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| 4 | In middle of silver bullet, could use support or adviceDo not underestimate the protective order -- go out of your way to be as compliant as possible because you can break them accidentally and still be held accountable. My ex tried to trick me into contacting her AND tried showing up at social events where she suspected I would be. Document everything! The who, what, when, where, and why -- but keep the why to yourself, maybe even in a separate document. Make sure the document has timestamps. Document the taking of the valuables, with pictures if y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/26 12:28 PM |
| 1 | How to survive silver bullet divorceMy experience has made me understand the phrase, "We have a legal system, not a justice system" a whole lot better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/26 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Silver Bullet Divorce"Obviously we agreed to these terms given that Judges in domestic relation courts operate based on a preponderance of evidence (51% true)" -- this is not correct. They're supposed to do so but the incentives for the judges generally makes them much more willing to grant the orders than an actual preponderance would suggest. Document everything. Use cameras when you can. Unfortunately, you will want to do this with your children for some time as well because another false accusation is coming. It… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/26 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Are We Even Supposed to be Married for Life Anymore?Bro -- read stuff from the High Conflict Institute, specifically, "The Five Kinds of People who can Ruin Your Life" (title might be slightly different). I am making every one of my children read it before they're allowed to date. Then once before college. Then again in college, if they want me to pay for it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/26 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Ex-wife's boyfriend causing problems.Contact the IRS. One of my best friends used to work in their prosecutorial division, fast tracked his career. Those guys do not fuck around. To paraphrase him, "if we decided we're going to get you, we effectively have infinite resources and no state or local yokel is going to risk the blowback". | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/26 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Is there a judge out there that would give one parent 93% of all assets?Get a lawyer. It will be well worth it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/26 02:25 AM |
| 3 | what to do immediately after dropping off kidsDocument the time together in a way that will both help you remember the good times and protect you going forward. Pictures of you having fun, anything notable or interesting the children did & said, their temperament, locations, etc. Then, if you can, try to get in some exercise -- even just a walk. In general, I find having a planned activity afterward helps. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/26 11:28 PM |
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