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| 12 | What is the role of a girl’s/woman’s father?Dating as a 24 year old man. To me, a good Father is one who knows how to be patient. To know how to discipline without judgement or shame. It takes patience and genuine care to say "You did this wrong, here's the right way to do it" without the listener feeling hurt by it, and actually getting something out of it. A good Father wants to teach his kids how to succeed in life, to steer them away from bad decisions, and for them to earnestly be receptive to it. To know how to be a trusted confidan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Spending 50/50why would you not want to use your resources to bless your loved ones (all of them) in all the ways you can? Because if they aren't satisfied with just me, my time and my energy, I view that as a business transaction, and not an honest personal relationship. Sure, I could make their lives easier, and they wouldn't have to worry about a lot, but I'm not going to do it because that will unavoidably create a toxic, unhealthy dynamic. I'm speaking from having done it before. especially if money isn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Spending 50/50To your examples of helping with the garden, or cooking, or going on a vacation, I consider that part of spending time and energy. I don't fully count the money needed to accomplish the task as part of it, nor do I really count money spent on shared experiences. What I mean is more explicitly buying a gift like jewelry or items or outright paying for things for the other person. If the money gets spent, it must be something we both share, because I view that money being spent towards our relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Spending 50/50Speaking only for myself, I don't nor do I want to ever mix money and the spending of money with romance and gestures of love. If I want to show them I love them, I do it through efforts of my time and physical energy. If they need my money to know I love them, I can't view that as anything but bad. On the other side, I would never accept my partner spending money on me as a true gesture of their love for me, getting spoiled does nothing for me, their time and energy is what's valuable. Money is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 11:30 PM |
| 3 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI'd assume plays up acting innocent on the outside because really a freak on the inside. Dangerous, but what doesn't kill you is fun while it lasts. Easy yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:26 PM |
| 9 | Over 85 percent of dating problems would solve itself if women didn’t go for men out of their league.If 85% of men and women mentally grew up past 15 those dating problems would go away. None of what we debate here is ever a man or a woman exclusive problem, it's that everyone is stuck in high school drama bullshit emotional immaturity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:58 PM |
| 3 | There is nothing “creepy” or “predatory” about 30-40 year old men wanting to date or sleep with 20-25 year olds, it isn’t men’s fault women don’t age wellNo, it's weird. Worse, men trying to justify it out themselves as even weirder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:34 AM |
| 5 | Spending 50/50I want to be an equal partner. I have no desire to be "submissive" in anyway, to follow someone else's lead, nor do I have any interest in imposing what I want or making decisions for anyone else. I want a partner who wants to make equal choices with me, about our equal partnership. I might lean more "dominant" in practice, but I have no intentions of going out of my way to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Spending 50/50Fair enough, to each their own for what they want out of a relationship, I'm simply responding with my personal perspective to the post you asked. I don't view it as "less dominant." I don't feel "emasculated" by paying 50/50. I don't view spending money on my partner as charming in any way. I'm a romantic too, if I want to make a romantic gesture, I do something, I make something, or take action in some way, money and gifts are cheap and meaningless to me. If my money is how I'm enhancing her l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 11:21 PM |
| 6 | Spending 50/50No one should be in anyone's pedastal, that's toxic relationship 101. If she can't even pay for half of a meal, an insignificant facet of a relationship, then I don't believe she views me in a healthy way. I don't want my partner's money either, and I don't want her to want mine, I agree, it should be mutually enhancing each other's lives. You're getting into dangerous wording by saying "she can only do that if she's dedicated to me". Are you implying that you paying for the full of the meal is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 10:55 PM |
| 12 | Spending 50/50I'd say you're in the group of putting your partner on a pedastal, as above you. I view that perspective of "she wants to be cared for and I'll do it for her" as a lack of respect for me on their part. If she really saw me as an equal, she'd happily pay half, and bring half to the "table" for anything in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 10:44 PM |
| 16 | Spending 50/50I want a partner that is my equal. Not above, not below. Going 50/50, is viewing my partner as an equal. If they don't like that, they need to find someone who puts them on a pedastal or views them as beneath them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 10:37 PM |
| 3 | [Debate] Men shouldn't take dating advice from women, period.Ya got me lmao. The paradox of to follow it or not. Either way, I just think everyone is better off learning the hard way, then trying to take shortcuts and "tricks" by using what other people tell them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Men below 30, would you date a woman who used to be a sugarbaby? Maybe she used a sugar dady thrice her age to cover law school fees or somethingDid once. Mistake. No, I won't ever again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:09 PM |
| 4 | [Debate] Men shouldn't take dating advice from women, period.When it comes to dating, no one should take advice from anyone else. We are all too unique in terms of who we are, our personalities, our looks, for what works for one person to work for another. It's better to completely ignore everything everyone else says, than to take bits and pieces of shoddy "advice" that probably won't work for you. Men shouldn't listen to other men, women shouldn't listen other women. You have to listen to yourself, it's difficult, but you have to learn it on your own, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 06:08 PM |
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