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| 2 | Am I really being abused?I honestly would understand angryness and a bad mood after getting constantly rejected for a longer period. From your post I think I can deduct that this is not happening all the time? If so, I think he's being unreasonable and really harsh. It's normal to be tired once in a while and should be accepted. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/20 09:04 PM |
| 13 | Where can I meet high quality guys in nyc ?I’ve never even been to the us so take this with a very large grain of salt. From what I’ve heard, New York has a shortage of eligible men, I heard there are a lot more gays than what we’re used to. On the upside you’re a young woman and probably a catch, so I’d befriend some women who are sociable unlike you. The best way to meet a guy in my experience is through your friends/social circle, because that’s a great filter for people who are incompatible or assholes | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/12/19 10:34 AM |
| 13 | Have you gotten any nice comments and compliments since following RPW? Share some positivity!I didn’t only get positive feedback, but someone told me I have beautiful long hair after I grew it out and my boyfriend told me I look cute in my skirts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/19 06:23 PM |
| 21 | How really to STFU (with examples!)I think I already do all of these, how reassuring. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/19 12:31 AM |
| 8 | Thoughts on weightlifting and maintaining femininitySo I’ve never pursued weight lifting but I know a few women who do and none of them look particularly muscular. I’m pretty sure it’s really hard to get a muscular look as a woman, so unless I’m wrong about this I wouldn’t worry at all | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/19 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on this subreddit?Same lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/19 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Should I try to make my partner want me more or should I just leave?When you broke up because of it, what did he say about it? Why did you get back together? Why is he in a gay chat group? Obviously if he doesn’t want to change something (and I’ll add that changing behavior tends to be very hard! If he will change he has to really want to and it will not come easily) your relationship is not conducive to your happiness in life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/19 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Securing a relationshipThis is just so sweet! Actual relationship goals | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Does he only want me for sex?She says he didn’t sleep with them and he says it’s different with her. I mean I know I could never trust him - especially considering they see each other every second weekend apart from holidays. Seems like a huge risk | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Does he only want me for sex?I mean accusing her of being mean or insecure is of course without any evidence, it could very well be in good faith (and seems to be) it’s just that without context such questions come across as weird to me, kind of like women who ask men “how was the sex with your ex”, “was she pretty” or even “which of my friends do you find hot?” | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 11:25 AM |
| 16 | Securing a relationshipI think this is about demand instead of supply if you will. Find a guy that isn’t just looking for a quick fuck (many men wouldn’t turn that down of course) but would like a serious relationship. Being a great woman won’t really make a difference when you’re dealing with a “fuckboy” most likely, in my humble opinion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Does he only want me for sex?Idk do you ever miss your ex is something i would never ask in early dating stages but to each their own. It’s not like any guy would tell you if he did anyway so what’s the point | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Does he only want me for sex?I mean I asked my boyfriend who broke up and why (and if he ever cheated - because my friend told me her boyfriend cheated on his ex with 14 chicks) but that’s literally all. I think it‘s up to you though! You should still act like yourself so :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 08:25 PM |
| 14 | Does he only want me for sex?I think he sounds nice, and it’s pretty mean to ask him about his ex like that. Also sounds a bit insecure. Good luck! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/19 08:00 PM |
| 10 | Married two years and still no kids or houseI’m thinking 27 is still pretty young to buy a house and if you’re potentially going to outearn him I think you need to be wait some more years. I hope someone else has advice on your other (bigger) problems, seems tricky and I don’t know what you could do | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/19 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Being looked down on because you are a well kept feminine woman, anyone ever been there?Exactly! Everything traditionally feminine like motherhood, feminine clothing, concerning oneself with makeup and looks etc. is devalued as ditzy and trivial by these people. I refuse to comply 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Keeping things light and happy when TTCSo, when I feel like I want to have sex I don’t openly say it, I just start by being physically affectionate with my partner and turning it sexual. Is that something you have done and if not, something you would do? If you wouldn’t, why not? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 11:04 AM |
| 20 | Being looked down on because you are a well kept feminine woman, anyone ever been there?Exactly! That’s the right response | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 09:37 AM |
| – | Simple QuestionsThanks for your reply! I think I'll go with telling my friend about it and probably just not go, I think the benefits aren't good enough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/19 07:00 AM |
| – | Simple QuestionsI hope this still is seen by someone! So I have recently been ambivalent about a situation with some female friends of mine. We all went to high school together from 16 to 18 years and were "best friends" back then, afterwards we moved away and only hung out a handful of times. Back in high school I was the least "cool" of them all, I didn't care about being cool unlike them and this lead to a few really hurtful situations: For example, they didn't want me to join them on a weekend trip with a t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/19 03:46 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else sad about losing their looks?It’s really nice to think that our grandchildren might think about us in that way one day! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/19 09:47 AM |
| 35 | Anyone else sad about losing their looks?I can't really provide an answer to that question as I'm in my early twenties and lack the experience, but this will surely not be easy for me. Although we would all like to stay looking young I think we also all get our young years and then after that life has different perks to offer, as well as different challenges. I often look at photos of my now deceased grandmother and reminisce; her not being a pretty young woman doesn't come to mind at all, I think about her kindness, humor and how she … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/19 03:32 PM |
| 6 | How is RedPillWomen Ideals different from Slavery?For the sake of my sanity I am assuming you're being a troll. Nice | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/19 04:39 PM |
| 5 | Schopenhauer Essay "On Women"Sure, the part about women not being intended for too much physical work, simply by being generally not as strong as men, menstruating regularly etc. etc. (a biological caveat: women can get super fit obviously and historically have had to do much physical work before and after the agricultural revolution simply to survive, therefore healthy women definitely are able to do physical work per se, and not moving at all is obviously detrimental to health). As for mental work, this isn't hugely signi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/19 04:36 PM |
| 5 | Schopenhauer Essay "On Women"No, I think women nowadays have the same amount of sorrows and joys as men do. Also this just seems too generalized - I don’t think women as a whole are less inclined to mental work than men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/19 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Open relationship?Yup | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/19 08:20 AM |
| 1 | I want children.I think there’s an underlying issue here. Wanting children is the norm but feeling depressed or like it kills you does not seem normal | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/19 01:11 PM |
| 3 | How to get good legs?I want to add that growing muscle and losing fat shouldn’t be attempted simultaneously | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/19 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Afraid of getting emotionally dependantSounds great! I hope you’ll resolve your issues and eventually will find yourself in a healthy loving relationship | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/19 07:50 PM |
| 13 | Do men really notice how we dress and do our hair?“But on the whole, they have very little understanding of what components of your presentation are attracting them.” I suspect this too.. well bless their hearts haha | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/19 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Afraid of getting emotionally dependantI really don’t want to give wrong advice so this is just how I see it: First of all I’m really sorry about your situation about getting therapy. It’s a shame the system in your country isn’t working right, I see the same long waiting times here in Germany. Maybe if you make a lot of calls you might get lucky, or just wait for a few months since it’s better than nothing (and not dating for a few months isn’t that big of an issue I think). As for the side effects: an experienced psychiatrist shoul… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 12:25 PM |
| 3 | Am I being unfair?I think at his age he should be as confident in himself to be honest about himself. This is an important fact and I think you should break it off. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 12:20 PM |
| 5 | Afraid of getting emotionally dependantI’m no expert at all, but abandoning hobbies, family and friends because of a relationship is really unhealthy as you know. Did your ex partner point this out to you? Did your friends and family reach out? This fear of emotional dependency is a huge issue in my humble opinion, I would prioritize therapy at the moment and arrange anything else accordingly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/19 11:36 AM |
| 5 | Why is it hard for some women to be feminine ? Shouldn't it come naturally ?Wow that must have been a hard time for you! I think not adapting that m.o says great things about your character | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/19 02:19 PM |
| 7 | Why is it hard for some women to be feminine ? Shouldn't it come naturally ?I find it horrible to be around harsh abrasive people 😬 did it just make you tough and get used to it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/19 12:47 PM |
| 40 | Is my hobby a problem?I don't see how this hobby would prevent you from getting a quality guy , if a man doesn't want a woman who's into that he's not the right one for you anyway. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/19 08:15 PM |
| 39 | My (F27) partner (M31) puts his mother's opinion of our home first.I think you’re justified in feeling that is a bit too much. She cried about not coming over to clean her grown son’s house anymore? That’s completely weird | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/19 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Scared of Pregnancy Body ChangesThese concerns seem pretty severe and I don’t really feel qualified to give you advice. I think you should consider therapy. Have you talked about this with your husband or parents or friends? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/19 09:58 AM |
| 5 | To those who lost their virginity recklessly before getting red pilled, how do you feel about it?I was going to comment this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/19 09:49 AM |
| 3 | Are there any RPW rules which you don't "follow" or cannot accept for you?I know I’ve read it many times, along the lines of not behaving like a married couple without the commitment of marriage | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/19 09:51 AM |
| 17 | Are there any RPW rules which you don't "follow" or cannot accept for you?I’m from Europe too. My grandma told me she rejected a few rich guys for my working class grandfather. They had a happy marriage whereas her neighbor married a chairman of some corporation and had a miserable marriage. She always instilled going for quality of character in a man in me; and while basic financial security is very important I feel like this intense hypergamy is blown out of proportion by media | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/07/19 09:48 AM |
| 8 | Have you ever HAD to hang out with your husband’s ex girlfriend?All of this, and since your husband has been handling this so well I don't think you have to worry about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/19 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Where can I really find a dominant man?What if you’re in a cafe with a friend and the waiter is a guy? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/19 09:17 AM |
| 14 | Husband wants to move family to cityI think that’s a big one.. maybe you can compromise by moving to the suburbs? Otherwise one of you has to arrange with not getting their way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/19 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Where can I really find a dominant man?Yeah I’m not a native speaker and didn’t put much effort in that comment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, do you want a relationship/marriage with no kids?I’m looking forward to starting a family, it’s everyone’s biological imperative and from what parents tell a great source of purpose. I also just like children and really enjoy my relationship with my parents. My boyfriend want children, too. There definitely are quite a few girlfriends of mine who study with me and want no children or one child only. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/19 09:18 PM |
| 20 | Where can I really find a dominant man?Combined with behaviors more cultured women would find unsavory. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/19 10:40 AM |
| 1 | My boyfriend is a feministPersonally I don’t see an issue if your husband wants to help you cook and with other tasks. If you’re that set on fulfilling that vision of yours and don’t think you want to adapt to him any longer your relationship is doomed. Don’t expect him to change. I find it notable that you have been with him for five years | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/19 10:41 AM |
| 7 | A man won't leave you in the dark if he wants youFrom my experience I agree. When a man wants to commit to you and your commitment in return, he will probably make it clear after a while. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/19 11:35 AM |
| 1 | So what do men think of a woman’s past and hook up?Honestly I think it would be nice for men to date a virgin, however most don’t expect virginity now and my boyfriend (who admittedly was lower smv than me so take that into consideration) did not hold my n count (3) against me. He has slept with prostitutes in the past though so I guess he’s not sexually conservative. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/02/19 08:10 PM |
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