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| 2 | Dealing With Attached Girls & Cognitive Dissonance?Well done. Well written. You show all the important qualities: a sound mind to evaluate and re-evaluate your principles. A good practical wisdom in recognizing and planning how to enforce them. And the moral strength to actually see them through. Stand taller, get stronger, guess less. You've got this. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/18 01:40 PM |
| 64 | Dealing With Attached Girls & Cognitive Dissonance?/u/-Fidelio- is right. Aristotle's guide to the good life states that you should enjoy doing what you consider to be right. As for you- you do not enjoy what you do, nor do you consider it right. You are both weak and immature by that reckoning. Figure out what is right. Your behaviour is not attachment avoidance. It is responsibility avoidance. You do not want the responsibility of a relationship, nor do you want the responsibility of breaking a girl's heart. You blow them off hoping that they … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/18 06:02 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill changed my lifeI know you heard this before, never get high on your own supply. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 06:42 PM |
| 3 | FR. Back to basics: frame, abundance mentality / outcome independence, being busy, and being myself led to first "date" fuck.Son... start reading the sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 12:37 AM |
| 3 | FR. Back to basics: frame, abundance mentality / outcome independence, being busy, and being myself led to first "date" fuck.The closer in your social circle, the more dangerous. Colleagues are literally City of Dis. Don't be an idiot. Physical logistical distance + talking to you = attention whore or whore whore. Yes. An apology is always accepted. Not getting one is a sign that you need better friends. You lost their interest. Sometimes you made a mistake, sometimes she's ADHD. Put the conversation behind you. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/18 02:46 AM |
| 30 | FR. Back to basics: frame, abundance mentality / outcome independence, being busy, and being myself led to first "date" fuck.Yes, butt-slapping (a good smack) puts you in the top 40%. Hair pulling? 20%. Dirty talk and physical control, they're gonna start a social justice movement about that 1% soon. 'because it works?' That's where things derailed. Never acknowledge TRP. Never give out its secrets. Girls are not impressed. Boys are not ready. Turn it into a joke, turn it back against her. "You're looking for a dick, there's an excellent one right here". Thanks for the perspective. The mystery factor is a great point,… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/18 02:46 AM |
| 2 | I don't know what the fuck happened to me... I've actually regressed3 things have changed. You obsess over the results of dates. Past you took what he got and got what he took. Fail? Move on. Try again. Fail? Move on. Try again. Fail? Move on. Try again. You have no goal. Past you went for a kiss every time. Always go for the close. What do you want? Sex? Go for it. FWB? Plate? Go for sex anyway, their personality will come out in time. You are scared. Past you had nothing to lose. Now you fear. It is good to be careful. You should fear psychos, rape allegations… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Life at 50Yes, that was my experience as well. My favourite was by far the Nicomachean Ethics. He explores the origins of desire and of morality. He argues that the best course of action is always dependent on the circumstances. To be the best you can be, you need to both have the experience, knowledge, and skills to do what you think should be done, as well as the wisdom to determine what is right. So go out, do things, and gain experience. All other moralities are cowardly. They say, "do this, because w… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/18 11:11 PM |
| 21 | Hamster pushed for divorce, then became jealous when ex-husband got in shape and found a younger, prettier SOA shitty country is also a country with great potential. Great risk, great reward. Take care of yourself. Build power. Avoid conflicts you cannot win. Use your hunger and instincts to seek out greatness. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Life at 50I recommend the Nicomachean Ethics. Martin Ostwald's translation is accessible and faithful. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/18 05:01 PM |
| 47 | Life at 50Aristotle was great guidance for me, the father I never had. One of the deepest lessons I took from him was that to know what is good, one first must be excellent at telling good from bad. It is almost a necessity that only in your later life you find something genuinely worth something to you. Before that, few of us have the innate sense of what is worthy, what is desirable, what is enjoyable, what is fulfilling. Good on you having found that out. It took me thirty years to figure out that I en… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/18 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Bulletproofing shoulders. Keep yourself in the gym and off the sideline.Do both. No reason not to. Strength workout, do your strength lifts. Volume workout, do a Gironda 8x8. The key part is 30s or less between sets, aiming to both increase the weight and reduce rest to 15s. You can use the scheme with just about any exercise. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/18 02:08 PM |
| 15 | I'd rather fuck a man.And the ones that do survive dominate. Case in point, my mom's old cat. Grizzled sonofabitch owned the neighbourhood. Scars across his face. Biggest motherfucker around. Zero fucks given. He'd still come home for food and petting. Drive and vigor, combined with easy access to resources, is where you want to be. It's a great time to be a man, not so much to be a boy. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/18 12:17 PM |
| 10 | Brutal TRP wisdom from Arthur Schopenhauer<10%. As with all things on this sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/12/17 05:21 AM |
| 6 | A Red Pilled-Master Schools A Narcissistic Colleague In The Importance Of Manners And ProfessionalismThere's no winning this. There's only record as much as you can of all interactions (even notes verifiably made on the day itself are better than nothing) and hope you don't get stabbed ten years down. Narcissistic comes with vindictive. Your friend has one thing going for him- at least she's dumb enough to let it show. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/17 03:06 PM |
| 28 | RP male on 'Good Morning Britain with Piers Morgan' - Why men are turning to Eastern Europe.An excellent explanation. Respect is something that you have to be worthy of giving. And it is something you must know when to withhold. Only then is it worth something, and only then does it reflect your worth. Remember- women get off on high-value men treating them better than other women. A nice guy placates everyone, and thus pleases no-one. Don't forget that the dark triad traits are extremely desirable. So are these traits, which reflect status and mastery. The full package man has all of … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/11/17 05:10 AM |
| 18 | Who are the best women in the USA? Stats say: Asian Women.No. Why do you care about marriage / divorce / teen pregnancy / single motherhood rate? Don't get married. Don't have kids. Don't hook up with anyone with kids. Obesity rate? A hot girl of any race is a hot girl. Irrelevant in your day-to-day life. Income / SAT / education scores: these also make for demanding, vicious, entitled bitches. Submissiveness: as you say, anecdotal. My experience? They have the same ratio of shit to quality as any other race. They just hide it better and are better at … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Some advice for young men of TRP, from a 50 year old widower who just started dating again.Sorry for your loss, happy for your progress, and keep up the prune juice :) | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/17 11:16 PM |
| 17 | On "Toxic Masculinity" and how to argue with women"Use logic." Wrong. Walk away. Don't waste time. Don't get the "sexist" label pinned on yourself. Learn how you managed to get into that situation and avoid it in the future. There is no value in arguing this. Odds are you'll lose and lose all your social reputation. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/17 11:48 AM |
| 8 | FR - Coffee dates suck....Coffee is good if you're a busy man / can't decide if she's worth the time. Meet, say hello, escalate the fuck out of things, whatever happens get out of there in half an hour. A great way to practice game with sober girls if cold approach isn't your thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/17 03:07 AM |
| 25 | Today I finally managed to hit it off. It changed my view over pussy..Deadlifts celebrate man's victory over gravity- the force that keeps him tied down. Fitting. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/17 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Fucked up pretty much everything, still scored because held frame.+1. Another likely explanation: she has never had quality dick before despite riding CC for years. All point to the same result, locking you down in a LTR. Agreed, learn well and run away. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/17 06:36 AM |
| 2 | How to LearnThank you. Yes, that should be the first point in fact. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/17 11:55 PM |
| 140 | A Word For Those Back At CollegeGood way to meet people Good way to meet shit people Good way to meet shit people who are rich as fuck Great way to meet rich, driven, intelligent, future successful people Keep yourself RP-ed up to the gills and don't let the beer get in the way of your grades. Make friends with everyone. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 09:06 PM |
| 10 | How I went from a wingman to pulling in under 20 minutes.You gave him the first pick and respected it 3 times. That's 2 more times than he deserved. You did well. Your buddy needs to man up and take responsibility for improving his own game. Cold turkey him and be prepared to lose a "friend" when he refuses, starts whining, and betas the fuck out of the rest of his life. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 02:21 AM |
| 12 | Saw TRP in Action at my Job; I Buy it NowAlright, quick Aristotelian ethics lesson. What is the good life? To be happy. What is happiness? It is different things at different times to different people, but we all agree that regular sex, good health, adequate wealth, good friends close and casual, and healthy self-esteem don't hurt one bit. How do you attain the good life? You must be excellent in life. What does it mean to be excellent in life? It is to have the habits, knowledge, wisdom, ability, and will to make a good life for yours… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/17 03:15 AM |
| 1 | 4 Year LTR was there at my worst. Helped, nurtured, treated me like her king. She's being cheating all this fucking time.For a buffoon you offer pretty good perspective. An old-school fool. I like. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/17 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Aristotle said, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence is not an act, but a habit.” To possess any desirable character trait, you must start acting and thinking as if you already have it. When your thoughts and actions align with your ideals, your self-esteem will soarHe didn't say that, but he did say something to that effect in the Nicomachean Ethics. That said, I don't care for this post. It has no substance. The Aristotle reference is gratuitous. The notion of excellence coming out of habit is a core lesson (one more important than any Stoic one, in my opinion) that deserves a better treatment. I studied the Nicomachean Ethics, and I recommend anyone looking for a guide to becoming an excellent man to do the same. It is at the same time essential to ignor… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 11:22 PM |
| 16 | Bitch Management and Return on InvestmentAnother lesson: girls love being fucked hard by men in a rage. Even if you're already dominant, that added bit of frustration makes you even more forceful. Girls will put on a dress and heels and Uber over to your place at 1AM for that kind of a fuck. That's also why frame is so important. Condition them to understand that being a bitch to you will not result in more better sex. It will result in a withdrawal of time and affection. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 02:40 PM |
| 4 | Bitch Management and Return on InvestmentYour problem is not being new. Your problem is reading comprehension. I have made it clear that it is equally possible for both women and men to be bitches. If you expect to improve your life, you must be able to own when you are being a bitch. Expect the same of those you associate with. Do not tolerate others being a bitch to you. Respect is not mere civility. Respect is not being a compliant doormat. Respect is looking out for each other's interests. That includes holding each other to a high… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Free Drink Hustle Thwarted By Holding FrameAgreed. They should never have been able to enter your frame. One glance, glance away, ignore, rebuff if approached. It's not a victory if escalated needlessly and wastes your time. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/17 12:31 AM |
| 2 | When Confronted About TRPAgreed. They'll always know more about it than you do. Difference is they can't control it. The things you hear once you're accepted as AF, that should be enough to tell you that you should be listening, not talking. There shouldn't be any feeling of being pressured. You stay in control all the time. No need to impress her- she's the one who has to impress you. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 11:33 PM |
| 2 | FR: Textbook application of the basicsLogistics. Keep beside your bed sound recorder, condoms, towel, hair tie, bobby pins, blindfold, leather whip, lube. It's a huge turn-off to walk across the room to get any of these. Order of importance depends on how much kinky sex you have v.s. how much long hair annoys you when you get a blowjob. Towel recently got a bump in priority for reasons explained above. You shouldn't really need lube unless you find arsehole appealing, in which case you should be looking for another resource. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Never ConfessFireTempered. That's a very appropriate username. Reminds me of "Dirty Old Town" as well, heh. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 12:26 AM |
| 20 | Never ConfessAgreed entirely. I smile and tease and if they're hot, hint at if they want to find out what being a "friend" of mine is firsthand. "In that case you must know that I treat the ladies well", &c. When a girl confronts you about it she's more than likely curious and interested. Here's this man who has a reputation for not just being attractive enough to pick up drunk bitches, but attractive enough to keep the attention of other intelligent, pretty women for long periods of time, without giving mon… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/17 11:11 PM |
| 5 | FR: Textbook application of the basicsIt was a bit of whitish stuff, not a lot of clear runny pee. Some women do "squirt" that way though. Source: have gotten the pee stuff before unintentionally, 0/10 would not try again | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 06:48 PM |
| 6 | FR: Textbook application of the basicsHell, I'd have agreed with that up until a couple days ago | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 06:43 PM |
| 8 | FR: Textbook application of the basicsShe called her girlfriend to talk about a third girl cheating behind her boyfriend's back. Welcome to the 21st century | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 06:30 PM |
| 10 | FR: Textbook application of the basicsYou really didn't have to stick around for the cumshot. Point understood and appreciated though, I've edited the post. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 06:07 PM |
| 3 | All of the posts here regarding LTRs ending seem to revolve around AWALT and seeing through the shit tests. I'm certainly not saying I have a unicorn but how many of you have sacked up and ended a perfectly good relationship simply to enjoy the finer side of the single life.And here I am preparing a FR about I blew through a whole night of shit tests without even realizing what they were, and then my hookup discovered she's a squirter on my sheets. Look long and hard at what you're getting out of the relationship. I'm giving it a glance. You get food and don't pay attention to who makes it. You're getting lazy with your sex life. She wants kids, but you managed to win temporarily. You know what that sounds like? You got complacent. You don't know what you want, and… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/17 01:31 AM |
| 2 | The Reason Women Do Better In The Current Workforce EnvironmentBy doing what they do, they get ahead. It's a successful strategy for women, and perfectly legit. All's fair in love and war, but business is a whole other affair. Who benefits? They do. The clients and managers they're fucking do (it's ultimately not their money lost). Where do these benefits come from? You, and people like you. Lessons learned? Fuck loyalty, look out for yourself first, in any hierarchy 10% of men and 80% of women benefit, no matter how you cut it sex is still largely traded f… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/17 03:37 PM |
| 11 | Being average is enough to get laidSome observations. You've hit on the fact that being attractive does not simply arise from self-improvement. You have to practice being attractive. Approaching women every weekend will train you to use charm to make up for everything else. Success rate with 6-7 and 9-10 girls is roughly the same. It's up to how you pull it off. Just go for the ones that are your type, don't shit where you eat, keep your dick out of crazy, and keep at it. Self-improvement helps greatly once you know how to use th… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/17 07:01 AM |
| 2 | What it’s like to be a 49M who is NOT dating “Age-Appropriate” WomenFair warning, good point. Yes, hence I call him a friend. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/17 01:10 AM |
| 16 | What it’s like to be a 49M who is NOT dating “Age-Appropriate” Women"I play by my made-up rules and I shout down people who don't, why don't people drop what I want into my lap?" I'm not sure what proportions of envy, entitlement, and straight up delusion that is. I don't care whose fault it is either, it's just made it laughably easy to impress girls. Friendship can trump blue-pilled-ness though. Friend of mine, dyed-blue-in-the-wool, girlfriend he's devoted to, became vegetarian, and so on. Bumps into me on the street getting out of an Uber with two girls, he … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/17 07:01 PM |
| 17 | The best sex I ever had was after I stopped giving a fuck about themWomen care about you a hell of a lot more when you aren't tied down. Show a bit of care yourself (just keep it to people who deserve it) and she'll be straight up in heaven. So ask yourself: does she deserve it? OP is generally right. The disconnect and disagreement comes from the woman in question. Most women (like most humans) don't deserve your care. Don't give a fuck about those people. They're in your life for however long they're good for. And it's fair to generalize, give a fuck about nob… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/17 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Wanting to redpill friends and family is sign of insecurityIt's good to feel insecure when it's justified. There's an evolutionary reason that feeling exists, it's because one man alone leads a nasty, brutish, short life. I agree that evangelizing TRP is strange, but it's also natural for a man to want to see other men improve and to bring up those close to him, and to gather a tribe in general. Don't rely too much on them, but having people you can count on for bros-before-hos type situations is useful. There's a difference between being insecure in yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/17 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Desperation and Accomplishment: Two Primal Parts of Male DevelopmentYou might say "but didn't all this end when civilization developed and we stopped being hunter-gatherers", and you're right. We've been progressively bitchified ever since the first high priest thought up slave morality. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/05/17 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Double book your dates: Be the man that flakesGoddamn, son, this is on the level of that stag antlers business | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 03:13 PM |
| 52 | Red Pill Logic: Stuck in the MiddleHenry Rollins. "The Iron never lies to you. You can walk outside and listen to all kinds of talk, get told that you're a god or a total bastard. The Iron will always kick you the real deal. The Iron is the great reference point, the all-knowing perspective giver. Always there like a beacon in the pitch black. I have found the Iron to be my greatest friend. It never freaks out on me, never runs. Friends may come and go. But two hundred pounds is always two hundred pounds." | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/17 03:10 PM |
| 7 | What Does She Bring To The Table?I liked OP's post better before they tried to save karma with the edit. It's more anger than sense, but I sense the basic idea- if she doesn't make your life better, if all she does is do basic shit so that you become lazier, ditch her. Whether she supports your efforts is as much you as it is her. If all she does is cook, clean, and fuck, if you make use of the extra time to improve yourself that's still a good way. If all you do is play video games while she's vacuuming, you need to shape the … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/17 07:25 AM |
| 8 | Extended Youth: Carousel riding sluts, PUAs, and man children, what if all of this is a result of society wide FOMO.Fear of missing out, possibly for PUA. Otherwise it's very simple. CC: it is in the nature of animals to mate with the most attractive mate. Humans are multifuckers by nature. Don't think too much about it, just enjoy it. TRP: Men are not happy. Go read that post. This is what motivates TRP men. What is happiness? I don't know about the odd case of the asexual, but for most men, that involves being successful and desired, and having a banging sex life. That's it, men who want the most fulfilling… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/17 02:23 AM |
| 14 | Resistance after taking the red pill.Then you didn't swallow the red pill that first time, you were just gargling it. When you start caring about yourself more than you care about others, that's a start. Doesn't mean you don't care about others. Psychopaths don't lead good lives. This means that your care about others is because it is in your capacity and nature to care, not because you desire their validation or acceptance. Only the strong can be truly generous. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/17 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Just because TRP and sexual strategy is amoral, doesn't mean you should live your life without moralsIf you're strong enough to be one, and smart enough to be self-serving rather than truly antisocial, you'll be extremely successful, and if you learned TRP lessons well, you'll be happy. If your conscience keeps getting in the way and making you feel terrible, then live according to your morals and be the best person you can be. You'll be content. Most of us are in the middle- our conscience gets in the way due to BP indoctrination, but it can be coaxed and bludgeoned into doing what's best for … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/17 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Just because TRP and sexual strategy is amoral, doesn't mean you should live your life without moralsI agree with your message. If you narrow it down to a binary choice, you should live your life without morals. Live your life with the singular objective of making the best life for yourself. Nevertheless, the best life for yourself generally includes a moral code of some kind; it just cannot be the basis of your life. You still must know when to bend and when to break it. 1: Yes, people justify bad decisions in the name of being amoral. That does not invalidate the main premise- that you should… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/17 02:56 PM |
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