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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | Found my next book.I love that analogy! Thank you for sharing 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 07:22 PM |
| 24 | Found my next book.I have an ex who really would've benefited from therapy. He was already in group but he mostly listened. When I encouraged him to get individual therapy he said something that I think probably a lot of men struggle with "But what if I'm no longer me once I'm fixed?" Like his issues are what made his personality. Obviously this isn't true since therapy doesn't change your personality. It just gives you healthy coping mechanisms and helps you get to the bottom of your actions. I never considered t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 06:30 PM |
| 3 | His gift to her for her first Mother's day as a mom was "him making her a mom." Comments say she's partly to blame because she didn't explicitly say that she wanted something...Yah I get it. I was in the learning mode for years but the more I learned the more I realized CF made the most sense for me for a multitude of reasons. But it's not for most of the reasons that seem to prevail on that other sub! Good luck on your journey! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:55 PM |
| 8 | His gift to her for her first Mother's day as a mom was "him making her a mom." Comments say she's partly to blame because she didn't explicitly say that she wanted something...I'd check out the /truechildfree sub! They're a lot more easy going than the main sub which tends to have a lot of negativity. TrueCF is a lot more understanding of parents and recognizing you can like kids and still not want to be a parent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 10:49 PM |
| 40 | There’s a tidal wave of scrotes coming... are you ready?I never thought of it that way until I took the last year off. And then I think about having to create a profile that will attract people and choosing specific pictures to try to convey what I think I have to offer.. it just started to feel.. icky. I don't think that's pickme. It's exactly what the apps are. The product is women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:27 AM |
| 33 | There’s a tidal wave of scrotes coming... are you ready?Good for you! You just reminded me I tend to forget about the 2 year relationship I DID get out of my many dates and situationships and I still think the only reason I stayed with him as long as I did was because I was just soooo tired of dating! It didn't even occur to me I could just be single.. that actively dating is NOT required just because I don't have a man. Wow was that freeing once it did! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:10 PM |
| 96 | There’s a tidal wave of scrotes coming... are you ready?I was on and off them for YEARS until the pandemic and it's one of the good things that came from it. I finally broke the habit! And it just occurred to me a few days ago that guys probably look at dating app women as selling themselves 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 08:44 PM |
| 206 | There’s a tidal wave of scrotes coming... are you ready?Same! I have thoughts here and there of "it would be nice to have a partner..." and then I remember all of the anxiety and disappointment I went through looking for a partner in the past and nah sis.. I'm good! I kinda think guys see ALL women on OLD as the chaser just because she chose to be there and that's why it NEVER works for us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 08:27 PM |
| 32 | Rape by deceptionWhen I knew it was time to end things with my ex-husband, a year after telling him I wasn't happy and him threatening suicide, I got him into therapy and stopped having sex with him even though I didn't actually pull the trigger for another month. Men just don't have the capacity for empathy like we do. It's taken a looooooong time for me to accept that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:24 PM |
| 18 | This is 80% of men on dating sites now and I'm so.fucking.tired. Even when I specify in my bio that I'm strictly monogamous they'll still try to message me?If it's true, BIG if, she's getting a lot more sex than he is anyway. I've read a few times guys demanding an open relationship and then cries "NOT FAIR" when their woman is picking up side dick consistently and he's still trying to find even one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:55 PM |
| 11 | Woman's 'nightmare' as stranger from dating app she deleted turns up at her workThis happened to me years ago, back in my POF days. I had never spoken to this person and yet he showed up at my work with a print out of my old profile.. long AFTER I deleted it! I wasn't around when he showed up but saw the video of him and no idea who he is. I was always real careful about giving out my information and didn't have it anywhere online where I worked. Don't even have a Facebook! To this day I have no idea how he found me. Freaky as fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:49 PM |
| 3 | I bought myself a piano keyboard!Agreed! I'm excited to relearn Fur Elise. That was my favorite! I'm sorry your dad bullied you. I'm excited you picked it up again! It's my bday on Sunday so a little gift to myself and I'll bring it over to my mom's for bday dinner so my 4 year old nephew and 1 year old niece can test it out for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 09:21 PM |
| 3 | I bought myself a piano keyboard!Aww! What's wrong with ukuleles?? Aren't they just little guitars? Those people can suck it. Do what you love! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 09:08 PM |
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