gstwin89 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	Mark Manson Models learning curve	Fundamentals	gstwin89	/r/seduction	26/06/21 05:46 PM
6	Guessing age	Fundamentals	gstwin89	/r/seduction	12/07/21 10:32 PM

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1	[deleted by user] Take a mindset change You will regret the things you did not do more than the things you did do. Don't even worry about the rejection. Just wing it.	/r/seduction	29/10/21 08:39 AM
1	The Real Reason You're Not Approaching How do you practice approaching without it feeling forced? What I mean by this is that i feel good in my approaches whether i get rejected or have long term succes in one of the two situations: I feel nervous when I see a cute girl and I get myself to approach her and honestly tell her i think she's cute and than start an conversation. I don't really have sexual interest in her but am interested to talk to her for various reasons. But when I go out and force an interaction by means of practising…	/r/seduction	13/08/21 02:25 PM
1	Body Interesting	/r/seduction	20/07/21 08:06 PM
1	Another night of approaches and eventually found the one Why?	/r/seduction	20/07/21 06:02 PM
4	Another night of approaches and eventually found the one You can meet woman during the day too.	/r/seduction	20/07/21 10:55 AM
2	Body Imo you shouldn't get a fit body to impress woman. You should get it to impress yourself.	/r/seduction	20/07/21 01:46 AM
2	Need some advice Grow up kid. You're not going to "pull" this girl for multiple reasons. You're looking down on her. You're needy, You don't seem to take the hint, non needy men move on when a woman does not seem interested in them, Girls can sense it when your intensions are bad, You don't bond over texting. Invite her to hang out, she's proberly gonna deny you for all of the above but hey, you came here for advice so im gonna give it to you. I recommend you to do some self development first before trying to ma…	/r/seduction	20/07/21 01:28 AM
0	How to maintain attraction and interest when they sober up. I agree with @thesunshineman You asked how you can escalate from meeting drunk girl to meeting her when she is sober. The points you give why insta/snap is better such as its easier to give out works against you tho. If its so easy to give out, than how meny guys have recieved it that night? If you two clicked than why would it be such a big hassle to spend 15 sec longer to get her phone number instead? By having her nr you're already standing out. Ok cool, you can show off how much you're a "co…	/r/seduction	20/07/21 01:11 AM
1	My experience with Todd V 's online dating bootcamp Thats alot of money	/r/seduction	18/07/21 05:02 PM
1	My experience with Todd V 's online dating bootcamp How much did it cost you over the past 6 months?	/r/seduction	16/07/21 08:41 PM
1	how do i stop feeling scared to approach women in a way that makes my intentions clear Ooh okay. Yeah girls have a sixth eye for dishonest intentions. Honesty is the way to go!	/r/seduction	16/07/21 06:05 PM
2	how do i stop feeling scared to approach women in a way that makes my intentions clear Correct me if I'm wrong. Are you saying that you want to go from being honest and yourself to being dishonest and change your personality to attract woman? That doesn't only sound very needy but could also take a narcistic turn. What I would recommend you to do is to stay yourself, improve yourself, your style and your self believes. Than approach and take the good with the bad.	/r/seduction	16/07/21 05:25 PM
1	Looking for yah. Why?	/r/seduction	16/07/21 10:36 AM
1	having sex for the first time Sketchy skatepark sex😂	/r/seduction	16/07/21 10:33 AM
1	What to do if a girl is ghosting me for few weeks Why are you still think about her after she ghostesd you for 2 weeks? Move on.	/r/seduction	16/07/21 09:45 AM
7	A random girl slept on my shoulder in bus what should I do? I do it all the time on planes	/r/seduction	16/07/21 09:39 AM
6	She sends me her photos, selfies, random tiktok videos ,but upon talking to her she only replies ''yes'' ''hahahahah' should I stop talking to her? On google	/r/seduction	16/07/21 09:33 AM
2	When you polarize, you find out who wants the real you in their lives Just be honest. Tell the people closest to you that you used to be insecure about the honest you and that you would hide alot behind a shield. Tell them that you found the courage to be able to be your true self. I've told something similair to alot of people close to me and the respons was always positive. I did decide to part way with a friend since I took this change because his personality is just very different to my true personality. But he ho, it can not always be perfect.	/r/seduction	16/07/21 08:26 AM
2	When you polarize, you find out who wants the real you in their lives Okay well lets give you some backstory. When i first started dating and got rejected, I fell into the narcistic PUA trap. Now that I think about it, the advice itself may not have been very narcistic but I was needy and thats the way I took it. Anyways my change happend with reading the book from Mark Manson Models. With its slogan "attract woman through honesty". The first few chapters don't really talk about attracting woman perse, but more about allowing yourself to become vulnerable through …	/r/seduction	16/07/21 08:22 AM
15	When you polarize, you find out who wants the real you in their lives It's amezing that you start expressing yourself but I'd be a bit careful about this best friend of yours. He is not a stranger and he knows you as a certain indentity. A hidden identity used in the past. He is going to see this new you as odd. Its simple, you're changing alot in a short period of time but if you do care about him as a friend than I highly recommend you to open up to him and tell him the change you're making. If you don't do this than he will simply think you're becomming a cocky…	/r/seduction	15/07/21 03:04 PM
2	Does anyone have a universal cold approach method on girls that they use every time because it works most the time? Nope	/r/seduction	14/07/21 06:56 PM
2	Does anyone else feel like the effort isn't worth it? Why would you spend so much effort, time and money if your addiction can please your "needs" at the push of a button. Does that answer your question?	/r/seduction	14/07/21 10:59 AM
1	Guys what is a massive turn off from girls? Yup, but i especially hate it when the girl expects me to stop seeing or hanging out with someone I've known for years.	/r/seduction	14/07/21 07:39 AM
2	Help with dealing with a girl who rejected me Had this site open already haha. I took a year break from dating and recently worked my way up to approach woman (i refuse to use dating apps) and the first girl i got on a date with after approaching i started to somewhat obsess about. Luckely i had a friend snap me out of it but good that you show me this. I was already looking for a more permenant solution on this instead of bandage solutions.	/r/seduction	14/07/21 02:20 AM
1	Help with dealing with a girl who rejected me Didn't know this was a thing. Thanks.	/r/seduction	14/07/21 02:06 AM
3	Does anyone have a universal cold approach method on girls that they use every time because it works most the time? I learnes this from a user on reddit but if she's working and I don't have alot of time to talk to her I say: "if you weren't working and I would ask you for your phone number. What would you say?" So far it has worked a stunning 2 out of 2 times I used it.	/r/seduction	14/07/21 12:29 AM
1	Guys what is a massive turn off from girls? I'd say the biggest turnoffs for me is if she's late. Especially if she doesn't tell me in time that she's going to be late. 5 min is ok but if its more than 10 min, especially if she doesn't text, i just leave. Also jealousy. I have friends, i have female friends. Don't try to restrict me seeing them because you feel insecure. That's your problem, not mine.	/r/seduction	14/07/21 12:27 AM
11	Does anyone else feel like the effort isn't worth it? Okay well, than if you have genuine no interest in dating than you shouldn't... Only go after woman you genuine have interest in.	/r/seduction	13/07/21 11:55 PM
2	Does anyone else feel like the effort isn't worth it? Are you addicted to porn?	/r/seduction	13/07/21 11:10 PM
1	How to accept that vaginas are seen as more gross in society than penises, that vaginas are less appreciated than penises and less of the focus and that gay men openly find vaginas disgusting while lesbians do not shame penises anywhere near as much? Ask it in the gay community	/r/seduction	13/07/21 12:21 AM
1	How to accept that vaginas are seen as more gross in society than penises, that vaginas are less appreciated than penises and less of the focus and that gay men openly find vaginas disgusting while lesbians do not shame penises anywhere near as much? No, i said that this my experience with gay and trans men. I said that everything else is personal preference. Are you only here to hear what you want to hear?	/r/seduction	13/07/21 12:19 AM
1	How to accept that vaginas are seen as more gross in society than penises, that vaginas are less appreciated than penises and less of the focus and that gay men openly find vaginas disgusting while lesbians do not shame penises anywhere near as much? Did you read my post?	/r/seduction	13/07/21 12:16 AM
1	How to accept that vaginas are seen as more gross in society than penises, that vaginas are less appreciated than penises and less of the focus and that gay men openly find vaginas disgusting while lesbians do not shame penises anywhere near as much? I'm not an expert in the gay and lesbian community but i do get approached by gay and shemale people from time to time. From what i was told by them, gay men or shemales see personal plessure from giving oral to a guy. "it makes them hard" as how they describe it. I wouldnt say oral sex on woman is rare. I've done it. My friends have done it. What I noticed from me and my friends is that we like seeing the woman have plessure and therefor we like to give oral. Like i said, i don't fancy it but i…	/r/seduction	13/07/21 12:14 AM
1	How to accept that vaginas are seen as more gross in society than penises, that vaginas are less appreciated than penises and less of the focus and that gay men openly find vaginas disgusting while lesbians do not shame penises anywhere near as much? Hmmm. I think its all personal preference. I personally do not really fancy eating pussy but I do enjoy fingerplay. I did have a girlfriend who was disgustes by giving oral. Sooo do what you like \o/	/r/seduction	13/07/21 12:06 AM
1	How to accept that vaginas are seen as more gross in society than penises, that vaginas are less appreciated than penises and less of the focus and that gay men openly find vaginas disgusting while lesbians do not shame penises anywhere near as much? Kinda random but I like your usename.	/r/seduction	13/07/21 12:02 AM
2	Guessing age Ah okay. Than this is what I shall do.	/r/seduction	12/07/21 11:59 PM
6	Guessing age It's personal preference. I prefer to not date a underaged woman with the potential drama that comes with it. I do ask, but I've noticed it sometimes creates awkward tension, especially if she's underaged.	/r/seduction	12/07/21 11:40 PM
1	Going for it, even when it seems like it’s a bad time? Only way to get out of the friendzone is if she initiates it but better to just move on.	/r/seduction	12/07/21 10:27 PM
0	Approach Anxiety Tip Hmm im gonna give it a shot	/r/seduction	11/07/21 07:12 PM
1	Request: how to get rid of orbiting girl (who I was trying to get with) “If she ain’t fuckin put her on the blocklist” -Bfbdapackman Why ask it here if you quote something like this. Otherwise just be straight up with her, say you're interested in meeting but not into being friends.	/r/seduction	09/07/21 10:30 AM
1	What are some challenges of getting into seduction for the first time in your 30s? If the only thing he's worried about is being a virgin than i would also recommend this advice. There is nothing worse than manipulating genuine woman into sleeping with you under order to lose your virginity. Just hire a sex worker instead. Its cheaper and saves you alot of time.	/r/seduction	09/07/21 10:27 AM
1	Passing woman on a sidewalk Hi, I think you look cute, i had to stop you to tell you that. (give it a pause and smile gently for dramatic effect) if she respons positive than continue if not just walk away.	/r/seduction	09/07/21 08:14 AM
5	Wanted to approach this girl but couldn’t Nice excuse you made for yourself.	/r/seduction	09/07/21 08:11 AM
1	EVERYTHING I’VE LEARNED ABOUT SEDUCTION Cool, also yes we can chat.	/r/seduction	08/07/21 09:48 PM
2	EVERYTHING I’VE LEARNED ABOUT SEDUCTION Than why do you still call yourself a addict?😂	/r/seduction	08/07/21 06:43 PM
0	EVERYTHING I’VE LEARNED ABOUT SEDUCTION Okay but who determines if your answer will be value? You or the person you're talk too?	/r/seduction	08/07/21 06:32 PM
1	EVERYTHING I’VE LEARNED ABOUT SEDUCTION Yup, some people are gonna hate and some people are going to love. In the boom i just recommended you its called polarising. Polarising is where you put yourself out there and force people to make a decision about you. This can be positive or negathive. In your situation it turned to be positive :)	/r/seduction	08/07/21 06:31 PM
2	EVERYTHING I’VE LEARNED ABOUT SEDUCTION Than... Why don't you quit porn?	/r/seduction	08/07/21 06:29 PM
2	EVERYTHING I’VE LEARNED ABOUT SEDUCTION Mark manson is the author and models is the book i recommend. Models is so good because it teaches you how to be honest with yourself. Also how to be honest with your actions and lifestyle. Further on in the book it also gives you ways and methods to improve your lifestyle. "mark manson models"	/r/seduction	08/07/21 06:28 PM
2	EVERYTHING I’VE LEARNED ABOUT SEDUCTION Hellowa, when i first quit gaming i did not want to talk to people either. I also felt like i was a boring person and people wouldn't want to talk to me. Eventually i did talk to people and found out they did want to talk and were interested in me. Its all in your head bro	/r/seduction	08/07/21 06:24 PM
1	EVERYTHING I’VE LEARNED ABOUT SEDUCTION I have good news for you! I was a video game addict from age 8 until age 20. I took a 3 year long journey but worked my way up, just turned 23 a few days ago and can confortably approach and ask cute girls for their number. At first it was hell tho, so i know exacly how you feel i terms of saying your life isn't fun. In those 3 years i did have to learn everything myself and therefor i hope i can give you some guidance ao it wount take you 3 years to build yourself up. Ill list a few things i di…	/r/seduction	08/07/21 06:21 PM
5	EVERYTHING I’VE LEARNED ABOUT SEDUCTION I find two major errors in your comment. Firstly you use being a virgin as an excuse. Being a virgin has absolutely nothing to do with approaching and getting intimate with a woman. The difference between a virgin and someone who isn't a virgin is that the virgin hasn't sticked his wood in the greasy pit yet. Secondly you say that you need to act and pretend to be a cool guy. Acting like someone you're not is needy behaviour!	/r/seduction	08/07/21 06:15 PM
1	Rejected Well thats cool and all but if I see a hot woman walking in my city, chances are extreamly slim that I will see her again or even recognise her. Right now I am in a smaller city and even now I haven't recognised the same woman twice. Your advice is good if you have setup a lifestyle where you see the same woman multiple times.	/r/seduction	08/07/21 01:20 PM
1	I approached 14 girls and got rejected 6 times Well, so far i got the nr of the bartender girl and the nurse at thr vaccination center by being straight forward. Also got rejected a few times but thats okay. I do have a question regarding to chain of thoughts. I went on a date with bartender girl and its all good, also kissed twice. I felt like she was shy and was unsure if she was keen, and therefor i asked her if i could kiss her before doing so which she said yes to. The book i follow: mark manson models and my friends told me i should ne…	/r/seduction	08/07/21 01:12 PM
2	24 m. Cannot get a reply back from matches on tinder. Frustrated Quit online dating and meet woman in person. Thats what I did and am never going back to dating apps.	/r/seduction	02/07/21 08:18 AM
2	is it too late for me ? Try the easy peasy method for quitting porn	/r/seduction	02/07/21 08:16 AM
7	[deleted by user] According to the Cambridge dictionary the meaning of condescending is: treating someone as if you are more important or more intelligent then them. I never said woman are dumb or cant do something or weak. I told you my experience and perspective on dating. I also said that you are a strong woman which is somewhat a compliment based on how hard you are trying to tear me down to represent woman. Which is condescending, which makes you a hypocrite. Lol.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 09:36 PM
2	[deleted by user] I assume I'm talking to a woman right now? I'm not saying that woman shouldn't or wount make the first move or text. I'm saying that as a men you should step up, and take control by making the first move. I grew up in these "new times" and i have never ever seen a woman take the first move. I've seen woman hinting and inviting men to make the move but never seen or have friends who experienced woman taking the first move. So its all cool that you want to show how much of a strong woman you are b…	/r/seduction	01/07/21 09:14 PM
-26	[deleted by user] It depends tho, if you feel like she doesn't have time such as cashiers than yes its the right decision. In some jobs girls will get in trouble if their boss sees them with their phone but in that case you can ask her to tell you their number instead of giving her your phone. But i personally prefer to avoid giving her my number and instead take hers. If i have her number, i have full control of the situation and don't have to be in the situation you're in with the question in the back of my min…	/r/seduction	01/07/21 05:53 PM
323	[deleted by user] Well, if she doesn't text you. Than she's not interested. Don't stress it. Just move on.	/r/seduction	01/07/21 02:00 PM
1	I approached 14 girls and got rejected 6 times This is alot of information to reply on😅 Starting this week i go out and talk to anyone who sparks my interest. I do feel like talking to litterally everyone is not a thing for me. I don't want to talk to people i have no interest. I went out on monday for the first time and my score was 3-4 and i noticed i sometimes stare and my mind goes blank and than i give myself the excuse I'm not interested in them. It usually happens to girls and i caught up to it. I write these experiences down in a jou…	/r/seduction	01/07/21 10:44 AM
2	Rejected You too, if you need anything than send me a message	/r/seduction	30/06/21 04:37 PM
5	Rejected Be honest. Walk up to the. Say excuse me, wait a sec for her attention to go on you and than just say: look, i know this is kindof random but i saw you and i think you look cute. I wanted to say hi. Give her a moment to process, and than get to know her. The best way to describe getting to know a girl is this: imagine a close friend of you came back from 1 year trip to Asia. You want to know everything about that experience right? So you ask what countries he's been to and his experiences, best …	/r/seduction	30/06/21 04:32 PM
4	Rejected You proberly already noticed while walking around that people, especially girls have the tendency to look at the ground. If you are going to wait for oppertunities where you lock eyes, you're drastically decreasing your chances of meeting someone nice. I always keep my chin parallel to the ground looking straight ahead and 9/10 girls i pass by look at the ground. This single girl that does not look at the ground normally has a very low chance of holding eye contact with me a mili second longer t…	/r/seduction	30/06/21 04:18 PM
1	(F18) My boyfriend doesn’t satisfy me enough You can either help him quit porn. I'd suggest the easy peasy method to quitting porn or just dump him. You have to remember that it is not your job to fix him, neither is it your responsibility. So if he does not try to do better, find someone else who is better.	/r/seduction	30/06/21 10:43 AM
1	Is it bad I'm only learning game to get laid If you communicate you intentions and are honest about it than its not bad. Its bad when you manipulate woman into sleeping with you.	/r/seduction	30/06/21 05:58 AM
2	I want to try cold approaches or day game but I need to know what you guys do so I can try it What to say is the easy part. Actuelly moving your feet and opening your mouth is the "hard" part. I say "hard" like this because its not hard. What you could say is hard is the part where you have to alter your mind a bit in order to be able to take action even tho you have anxiety. Rest assured, everyone has anxiety. Even the approaching gods. You have to take the time and allow yourself to overcome your fears. What i would recommend to you is to go out and approach litterally everyone who spa…	/r/seduction	29/06/21 03:46 PM
1	Recently approached one girl (all month) and asked her out, got her number and have a beach picnic date scheduled in a couple days. If its only in the beginning than im ok with it and agree with you. Sometimes it helps to give yourself a little confidence but allowing it to turn into a habit could turn narcistical. Atleast, that's how it went with me.	/r/seduction	27/06/21 06:58 PM
1	Recently approached one girl (all month) and asked her out, got her number and have a beach picnic date scheduled in a couple days. But if you're confident in your ability to approach woman, than why do you need to tell yourself every woman find you attractive in order to approach them?	/r/seduction	27/06/21 06:33 PM
1	I need some advice Excessive masturbation/watching porn is the cause of the stress.	/r/seduction	27/06/21 05:37 PM
2	I want to try cold approaches or day game but I need to know what you guys do so I can try it The point of meeting a new person is to get to know them. Her being cute is not enough, you actuelly want to get to know her to see if you two are compatible. Think of all the things you know about a close friend. You know what he studies, you know what his hobbies and passions are, you know what he likes or dislikes. Now try to find that out about her. Also don't feel bad talking about yourself.	/r/seduction	27/06/21 05:32 PM
3	I want to try cold approaches or day game but I need to know what you guys do so I can try it That would be a bold thing to do, which is attractive. The answer is simple. You approach her because you think she is cute and you want to get to know her. So... Get to know her. Ask her why she is here or make a statement saying: are you here to meet a friend? Go from there, it doesn't matter what you say. Just try to get to know her. Does she look like a student? Ask her if she came here to study, than ask her what she studies or say she looks kinda like someone who studies law. Pff even if i…	/r/seduction	27/06/21 05:28 PM
1	I need some advice That's some stupid advice. He litterally came her for help to quit this filthy addiction and you're telling him its good.	/r/seduction	27/06/21 05:21 PM
1	I need some advice I actuelly just quit after trying meny methods for a couple of years. I used to be like you fap up to 5 times a day. The worst part was that i knew it was bad and harmful but i brainwashed myself into believing i needed to jerk off and watch porn all the time. I recommend the same FREE book that helped me quit. Its the easy peasy method to quitting porn. Its based on the same method used to help people quit smoking. To sum this book up for you, it takes away the self induced brain washing away f…	/r/seduction	27/06/21 05:18 PM
3	Conflicting beliefs I initially also experienced this. To solve this you have to be honest with yourself. Are you telling yourself she's not attractive enough because you're looking for a excuse to not approach her? Or do you honestly think she's unattractive ? There's a big difference between her being unattractive and being not hot enough. What i think is that you are make up excuses for yourself to avoid confronting your fears that you do actuelly like her. If you would confront your fears that you do like her, …	/r/seduction	27/06/21 05:06 PM
2	Recently approached one girl (all month) and asked her out, got her number and have a beach picnic date scheduled in a couple days. Well, if you don't approach at all, you're chances will always be 0. I prefer to take the risk of being seen as a creep, weirdo or get rejected than to sit at the sidelines.	/r/seduction	27/06/21 04:39 PM
1	Recently approached one girl (all month) and asked her out, got her number and have a beach picnic date scheduled in a couple days. With this mindset you're expecting good results when approaching which comes from neediness. Also it doesn't matter if you get good or bad results, with this it's easy to end up on the narcistic mindset. I would recomment to go in not expecting anything, but to polarise. If she's into you, cool. If not, that's totally fine too.	/r/seduction	27/06/21 04:36 PM
1	Mark Manson Models learning curve Thank you, Than I will go out daily to approache everyone i find interest in and slowely work my way up the chain.	/r/seduction	27/06/21 12:09 PM
1	Mark Manson Models learning curve That sounds good but what if the woman is unattractive but she does display something I do find interesting. In this case I would find something interesting about her and there would be fair game. To sum it up, i would approach everyone who sparks some interest in me or attractive people.	/r/seduction	27/06/21 11:39 AM
1	I approached 14 girls and got rejected 6 times I asked a question regarding to approaching random people to build the skill to be able to approach any woman anywhere. You just answered my question and I want to thank you for that. To motivate yourself, do you also keep scores with yourself on how meny people you approach and sometimes do it in bold ways such as running after someone or sitting down at a group gathering? I'm curious of the possibilities	/r/seduction	27/06/21 07:17 AM