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Treat dating apps as a bonus to your game not a primary income source
/r/seduction11/05/19 11:48 AM
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Quick question, is this European country is Poland?
/r/seduction22/04/19 02:09 PM
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Your life your choice. But you can’t do the same thing on and on and expect different results.
/r/seduction04/07/18 07:31 AM
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I feel like you put too much pressure on it - results, results, results. When you got out try to have fun, Give other person a value, an awesome experience, stop being so focused about getting her number. Women gets attracted by emotions you make her feel (e.g. push & pull works great)
/r/seduction03/07/18 08:48 PM
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When you a see guy that is surrounded by women most of people assume he is successful in life (rich, smart, etc). So even if you are not, if others believe in that, it’s just a matter of time you become one. All depends on you
/r/seduction18/06/18 08:59 AM
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You should follow your conscience, is it worth fucking taken girl when there is a lot of free girls? Do what you gotta do but don’t treat it very important, because she is might just having fun with you
/r/seduction27/05/18 02:27 PM
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If you can’t manage to touch her in not pervy way then make some changes to the date plan because it’s really hard to touch somebody if for example you are sitting on the opposite of the table
/r/seduction25/05/18 10:42 PM
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Both, if you like the girl I bet you wanna explore her whole body so don’t be shy about it and test it all and see how she responds
/r/seduction25/05/18 08:09 AM
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She initiates contact = huge indicator of interest Just stay calm because the situation is very good: -she still initiated the next date even if you didn’t kiss her -she told you about that you didn’t kiss her so she is clearly into you and she wants more What do you have to do next? More physical contact. Between saying hi and kiss there is a huge gap. You have to make a bridge to get from one side to another (from hi to kiss) and what’s your bridge construction elements? Physical escalation. S…
/r/seduction25/05/18 07:18 AM
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Yeah probably there are a lot of women out here e.g. if a girl is hot babe 10/10 with high ego, then it’s obvious that she doesn’t have to look out for guys “, because a lot of them approach her
/r/seduction02/04/18 10:00 PM
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If you will try to hug her as a greeting and she will decline in my opinion she does come off as a creep.
/r/seduction02/04/18 11:15 AM
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Every guy does streak. Want to be 3% guy? Don’t do.
/r/seduction02/04/18 11:14 AM
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appreciate you put this TL;DW
/r/seduction31/03/18 09:52 PM
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1) Yea, there are of course some biological IOIs that she just can’t get rid of, but if you happen to meet really cold girl then she might not give any IOIs but still if she is e.g. responding well to your touch - that’s an IOI. So you should definitely look for not only active IOIs like flaking her hair, but some passive ones too. 2) girls definitely look around and scan people. So yes you can make her a little bit attracted to you but eventually you will have to approach her (very rare she wil…
/r/seduction31/03/18 09:49 PM
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You can’t buy charisma and get in one day. Charisma is what you build throughout whole life. Trying new things, meeting new people, getting out of comfort zone etc. this is how you build it
/r/seduction31/03/18 09:41 PM
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If she is attracted to you it’s obvious she enjoy every physical touch.
/r/seduction31/03/18 09:39 PM
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Unless you can time travel, You can’t change that you were a virgin in the past but you can do a lot of things to not be a virgin anymore so focus on that.
/r/seduction10/02/18 04:46 AM
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Your answer is right in your post: “I hate texting”. Just write her that and tell that you would love to hang out to catch up on old times and just see what’s up. But you know her from childhood so if you are scared of fucking this up in texting just call her.
/r/seduction09/02/18 12:10 AM
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You didn’t even have one date so please Dude don’t say “she is the one” because it’s like buying a random car, unknown model, just because someone told you it’s in your favorite color
/r/seduction09/02/18 12:06 AM
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TL;DR: you can’t lose anything while approaching the girl, there is only reward (even if she rejects you - You always have to take that feedback, it’s yours, yes, totally free) It’s a common problem. What should you do? Just go for it. Try taking one step further. Believe me after one month without approaching her you will find another “crush” and then you will realize “Lol man if I approached that one girl before maybe she would say no and I would be in the same place as I’m now”
/r/seduction09/02/18 12:03 AM
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Your welcome 1) I would say like 2-3 days and more but it really depends on the specific girl 2) Great then use texting - is a great tool because even with little texting (because you don’t want to spend whole day writing with her right) you can find topics that you will continue talking about in real life (you will also show her that you put attention to what she says)
/r/seduction07/02/18 12:16 PM
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You attend to the same events so just ask her opinion about it, does she enjoy it etc. Then ask if she want to hang out later.
/r/seduction07/02/18 12:01 PM
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Be friends first - sounds like a good way of getting into friend zone. If you want to have more female friends that’s totally fine, but if you want to get laid/girlfriend then you should focus on escalating (of course, calibrate - she how she responds to your touch/flirting etc., positive - you can make one step forward, negative - one step backwards).
/r/seduction07/02/18 12:30 AM
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Yea that’s so true if you feel nervous, awkward etc. because you weren’t speaking with any human being that day don’t feel bad about it, just accept this state and when u accepted it, then you can move things forward.
/r/seduction06/02/18 10:25 PM
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1) Keep the momentum/tension: Waiting for her message is not the worst approach but you have to remember to don’t wait too long. She can think either you are not interested or too afraid to text her. 2) Call instead of just texting: You hang out for a few hours with her. If you both enjoy the talk you should try to call her instead of only texting. Same as you draw attention to her looks, she draws attention to your voice. And if you focus on that, you can make a lot out of talk, more than texti…
/r/seduction06/02/18 10:05 PM
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I like that, I was just in the same position as you. You turned your self into “focus on improving my life mood” but you totally forgot why you started improving it. So ask yourself. Why I have started all of these? You wanted a reward so now it’s your turn to take it and be proud of yourself. Good luck on your road to better life!
/r/seduction06/02/18 09:02 PM
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There is no doubt that some girls are much more attracted to older guys that’s why you should take it as your advantage and if you see she likes it then use it as much as u can.
/r/seduction06/02/18 08:32 PM
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Dude I’m 19 also, sometimes look up how my mates texting game looks and I guarantee you that other guys texting game is not as good as you think. They generally being too needy (respond within a minute even if she is responding in like 15 or so, even if she is available) and make conversation like an interview. You say u are good at pickup in real life, I’m glad to hear that but I’m pretty sure You did by practice. The same rule applies to the texting game. You have to practice a lot not only wi…
/r/seduction06/02/18 08:16 PM
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“I just didn’t see an opportunity” - conclusion is simple - YOU have to make an opportunity But how you can make one ? That’s the right question. 1) Escalate - if you want to kiss her, you have to get her used to your touch. Start with something really simple and see how she responds to your physical contact (calibration - really important if you want to do well with the girls). If she feels good about then don’t be afraid to take one step forward, if she responds negative just go back a little …
/r/seduction06/02/18 11:42 AM
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An Indicator of Interest
/r/seduction05/02/18 09:50 AM
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