| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | Should i get in touch again? | Field Report | grzanalog | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | What does she mean? | Conversation | grzanalog | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:59 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Should i get in touch again?I wasn´t always there. She often initiated and 70/30 she also initiated most of the Dates. Our communication had a good flow over weeks, and after she started those new Jobs and her 60 hours week with 2 Days where she is working into the Night.So, there was no time I begged her. It was an Invitation to see me. Same as she did before. And, I don´t think I put her on a pedestal. I also met other Girls. And I never thought "she is the one". It took time for me, to get to know her and fell for a gir… | /r/seduction | 29/08/21 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Should i get in touch again?I see that. And it´s great. how things went for you.I mean, since she rejected me. I met 3 Girls. But none of them was like her. The 3rd one a few days ago, i kissed a few times.And my only thought was: why couldn´t it be the wedding girl? I miss her Kisses and her laugh much more than anything else. And to kiss the Girl a few days ago, was nothing to compare. I felt nothing.And thats the thing i meant with "having other options". Problem with that mindset, is always that guys did not care about… | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Should i get in touch again?Yeah. I mean. A few days before she rejected me, i talked with a common friend of us. And she told me, that wedding girl isn‘t at the point with her life where i am. I have a fulltime job, some projects i‘m doing beside that and time consuming hobbies. Wedding girl still struggle with her life and her priority isn‘t to have a guy in her life. She figured that out. So, after that talk, i got a bad feeling in my stomach. In that moment, it was the first time I thought she could reject me soon. And… | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Should i get in touch again?One thing. I do have other options. But we really connected. And i often think: other options are ok. But the possibility to connect with someone, isn‘t that high. So, whats the deal here. Should we settle for those who aren‘t that interesting? For those we do not connect that good, but its ok for more? I really get bored by that kind of girls. She is different. Thats the thing for me. Two friends of mine had the same problem. They got rejected by girls they connected very well. Both took girlfr… | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 12:31 PM |
| 3 | Should i get in touch again?At the wedding, the first thing she told me, how handsome i look in the suit. Then we talked a bit and she told me the new circumstances. 3 Jobs, 60hour per week and she need to work in the nigh too and need to write her masterthesis to finish her studies. In her last message, she apologized and told me that it wouldnt be fair if she always need to cancel or postpone plans with me cause of her schedule. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Should i get in touch again?Didnt had that before. If a girl worried about me, while kissing, it was always a sign that she liked me. But its a learning for me. I know, talking too much on the phone wasnt that good. But the pandemic was a problem. No Vaccacines at the time. Just go for a distance walk every time, no touching wasn‘t something we prefered. I met other girls while dating her. Had sex with them but with no one, i could imagine more. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Should i get in touch again?We already talked often about it. Cooking for her was always on the plate. So i asked her. I mean. If she dont want, she can answer and tell me that she wanna meet on an other day and not at my place. She did that before. Its because she cant say no to any job offer. Sometimes i thought, she only work to run away from something. She is 28 and have not finished her study, doing practice jobs not have a plan for the future. Btw: i never had that before. So much passion at the Wedding, she worried … | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Should i get in touch again?It was a wedding where she worked. Not a meeting at my place ;) I invited her a few days later to my place. Didnt get in touch with her after she benched me. But its a month since that. So i should check in? | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Should i get in touch again?I see. Cause somebody told me, that it sparks curiosity more, if she need to think about what the guy is doing. Because she isn‘t able anymore to see it. But maybe, that changed in times of insta etc. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Should i get in touch again?So it could be helpful that she dont see anything of my stuff and only our common friends can tell her about? | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Should i get in touch again?Instagram. But my Profile was hacked. So i´m still waiting to get it back. And then, according to instagram support, i need to request private Profiles again. And she have a Private Profile. So she thinks, i unfollowed her. Wich isn´t true. So she don´t see anything. Some common friends of us have a public profile. They see my stories etc once i´m back. | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 08:48 AM |
| 4 | Should i get in touch again?It is hard for me, not to reply her last message. I met other girls, but yeah, no chemistry. No vibes. She was a girl, where the chemistry was really good. To get benched by her a few days after the wedding, was not that funn. Hobbies and Friends are important. The best distraction. Some of our common friends, were also surprised that she did that. She only told them good things about me. You mean you had a guy who did this to you? | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Should i get in touch again?Not sure if she will. Its been a few weeks since she texted me her last text ;) | /r/seduction | 28/08/21 06:57 AM |
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