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Conversationgruntledjoe/r/seduction28/07/20 08:44 PM
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Fundamentalsgruntledjoe/r/seduction01/05/20 01:20 AM
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Lifestylegruntledjoe/r/seduction20/08/20 03:15 PM
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I had this same question, and this comment just pushed me to text my date back after yesterday’s date
/r/seduction28/12/20 05:28 PM
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I just asked another one out via dm’s (not my preferred choice at all but that was the only way to do it), but I don’t think it’ll get anywhere. I was nervous af about doing it since last time we communicated was in March, but I ended up forcing myself to hit the send button. It was a simple “want to get coffee” type of text. I think she thinks I’m a fuckboy so it probably won’t work. If you don’t want to see these, I can stop, I do it because I get the sense that your genuine and not fake. I ca…
/r/seduction17/12/20 05:03 AM
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I mean it is helpful to not have terrible breath when you’re trying to seduce a woman
/r/seduction05/12/20 08:59 PM
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Are you saying be gracious in getting shut down, because things might change later on?
/r/seduction02/12/20 01:48 AM
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Tbh I’ve already prepared myself for them saying no, so I can get out and meet a few more and put them in rotation. I’m starting to force myself to believe that every girl wants me and the only reason it doesn’t work out is because of something I did. Side note: do you have an IG/SC? If you do and get rejected by a girl who you follow, do you still keep them or do you just delete them?
/r/seduction01/12/20 04:21 AM
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I feel like one is a maybe and the other will take some work. We’ll find out soon enough though. Thanks man, I needed the kind words after my latest debacle
/r/seduction01/12/20 04:17 AM
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It is what it is, still stings because I really do like her too, but I’ve just got to move on. I don’t suffer from oneitis, and already have 2 more in mind. I’ll post updates on those as well when I get to it
/r/seduction01/12/20 04:15 AM
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She isn’t single like I thought, I completely read the situation wrong and have made things worse. I’m not tripping though
/r/seduction01/12/20 04:04 AM
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“As a late bloomer” what age were you in this stage?
/r/seduction30/11/20 03:38 AM
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Mind explaining how you missed some signs for some of us other dumbasses?
/r/seduction23/11/20 01:13 AM
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So in a post about taking personal responsibility and stop being a bitch you still found a way to play the victim. That’s cool
/r/seduction19/11/20 04:04 PM
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Ok
/r/seduction17/11/20 03:53 AM
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Let’s not go overboard here
/r/seduction17/11/20 03:50 AM
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It didn’t work out like I had hoped. I was preferring something more to where we’d run into each other and be able to strike up a conversation, but we were both busy in different departments. The only way I could’ve still asked is if I went up straight to her and asked her then. I could tell she was busy with her stuff and so I didn’t. Now I have to wait until Saturday to see her again.
/r/seduction10/11/20 04:48 AM
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Alright anon1880, it’ll happen tomorrow unless she calls out. Thanks for the advice
/r/seduction09/11/20 01:07 AM
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I still think she’s cute, and we do work in different departments. (In a grocery store). We never had a solid relationship, because when she first started I was still new to “game” and tried too hard to make her like me and was a nice guy. I’ve been in this sub long enough to grow out of that shit and started working on myself. (I’ve put on 10 lbs of muscle). Think I should straight up go for it or not because it is in the workplace? I’m not afraid of rejection if you were wondering if that was …
/r/seduction08/11/20 11:15 PM
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Man I’m right on the border with this. Long story short, a girl I crushed on hard before finding out she was engaged recently broke it off and is now single. I’ve kinda lost my original attraction to her, while I think she’s trying to get my attention back. She’s a coworker so that makes it difficult to straight up ask her out. Do you have any advice for me here?
/r/seduction08/11/20 11:08 PM
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In this situation I’d say just leave the queue
/r/seduction01/11/20 03:32 PM
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I’ve heard Pakistan isn’t too bad this time of year
/r/seduction01/11/20 03:30 PM
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Ask both of them out*
/r/seduction11/10/20 02:23 PM
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Good life advice right here
/r/seduction18/09/20 12:41 PM
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Damn, well thanks for saying something. Should I have a 75/25 ratio of right to left swipes then?
/r/seduction07/09/20 01:39 PM
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I just swipe right as fast as possible and look at the bios if we match. However, you’re not wrong about those women only looking for fans.
/r/seduction06/09/20 10:55 PM
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Get a haircut as well. We just helped op out a lot lol
/r/seduction05/09/20 07:44 PM
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Hit the gym, shower frequently, be true to yourself and you’ll have better success
/r/seduction05/09/20 06:25 PM
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I only follow people I’ve met irl. Idgaf about any influencers and I’ve deleted one who tried this bullshit attitude towards me while still trying to be an influencer.
/r/seduction20/08/20 04:17 PM
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I’ll check it out, thanks again for your time
/r/seduction20/08/20 04:14 PM
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This is a different perspective. I only try to follow women on IG so if/when they follow back (I’ve got the privacy thing on) they’ll see I have more girls that follow me back. I thought it’d be a small social proof idea
/r/seduction20/08/20 03:46 PM
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Any recommendations? I’ve read the art of war, how to win friends and influence people and command glory that another post linked.
/r/seduction20/08/20 03:44 PM
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I’ll keep that in mind. I’ve worked to get over my neediness and have developed the abundance mentality. I know I can always attract more girls it’s just the next steps I need help with. I’ve turned down a woman before at a bar even though I really could have gone home with her. I’m not trying to be an ass here but she wasn’t my type and was about 100 lbs bigger than me so that was why I didn’t. Gave me a bit more confidence that I’m not as ugly as I think I am sometimes
/r/seduction20/08/20 03:40 PM
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We all gotta start somewhere or something to that effect. I’ll be honest I’m sick of being early-mid 20s and being a virgin who’s never even kissed a girl
/r/seduction20/08/20 03:35 PM
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I’m still new to the game but I’m trying to learn the ins and outs quickly
/r/seduction20/08/20 03:33 PM
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This is what I was looking for. Thanks
/r/seduction20/08/20 03:32 PM
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By going up to her and saying “hello”
/r/seduction17/08/20 01:33 PM
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That’s up to you if you like them or not.
/r/seduction11/08/20 02:26 PM
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This is also my go to. Op you have nothing to lose and everything to gain
/r/seduction29/07/20 05:57 PM
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Damn. Here’s hoping we both have a “fruitful” rest of our year
/r/seduction28/07/20 09:01 PM
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This is refreshing to hear. I’ll lurk more now
/r/seduction28/07/20 09:00 PM
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I’m not worried about that, I was saying that for reference. I’ll be rejected 1000 more times before I stop there
/r/seduction28/07/20 08:57 PM
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Snapchat’s are a good tool to have. I would’ve still gotten it
/r/seduction25/07/20 03:05 AM
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Don’t get caught then
/r/seduction19/07/20 01:04 AM
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Keep shooting. Even if you miss 99% of your shots, you still get the 1% which is all you need
/r/seduction09/07/20 12:07 AM
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Gotta keep shooting. I’ll go 0-10000 before I give up.
/r/seduction04/07/20 06:24 PM
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Wash it with water is a safe way to go about it
/r/seduction04/07/20 06:21 PM
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Even then pulling weeds is worth it to have your weed pulled
/r/seduction27/06/20 10:52 PM
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Tbh that’s all tinder is
/r/seduction24/06/20 02:07 AM
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That’s why I said talk not text. Texting should only be used to get a date
/r/seduction18/06/20 02:48 AM
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Just talk to her like you normally do and go from there
/r/seduction18/06/20 01:21 AM
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Closer to bentonville. If you’re ever coming this way HMU and we’ll go to Dickson and try our luck
/r/seduction12/06/20 06:34 PM
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I’ve sat in the friend zone and “struck when the irons hot” nothing wrong with the long game mentality. If you’re going to commit to it you better start talking to a lot of girls and believe the abundance mentality
/r/seduction12/06/20 06:33 PM
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What part of AR are you in? NWA area? Saw your username
/r/seduction12/06/20 06:27 PM
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This is probably the best advice out there imo
/r/seduction11/06/20 07:26 PM
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Talk to more girls
/r/seduction10/06/20 01:11 PM
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“Pick your targets. Don't go for people that aren't looking for anyone” This is specifically for me. I’ve found I only like to hit on girls who are in a relationship already and by the time they become single I’ve already moved on.
/r/seduction09/06/20 12:21 PM
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I’ve already peaked and am now declining rapidly
/r/seduction07/06/20 04:43 PM
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I’m glad you still came through. I do need to work on myself more
/r/seduction04/06/20 04:09 AM
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What was it? Don’t leave us hanging
/r/seduction04/06/20 03:57 AM
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Glad to be of some help. Just FYI I don’t have a high body count. I’m just passing along some stuff that’s been passed to me
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:53 PM
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We’re all on the sub to help with their women woes man. I’m literally right there with you. I’m terrible af when it comes to cold approaches, but what I’ve found is that just being cool and having enough familiarity to add them on social media (Ig sc) and when they post a random story about their pet/food just use that to start the conversation next time. For example “hey I saw your dog on your story, any other pets” and get the ball rolling that way. It sounds like you have anxiety as well (I d…
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:47 PM
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I don’t have any “good lines” I don’t there is any tbh. Just talk to them the same way you’re talking to me. Don’t be overly sexual or say anything to that extent. Use the same language you would use to talk to your mom
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:32 PM
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Just do it. Fail multiple times but keep trying. Only one way to become great at something
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:27 PM
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Dwight shcrute esque over here lol
/r/seduction26/05/20 06:24 PM
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Damn I’m probably one of them.
/r/seduction15/05/20 06:14 PM
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Can’t wait for another decade or so when we can buy shrooms at a store
/r/seduction07/05/20 01:14 PM
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I’ve kinda processed my L here and am thinking about who to go after next. I’m not a fan of the game but I gotta do what I gotta do
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:40 AM
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I’ve read this about 5 times and will continue to reread it just because it’s extremely helpful.
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:39 AM
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So next time there’s a hint should I go for it again or pass? I’m not desperate, I’ve worked to achieve the “abundance mentality”
/r/seduction01/05/20 02:10 AM
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Literally all I do. Op doesn’t need one but it’d help
/r/seduction12/04/20 12:21 AM
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I need to work on this myself.
/r/seduction09/04/20 01:24 PM
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Tbh this does seem like way to get hit with a rape accusation
/r/seduction08/04/20 03:38 PM
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See if she posts a story. If so use it as a way to initiate a conversation
/r/seduction01/04/20 11:47 PM
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