| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 472 | Well there’s that. | THINGS SCROTES SAY | guacamole1987 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 07:24 PM |
| 30 | I believe a man who supports and tries to help his SO’s career path is a HVM, right? | GREEN FLAG 🟢 | guacamole1987 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else getting a lot of hate for being part of this sub when participating in other subs? | REDDIT HATES WOMEN | guacamole1987 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 04:21 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 20 | Nothing newDisgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 06:40 PM |
| 101 | Nothing newSo creepy. I agree with you, and I’m sure scrotes and pickmes downvoted you. Years ago, before I found FDS, I caught my then boyfriend downloading and sending “just a friend’s” provocative/slightly nude photos from her Instagram to himself on all of his devices... The worst part was that he called himself a feminist and said that it was her sexual liberation, not objectification. Took me too long to break up with him because I was told by multiple people - his own THERAPIST mother included - tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:38 PM |
| 2 | He gave another woman a Christmas gift, spent a weekend with her at a hotel, has an entire gallery of photos on her phone, but let's marry him 🤡Lmao I just love the flair on this sub and this post (pickmeisha hall of shame). This post is so disgusting, how is she gonna let a man (read: BOY) treat her this way? And she has 3 kids... Would she be okay with any of her kids’ future partners being this disgusting to them? SMH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 09:46 PM |
| 9 | Y’all be safeUgh, this was me 6 years ago ....but it’s fine, his wife sleeps next to him now 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:14 PM |
| 43 | What's with the spreading of complete lies about fds?Same thing happened to me with people searching through my post history just to trash me on something unrelated in another sub. People are pathetic and you’re right. No women’s only spaces are safe. Like you, some third party saw those comments trashing me and FDS, and then came to FDS and really liked what she saw here... and commented that she agreed with my participation and joined this sub 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 03:31 PM |
| 20 | This slapped in me in the face on my TikTok FYP and I though you all would also enjoy getting slapped in the face ✨It’s okay we all have been there.... And now we are at FDS seeing the light 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 07:21 PM |
| 101 | This slapped in me in the face on my TikTok FYP and I though you all would also enjoy getting slapped in the face ✨This is one of those clips that everyone will watch and immediately think of someone in their respective past. Definitely slapped me awake just now too lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:15 PM |
| 2 | My now fiancé took me to the nail salon just a few days before proposing to make sure my nails were done for the photos. It only took him nine months to propose! He always knew I was the one for him. Your HVM is out there ladies!Congrats! You’re spot on about a HVM being serious and consistent from the jump, love that he took you to get a mani beforehand. Looks beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:42 PM |
| 7 | Single dads are not more attractiveDated a single dad once. Never again. I think it works if you also have children and are familiar with/can handle the complications that come from it... but nah I was not about to be a stand in mom for that man child and his child. Nooooope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:27 PM |
| 64 | Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting"Yeah the argument that all guys use porn (and only really enjoy the degrading stuff) is a myth and make women believe they have to settle for LVM is an unfortunate consequence. OP def hit the nail on the head regarding dehumanizing pain those women endure in those videos. Definitely not acting. HVMs def don’t need porn - nobody needs it, per se - and I’ve met those who are interested in the porn that’s been labeled ‘as made for women’ because it’s more realistic sex and not degrading. The fact t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else getting a lot of hate for being part of this sub when participating in other subs?Thanks. I’m considering this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 04:38 PM |
| 11 | Wow...Trash and honestly being an Indian women, I see most Indian guys are giant man children like this. Most troubling is that their mothers enable them so much, treating them like little princes. Most Indian guys I dated were like this. And if you’re like me and enjoy cooking, I’d always say something like “hey uhhh this isn’t me being a dutiful domesticated housewife doormat, this just happens to be something I enjoy and you should be supplementing this by picking up other household chores”. Always… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:43 PM |
| 22 | NEVER beg for a man!“Hold the door open” yassssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 08:02 AM |
| 7 | Why do older men think they’re just as attractive or more attractive than younger men? Why do they they think they can pull 20 year olds forever?To the pedos, maybe. Unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:40 AM |
| 13 | Why do older men think they’re just as attractive or more attractive than younger men? Why do they they think they can pull 20 year olds forever?Entitlement. Men are entitled until they start critically thinking, so unless they do that they think “all pussy is fair game”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:50 PM |
| 3 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨Exactly! :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:58 PM |
| 62 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨It’s funny, I used to say “I don’t need you, I just want you” to men I dated. All the LVMs took offense to that and didn’t really work out. The guy I ended up marrying took that as a huge compliment - definitely a HVM - and steps it up in the relationship consistently. These fellas know. It’s up to them how they act on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 11:14 PM |
| 24 | LVM/NVM love hiding behind the "traditional" tag most of the time. If an African man describes himself as this, run. Those are the most misogynistic men aroundIndian men are the same. Source: I’m a a first gen American with Indian parents. Don’t get me wrong, a few of the Indian men I dated were born here / also first gen weren’t that bad. But most of them are in one way or another tied to whatever traditional misogynistic bullshit that allows them get away with anything. Nobody was surprised my feminist ass married a non-Indian. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:57 PM |
| 29 | Well there’s that.Agreed. He’s a raccoon. A trash panda, if you will lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 11:52 PM |
| 25 | Heard by my senior at work: Men don’t leave unless they already have another women waitingYeah... during our relationship my then boyfriend complained about his ex. Even his family made fun of her. I broke up with him because I found out he was a sleeze and cheated on me with some ‘friend’ and was still talking to that ex via email about their breakup in oddly nostalgic ways... he married that ex about a year after we broke up. That one took a while for me to recover from. I spent a few years single, feeling like shit even though his actions had nothing to do with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 09:43 PM |
| 44 | Well there’s that.Lol thank you for the laugh... where is the lie though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 07:37 PM |
| 66 | Nice to be reminded sometimes!!“GO FOR A WALK EAT DIRT ANYTHING” has me sad laughing at the truth of this post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 09:21 PM |
| 67 | This is why I chose to not have male friendsYeah totally caught my ex emailing personal pics (bikini, sultry stuff that could be on social media) of his supposed friend to himself and watched him die inside trying to explain it. He couldn’t land a full time job or pay for his share of our apt or even just basic things like groceries. And all that time I thought I had a higher libido than he did bc sometimes he wasn’t interested and I thought it might be bc of stress. But it’s cool I called that girl from his phone and asked her if they ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 06:57 AM |
| 1 | I believe a man who supports and tries to help his SO’s career path is a HVM, right?Ah, didn’t know. I’m a newbie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 04:56 PM |
| 13 | Patriarchy 🤮I left religion a while ago and have no desire to go back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 03:30 AM |
| 5 | So when will Two X get banned for being “uninclusive”? Lady makes a post about self-love and a man immediately makes it all about himDated a few guys that would turn a convo around just to make it about themselves... typical. Gross. I am reading this in one guy in particular’s voice and I wouldn’t be surprised if it ended up being him (hi Jeremy! 🤣). These types are WILLFULLY ignorant to a woman’s plight but still find a way to want something selfishly regardless of dangers because nOT aLL mEN ArE bAd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:11 PM |
| 4 | I really hope she will get away from him... He honestly sounds like a lunatic.“I don’t know what to do anymore” girl, this is not up for debate. He’s like this now, he’s only going to get worse with kids (if you choose to have them) and bills and all that. What is you thinking... leave! 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:18 PM |
| 12 | Don't have kids with LVM.I cackled. Nicely put | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:30 AM |
| 18 | Chile The AccuracyI cackled but only because it’s horrifyingly true. Gotta laugh to keep from crying, ya know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 02:42 AM |
| 16 | FFS This is terrifying. Stay safe out there.And of course the animals who couldn’t just upvote or wanted to remain anonymous by not commented GAVE AWARDS. Christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 08:23 AM |
| 50 | Are you tired of being surprised by rape scenes and movies and TV shows? This website allows women to check if there is rape or other sexual violence in a movie before watching!I freeze up and can’t relax for half an hour after a rape scene. So I’m glad this exists. Rape scenes are so unnecessary, and when the industry makes them drawn out and graphic it’s clearly catering to a fan base that gets off on violent misogyny. Horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 06:24 AM |
| 12 | I mean so relatable! Right ladies?? 🤢Yeah the dude at the end seems to clip his nails and is WOW ....so I’m here for it 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 06:50 PM |
| 14 | Sometimes I wish I could be as heartless and uncaring as a man.Men are selfish and unless they want to unlearn how everyone has allowed them to be selfish, they’ll just make everyone around them deal with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:31 PM |
| 8 | Sometimes I wish I could be as heartless and uncaring as a man.A thousand splendid suns. Better than the kite runner, in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:30 PM |
| 26 | Sometimes I wish I could be as heartless and uncaring as a man.A thousand splendid suns. Better than the kite runner, in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:30 PM |
| 23 | Martyrs over at r/breakingmom need to take all the notes 💅 I said what I said 💫The obvious issue here will always be LVM, but why do women continue to reproduce with them? Why link themselves to someone like that for at least 18 years because of the child(ren)? Why put children through that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:09 PM |
| 5 | This hit.Sigh. Yeah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 05:29 AM |
| 11 | UnbelievableGross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 09:57 PM |
| 11 | Broke up with him after months of pain. He didn't earned it. I know my value now.That laugh. An unapologetic cackle. I love it, and her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 06:32 PM |
| 13 | The queen of pick mesWhat the fuck?? I barely understand her post as it is. No girl. Nooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 07:15 AM |
| 6 | Just like nature intendedThey (hetero men) get so upset that we (hetero women) are doing the same thing they do... further proving they know what they do isn’t comfortable for women but only care when they’re not the center of attention. Spent 3 years of my life openly dating without commitment and letting my dates know. And wouldn’t you know it, none of them were happy when I told them (never kept it a secret). They’d try to negotiate with me, as if I cared to do such a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 10:59 PM |
| 3 | The tyrannical minority benefit the majorityYeah I’d say the bar is pretty low for men to be considered great or decent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 10:57 PM |
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