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FINE AF FRIDAYSgrmpygills/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:41 AM
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I’m insanely out of the loop - what’s going on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/22 02:30 AM
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It would consist of how good they look in a Speedo, white tie attire, and business wear while they interview, talent would go the same, but add in bench presses, deadlifts, and calf raises. Maybe some hand-to-hand combat if we’re going by the “traditional societal roles” as a “protector”. Oh and debate - how well do they present an argument using logic and a calm voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/22 10:00 PM
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Oh god - what does that even …how does one…?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:22 AM
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Is this copyrighted? Are we allowed to make this a template of some sort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:17 PM
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I am in zero rush to get married. So many other things to do and frankly I hate weddings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 10:08 PM
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Like yourself, I have this whole plan for myself, in my conscious I say it’s because I want to make the world better (work as a doctor, move onto ethics, then go into policy work), but my subconscious is more likely that the higher goals I set for myself, the more I feel the need to work harder and longer. One of the few things that has ever made me feel free was a conversation with my ex roommate’s SO. We talked about meditation and mindfulness - one of the lines that resonated with me was “lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 06:29 AM
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I used to get really envious of all my friends that were making six figures at 23. Meanwhile, there I am working in a hospital making less than half what they make. I feel that career-wise, but not socially. I really don’t feel like i need to get married right away or have kids - and most of my friends are married with children. Socially, I feel fulfilled most of the time, but in terms of my career, I have a long way to go. It makes me wonder if I’ll feel that sense of pride and accomplishment -…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:32 AM
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An inability to feel fulfilled?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:43 AM
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Not OP, but she did say she grew up in a very happy, healthy, loving home as an only child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:10 AM
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You got this bruh A lot of that self worth is going to come from your own accomplishments and what you can provide for yourself emotionally, financially, and mentally. As the old saying goes, just do you, girl. Live for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:31 PM
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Nope. Never changing it. Ever. My last name is part of me. As an adoptee, I don’t need another name change. I don’t need to be “absorbed” yet again by someone else. I am me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 10:24 PM
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I was born single and it is my natural state. Wait. I love this so much - it really puts so much into perspective. I can’t believe how much this resonates with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 06:03 PM
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Think about all your married/non-single friends - would you want to be in their relationships? Are they with HV people? Because for me, my friend’s SOs aren’t, like, amazing. At all. Maybe one of them is and she’s older than me. Idk when I was single, that’s what I would focus on - you could be in that relationship or in that marriage if* you wanted to be, but did you really want to be when you looked around you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:38 PM
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To be honest, the handbook and therapy are going to be your best friends in this one. The main goal for FDS is being comfortable and happy with being alone - forever, if that’s what it takes - because we won’t be able to vet for that HVM properly if we’re clouded by trauma. You’ve had so much happen to you that no one should ever experience. Parents are supposed to love you unconditionally because you have no choice but to trust them and lean on them for support when you are young. To break the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/21 04:32 PM
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I replaced all the male pronouns with female pronouns while I read this. Now it makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:26 PM
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Oh my Jesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:21 PM
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Oooh ho ho - “trade-like” in social approach. Now that is way too accurate. Same with my friend - feeling like she’s owed in all her relationships, romantic or otherwise, for her “hard work and effort” she put in. But mostly from female friends. Now I’m all for “what am I getting out of this friendship” because ultimately, I’m not a doormat, but there’s a difference between being mutually supportive because you’re friends and expecting support (or anything else for that matter) simply because yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:51 PM
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Fucking facts. I have a serious pickme friend - only into the FDS or “feminist” messages when she’s single and then suddenly she disappears when she finds a new dude who, lo and behold, doesn’t want to commit. But they’re “so good and treat me so nice”, that she sticks around, does everything for them and gets hung up on the fact that they buy her things and now she feels like they’re HV even though they “don’t want anything serious right now”. Cue hysterics when it doesn’t work out. Cue me havi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:41 AM
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My problem is forgetting to even write it down in the first place ;-;
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:32 AM
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Remember that time you got up from an important task to go make a cup of coffee and then realized you were cleaning the bathroom three hours later? Yeah me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 01:46 AM
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“Meant no harm” HAHAHAHAHAHAH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 12:56 AM
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Also that girl (right next to him), it’s subtle because the girlfriend is in the foreground but she leans away and back from the boyfriend as if she was leaning into him before they came into the room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 03:38 AM
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This one time, I was at a wedding talking to my new friend about how sad I was when my dad died. He thought it was a great opportunity when I’m almost in tears to ask if I wanted to fool* around. The worst part was he was already married. Later on I found out he received not one, but two blow jobs from women at the wedding. Neither were his wife. No one said a word. ETA: we did not remain friends after the wedding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:22 AM
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He wrote “will you marry me” in the snow - in pee! So romantic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 01:20 AM
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Judgy? You mean accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:15 PM
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But they’re fine!! The bride said so - and everyone knooowws that if you’re in an abusive relationship, it’s just so easy to pick up and leave! So because she’s still there and thinks it’s funny, it’s totally fine!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 07:15 PM
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So listened to the podcast yesterday and it’s so crazy how people really can’t say exactly what they want from a relationship aside from the bare basics. We are literally conditioned to think bare basics is enough for a relationship - forget compatibility in all other areas. Forget intellectual equals or goals. Forget aesthetics and personality. He just has to treat you like a human and like you. Cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:53 PM
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In the same vein, if he could not come home at any given moment, he should be doing everything he can to make life easy for her. Aka. Pick up his damn shorts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 06:56 AM
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I remember people taking this stance with gun control after Sandy Hook - fucking when then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:56 PM
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Well, well, said. I’ve been watching one of my favorite WOC activists get torn apart on social media for even suggesting the above while her white counterparts are praised for their insight into the issue. From whom this message is coming also matters and determines who will listen and respect what is being said. POC are tired of non-POC thinking this shit is new or that it doesn’t happen simply because it’s not happening as much to people who look like them. I feel your sentiments about having …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:15 PM
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And people be on the front page saying “oooohhh it’s a partnership and if he buys you shoes, you buy him a suit”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 04:06 PM
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Men: says they’re easy Also men: pays for numerous tips and tricks, researches pick up lines and manipulation tactics, plans out evening to a T to get her back to his place, then complains women are easy. Seems like a lot of work for “easy”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 05:25 PM
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Also someone who thinks all Asian culture comes from anime and then tries to take on these stereotypical characteristics to pass themselves off as Asian or to satisfy their own Asian fetish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:59 PM
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I don’t understand how legalizing prostitution would decrease human trafficking. Wouldn’t that just make human trafficking an official business?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 07:08 PM
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Lucky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:12 PM
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This is a guy that complains about how $30 non-nickel free CZ engagement rings on Amazon are too expensive and the kind of girl that reasons a ring pop was the right economical and ecological choice for their future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 12:01 AM
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There’s a famous photo of a woman who had died by suicide. It’s called like the most elegant death or something. She had tied her legs together with her hosiery so that she didn’t show herself indecently during and after her jump from a tall building. The level at which this thinking and oppression is ingrained. Incredible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:54 AM
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So much entitlement to our attention, our space, our time. This is the mindset they fall into when they don’t realize that no one owes them anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 08:07 PM
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It sounds like pure victim blaming for the sake of their own thoughts on how to survive both as a “feminist” and in a world built to oppress. Instead of setting boundaries for themselves and leaving when they’re crossed (and telling their friends when enough is enough), they see this as “both sides being toxic” because they don’t want to realize their own complacency in the patriarchy as a lib fem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:00 PM
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She even said they intentionally had their first child while not married because “they” didn’t want to be married yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:51 AM
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On the topic of moving in with someone before being married, I came across a post about a 23yo woman who had not one, but two children with her military boyfriend of 5 years (she said they were planned), took care of the kids and house while not employed and he was deployed, and wondered why he hadn’t proposed yet after five years and two kids. She went onto update that they just got engaged, but no ring, no formal question - just her fiancé saying “consider yourself engaged” and the plan to mar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:19 AM
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Bruhhhh seriously - I had a friend decide to buy her own nice jewelry ($3k ring) and I can tell you she feels way more proud of it than if her ex had bought it for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 06:02 AM
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Can someone explain this to me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:03 PM
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Cuz like women aren’t people. They’re objects to be rated and used for sex. Duhhhhhhhhhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 05:46 AM
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Don’t forget the glasses and the paint covered clothes indicating she actually had hobbies and value but none of it mattered because of how she looked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 08:07 PM
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Classic - do nothing, be nothing, get woman. Profit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 03:01 AM
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But it’s so common - and sheds so easily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:46 AM
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Is there a sign up sheet for your coven
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:48 PM
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So I’ve been convinced to watch this and I’ve noticed that almost every single one refers to the bachelorette as ‘girl’. I have never watched this show before but have low expectations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 11:38 PM
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Omg I saaaaawwwww this and I just had to LAUGH - publicity bruh! I love it, it’s like the ultimate self-aware wolves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:54 AM
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Puahahahahahahaa - boy bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:26 AM
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I enjoy that these people are actually addressing men and their issues in how they view relationships. I’m so tired of seeing this burden fall solely on women when there are men that understand what they should be doing, but don’t speak up. And like we always know, men only listen to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:32 PM
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And then he’ll go “I had no idea about her peanut allergy” when she’s dead and the cops will be like “oh okay, that’s cool, yeah no big deal buddy” And then he’ll go his whole life knowing that he killed her and even convincing himself that he really didn’t know any better. She was just a dumb bitch who didn’t know how to speak up for herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:26 PM
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So his ego and pride is bigger than her deadly allergies. Literally he can’t believe someone has a peanut allergy let alone his significant other and attributes her lack of wanting to eat his food to simple snubbing? How self-fucking-centered can you be? Let alone how stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 05:30 AM
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So I’ve never seen My Bestfriend’s Wedding. I got my second COVID shot and decided. Fuck it, it’s movie time and sat (laid) down to watch it. Fucking. Awful. Hella pickmes EVERYWHERE. And it is so so egregious. I was disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:34 PM
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Can we talk about this fact for a second. That everything portrayed in movies and tv just inherently praises the pickme/scrote culture. In addition to music. This has really gotten to me lately. I can’t listen to a lot of music with lyrics anymore. I feel both happy, liberated, and severely depressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:06 PM
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Uh, yes. That’s...that’s the point - and I’ve known plenty of doctors that want to work as long as possible because they love their work. So...like. Yeah. But he thinks all that is an insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:30 PM
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My best friend had this issue. Her SO made insane money but always settled for like, mid-tier gifts. He wasn’t the best for her anyway and she broke up with him. Went out and bought her own shit. It’s not like she couldn’t - she always could, but it was the gesture and show of generosity that was just never there with him. But also, as much as I would love to be spoiled - it sometimes feels like something that would be held over my head. I bought this for you - why can’t you now do xyz and it do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:24 AM
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Pretty sure our motto is somewhere along the lines of leveling up? Not “stooping”. Also, revenge? What revenge? I’m here to let go of the hate and simply be able to be. Be me. Be what I want. Be who I want. Without all this male nonsense asking me to stoop to their level and telling me I should hate myself. But if revenge is all that - getting my shit together and being the best version of myself, sure I’m out for revenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:46 PM
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Legit no one can say anything about this video except how she’ll take what they give her and how ugly she is, but like, uh, no she won’t. Because she just said that, and oh look at all the insults to her physical appearance even though in any other context they’d be drooling and fapping all over the place. Like please, you really think she’s ugly? No, because if she posted that as OP anywhere you’d be begging for a fucking date. They mad cuz she has standards. Go figure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:18 PM
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Fucking preach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 03:32 PM
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Holy shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:25 AM
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Fuckin Cillian Murphy....yaaaas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:31 PM
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I’m screaming!! 🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 08:26 AM
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Tell me more? - I haven’t heard this either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:54 PM
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Possible to be romantically attracted to either sex while only being physically attracted to oneself? Or vice versa - but will let them speak for themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:41 PM
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Ugh I literally hate people. Like. Logical thinking is beyond the majority of them. There’s something mildly entertaining though about seeing FDS mentioned in a comment outside this subreddit, and reading all the ignorance, nonsense, and jealously that follows. And, pan/bi here who would employ all of FDS to any of my relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:40 PM
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It’s the same thing as when you see anywhere a woman behaving “badly” and then suddenly men have their excuse to bully, degrade, and abuse said woman - essentially to take out all their frustrations and hate of women on a woman who now “deserves it”. They use the lib fem-isms to attack the woman “cishets” because it’s that much easier to drive a wedge between an already divided group than one already united under patriarchal ideals. Also, is it really true the majority of us are cishet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:19 PM
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My pick me friend uses daddy. I try not to talk about certain topics with her cuz it makes me want to vom ETA: uses daddy with her fuckbois
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:43 AM
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I have been dropping hints of FDS to my friends for a couple months and none of them have really picked up on it. Either because it’s a lot of reading and learning and they just don’t want to do it, or they don’t get that it can actually be different. If they ask me relationship questions I try to respond from an FDS perspective but usually it sort of goes over their heads. Literally I had friend say “pick me, pick me” when she was describing how she wants this guy but he’s not sure what he want…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:39 PM
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being a virgin I don’t want a slut I’m dead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 05:35 PM
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Or he gets extremely butt hurt if she happens to actually win so subsequent games are spent with her purposefully losing so she doesn’t have to deal with the pity party aftermath
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:47 AM
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Power and control with none of the responsibilities or effort to go along with it. It’s the male adult version of the toddler “gimme gimme gimme” phase, but like the same with babies, there’s no accountability or reciprocity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:46 PM
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How much you wanna bet he wouldn’t even be able to afford them, let alone putting all those kids through college
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:48 AM
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This may be entirely incorrect but from what I can remember when I listened to a conversation about this a long time ago was that a reason men might see baggy clothes as “fashionable” or something is because when you went to prison, you didn’t ever really get your size. It was basically whatever you got and usually it was bigger. This look was emulated by the youth who either knew someone or had someone in their household go to prison - it was like the “tough guy” look. But full disclaimer - I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:46 AM
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Well poop. I want a unicorn. But I guess the narwhal will have to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:34 AM
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Holy cut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:35 AM
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Wait. I thought there were only 3.5billion people on this earth. Why do I keep seeing this fake news about 7 billion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:13 AM
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What’s not real?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:13 AM
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I also just have to throw this out here because I’ve been following this account for ages. Usually this photographer has subjects that are veterans or something else who have had amputations and...well there’s no excuse for not working out. https://instagram.com/stokes_photo?igshid=zii43hl76ryl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:54 PM
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Can’t? Don’t want to control themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:07 PM
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Can confirm. Am Asian
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:45 PM
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The jawline, the piercing eyes - ;-;
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:33 PM
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If anyone has watched bob’s burgers, they’ll know that Louise has this thing where she develops this crush on a boy band member named BooBoo. And the whole episode she can’t admit that she has a crush, she simply says she wants to slap him. I want to slap Henry Golding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:32 PM
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Can anyone say Daniel Dae Kim or Henry Golding? Because DAMN. Fine ass men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:13 PM
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Yuck - who wiped their shoe in that inbox
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:22 PM
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No you’re right - sometimes we get sidetracked from the strategy and look to commiserating instead of moving forward. While it’s good to see where we shouldn’t be, it doesn’t do us any good if that’s all we focus on. I like that this sub focuses on the prevention rather than fixing the aftermath. A lot of things in life could use this type of thinking - one that comes to mind is medicine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:32 AM
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Ahhh I see what you’re saying. To that I agree. What is it here for? I suppose the only hope in this is that there are teens that see FDS and maybe a post like this could be eye-opening? But still, misery porn is a good term for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:59 AM
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I agree with you. I feel the same a lot of the time. But I think I can have a bit more sympathy in this situation since this girl can clearly not make the right decisions for herself as she is still a child. Her brain isn’t even fully developed yet. It’s not necessarily a deliberate choice by her given it sounds like she was preyed upon. However I’m sure she had friends who told her how much of a bad idea it was to get involved with him and we should really learn to listen to the people around u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 05:33 AM
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Did you steal any of those?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:58 AM
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This is a form of assault.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:54 AM
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Hey now. That’s not fair - don’t insult the reef fish like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:49 AM
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Because news outlets are mainly run by men sympathetic to their male counterparts - “who knows why he did it - he had a rough childhood, his mother beat him, he was mentally unstable - he had a good excuse.” They actively can’t condemn them because that would mean their “not all men” argument has cause for invalidation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:51 PM
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This is the kind of support women need from each other - who else is going to look out for us if we don’t do it ourselves? Good on you, OP, for recognizing need and worth, and utilizing your own resources and privilege to provide to those that need it. I hope to do the same as you one day when I am able.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:33 PM
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And let’s be honest - it’s not that these men don’t want to date women their age, it’s that they can’t date women their age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:38 AM
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“I date younger women because they don’t come with all the baggage that I caused; I also date younger women because I get to feel superior to someone who hasn’t even started living their life yet. I know I’ve had opportunities to, but I’m just a lazy, self-absorbed piece of shit.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:55 AM
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After this convo, it’s easy to see why we would want to resist this post. In general, we want our power and our choices and our thoughts to be our own - to be told otherwise is to shed light on just how powerless we are in fighting off our subconscious and our conditioning. But to accept that as an inevitable is what helps the growth away from it to true enlightenment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:35 AM
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I completely understand where you’re coming from and the importance of breaking it down to extract our reasonings behind our outer beauty standards. Although I do not feel I prioritize meeting these standards in my life, perhaps it is still something I subconsciously do simply because I have been conditioned. I may not wear make up every day, if it all, but I am still concerned with clear skin and a small waistline. To OP’s point, is this for me or is this for society? While I may consciously te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 11:57 PM
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I used to stay up super late at home and just play with looks - crazy eyeliner and all of the colors - elongate my eyebrows and create different lip patterns
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:44 PM
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It definitely makes sense, and I think sometimes i do choose to look a particular way standard to what would maybe be pleasing to the patriarchy. But I also enjoy experimenting in looks inspired by fantastical ideas which I don’t know if that falls under the patriarchal beauty standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 08:41 PM
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I have a hard time connecting with this - possibly because I just have never worn make up regularly (or do much of anything regularly) and I really don’t like dressing up much. But to be honest, there have been many a time where I do full face make up to sit on my couch and watch Netflix. I will dress up in my club gear and make dinner to do nothing. Because that’s when I feel like doing it. Sure it’s great if there’s a socially appropriate reason to do it, but I do it whenever I please because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:24 PM
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Let me tell you about my NV ex...I was awful back then for sticking around. 3.5 yrs together and he was unemployed for about 21mos of that because he was laid off the first time, then didn’t like that his boss yelled at him for not working hard (a lady boss) so he got himself fired. What a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:05 PM
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Wait so you’re saying guys actually just need to be a decent human being - and treat women like living, breathing people - to get laid? 🤯 Gosh if only it were that easy. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:00 PM
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So I used to work at this really awful clothing company rhyming with Eatingzombies and Fish and my boss used to make me go around the mall to “recruit” people - but “only the pretty people”. And while I completely disagreed with what the company stood for, when my boss said “you’ll realize that no one is actually that good looking” I suddenly also realized that it is not wrong...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:21 AM
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Talk about dramatic - you’d think the director of the soap opera he stars in would want him to save that energy for when he finds out the girl he’s cheating on his gf with is actually his dad’s uncle’s wife’s son’s step daughter - and she just left him for a healthy, stable relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:40 PM
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Yes - continue to paint us as crazy and irrational. Please. We love it. And the treatment that comes along with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:24 AM
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Omigod this is excellent PAY. THESE. BILLS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:14 PM
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They see us as using them for dinner because they use us for sex and cleaning and emotional support. He can’t fathom that a relationship would actually require work and effort and being above the bare minimum. He sees women as owing him something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:18 PM
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I seriously identify with her explanation on race - I was a self-hating POC for the longest time growing up because I was pretty much the only one that was a POC in my school. No matter what I did, I was always “that token POC”, and I internalized a lot of that to the point where I made myself neglect and hate that part of me and denounce it every chance I got. It wasn’t until I actually got out of that state and connected with other people that looked like me where I began to appreciate more wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:07 AM
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People always used to try to insult me by saying I had no feelings (I wouldn’t get overly emotional about dumb shit) and call me scary. Good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:41 AM
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Oh yes! - this is so true, which is why I always held my friends closer than a romantic partner, especially in my early 20s. If there was a totem pole, my friends were always on top.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 01:50 AM
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My consistent style of dating interviews involves a bit of ball busting - full agree. If they take offense or get upset, no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 05:22 AM
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Ngl, when I’m angry, the dude will know it. He will hear it. And I do not backdown. This is excellent advice because it shows the person you will take no bullshit - don’t come at me with the ‘irrational woman’ mantra, I will cut you down six ways to Sunday about why you’re wrong. I’m not here to stroke your ego or coddle your hurt feelings, especially when you’ve hurt mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:53 PM
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It really makes you stop and realize why so many men decide to get with their secretaries, babysitters, assistants, etc. literally they’re attracted to a woman’s ability to organize their lives and do all the work for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:33 PM
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The only reason I know how to clean a bathroom today is because of my dad - every Monday I wanna say was bathroom cleaning day and yeah I had to clean my bathroom. Wish my NV brother could have learned too (he had other issues aside from parenting) cuz now I’ve been that stereotypical chick who knows how to clean a bathroom really well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:58 PM
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Another part about the adoption that I think people sometimes glance over is that this is serious trauma for a child in general - there have been a lot of studies about the subconscious trauma of being taken away from a biological mother at birth that carries on through adulthood. Sometimes even unknown to the adoptee, but causes such subtle, still harmful, effects in life. And this is regardless of whether or not the home they’re placed in is ‘good’. So yeah guys, look out for number one: You. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:10 PM
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