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Female friend turning 30 on Facebook shared this, probably to make her slutty self feel better that she's fucked her way through her sexual prime without landing anyone decent. She took a guy through the ringer when she was 26 - 28 would was both pretty alpha and a decent guy who wanted to settle down. Totally fucked him up because she couldn't handle "settling down" then.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 06:23 PM
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"What is social justice?" Profile said she's big into social justice. I just spit coffee on my computer. Thanks man
/r/seduction08/08/13 07:54 PM
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My god I wouldn't be surprised if he cuckolded. How about this gem in the "Postscript from Joy" Ladies, you have no need for a toolbox at all. Need something fixed? Be practical: call a guy friend, your boyfriend, or your husband. Men are so charming – they love to help! And when they come over and put some hard work into your house, you can repay them with a nice dinner that you can't cook.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 07:56 PM
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I've only been at it for a couple months, have made some progress, but still oscillate between RP and BP thought processes. I know it's going to take a long time before the RP becomes dominant and natural.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/13 03:11 PM
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I was very curious about what her justifications are for not marrying before 30. Dug up this article: http://english.globalrencai.com/do-not-marry-before-age-30/ She encourages them to explore during their 20s - typical "have fun" bullshit. She seems to think that when the average woman hits her 30s she will be more attractive to higher-quality men. Um, nope. She had two kids at 39 and 41 years old. Not feasible for the average woman. This woman has basically taken her own life path which happen…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 03:25 PM
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Yeah both men and women do it - women don't own the process. Some would argue that women do it more, but whether or not that's true, is not really important. What is important is understanding how women do it within the context of dating and relationships, how to leverage it, and how to avoid pitfalls caused by it.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 11:45 PM
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What the actual fuck dude.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 09:25 PM
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Obviously fake, but love the analogy of a depreciating asset. They're to be leased or borrowed.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 09:23 PM
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We slut shame no more than we beta shame. Both are appalling behavior. Slut-shaming is just un-PC in our current culture.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 09:19 PM
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Unless I'm misreading, the belts are simply being held by her until their children reach 18 years of age, and then 1 belt will be given to each of them. Not really that ridiculous in this case. Also, community property law is in several states - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Community_property
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 06:00 PM
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"Best friends" since middle school. He kissed her once and she "never reciprocated". Fast forward many years, he's now engaged, and suddenly she's DTF. Anyone else seen this behavior before? I feel like it's the rare case that validates orbiting for bluepills. I had the misfortune of getting my first girlfriend via this method. Orbited a girl for 2 years before giving up and starting to date someone else. She got jealous as shit all of a sudden wanted me.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/13 03:09 PM
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You have trouble with reading comprehension? This thread was about women being prescribed xannax more.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 11:08 PM
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I can't speak to prescription, but xanex is prescribed for the following, of which women are more than twice as likely to have: general anxiety disorder panic disorder specific phobias source: anxiety and depression association of america
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 06:56 PM
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Reddit newb question - I just want to verify that the "report" button goes to you (the moderators) and not reddit corporate moderators?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 06:37 PM
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I also don't feel that banging college bar regulars is going to pan out into my 40's Just move on to ~25 year olds, which are plentiful. You'll find they're generally better lays anyway and you 40 year old ass won't notice much of a difference physically. You're good for a long long time. Enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 03:47 AM
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This is the one of very few venues that I don't have to prefix, caveat, or qualify something I write because I might hurt someone's feelings. You know, how men in men's spaces used to act. I've realized that in my 30+ years on this planet, I've only had a brief moment of being part of men's space. All the sports I did were co-ed. All clubs in college were co-ed. Workplaces were always co-ed. Until I started a company. Several guys. It was a total fucking testosterone-driven frathouse. Long hours…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 01:45 AM
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Blue pill example flair because of all the horrible advice given, such as: Stop online dating Women feel that way too Both men and women cheat
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 01:17 AM
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11 of 27 are explicitly about what they provide for her. 0 of 27 are about the joy she gets from providing anything for them.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/13 12:19 AM
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13 likes... What kind of shit show would there be if a husband posted this?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 10:17 PM
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So there are two underlying problems. With regards to drinking to calm your nerves, I would wager that you have approach anxiety and/or anxiety in general with dealing with women. You need to develop a perspective of abundance with regards to women and pull them off whatever pedestal you have placed them on. A negative experience and/or reaction from one means absolutely fuck all. There are 3.5 billion more of them out there. Secondly, if you become needy when you are drunk, I would wager that t…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 10:03 PM
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"Proud to orbit at least 20 women."
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 09:57 PM
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She states: I asked him in a text message last week, "What has more value to you than improving your family relationship?" His response, "My sanity." Ohhhh let the manshaming begin! 'My Sanity' is an answer from a teenager looking for drama. He has to give you more than that, he's the father of your children. link Teenager looking for drama, or a man who just opened his eyes?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 07:52 PM
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Awesome, another item for my "going to hell checklist"!
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 05:08 PM
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More like "Cheating Whore Protection Act". Great.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 04:22 PM
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What?? What is the logic for that?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 03:53 PM
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Someone calls out how to identify blue pills: if a guy is treating you like you're the greatest thing ever/agreeing with you on everything/constantly trying to make plans with you exclusively, rather than a group of friends...he is probably "girlfriend zoning" you. comment link
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 03:15 PM
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I like how the author couldn't resist putting a feminist editorial spin on it: So how -- considering that recent data from the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics shows that, on average, 48 percent of women do housework (as opposed to 20 percent of men), and 82 percent of women (as opposed to 65 percent of men) spend time each day on financial and other household management tasks -- does Slaughter expect a "men's movement" to come about? Looking at the study, it was NOT a sample of MARRIED couples o…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 02:28 AM
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But what if after the chitchat she still doesn't bite the hook? What can I do after a rejection...blah blah Nothing. You are to actually not give a fuck because there are plenty of more fish in the water. You need to work on your abundance perspective.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/13 01:56 AM
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The youtube video description states so, if that can be trusted.
/r/MensRights24/07/13 10:47 PM
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My standard works like this: if her and him met in a bar tonight, and did not already know each other, would she be DTF? Gay bff - nope Ultra beta - nope Ex-boyfriend - yup
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 08:22 PM
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“Have you had sexual intercourse when you didn’t want to because a man gave you alcohol or drugs?” TIL that I've been raped a couple dozen times. I even went on to date a few of my rapists for a while.
/r/MensRights24/07/13 04:15 PM
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You obviously didn't read the whole thing.
/r/MensRights24/07/13 04:13 PM
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Hey Man, first off, don't beat yourself up too much. Understanding that your behavior is not desirable is the huge first step! Picking up the tab when we're not fucking. Since C makes very little money It's easy to justify this. I still struggle with this because I'm so financially secure now that money actually doesn't mean much to me. (I treat friends and my gf regularly) That said, your case was clearly going overboard - you allowed her to not give you everything you wanted while letting her …
/r/TheRedPill24/07/13 02:31 PM
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Thanks. I had done a search for study and apparently glossed over these - a failure on my part.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 10:13 PM
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I'm all for jumping on shitty female behavior, but I think their lack of gratuity is more a product of their financial/social status, rather than female. read: Persian Princess complex No woman in my social circle would act so ungracious, though I'm sure they'd still expect all the men to chase the bastard down and bare no responsibility for leaving their phone out in the open in a public place.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 08:18 PM
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"I have nothing to prove"...so I took the effort to write a song, produce it, gather together another 40 girls who have nothing to prove, produce a video, and push it out into space for all to see! Weeeeeeee
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 08:03 PM
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Women never stop shit testing - that is widely understood. How long have you been here, like a day?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 01:17 PM
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Oh man, sorry to hear that. My bad - that's quite the valid excuse. Hope you get turned around.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 11:43 PM
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You make her lady parts tingle in a way that her guy isn't doing it for her. She knows this and is restraining herself from hanging out one-on-one because she is afraid of escalation. Occasionally invite her along with whatever you're doing, but absolutely do not join up with her when she's with her friends.
/r/seduction22/07/13 10:03 PM
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Keep up the good fight man. With regards to exercise, there's no excuse not to start today! I don't know what options you have available, but running, situps, pushups, and jumping jacks don't require anything. Also, here's a good mindset to develop from Tyler of RSD: Why you should rather die than miss a day at the gym
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 09:38 PM
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They sound like a bunch of white knights to me. Stripping in and of itself is not inherently degrading. Have a conversation with a stripper and you'll generally find that they find their job empowering. That said, I have seen behavior by patrons that degrades strippers. Not tipping, name calling, etc.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 09:27 PM
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Now that she's lost her land whale card and getting attention again for the first time in years, she'll be off to ride the carousel soon. Weight loss destroys marriages people.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 08:46 PM
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I made it about 20 seconds into it before deciding that's exactly what I'd do. I couldn't watch after that.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 05:34 PM
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So we need more women in STEM because women.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 05:07 PM
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Do they explain why, exactly, lack of women (or men for the matter) is a bad thing in any given industry?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 04:44 PM
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So with regards to a woman's perspective, the opposite of nice is combination of the following: confident, unpredictable, different, masculine, and dominant. If you still identify with being a beta, I would wager that you have not come to find a confidence in yourself and who you are. TRP theory asserts that this is most important part of becoming alpha. In my own experience, I was fortunate enough that by the time I discovered TRP, I already had my shit together - good career, fit, confident, d…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/13 01:21 AM
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Affirmative.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 09:24 PM
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What does this have to do with TRP?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 09:00 PM
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But I think it says something about you if you are so unconfident that you specifically want someone weaker/dumber/less than you, or if you view your partner or potential partners that way. I think it says so much more about you that you spent 6 paragraphs on your own background to somehow prove that NAWALT. identifies as feminist and pro-equal rights across the board Hahaha. Not compatible. Stop kidding yourself. I'm a 27-year-old bisexual woman I met the man who's my match We both have the com…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 07:45 PM
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Game works very similar. TRP absolutely applies. Japanese women have less hang-ups about having sex. (No Judeo-Christian guilt) If you're white, you will have a big advantage with a subset of Japanese women who like white guys. You see a lot of dorks with girls 2-3 points higher than them. Conversely, many Japanese women will not be interested in you because of your skin. If you don't speak good Japanese you will not be able to game 98% of the women there. Focus on language acquisition hardcore.…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 05:19 PM
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Seen this before. The 8 usually gets the attention. She poisoned the 7's perspective while you were in the bathroom out of jealousy, even if she didn't want attention in the moment herself. Also, bravo for not moving away when they told you to.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/13 04:57 PM
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This is categorically not my experience as a straight guy who frequents gay bars/clubs. (Two close friends are gay, and I'm down for it because it's actually a good place to pick up straight girls.) The only time I ever have trouble with a dude being aggressive with me is when I accidentally give an IOI. I'd wager that if you actually like guys, you're probably giving off IOIs left and right at the club. Expect to be approached in that case.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 05:55 PM
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Eh posting a second comment. This also wreaks of the concept of "bitching to brag." If you've ever been to a club with a couple 6+ girls, you've probably encountered this. Girl A: "Ugh I wish these guys would stop hitting on me! I've had at least three come up to me already!" (I am so damn hot!) Girl B: "I know tell me about it. I've had five and it's not even midnight!" (I'm hotter than you!)
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 04:39 PM
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I'm in NYC. I see a LOT of shit on the subway - from the masturbators to the break dancers to the hustlers. I rarely see anyone game on the subway. Guys jerking off are more common. If she wanted to write about that I would support her - that's fucking gross. This BZ probably got hit on twice in one week and now it's a fucking epidemic.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 04:34 PM
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She looks about the right age and he looks like the typical "nice guy" who waited around for her to "realize how nice he is."
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 04:35 AM
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She will sleep with neither orbiters.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 04:33 AM
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From OP's story I gather he's 17-18yo. Much as I dislike Justin Beiber in 10,000 ways, OP's look and fashion would be in line with women in that age bracket. From one old fart to another, you sound like an old fart.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 04:32 AM
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What a woman says she wants (or doesn't) quite often doesn't align with what she needs. She may really have a block based on her bad experience, and possibly the only way to open sex with her was in a gentle, caring manner, but I doubt that will keep her happy long term. You're right - I'd say start mixing in some rough with the gentle.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 06:52 PM
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Boys and men tend to be more aggressive, and men can teach the boundaries of such aggression. They can teach boys how to sublimate those feelings into something positive. Bless this woman for her work, but this framing still drives me nuts. Aggression is not an inherently negative trait.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 02:52 PM
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"Women tend to be more honest." "You mean like fake eyelashes, makeup, etc?"
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 08:13 PM
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I agree that it's a key to do what comes natural - that is, get off, but sex without reading your partner and acting 100% in self interest is why most ONS sex sucks relative to LTR sex.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 07:43 PM
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Sounds like troll. Smells like troll. Back to SRS with you!
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 05:06 PM
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Please keep in mind no linking to Gawker sites. "Offending" tweet: http://img.gawkerassets.com/img/18tnvl4zircuspng/ku-xlarge.png Article text: They believe that certain groups of people are inherently smarter than others. They write books about how rape is a natural part of human evolution. And now, with another scandal rocking the world of evolutionary psychology, we can officially welcome a new breed of mad scientist into the spotlight: evopsych douchebags. Evolutionary psychology has often b…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 04:50 PM
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Political correctness is an attempt to protect feelings, a very female-oriented desire, which is why it doesn't exist in male-dominated groups. And no, not all women in the software, or other male-dominated industries know this. This is why we're seeing more and more shit like donglegate and issues with dancers at events. They're making a stink and it stinks.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 03:02 PM
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Wow that 2nd link is gold. "Our minds can talk us into anything. We [women] can rationalize anything in our heads. You don't realize until later when we're fighting with you about it how we justified it in our crazy heads."
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 02:29 PM
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He's helping you, not running you down. Your original post, with a 2-paragraph justification of your masculineness, your defensive, ad hominem response to GayLubeOil's advice, indicate that you are not very secure in your being. You first need to accept that before you can improve upon it.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/13 06:34 PM
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