grunengras Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream media are you suggesting a majority or all feminists shame men with small dicks? The majority of women, hell, just the majority of people in general shame men with "small" dicks. And I put small in quotations because 5 inches is still considered small by most women despite being the global statistical average lol. That and height-shaming men are two of the few types of body shaming still widely accepted by "progressive" folks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/24 08:30 PM
3	Red Pill has ruined the current dating and marriage scene. Is it red pill specifically that’s damaging relationships? I would even say the RP has saved relationships. Once men become aware of hypergamy, and the type of shit women consume on social media (grifters calling normal and harmless behaviors in their male partners "red flags", the "you can do better, queen" mentality, and of course the "ick" bullshit), they can be better prepared to work against it and prevent their woman losing interest in them and subscribing to these ideas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 09:47 AM
4	Red Pill has ruined the current dating and marriage scene. The current "red pill movement" is just a natural "survival response" or adaptation to the mentality of modern women and the modern dating scene. Men used to cherish their wife. Your grandpa did not consume red pill media, and he still loves your grandma. Your grandma also didn't consume media of average and below-average women encouraging women to leave men who are genuine and love and care for them because of "icks" or "you can do better, queen!" bullshit, and that's why she still loves your g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 09:46 AM
1	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity Like not respecting women as people because they assume "hypergamy". I can respect women as people while still not liking how many of them subscribe to a hypergamous mindset/lifestyle and not respecting the choice some women make to live that way, while still respecting them as people and not seeing them as some kind of subhuman/non-human like you suggest we do. I'm fairly confident we all have people in our lives that we respect, but disagree with them on specific things. This is no different. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 09:19 AM
3	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity So he felt you weren't good enough for him yet he's the one that "fumbled"? But I'm sure if we reversed the genders/roles here, and you were the one that decided he wasn't good enough for you, it'd be a "slay queen" moment because you "knew your worth" and moved on to find better, right?	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/24 09:00 AM
3	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity Yeah. He probably "fumbled" her by giving her the ick because he blinked 0.01ms too slow or some shit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 12:56 PM
4	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity Exactly. If I put up a "facade" that was somehow suddenly attracting women I would just make that "facade" my actual personality because it'd clearly be more attractive than how I am right now. So what then? Am I a super-liar? How does that work? Their parameters for what "lying" is are arbitrary and confusing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 12:55 PM
8	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity but he fumbled me. So it quite literally didn't, then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 10:56 AM
6	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity OP thinks it’s ok to lie to women for sex, Labelling men who work on their "game" to come off as more attractive than they actually are/think they are as "lying to women for sex" is a pretty slippery slope. Does "faking" confidence, which is basically the name of the game when it comes to approaching people and finding a partner, now make you someone who is "lying to women for sex" because you're actually quite a shy person otherwise? Does making yourself look extra good for a night out at the c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 08:11 AM
10	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity Then become a better person?? Better =/= dateable, though. You can be a great person but with no romantic or sexual appeal. Or simply physically unattractive enough that no matter how great of a person you are, you don't have people finding you attractive regardless. If your hobbies, interests etc are simply things women look down on (I'm talking harmless things, not weird shit - just look at this graph from this study where it shows women literally look down more on men who play video games or …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 08:08 AM
–	Having a partial facade a good courting strategy for men, even if it annoys women who value authenticity As an autistic guy, having a "facade" is basically the only way I can ever hope to find a partner. Straight, cis, NT women do not want autistic men unless they are physically attractive or wealthy/prominent enough that they can look past it. Unless I want to die alone and without a single romantic or sexual experience, I have no choice but to put on a "facade" from the second I meet someone to the time we part ways. I've accepted that if I want to find a partner I'm just gonna have to mask, and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 07:59 AM
1	Why and how do people fall out of love or "lose feelings" or "lose attraction" in a relationship? Most people don't just "lose attraction" to someone - they usually do it when they think they can go for "better", or even have a specific "better" in mind. Sadly "upgrade culture" as I call it is basically the norm now. Outside of that, the only time it really happens is if something changes, or they discover something about that person, that changes their perception of them greatly enough to lose attraction to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 07:28 AM