grumbleofpug Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	It's Done Boys Congrats, good advice	/r/Divorce_Men	21/08/20 12:56 PM
1	Things got real today Good luck, bro!	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/20 05:50 AM
1	Things got real today I think some of the comments are tough love on what they’ve experienced and what you might experience. I think your approach isn’t necessarily bad but if your wife is currently talking about lawyers, mediation, etc, you might need to change your mindset to a defensive/offensive posture to protect yourself. If you can’t protect yourself, how will you be able to provide for your kids?	/r/Divorce_Men	15/08/20 12:55 AM
5	One last attempt That’s fine, but she doesn’t have to know that.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/08/20 04:15 AM
6	One last attempt Good luck on the reconciliation efforts. I would keep all your custody and belongings plans to yourself because if you’re getting lawyers it will likely be used against you as a negotiating tool.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/20 11:13 PM
2	Tell me this is normal Depending on who is saying that to you, I’d stop telling your story to anyone who isn’t a therapist. I found that I wouldn’t feel better about my case when I was telling a friend or family member, I’d feel worse because they couldn’t understand even if they had been through a similar process. If you’re going through hell, just keep going and get out.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/20 12:55 PM
2	Can your STBX take more than you have or make? I suspect a lawyer will say that since things are relatively equal in income, the amount of child support will depend on the amount of time you are taking care of the children. It’s critical you talk to an attorney, a child support calculation can last a long time, even past age 18 if your children have special needs.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/07/20 03:58 PM
2	Another question - Custodial vs non-Costodial Parent in a 50/50 situation Child support depends on your state. Generally though, if you make a lot and she doesn’t, you’re going to be looking at some type of payment even with 50/50 custody based on the income disparity.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/07/20 10:00 PM
2	STBXW is trying to build a false narrative. Again. Hang in there, I’ve been in the same place with mounting attorneys fees.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/20 01:02 AM
2	STBXW is trying to build a false narrative. Again. Buy a body cam and record interactions.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/06/20 12:59 AM