gruder Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Always leave a girl better than when you found her. Sometimes we forget that. No kidding, had me a real cutie few weeks back, things progressing great, but she would never offer to pay for anything nor make plans, but was always open to making plans, long story short dropped her.	/r/seduction	02/08/13 02:45 PM
6	Always leave a girl better than when you found her. Sometimes we forget that. I'm confused. You had a meaningful and sexually passionate relationship, but ended it?	/r/seduction	02/08/13 01:20 PM
65	Seddit, lets compile a list of simple exercises that improve your game (and more) Broscience 101	/r/seduction	06/06/13 09:20 PM
0	Sedditors of Nashville! It's time to open up a lair! Nothin' wrong with that.	/r/seduction	10/05/13 01:51 PM
3	Billy's Guide to Shit Tests Shit just blew my mind.	/r/seduction	10/05/13 01:35 PM
1	Billy's Guide to Shit Tests Her frame is the test, and simply by taking it you fail. There is no right answer to the test, it’s pre-marked with a failing grade. You don’t take the test because she’s not allowed to test you. This is some great information for people to soak in. It highlights the reality of the situation, you were fine before this girl, you'll be fine after her, but in the moment you have to grab her attention and control it, rather than vice versa.	/r/seduction	10/05/13 01:31 PM
0	Sedditors of Nashville! It's time to open up a lair! Try two guys all greased up one standing back watching while another one literally does a walking-talking line down the bar. It wasn't pick-up, it was an insult to women and quite frankly I found it hard to watch.	/r/seduction	10/05/13 01:10 PM
1	Sedditors of Nashville! It's time to open up a lair! I live in Nashville, sadly, I was Cannery one night and saw some guys doing "active" pick-up... it was hard to watch.	/r/seduction	09/05/13 09:30 PM
9	This is one of my favorite pickups I've ever seen. I'm no expert in PUA, so what did he do right? wrong? hand holding for almost the whole interaction I could be hating, but that seemed creepy. He kinda came off as desperate, not to mention a douche yelling into the phone at her mom. IMO.	/r/seduction	08/05/13 09:37 PM
6	Some bullet points for your Monday Fix Your Emotional Issues Would you, by chance, spell out what a debilitating issue could be? Like, certain symptoms which you had to address and work with.	/r/seduction	29/04/13 06:53 PM
0	Billy's Guide to Learning Pickup TL;DR You shouldn’t go out and say your goal is to get 5 numbers. It should be to try to number close 5 girls. Don’t go out with the goal of making out; go out with the goal of going for the make out.	/r/seduction	29/04/13 04:00 PM
2	A little pre-date hack that has been working well for me. What are some that work well for you? I don't know why I laughed out loud reading this, possibly the thought of some female in conversation about ball hair.	/r/seduction	27/04/13 12:50 AM
12	A little pre-date hack that has been working well for me. What are some that work well for you? shave+wash your balls meticulously I shaved my balls once, ONCE.	/r/seduction	26/04/13 05:47 PM
1	Body language changes your hormones and chemicals in your brain. You can literally "fake it" until you become it. "It" being confidence... Don't brag or come off as showy, but learn how to make yourself sound exciting. I know that is still vague, but it ties into the other points. You have to vocalize your very being, this involves creating a "character" of yourself. Think of yourself as the reason attention is being given, and now you must entertain the audience; this can be done via character roles, again, not lying, but emphasizing yourself. High energy, can help you create characters, and no they won't be spot on at first, but …	/r/seduction	25/04/13 07:08 PM
7	Body language changes your hormones and chemicals in your brain. You can literally "fake it" until you become it. "It" being confidence... Okay well, you've learned the visual aspect, and it sounds like your working on the mental game. Now.... how can you emphasize who you are and what you know (includes who you know, but don't name drop, ever)? Can you think of better ways to say things, things youve said a hundred times, where you work, what you do, your thoughts? Fluctuation of voice... THIS. Of ALLLLLL my experiences, fluctuation in the tone and manner of your voice can draw people to you, they will laugh at something you say j…	/r/seduction	25/04/13 05:57 PM
2	Body language changes your hormones and chemicals in your brain. You can literally "fake it" until you become it. "It" being confidence... What are you faking? You can't be a liar, to start, I can smell someone is lying to me before they even know they are. You have to find a sincere middle ground where you feel comfortable asserting yourself, without coming off as too aggressive. It's key to try and find the alpha role you already have, and amplify it.	/r/seduction	25/04/13 05:41 PM
21	Body language changes your hormones and chemicals in your brain. You can literally "fake it" until you become it. "It" being confidence... With this mindset, method actors like Christian Bale would be completely, utterly insane.	/r/seduction	25/04/13 02:48 PM
33	[FR] I got wayyy too drunk at a party. I had an awesome line, and have been dating the girl for a few months now, despite peeing on her. whoaaaa whoa kids?? He pee'd on the girl, not in her........	/r/seduction	22/03/13 05:42 PM
7	Why one-itis is a piece of shit, and getting rejected is awesome. (And why you should make moves early!) Ha, yea, just a poke. But it depends. If I'm already confident with her sexual attraction then the poke is a playful push almost to literally break the kino barrier and make quick progress. Whereas if I'm still working on feeling her out, then it's just a subtle poke to maybe point out something funny in the room or just to grab her attention, via having been touched, and then controlling it by showing her the intent (not really though because you just wanted to start-up some kino). Like I said,…	/r/seduction	20/03/13 05:39 PM
11	Why one-itis is a piece of shit, and getting rejected is awesome. (And why you should make moves early!) First Date: Poke leg - view her reaction. Grab both arms while she's walking ahead of you and pull yourself in close behind to whisper something (anything). Note her reaction. Second Date: Repeat First date with extended touching post initial. If she's all go, go for kiss.	/r/seduction	20/03/13 04:20 PM
1	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. There are a ton of city league intramurals where I'm at so I picked up flag football, and also started grabbing beers from places I knew had a good selection, even if just to stop by, have a drink, and leave there's always chances for meeting women. Also, doing something like jogging or biking can be an entry, but more or less are focusing on a mindset that you like to stay in shape and people(women) respond to that as well.	/r/seduction	27/02/13 02:12 PM
1	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. Honestly, I feel the nihilism is subconscious and we either apply it when we first meet a girl, effectively objectifying her and anything else between us, or give her attention and show interest and thus, in my opinion, end up more than likely getting the "Ohhh we're friends" card.	/r/seduction	27/02/13 02:14 AM
2	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. By turning a shit test in your favor you have to objectify the subjective. Take the subject at hand, say she says she wants to be friends, and visualize it objectively as, okay friends, things in common, people i like, to which you realize she's not a friend, nor friend material, and you counter "ah, i got friends, you seemed a little more special" or something to that degree...	/r/seduction	26/02/13 10:14 PM
6	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. Recent shit test. Her: I'm getting a flirty vibe from you, are we friends? Me: I dunno, can't say I really know you that well. Still not sure if best response. But def felt the alpha note being strung.	/r/seduction	26/02/13 10:08 PM
17	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. Score, and you'll ignore. Works both ways.	/r/seduction	26/02/13 09:48 PM
9	Keys to (winning) at the game. "A Ha" realizations. 2 is gold. Once I realized that time spent sitting on my couch was NOT time spent out near people, I knew a change was needed.	/r/seduction	26/02/13 09:46 PM
3	Something that completely changed my game. and Lift This is key, keep the testosterone up, keep the stress down, and feel good about yourself man!	/r/seduction	06/02/13 07:43 PM
1	[FR] UPDATE To that Cold/Mean Girl and the first (maybe last) date. hey man, i'm not bailing shit, if op thinks he can land some stuck up bitchin' fine ass then by all means....	/r/seduction	11/01/13 12:54 AM
1	[FR] UPDATE To that Cold/Mean Girl and the first (maybe last) date. I don't know what you're asking here. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, obviously this guy thought she was fine or why waste his time trying to game up some bitch?	/r/seduction	10/01/13 06:55 PM
1	[FR] UPDATE To that Cold/Mean Girl and the first (maybe last) date. I bet she fine though	/r/seduction	10/01/13 05:20 PM
4	Be honest, be shameless, and take full responsibility for everything. Drip drip drip	/r/seduction	05/12/12 03:23 PM
14	I've come to a realization about the "nice guy syndrome" Kicking the "nice" habit sounds a bit odd. What I believe the issue here is your "reachability". Being nice is one thing everyone can appreciate and enjoy, being overly reachable, well, that leaves nothing to the imagination.	/r/seduction	03/12/12 07:33 PM
3	What are the easiest tricks of PUA that give the best returns? I agree, nothing too fancy, a smile can go a long way.	/r/seduction	13/11/12 02:18 PM
5	Text Game Tips with an Example I dunnnno, I've dated some very dry humor women who basically took me to town in the sack, so I'd keep an eye out.	/r/seduction	12/11/12 07:00 PM
1	Text Game Tips with an Example Good call here, as she is ultimately implying she is above and/or not interested in you... however, in noting that she has the personality to make these claims, to be "friends" while going out on a monday rather than accepting if you are going out somewhere you are probably at LEAST someone with which to associate(ie friend). So A) it is a test and teasing is appropriate. BUT, her title oriented personality may be pushed away if you suggest NOT friends, so I'd be careful there. B) she is a woman…	/r/seduction	12/11/12 04:53 PM
8	Text Game Tips with an Example Skype could be risky, cause it can lead to awkward/overbearing if you're not already intimately close. So, I'd suggest sending them nice texts at first seeing how they are doing (depending on the distance and circumstances really) and then maybe suggesting (also dependent on distance and prior relationship) to come see them or perhaps even Skype.	/r/seduction	12/11/12 04:47 PM
1	Text Game Tips with an Example I like your first point, to be more assertive by suggesting steak, however... if you want, in my opinion, more control over the outcome then suggest something rather than asking and not asserting. Still good stuff.	/r/seduction	12/11/12 04:44 PM
4	Tips and Tricks to display dominance and project oneself as a leader Self-assured and above the matter... it is trivial to their pursuit. I agree as well.	/r/seduction	06/09/12 03:56 PM
1	WTF is this ? Makes me angry ... For some reason I read "Makes me hungry"... with which I agreed.	/r/seduction	15/08/12 05:43 PM
2	Never have nothing interesting going on in your life borrow a friend's dog Genius.	/r/seduction	09/08/12 02:54 PM
24	So I opened a girl on the train today... and didn't follow up. I feel terrible. "Yea!!... waiiit ohhh yeaaa"	/r/seduction	08/08/12 08:02 PM