guavagoodness Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	GUYS!! his girlfriend found FDS and left him‼️ 👑 😎 Omg is this my ex 😍😍	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/05/21 08:04 AM
10	Every “girls should make the first move!!” Post in a nutshell 🌰 🥜 Period.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/21 11:43 AM
4	Never date men who use their shyness/ reserved personality as an excuse to be low effort My ex!!!!! Whew I excused it for TOO LONG	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/21 01:44 AM
24	Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both. A guy I was dating rushed me out at Noon on Valentine’s Day (after sleeping over) to get to a gaming tournament online. Crafting a breakup text now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/02/21 07:45 PM
18	Evan Rachel Woods steps forward about the abuse she, at age 18, suffered from 36 year old Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson" Omg ew!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/21 09:35 PM
14	. Okay? And stop trying to play wife. That shit ain’t cute. Start making dollhouses as a hobby if you wanna play house with these dusties.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/21 02:32 PM
29	mAyBe hE's dEpReSsEd, yOu sHouLd bE HeLpiNg HiM Did you tell him why or just ghost? For research purposes.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 02:49 PM
33	mAyBe hE's dEpReSsEd, yOu sHouLd bE HeLpiNg HiM I just choked cause I’m in a similar situation and haven’t told FDS cause we definitely wouldn’t be seeing eachother at all 🙃🙃🙃🙃	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 02:48 PM
16	At least we realized our mistake... 😅 OMG!!! This is me - even the little flinch. Hahahaha I can’t escape it! God I am so grateful for this deliverance 😭	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/21 06:44 PM
8	As if we didn’t all see it coming but OOOF are these pandemic relationships are gonna end badly 🤡😬 The exact reason I didn’t start dating this year.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 01:06 PM
9	Dad’s an HVM ❤️ They seem to be friends with the parents as well, and the kids are childhood friends. I think they already trust the family but the daughter liking the boy is icing on the cake.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 01:04 PM
25	Dad’s an HVM ❤️ Awww. What a sweet girl. I hate boys. No, he shouldn’t have stayed out of it. Pick-me ass mom, training her daughter to “keep trying until he turns around”. These little boys sometimes need a grown ass man to say, hey, that is not cool and I see you behaving like a fucking twerp. All 17 year old boys need that reality check, they are so fucking coddled. Sometimes Dad has to put his foot down!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/20 01:02 PM
3	#KickHimOut2020 Is Coming To An End Whew! I am flourishing after #KickMyselfOut2020 and I’m so glad I took the plunge. Even though people on this sub told me not to move in the pandemic 😂 I will say I’m dating someone new and I’m noticing anxious attachment start to flare up and self sabatoge. Y’all remember that the work isn’t done after the breakup. I’m upset and didn’t want to admit this low effort LVM hurt my ability to be loved, but I truly still have a lot of healing to do. It sucks and is unfair. Be patient with yourselves.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/20 12:15 AM
4	HVM proposed with a Tiffany diamond after 1 year, then surprised with a bouquet and a thank you note <3 Also I’ve been snooping your profile and reading/saving all the articles you post. I needed a reality check this week. Thank you for being helpful!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/20 12:13 AM
20	HVM proposed with a Tiffany diamond after 1 year, then surprised with a bouquet and a thank you note <3 I’m convinced nothing of substance happens before then	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/20 10:16 PM
22	HVM proposed with a Tiffany diamond after 1 year, then surprised with a bouquet and a thank you note <3 It’s the “thank you for accepting” for me!! That’s how things should feel. YOU are the prize. The ring isn’t. Congratulations.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/20 10:15 PM
14	X post from r/witchesvspatriarchy Thank you for saying this 😂 I didn’t feel like it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/12/20 01:36 PM
3	I started making lunchboxes. I always wanted to and couldn' wait to have a partner/children, so I can express my love this way. Just recently I realized that I already have a loved one, that I can make food for! (And who will always appreciate it) It's silly but it never came to my head before :D Oh I am OBSESSED.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/20 11:48 PM
7	She’s right, you can’t teach someone to love you or make you a priority. When someone genuinely cares for you, they’ll want to make you a priority and act like it OBSESSED!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/10/20 11:24 PM
3	HVM anticipate your needs! If it ain’t this, I don’t want it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/09/20 01:44 PM
13	Don’t do it sis. GIIIIIIRL!!!! They don’t wanna hear this!!!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 04:14 PM
85	Remember ladies, if he wanted to, he would. Same. When I see older parents still madly in love like this, and thoughtful... it BAFFLES ME. How sad is that?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 07:25 PM
10	One, data is never 100% secure, two, all the pics you send will be SFW and he will be grateful, or he will be erased. My ex 😂 omg. Then would try to initiate sex after he was done playing his video games for the day. Mm so romantic 🥰	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/09/20 06:41 PM
4	I found a HVM Period.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/09/20 01:10 PM
13	Bliss Yes!! Became single a month ago and this is it. BONUS: treated myself to the fluffiest duvet and extravagant pillows and throws. That sleep HITS!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/08/20 01:48 AM
12	Raise your hand if you’ve been personally victimized by an ugly dusty you gave a chance and he ended up playing you? Boo thank you. Ugh I actually felt more empowered when I was PLANNING the breakup so I gotta keep the momentum going!!! Right now I just feel like a clown, lol. Thank you!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 11:15 PM
22	Raise your hand if you’ve been personally victimized by an ugly dusty you gave a chance and he ended up playing you? Omg! I’m going through this. Just dumped my dusty ass boyfriend and I’m feeling played because his emotionally unavailable ass had zero emotion over it. I feel........ disgusted and depressed. I COULDA GOT WITH AN NBA PLAYER 🥺 I could’ve got played court side!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 10:36 PM
31	Male socialization means earnestly expecting women to act as charities that do everything for them LMAOOO well if any of them are reading this.... DONT NOBODY WANNA HELP YALL DUSTIES 😂😂😂 literally go see a therapist lmao. “The men of the past were great” what men of the past? The slave-raping, cheating and stealing men of history with 5 separate secret families expecting his wife to be cool with it 😂😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 02:55 PM
5	On January 2nd I gave up dating and instead focused on my net worth Ouch!!!!! Lol❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/07/20 02:02 PM
35	When you send your best friend the FDS Handbook & 1 week later she dumps LVM and texts you this That’s me packing my shit to move out my bfs place today. A light switched on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/20 06:39 PM
2	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020 You’re right. Thank you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 08:09 PM
2	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020 Whew girl, you hit it on the head for me. It’s already been way too long. Like, almost two years long. It’s bigger than just wanting to see other people (which I can’t do anyways lol which is why I decided to stay) and at this point I feel my spirit dwindling. I know I have a goal in mind, I know timelines change (hello, pandemic?) and it isn’t my fault, but SHIT. I’m trying to push down my emotions and ego and just go. I feel like I want to set a good example for myself, you know? My friends te…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 07:40 PM
3	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020 I love this comment, thank you! I’ve basically been doing all of these things. According to my journal, we technically “broke up” in February on Valentines Day. I had plans to be out by May 1st. New job got cut. So I definitely have pulled up my bootstraps for about 8 months now. Have about 6k saved right now. A female close friend reached out to me like 2 months ago to take over her lease in a family-owned building and I said no because I didn’t want to exhaust my savings over the pandemic, for…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 07:36 PM
3	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020 You’re thriving!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 12:54 PM
5	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020 Thanks so much! I need more podcasts like this <3	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 12:54 PM
4	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020 Wish I knew this! Thank you it totally is a red flag ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/07/20 12:53 PM
1	Does not having social media make me appear creepy? Wow that is strange! I assumed Snapchat was over/was a hookup app/way to contact your drug dealer. I would think it was the opposite of Instagram in terms of “”””personal requirement””””. Whew. God bless you all.	/r/seduction	16/04/20 07:43 PM
2	Does not having social media make me appear creepy? NO. Don’t overthink it. You are who you are. Social media is HELL and people are not mentally well if they try to force you to be on it. For what? No, I wouldn’t stop liking him. It would actually prompt me to ask for his number and find out more about him and not scroll through fucking pictures all day lol. I am 24.	/r/seduction	12/04/20 01:16 PM
1	Does not having social media make me appear creepy? My boyfriend is the same. I would rather him not have an instagram than take awkward, forces pictures just to “keep up”. He just doesn’t like it! That friend is stupid. If anything, women will think you’re actually a person and not a man looking for his ego stroked for approval.	/r/seduction	12/04/20 01:14 PM
6	Does not having social media make me appear creepy? 100% agree. I’m turned off by men who use social media other than work or genuine creative purposes. I can’t be checking up on somebody all the time. It would over saturate it.	/r/seduction	12/04/20 01:13 PM
3	Does not having social media make me appear creepy? I know being a teen you REALLY want to date. But if someone finds you creepy for something actually harmless....you have dodged a bullet and shouldn’t be dating that person. I’m only 24 but I’m not gonna sit here and make an instagram account to not use just so someone can have an opportunity to creep on me....	/r/seduction	12/04/20 01:10 PM
3	Does not having social media make me appear creepy? Unfortunately our generation is obsessed with being “seen” on social media, especially women. We unhealthily use it to compare ourselves to others. Dating has shifted to you stalking someone’s social media profile and knowing EVERYTHING about them after the first date. The fact that she couldn’t do that the easy way made her uncomfortable. It’s not creepy AT ALL. Social media is a mindfuck and if people were taking care of their hearts and mental health, many of us wouldn’t even have it. I actua…	/r/seduction	12/04/20 01:07 PM
11	This happens often with black nice guys. They weren't "thug enough". Oh god. Is this what this subreddit is? Let me pack my shit and leave before I ruin my own day. Your obsession with white women has nothing to do with the black women in this world lol stop it.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	20/12/18 02:29 PM