AM
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I mean, this is just someone else's anecdotal evidence against my anecdotal evidence, but I look at the dudes that are getting married /have married/ or have a LTR girlfriend and a lot of them do not have more than one of the components mastered. In the end this stuff is just impossible to quantify, especially across time so everything is just speculation.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 12:39 AM
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I don't buy it. What evidence are you using to suggest the model in 1953 looked liked that? Are you taking into account that it was much much harder to get laid in 1953 due to the stigma attached to sex? Even today I see a whole lot of men that has only one of the three component mastered but doing quite well in terms of finding a mating partner. This just looks like PUA anecdotal bias to me.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/13 12:17 AM
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Selfish, entitled narcissism is not natural for women, but it is normal for modern American women, and it is a behaviour we can point out and correct. I agree with your other comments but I don't buy this. American women are more selfish and entitled because the US is the wealthiest country in the world and they have to rely less on men to get food and put a roof on their head. It is entirely natural for them under the context of the environment. There's nothing you can do to correct this except…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/13 06:17 PM
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According to the standard PUA evo psych hypothesis, men strive for these supposedly intangible things precisely so they will get sex from it somehow. We may not recognize it consciously, but the underlying drive for all male desire is to stand out from other males so that we will be more attractive mating partners EDIT: I thought about this and I'm going to rephrase it. I believe the reason "thumos" exists is because men with "thumos" have a better chance of spreading their genes (sexual fitness…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/13 04:13 AM
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what the hell is going on in that gif
/r/TheRedPill27/04/13 05:35 PM
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Related legal question. When you marry a girl with a kid, does the dad of the kid still pay child support? And what happens when YOU get divorced? Do you and the dad of the kid BOTH pay child support?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/13 01:53 PM
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It is more likely that such a behavior will probably continue, than if the girl was a prude.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/13 05:27 AM
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The PUA community never talks about this but we all must face the reality that someday we will grow too old and no amount of game will help us fuck 20 year olds left and right. For some , this happens much earlier than others.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/13 10:33 PM
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Actually, attractive girls intentionally lowers their smv with weird looking cloth so they don't get hit on so often by betas. That is my theory at least.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 05:20 AM
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I'd define an alpha female as a female that is able to marry a wealthy/high status male that will provide her and her children with material needs ( so by this definition, she must be attractive, or extremely lucky). She will always keep an eye out for potential upgrades while keeping the current mate under her vagina powers. The stereotypical "dumpy" chick who kind of looks like a lez and cockblocks you are the omegas of the female sex (unless if they are actually lesbians, which they sometimes…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 05:15 AM
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Everyone has a limit on how much Machiavellianism and cost benefit analysis they can handle in their life. Too much and life becomes meaningless, too little and ignorance catches up to you.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 04:44 AM
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On a somewhat less serious note, JK Rowling (Harry potter author) said in an interview somewhere that she was disturbed by the number of young girls who were big fans of the Draco Malfoy (one of the bad guys) character. They start young, don't they.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 12:30 AM
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"a man's SMV is more likely to go up, while a woman's is more likely to go down." It may be more accurate (from the graph) to state that while both men and women's SMV is likely to decline after age 25-29, men's SMV declines at a much slower rate than women.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/13 12:23 AM
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People here overstate a women's propensity to cheat. Also, as others have stated, "hypergamy" refers to a women's propensity to upgrade to a better partner (generally in terms of welath/status), has nothing to do with frequency of cheating. People here in general don't care about maintaining a long term monogomous marriage.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/13 01:23 PM
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Just don't look like one of those greasy haired nerds in trench coats.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/13 09:17 AM
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My feets were blown off in nam you cruel bastard.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/13 02:03 AM
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I forgot who said this but I find it true: "Intellectuals are people who has discovered something more interesting than sex" If you are one of those people congrats. There is no right way to live, and we choose how we optimize our own happiness. In the end we all die and nothing matters. Alternatively you could consider a vasectomy to lower your risk.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/13 02:00 AM
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and men accumulate money so they can pay for their services.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/13 12:13 AM
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Networking and Status Symbol. You can't put a value on that and its worth every penny. I would say the actual content of the education is maybe no more than 25% better compared to a mid tier school. However, a lot of kids these days are going to Ivy leagues and doing fuck-all with it ( you'd be surprised at the number of ivy league grads working as baristas). You have to have a realistic career goal, network with the right people, and have a useful major.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/13 01:17 PM
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Well let's give them credit for the top voted comment : I'm of the mind that if he has been upfront that he isn't willing to commit then that is his business. I personally don't feel comfortable saying that anyone has an obligation to get into a relationship if that isn't what they want. Society has been telling us for years it isn't ok for a woman to do what your male friend is doing and many are fighting hard to eliminate the stigma associated with that behavior for women. I don't think it fai…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/13 01:10 PM
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emm.... sounds like your grandfather just has a gambling addiction.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/13 01:08 PM
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Not to mention that if she's hot, she'll be hit on by some future brain surgeon hot shots. You better cross your fingers.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/13 01:33 AM
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What are you in grad school for? If its creating writing or some bullshit you are fucked.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/13 01:32 AM
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not saying that this is the case here, but depression and medication can change a person's personality a lot.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/13 12:17 AM
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Good catch. This actually explains a lot.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 06:51 PM
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what I meant was that we don't import a disproportionate number of people from africa to play in the NBA.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 03:51 AM
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Dirk Nowitzki, Manu Ginobli, Vlade Divac, Andrei Kirienko, Ricky Rubio, Mehmet Okur... :)
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 03:38 AM
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I agree that race can be a factor. But saying that "black people dominate sports" is an over generalization. It would be more accurate to say African Americans dominate the sport of basketball, certain positions in american football, and short distance sprinting. Sprinting is dominated mostly by jamaicans, who are also of slave origin. Marathons are dominated by ethiopians and kenyans. From what I know, there is no above average soccer team in africa.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 03:35 AM
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Or don't marry when you are in the military.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 03:13 AM
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you have to take into account that black americans are slaves that have been selectively bred for their physicality for several generations. There is a reason why we don't import black people from africa to play in the NBA.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 03:02 AM
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customers you have to deal with and ultimately, spending your day in front of computer. This is pretty much true of any modern job that pays a decent wage and doesn't involve putting yourself in harms way. The grass is always greener on the other side.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 03:20 PM
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From scientific studies and personal observations, the average intelligence or capability (in any way you measure, excluding athleticism) of women is slightly higher than the average of men. However, men have a much higher variance in intelligence compared to women. Thus men are much more likely to be extremely stupid or extremely brilliant. This explains why high achievers through out recorded history is mostly men. This also explains the higher cases of autism in boys, and the astoundingly hig…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 02:40 PM
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I recently moved from an area where I had a lot of friends and acquaintances to a place where I didn't know any body. A wide social circle is the single most valuable thing when meeting women. So I'm trying to create it from scratch which is harder said than done.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 01:19 PM
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My guess is that many of them are either college or high school students, and have never had a real job or been responsible for their entire living expenses. Once you go out in the real world, you'd have to be crazy to not take the housewife route. Hell I'd take that in a heart beat.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 01:54 AM
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If I was a women, why would I bother working a 9-5 if I can latch onto a rich kid and cruise for the rest of my life? Women , particularly attractive women, always have that option.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 01:48 AM
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Just found this subreddit, and looks interesting is all. Makes me remember when I took the red pill, although I never called it that.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 06:04 AM
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If you are looking at 8/10 type girls, the competition is immense. They can get upwards of 10 messages a day, 25 views (depends on location, and how attractive they are) They will probably respond to 1 or 2 messages a day at the very most. So you literally have to be in the top 10 percentile of profiles to have any chance. For the most attractive girls, you will definitely need to be in the top 1 percentile. In some sense, it is easier to meet these girls in real life because the number of males…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 05:50 AM
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Dating in real life is not all that different. There are variables you have to optimize, and if they are not optimized, women will not give you the light of day. Frustration is not a variable you should be optimizing. Women can smell a frustrated male from a mile away like sharks. I'm not trying to offend you, just trying to offer advice.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 05:38 AM
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Perhaps you should try reading the male profiles. In my opinion, it is equally devoid of any content and signs of intelligence. It may help you make your profile more efficient if you know what the average male profile looks like. The "replied selectively" is based on percentage of replies to received messages. That means they are receiving enough messages from guys that they can filter some out. So are they entitled, or are they just optimizing? IMO, your feeling of contempt and perhaps frustra…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/13 05:23 AM
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The only problem is that there are no girls at metal concerts.
/r/seduction10/06/11 04:23 PM
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george clooney
/r/seduction07/06/11 08:26 PM
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I think it can be the right move if you know you have the girl under your thumb. Yes she may be asking "why doesn't he find me attractive?", but that is only increasing her attraction towards you. As long as it doesn't come across as you being a wuss, doing this may be the difference between a one night stand and a month of free sex. Denying the girls sex portrays you as a man who has options,and isn't desperately humping the first slut that offers herself to you. It'll also disarm her slut-shie…
/r/seduction06/06/11 04:40 AM
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There are cute girls there. But obviously, competition for them will be high. My female friend ( solid 8) signed up for it and she got like a dozen messages within in the first two or three hours.
/r/seduction03/06/11 07:58 PM
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it certainly helps if you don't live in a shit hole
/r/seduction01/06/11 03:42 PM
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jocks like FOOTBALL.
/r/seduction31/05/11 08:08 PM
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