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growinglats/r/askTRP09/01/18 12:11 PM
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growinglats/r/askTRP16/07/18 12:15 AM
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Get the fuck out of here
/r/askTRP28/08/18 01:00 AM
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I actually wake up at 4 for work, 10 isn’t early enough... unless you barely require sleep I guess
/r/askTRP28/08/18 12:56 AM
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This is exactly right. Lifting is an easy way to start accomplishing things. And, the aesthetic rewards are a great perk
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:47 PM
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Never go to her social media again. “Thought replacement therapy” is a proven concept that works. Every time you find yourself thinking about her, immediately change the subject in your mind and start thinking about something that you decide on, like your career, school, the gym. Just choose something. It works.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 10:12 PM
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Damn.... get that shit under control. And if you haven’t yet, you NEED to be contributing to a 401k
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:46 AM
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Living with mom, smoking in the car, hanging out with girls in the mall and at the movies... not trying to be mean, but that is shit I did when I was 16... in my early 20s now Can you do something to try to get a better job? Honestly who gives a shit about this girl, you should focus on becoming a productive, self sufficient person
/r/askTRP16/08/18 12:21 AM
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I would do shit for my parents if necessary. It would be important and fulfilling for me. Anyway, see if they can help you out. Pre-make your meals for the week maybe. Tell them you’re stressed out
/r/askTRP15/08/18 10:53 PM
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I love working. But, do you have a housewife? I feel like I need that to do what I want. My house just gets wrecked, I spend too much money eating out... can’t handle my house shit... or don’t have the discipline to
/r/askTRP15/08/18 01:40 AM
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Yes... they use you for what they want while having an abundance of options. It means you’re one of many
/r/askTRP08/08/18 12:55 AM
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Nothing in the world is worth having or worth doing unless it means effort, pain, difficulty… I have never in my life envied a human being who led an easy life. I have envied a great many people who led difficult lives and led them well. Theodore Roosevelt
/r/askTRP31/07/18 10:31 PM
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I’ve read that the growth stunting is a myth because a lot of short guys lift. I would get my kid involved as soon as he was interested and motivated. Arnold started on roofs when he was 13 lmao
/r/askTRP28/07/18 07:00 PM
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I wouldn’t tell them right away, but I would allude to a rough past. When you do tell them, own your recovery as something you deal with, but are proud of. I think anyone would respect that
/r/askTRP23/07/18 02:50 AM
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If you’ve been working in retail for 7 years, I would imagine if you interview well and spend a lot of time applying you could be a manager. I would do that.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:11 PM
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Dude, they fucking know. I’ve had friends that lie like this. It’s extremely annoying. Everyone knows except the guy lying somehow believes he’s getting away with it
/r/askTRP21/07/18 04:52 PM
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If you’ve been really outgoing around her, a funny joke would be something like “I’m really shy! I don’t share secrets so fast” This will only be funny if you’ve been extremely outgoing, obviously
/r/askTRP19/07/18 10:06 PM
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Sorry, but terrible advice
/r/askTRP18/07/18 10:55 PM
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I just did this with a Spanish girl. She will be extra nervous, IMO this is good. Just have fun, be really relaxed. She’s probably worried about herself and not even thinking about judging how well you do. If you make her laugh and just have fun, you’ll be golden.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 10:54 PM
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I would’ve just left it read. You were exhausted, you don’t need to always message back. But don’t get too hung up over one message, I don’t think it matters
/r/askTRP18/07/18 01:09 AM
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Thanks man
/r/askTRP16/07/18 01:03 AM
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You can be aloof and smart
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:24 AM
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You act like your IQ is 80. I think it’s a pretty fucking big difference haha
/r/askTRP10/07/18 12:16 AM
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I know a guy who did this. If you’re also successful and have a good social life, I think you can be extremely successful with women because they think they could easily manipulate you. I’ve tried it with some success, but it’s pretty difficult.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 06:18 PM
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Math just comes down to how much time you put into it. It’s just following rules, and through all of calculus and differential equations (which is what is required for engineering) all the problems are predictable with practice. Most people who are “bad” at math have avoided it. Don’t avoid it, get help and explanations, and it’s easy to succeed in.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:48 PM
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I would say that I do struggle, as it takes a lot of effort. But women are still receptive in the US. In Mexico I had girls buying me drinks, inviting me out... THEY were struggling. It was a lot of fun. And yeah, I am white.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 07:40 PM
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This is not true. I’m from the US and just went to a richer city in Mexico... I got SWARMED. They did not give a fuck who would see, they wanted to show off that they got a gringo. If I went for all the crazy women trying to get pregnant, I could have easily slept with 10 girls in 3 weeks. And all of those women were educated enough to speak English well. I’d never been approached by so many women in my life, and all of my advances were successful.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 06:51 PM
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It’s a summer retail job - I say she goes for it
/r/seduction17/06/18 10:50 PM
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A woman recently approached me saying “you’re really handsome, let’s go back to your place”. Instant turn off. I like to pursue. Girl was like a creepy beta, wouldn’t leave me alone and spilled her beer on me. She was cute, but she came on way too strong. Not interested.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 11:56 PM
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Maybe “yeah, I’d love to cuddle after”
/r/askTRP10/06/18 07:48 PM
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They’re not going to withdraw the offer. Chill the fuck out and just wait a week. Just because it’s extremely important to you, doesn’t mean anything about it being on their priority list.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:44 PM
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It’s bad.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 09:04 PM
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Wtf is up with all this cousin shit Didn’t read anything else
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:55 PM
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10% is probably good, but you want to be big/muscular too. Maybe 10 lbs of extra muscle at 10% bf...
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:09 PM
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I was saying quit making excuses and talking about things you won’t do. If you want better results, be willing to put in the effort and deal with the discomfort of learning new skills.
/r/seduction30/04/18 09:12 PM
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It’s very unlikely that the woman will initiate the touching, so it looks like you’ll have to settle with never touching a woman again. Edit: and wtf psychology is a real science
/r/seduction30/04/18 02:55 PM
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I wonder if there’s a golden rule to how much time you need to schedule for bullshit. I love the idea, but I could see getting burnt out, and everything can get messed up when you get an invite to something unanticipated... still, I’m sure it would improve my lifestyle and the results I’m looking for
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 10:51 AM
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Great for me to read too, thanks.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:16 AM
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No, you can have status by being really social and knowing a lot of people
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:41 PM
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You must be skinny as shit to wear a small... and extra small? 😳
/r/askTRP27/04/18 05:58 PM
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At the lower weight classes, all the good people I knew cut to well below 10% body fat. In my opinion a growing boy should be at least around 12 and eating a lot. There are pros and cons to everything. If you’re really competitive the cutting can get very unhealthy. Spitting in a can all day to lose an extra 0.5 lb, sleeping in trash bags. I personally made myself throw up after holiday meals. I’m still glad I did it, at my schools wrestlers walked around with swag. But maybe following bodybuild…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 09:11 PM
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I wrestled. Completely agree, but some of the weight cutting is terrible
/r/askTRP25/04/18 08:57 PM
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Even fruit and juice can be really bad
/r/askTRP25/04/18 08:55 PM
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Just give it a shot. If it doesn’t work move on.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 02:13 AM
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I knew a guy that blasted and cruised on tren and acted beta as fuck. His approach with women was to just shower them with compliments and he came off as a complete creep. Dude was jacked. But I agree, if you have low T you need to make some changes
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 02:16 PM
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Agreed.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 10:26 AM
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A LOT of people lol
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:09 AM
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Dude, your pictures definitely matter THAT much. That’s all women have to go off of! I personally don’t use tinder because I don’t have bomb ass pictures. You need that.
/r/seduction15/04/18 10:40 PM
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A high school student needs way more sleep than an old adult. I’m early 20’s and I function best after 9 hours a night. It sucks needing that much time, but I’d rather be healthy and productive throughout my day. When you’re 65 and can only sleep 5 hours a night you’ll wish you could get 9 lol
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:24 PM
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Just de-escalate. You don’t want to hit back, or scream. Hopefully you’ll move out of the house soon. As soon as you’re out of there, it won’t be your problem. I had similar situations happen all the time. Once I went off to college I blossomed without that stress hanging over me. I’ve learned to just feel sorry for people that act that way, they don’t know how to work with people at all and won’t be very successful.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 01:47 PM
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19 year old at a networking event? Sounds like he’s doing well on his own. If you want to help him be generally more successful maybe recommend the book “how to win friends & influence people”
/r/askTRP12/04/18 12:58 AM
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Yeah, discipline is everything.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/18 11:45 AM
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What’s crazy is so many people don’t see this.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 10:26 PM
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Dude any president is alpha as fuck, including Obama. Obama is powerful, charming, ambitious and good looking. SMV of probably 100/10.... trump is too, but calling Obama beta is ridiculous
/r/askTRP07/04/18 01:59 AM
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I think you made the right choice, a girl that hangs out with an ex isn’t relationship material. Threatening to break up would have worked for this one time, but you would have been in a relationship with someone that crosses boundaries
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 03:45 PM
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Yeah if you do this you’ll probably look creepy. You need to flirt and escalate right away, not months into a friendship
/r/askTRP31/03/18 09:38 PM
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Yep.... stay away from bad decision makers. Stressful as shit and lead you to stagnation
/r/askTRP30/03/18 11:05 PM
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So you don’t pursue any hobbies? To me that seems really shitty. Most guys drink beer and watch TV, if you cut one of those out and replace it with a hobby that you can progress in, I think it’s very worth it, for YOU. Most things we do are for other people. It’s really not that crazy to give 4 hours and $35 to yourself each week.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 10:51 PM
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Don’t fucking skip the gym, ever. That’s the mindset you need to have. You NEED the gym. Choose any bodybuilding program and follow it, once you complete it choose a new one. As you learn different programs you’ll gain a lot of skill and knowledge/preferences. You’ll make great progress. If you want to warm up with 20 mins on the bike that will help burn a little extra calories
/r/askTRP30/03/18 04:01 PM
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Could you give an example... I find being friendly and personable gets me what I want (at work), kind of similar to a politician being a charismatic guy... people always want to help me. But I’m curious about your strategy
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 01:54 PM
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Why the hell would you care if he lifts more than you?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:10 PM
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Sweeet thanks... shit I really need to get around to taking quality pics
/r/seduction21/03/18 06:56 PM
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How good looking are we talking? Don’t have tinder and now I’m considering
/r/seduction21/03/18 06:45 PM
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She looks like a 2 or 3 😳
/r/seduction21/03/18 06:07 PM
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Had the same experience as you, for the same reasons. Now that I’m noticeably muscular, it hasn’t happened in over a year. Actually, no one really makes fun of me at all now.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:40 PM
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“Toning” is a myth. You can build muscle, and you can cut fat. That’s it. Strength also relies on your central nervous system. Strength training trains your CNS to be able to lift heavier. In other words, those “puffy” muscles are all that exists, and that’s the goal.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 05:20 PM
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Yeah that’s totally cool, I say go for it!
/r/seduction15/03/18 04:14 PM
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Bro date all you can, keep a few if you want to.... Some white guys like me don’t give a shit
/r/seduction14/03/18 09:49 PM
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I use honesty & AA. “She’s a better conversationalist, step up your game! Lol”
/r/askTRP14/03/18 09:28 PM
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I think women are attracted to confidence and masculinity. I try to project a successful image (which is true, I am successful). If I were in this situation I would try to fix my problems first, then meet women. I would be afraid of appearing needy or helpless. But apparently it’s working for OP. And if it’s working, keep doing it. It’s probably just my own personal issues that would hold me back from doing it.
/r/seduction14/03/18 05:24 PM
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Tbh I would be terrified of using this strategy with women.
/r/seduction14/03/18 05:10 PM
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But he used a semicolon... that means he knows things we don’t
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:29 AM
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The times in my life when I’m the happiest are when I exercise the most. I lift, among other things. But just to get you going, maybe try running in the mornings for 20 minutes. Set goals, maybe run a 5k without stopping in 4 months. If you’re not exercising at all I think this will do wonders.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:23 AM
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Yep... OP could end up as the next guy who “raped” her. I would tell her you can’t be with someone that isn’t honest and HARD next.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:58 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/askTRP12/03/18 05:20 PM
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If you lift and get kinda big, new people you meet will ask you about fitness. How to win friends & influence people will help with this, but you basically just need to be interested in people. One thing that can help you be nice to strangers is learning about fashion. Depending on the people you’re around, know name brands of shoes and clothing so that you can compliment people on them. Or hell, if someone is wearing a sports shirt you can talk about the team. It’s just noticing something about…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:32 AM
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I don’t have social media whatsoever. Honestly, keeping up with it sounds like a hassle and stresses me out. It definitely hurts me (I never use anything like tinder to get laid), but you can still be extremely successful without. I’m currently building social circles, I seek out people and ask them to do things with me. Sometimes they say no. A lot of times we go out and have a blast. Just realize, having a good social life will never “just happen”. This is something that you will need to build…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 12:53 AM
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Depends on what you want... I have no online presence. I realize I get laid less because of this, but I want to use all my social energy building circles and real relationships
/r/seduction10/03/18 08:14 PM
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Are they serious? I’ve used this just to give shit to guys “you married —yes— that surprises me” and the guys think it’s funny, it’s just messing around. Sounds like someone with Aspergers if they don’t realize you’re just jerking them around
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 11:45 PM
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How the hell do you have time for anything working 80 hour weeks? Working 60 and going to the gym my house started getting really messy and it was hard to keep up with sleeping enough. Thankfully I don’t work that much anymore
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:23 PM
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Agreed... also, studies show a correlation between strength/muscle mass and high test. Obviously the high test could cause the increased strength, not the other way around. I’m natty, but people need to realize that if you want to change your T levels, taking a ton of vitamin D isn’t going to get you juicy. That’s more for if you somehow completely lack vit D
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 11:17 AM
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Agreed... Isn’t there a scene from Napoleon dynamite where he gives a drawing to the girl, and talks about shading the upper lip for 2 hours? Lol, it’s supposed to be cringey
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:41 PM
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I agree with you, but in all seriousness, how do you not know about deodorant?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/18 12:33 PM
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I genuinely thought it was a joke. My opinion is that, while it’s possible to make online friends, most online gaming is a waste of time. The alternatives to online gaming are more “real” hobbies. Weightlifting, boxing, working on cars, starting a business, reading self improvement, social dancing... these things actually provide value to your life, and can be very social. Gamification is also dangerous IMO. You actually feel good when your character gets an achievement or you win something in t…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 12:27 AM
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Yeah wth is this a joke? Lol Seems like a higher priority would be to quit runescape
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:12 PM
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I would want to know his answer. For me, 6 months into lifting I was getting IOIs from a lot of whales. Now, 1.5 years in I’ve finally gotten a little interest from what I call “normal girls”. Unfortunately I think it’s a very long process.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 03:31 PM
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A&A my go to when teased about dating is “hell yeah im dating, I’m not trying to die alone!” Easy way to shrug it off and make people laugh
/r/askTRP04/03/18 06:46 PM
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Dude I’m just letting you know, if she’s on tinder and blew you on the first date she’s not a Virgin
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:40 PM
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Once every 3 days is really infrequent
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 02:30 PM
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I think it’s a fair question. I’ve followed a bodybuilding routine for 1.5 years so I think I look like a beast, but some of my 1 rep Max’s are underwhelming. I would prefer this if I had to choose, but I’ll be lifting heavy for a while to balance it out.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:07 PM
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I’ve dated sorority girls... spot on.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:05 PM
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This is simple office politics. Speak positive about him to others. Let him teach you, and show appreciation. Always be positive and enthusiastic. Don’t disagree with him... down the road after you have built a relationship on mutual respect, he’ll hear you out when you need to disagree on important issues.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:37 AM
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With my first LTR it blew my mind how easily and frequent women cried. Yeah, you can’t put much stock in it.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 12:49 PM
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Great insight, thanks. And I’ll check those out
/r/askTRP02/03/18 11:26 AM
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Got a question if you have time to give your opinion. I’m genuinely a super nice guy. I’m nice to everyone I meet, and I have a lot of charisma. I can tease, and I’m witty, but I only tease people that I’ve had a few conversations with so that I know they can take it. I’ve also been lifting and have a great smile/face and a great job/purpose. Despite being fairly high SMV, will girls assume I’m low SMV just because I’m genuinely friendly? I don’t put them on a pedestal, I’ll treat the janitor wi…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 12:55 PM
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Maybe it just surprised her, but no, women don’t predictably shudder when they get turned on lol
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:45 PM
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Make it obvious when you reach out that you just want to see her. But if you get a chance, introduce her to the promoter. Sounds like you’re overthinking it.
/r/seduction27/02/18 02:30 PM
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Or a feminist... I’ve tried Kino on an obvious feminist before.... never again lol.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 08:25 PM
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You can definitely build a scooby doo ass gang. It’s easy to find 1 friend that always wants to do stuff. Then you meet another, and another. Yeah, maybe it’s a low SMV group, but if it’s a group of loyal friends it can be rewarding. As an added bonus, solving mysteries is easier in a group.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:40 PM
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This sounds great... but what about push/pull? Isn’t a ton of shit on TRP mind games?
/r/askTRP26/02/18 11:57 AM
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Ok cool, it sounds really important... but people take selfies with them and use them for online data? Still seems weird to me lol
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 12:15 AM
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I’m confused, what is a server room? Google showed me it looked like a room with big computer stuff... Why the hell would anyone use that? Is this real? Lol
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 05:22 PM
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I was in your position temporarily. Deadlift and do dumbell split squats as your main leg exercises. Warning though, split squats are hard as hell.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 02:30 AM
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She was attracted to the honesty, and now wants to show you she’s good enough.
/r/seduction24/02/18 07:33 PM
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Does the girl think it’s weird that your eyes are dashing around? Or do they like it? Seems a little quirky to me, but interesting
/r/seduction24/02/18 05:02 PM
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Yep, just fuck off it’s not worth it. Just give up on her completely. I’ve done this even when the girl was way more into me than my friend. It’s a bad place to be in. And seriously, there’s not another girl in the whole world you can find to flirt with? If that’s true then you need to work harder. Good luck.
/r/seduction20/02/18 10:14 PM
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I always think that being brutally honest is a great strategy... I can get almost anything I want by being honest. It’s more about how you say it. But I’ve gotten in like 4 fights on TRP about this 😂
/r/askTRP19/02/18 11:41 PM
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Makes sense. Yeah, I guess you don’t need to follow through with the work of 100% of what shows up, But I would never ignore my emails, and even unimportant people in the company structure can have an impact on your career.... reputation is just extremely important to me
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 11:36 PM
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I don’t think business is all business. Buy Carol that cake and she might speak positively about you for the rest of the time you work there
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 04:51 PM
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Emails get shit done because you need to be a part of the team... you can’t just ignore co-workers, managers, or even reports. Being seen in a positive light and building solid relationships is probably the #1 most important thing to do This is why VPs and CEOs generally say they have an “open door” policy. They do not see it as a waste of their time for someone to bring an issue to their table. They don’t isolate themselves to only do the “work”
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 03:27 PM
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Yeah it honestly sounded like bullshit to me. Don’t respond to your emails? IME you’re fucked. It’s important, and tedious to talk and communicate with everyone. Build relationships AND get shit done.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 02:46 PM
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Yeah.... you took it too far
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:21 PM
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Yep, I have a really positive attitude. Stress doesn’t hit me nearly as hard as others. It’s been a long time since I’ve been sad, can’t remember the last time I cried or yelled. But I feel a lot of joy and humor.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:35 PM
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Definitely. Weird off brand, blocky looking tennis shoes. Or like any shoe/sandal hybrid... shoes that would make you say “why would anyone buy that?” Well, obviously, some people do.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:14 AM
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Woahh there cowboy, it’s been one week. Great job getting in there, but this is a long term decision. Find a 3 month long program and follow it. Most people don’t last 3 months in the gym. I’ve been consistent for 18 months and am still considered a beginner. So great job, have fun, but this is a long term decision with long term benefits.
/r/seduction16/02/18 03:38 PM
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If you want to watch it, watch it. If you don’t want to watch it, don’t watch it. You’re making this too complicated.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:52 PM
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Wow that was fast
/r/askTRP15/02/18 05:56 PM
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Five stages of grief are denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. Eventually you’ll accept that life has no meaning and be unphased by it. In fact, sometimes I feel like the happiest person in the world because I get to experience all this for 75 or so years. You’re so lucky to be alive!! What do you want to do? Who do you want to be? The world is your oyster. Find anything that’s excited you or fulfills you. If those feelings subside, keep searching! Have fun with it, enjoy it. You…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 04:52 PM
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At the plant I work at there are tons of operators/managers that are married. If you’re planning on spinning plates, this isn’t the way to go. GL
/r/askTRP14/02/18 08:52 PM
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I disagree with others here. You can’t be too aggressive, because it’s at work, but if you’re just an operator on the line that’s not too serious of a job. If drama did ensue, couldn’t you just get a different factory job?
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:57 PM
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Be interested in other people. Ask questions. “You work in Human Resources? Wow, I’ve always thought that was really cool. You get to talk to people all day, and you’re building a team. Sounds challenging, but fun” I just had that exact interaction with someone, and they immediately liked me. It was very easy. Do you lift? People always ask me about what I do to stay in shape, and I give advice too. Do you follow any sports? Easy things to talk to guys about, wear a t shirt with your team on it …
/r/askTRP10/02/18 07:56 PM
1

You don’t need to lead desperate girls on to get laid.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 03:07 PM
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Some of us just don’t need to go to these extremes to get laid, but you do you 👍🏻
/r/askTRP09/02/18 09:38 PM
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Seriously.... I don’t care what OP does, I really don’t. But justifying it by saying wearing makeup is just as much a lie as verbally promising commitment in exchange for sex when that’s not true is BS. Come on..... really?
/r/askTRP09/02/18 08:26 PM
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Don’t we always talk about on TRP that if your SMV is high, girls will perceive you as being better in bed? Really not sure
/r/askTRP08/02/18 03:41 PM
1

You can always do better at work, increase responsibility, get promoted
/r/askTRP07/02/18 12:03 AM
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You’re doing it “work” all wrong. Maybe because you’re the owners son, or maybe because you’re naturally bad at this. You shouldn’t do anything like kick up your feet on a conference table, or play phone games at work. When people see that, they’ll think you’re a lazy piece of shit. If I saw someone at my work do that, I’d be so annoyed by the culture I’d look for a new place to work. And why in the fuck are you looking to piss her off? Your goal should be to de-escalate problems. Seriously, I’m…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 12:29 AM
14

This is exactly right. I’m a very attractive, muscular guy but studied engineering in an SEC college. I got almost no girls. After graduating and moving to a random suburb, I was shocked to be getting approached and opened by girls. I love it now, but college was frustrating as hell for me. Nice post.
/r/seduction27/01/18 07:07 PM
4

To the crocodiles
/r/askTRP26/01/18 04:51 PM
5

I was friends with some black chads. Their numbers were around 50 black girls and only 2 white girls. But these guys were charming as fuck, I think they could get more if their social circle included more white people in general. So my answer is that usually they hang out with other black people, but otherwise, yes they could
/r/askTRP24/01/18 12:49 PM
1

I think you’re confusing nerd with being smart. I was a bully in HS and now have a good technical job. Some “nerds” just play video games and watch anime and stay powerless Not all the weirdos end up in high positions, I think most stay weirdos. I’ve had some managers that were a little weird, but I’ve never seen a senior manager, director, or VP that was weird. All those guys have charisma, and some of them were definitely bullies
/r/TheRedPill23/01/18 06:25 PM
5

I would comment on something particular about your surroundings or about her. “Wow, you’re confident enough to wear a Cleveland jersey, I like it!” “So glad we finally got a clear day outside, this snow has been killer” Flow from there, it’s a lot more natural
/r/seduction21/01/18 03:13 PM
1

False rape accusation... don’t worry man, you guys barely did anything. Just stop contacting her. She prolly felt guilty about it for one reason or another and wants to pretend it didn’t happen
/r/askTRP21/01/18 01:37 AM
2

Took a class for 4 months in college, and I think I was very popular in it. I just got names and tried to have fun. A compliment “I love that shirt! For a while all I bought was Nike clothes” A tease “I like it, you really get into this.” An observation “oh my gosh! (arm touch) did your cat scratch you?” You only need a line here or there, you’re there I dance not talk. But I always had a shit eating grin and my energy level as just 1 notch above theirs. Also, I reintroduced myself every time ju…
/r/seduction17/01/18 08:25 PM
2

How big are you? Just curious
/r/askTRP15/01/18 07:51 PM
3

My old oneitis (over a year ago) started picking fights over nothing. Very similar to what you’re describing, and a lot of it was when driving. IME women don’t just tell you what they mean. By doing all this BS she’s telling you that she’s not going to be putting any work into making the relationship functional and she wants you to jump ship so she doesn’t have to. Then you can be the “bad guy”. I ended up getting my heart broken over a year ago when she finally did leave, but guess what? I have…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 05:44 PM
1

Thanks man. She said yes to hanging out. I’ll call tomorrow for logistics
/r/askTRP10/01/18 05:02 PM
1

Cute. I’m bad at ranking, but I would put her at my equal... I took the advice, she said “hi”, I responded and I’ll ask her out regardless of whether or not she responds to my 2nd one
/r/askTRP10/01/18 03:56 PM
2

I’m going to recommend you make better friends. I haven’t been good at making tons of friends, like a lot of shallow connections with people you may party with, but I’m good at making rock solid connections with ~5 people that last. With these people I have many shared interests/hobbies. I bet you could find really good connections by pursuing any hobby long term, and have some sense of fulfillment. Also though, to get good friends, you probably need to be a good friend.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 02:10 PM
4

Yeah internships are for experience, not money. Companies lose money on interns, it’s an investment on their part to have a pipeline of trained potential workers. If you negotiate you’re going to look like you don’t know what you’re doing. I️ did 4 internships in college and negotiated for my first real job out of college. You don’t negotiate for internships
/r/askTRP17/11/17 08:47 PM
1

Zac isn’t a mass monster... 5’9” 170lb cut. Maybe you couldn’t reach it, but I️ have natty friends that are a little larger cut. They’ve also been lifting for 5+ years with good diets for at least a few. If you’re talking about adding 20lbs to that, which would look a lot more God-esque then I️ would agree with you... even when you were natty you may have looked great but suffered from body dysmorphia and not realized it. That’s extremely common
/r/askTRP06/11/17 08:25 PM
1

Zac Efron in bay watch is frequently used as an example of what can be achieved naturally. I️ agree, I️ don’t think that he achieved it naturally, but it can be done with 3-5 years of lifting and a near perfect diet. If someone has no interest in competitive bodybuilding, I️ wouldn’t recommend steroids to them. I️ think a “god like body” is probably a lot bigger in your head (and mine) than OP’s.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 06:47 AM
3

With two 45 lb dumbbells and two 20lb dumbells you can hit a lot. Day 1 Quads & Glutes: warm up with dumbbell Romanian deadlifts, 45lb should be light but give a nice stretch. Hack squats- 90lbs will be heavy, this will be your mass builder Lunges - with 90lb another solid exercise Day 2 Push Dumbbell bench press, 90lb will probably be light, go for high reps. Shoulder press, 90lb will be good Pec flys, use the 20 lb dumbells Lateral raises, use the 20 lb dumbells Finish using dumbell tricep ext…
/r/askTRP05/11/17 09:49 PM
2

Guys that I️ know in college with the most success are the people that are in positions to meet a lot of people. President of a fraternity and I’ve known two RAs that got a lot of girls. You’re just a freshman so you have plenty of time to do that. Join a club and become the president. As a bonus to the social benefits, you’ll get to follow your own mission and build on your resume. So this isn’t low effort, but after you build up your life and position it should be.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 09:31 PM
3

All I learned from this description is that he had a failed business and learned from mistakes. Does that mean his successful business is informing others how to get rich? Pass
/r/becomeaman19/10/17 02:45 AM
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Everyone thinks this is great, but I know someone that spent $100+ on ammo for a bunch of unique guns that he has and it was way too much for a first date. Girl ended up becoming uninterested. Maybe 2nd date or if you can get cheap ammo
/r/askTRP18/10/17 08:21 PM
7

Just respect their beliefs. Are you really such a genius that your beliefs and values are all the right ones? I have friends with completely different values, religions and political beliefs than me. I just respect their opinions and they respect mine. Some of these people end up clicking and being very similar to me despite some fundamental differences. It would probably do you well to learn to see things from other’s perspectives. And it’s totally OK to have a friend that disagrees with you ab…
/r/askTRP12/10/17 04:54 AM
1

Yeah, modern studies show that children from broken homes are just as successful and undamaged as children in two parent homes. Learned it in psychology 100. It’s just a common misconception that children are worse off from single parent homes.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 03:02 PM
1

Yeah if you guys are good long term friends, can’t you just respect eachother’s differences?
/r/askTRP10/10/17 12:24 AM
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People are probably going to come at you with the “don’t shit where you eat”... now you see why. But I’m going to say good job man. I’ve embarrassed myself too, it’s a sign that you’re growing and it’ll be natural to embarrass yourself as you try new things. It means you’re improving your skills. Nothing “real” happened as a result of this, you didn’t get fired. Don’t let emotions push you down, it’s ok.
/r/askTRP05/10/17 12:28 PM
1

Why do you need a plan B? If you want to become a programmer, just do it. It's not an evasive or unlikely career to get, and the steps to becoming one should be clear since so many people have already become one. If you want it, just do it. No one in my family had ever taken college math before, I'm an engineer just because I wanted the pay check. It wasn't that hard, no plan B necessary.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 05:20 PM
2

Lmao I've never encountered but I've heard they're bat shit crazy
/r/askTRP26/09/17 05:12 PM
2

Proud of being the most aesthetic!
/r/askTRP21/09/17 02:04 AM
2

8-12 reps is the best range for hypertrophy... that's what you want to do if you're trying to grow. Lifting heavy is great for when you hit a plateau and need to improve your CNS, but it's not the best range for hypertrophy. I'm one of the weakest guys out of all my lifting buddies but have the best physique, despite not lifting as long. 8-12 reps is growth mode. Sorry to correct you, not trying to be a douche and I know TRP loves lifting heavy, just trying to be helpful to those that don't know…
/r/askTRP20/09/17 11:24 PM
4

Lmao @ flounder pounding
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:51 PM
2

During my last year of college I was burnt out on women. I spent my time getting jacked, making good memories and doing what I wanted to do. IMO that's fine. If you're not interested in girls right now, don't pursue them. But in the mean time, you should still be trying to improve yourself. Gym, career, expanding social circle and improving on hobbies. If you're unmotivated to do all of those, you might have serious depression.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 08:49 PM
2

Take care of your rotator cuffs with some cable exercises. A lot of people I know have torn their RCs. It sucks and you won't be able to do a lot of lifts for a long time
/r/askTRP20/09/17 02:55 AM
2

Would agree but personally, with the help of experienced lifting friends it still took me about 6 months to get my squat form really correct. For someone walking into the gym alone with no idea what to do I wouldn't recommend that they head over to the squat rack on day one, even if that would be the best for adding strength and size to his body. If you go this route OP, get a personal trainer or a friend to walk you through it and watch a ton of videos about form.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 12:03 AM
2

Looks good, following any program will be good. But I wouldn't skip the legs even if yours are more developed, eventually your weak muscles will catch up because you get faster development in weaker muscles. Also for me I would swap out one of the row exercises on back day for a straight arm lat pull down. For me, three exercises of rows is a lot. Also I'd probably remove one of the presses from shoulder day and finish shoulders with some rotator cuff exercises. But follow any program and you'll…
/r/askTRP16/09/17 07:35 PM
5

If she's burns tons of bridges and has a new friend group every six months, she's probably not loyal. If she respects her friends/family that's definitely a good thing
/r/askTRP12/09/17 08:16 PM
1

Most people have things that hurt their SMV. I have really shitty skin, despite trying really really hard to change that. My buddy is 5'6". You're told to lift because that's something you CAN change. Be glad you're not in a wheel chair and quit bitching. There's literally nothing that you can do about your race so asking trp about it isn't going to help. If you're so obsessed go pay a therapist to listen to you vent
/r/askTRP11/09/17 06:05 AM
1

I was a strong Christian for my first 20 years of life. Anyone who thinks deeply and is analytical (like a lot of guys who are open to TRP) can realize how much B.S. is in the Bible. Still took me probably 8 months of thinking about it to reject the beliefs I was raised with. But once I got over the hump it seems stupidly obvious, and even if I tried I wouldn't be able to believe it again. Just my thoughts
/r/askTRP11/09/17 03:50 AM
1

Growing up my parents always made me feel like shit for needing help. So I hate it when someone else pays for me or does a chore for me. Idk how to help it, but I feel the same way in that regard. Overall I think it's put me way ahead of others my age in terms of how much stress and responsibility I can handle
/r/askTRP08/09/17 05:58 PM
1

You said you were in this just for sex, and she understood that, but you go on 4 dates with her first? Just for sex means no dates. She's older and might be looking to settle down, you move at a slow pace and then once you're hooking up you talk about fucking another girl? You've sent mixed signals. Discover what you want first and try again with other girls
/r/askTRP07/09/17 05:57 PM
1

I'm the same height as you, just measured my body fat at 12.5% and I weigh 176lbs... Im still kind of skinny. A year ago before I started lifting I weighed 169lbs. You need to buy a mass gainer (protein/carbs supplement) and lift at least 4x a week if you want to get big. For cardio just warm up on a stationary bike for 5 mins before every workout if you really want to, but it's not necessary. EAT.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 02:45 PM
11

Yep
/r/askTRP07/09/17 03:15 AM
1

Honestly in your position I would try to work in Human Reaources/Talent acquisition. I think it'll require a business degree. You get to work with people all day and build a good team. Also pay is similar to engineering
/r/askTRP06/09/17 11:28 PM
7

It's hard, but I think motivation is kind of a myth. Just start going out, lifting hard and the success will make you feel better and encourage you to keep the hard work flowing
/r/askTRP06/09/17 03:49 AM
4

Try being interested in other people. If you just want to be more likeable/magnetic read how to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie. It's a well respected classic. But don't think that book necessarily applies to women in terms of seduction
/r/askTRP06/09/17 01:15 AM
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