groonoak Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Sharing child care costs when my child isn't with me	groonoak	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/22 01:17 AM
12	Ex monitors my phone calls with our kid...deal with it or address it?	groonoak	/r/Divorce_Men	28/09/23 03:43 PM
9	Trying to vacation out of state to see family but she's not agreeing in writing	groonoak	/r/Divorce_Men	07/03/23 02:38 AM
6	STBX is using what I feel is coercion - is it coercion and if it so, legal?	groonoak	/r/Divorce_Men	31/01/23 05:07 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Did you regret getting divorce? No ragrets here. I miss having my kid every night but getting away from my abusive, narcissistic, gaslighting ex has done absolute wonders to my mental health.	/r/Divorce_Men	19/10/24 12:57 AM
8	She said, "You could just pick up the dog poop without me asking. You see it just like I do." My ex and myself are veterans. We both earned school benefits. One of the perks to that benefit is the ability to pass it to kids or even a spouse. When we had our one and only child I set mine up to pass it to them and also included my ex. Reason being is cause I completed all the schooling I needed while on active duty and wouldn't need it post military service. She was a school-aloholic and wanted to keep going. Fast forward to our divorce process she wanted me to keep her name on for the sch…	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/24 10:06 AM
7	In case you are missing your ex-wife today... Same, one slight deviation and she'd go off. You're wasting gas, adding miles, taking longer (wasn't), and everything else. Soooo glad I don't hear it anymore.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/01/24 10:00 PM
6	Men in your 40s dating younger women, what are you guys doing? I'm 43 and she's 30. We met thru mutual friends and neither of us thought anything of it at first. The more we hung out the more we drew to each other. She's dated guys her age and was always frustrated by their immaturity. Dudes didn't save money, played video games, and didn't know how to be a gentlemen. Those things are just kinda natural to me. She admired how good of a father I am and how I was in my career. We both have goals and strive to meet them. I'm just average, even bald but I do lo…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/23 06:32 PM
1	My wife is divorcing me in another state, California. Cause this is a good start. I've received great info here and saved $$$ from asking greedy ass lawyers. Even more, my first lawyer fucked me and I got better advice from Reddit. Mileage varies, but I'm a fan of asking here first.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/09/23 10:57 PM
5	Sharing child care costs when my child isn't with me Spot on! This is my exact scenario! My job is flexible to allow me to come in late and leave early for the every other weekend. She chooses to work longer hours than needed. When we did live in the same town and had 50/50, I routinely picked our kid up as soon as possible. She would almost always pick our kid up at the very last minute of after care. And the reason we no longer live in the same town is because she chose to move farther away which placed a hardship on me due to job location. I he…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/22 05:45 AM