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Real men think about men while they go down on women
/r/askMRP03/06/23 12:45 AM
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Do you feel like you need permission from a bunch of guys on the internet to go down on a woman?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/23 08:13 PM
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I normally like to help people with research projects but this one is disingenuous and a waste of time.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/23 05:03 PM
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I appreciate these drops of wisdom even though it was triggered by a complete moron. It was helpful for me.
/r/askMRP23/05/23 02:43 AM
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If you like the results you’re getting, keep doing the same things. No one here cares what any of us get out of life. None of us are special. Follow the plan. Or GTFO.
/r/askMRP22/05/23 11:16 PM
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What are you going to do differently tomorrow when you wake up?
/r/askMRP22/05/23 08:54 PM
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If you’re going to dream up a reality, you might as well give yourself two dicks. If you want to embrace the actual world around you, no one cares about your emotions or your struggles. The world is cold and heartless. Become strong. Become reliable. Become useful. Become independent. Don’t do it so your wife will fuck you more. Do it because that’s what men are intended to be. Or you can choose to live in a fantasy world. No one gives a shit if you self actualize or not.
/r/askMRP22/05/23 08:12 PM
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Whatever you do, don’t lift heavy, don’t STFU, don’t find a mission and dedicate your life to it, don’t achieve control over your impulses, finances and behaviors, don’t live an interesting life. Don’t do any of that. Jack off to pictures of RDJ instead.
/r/askMRP22/05/23 06:08 PM
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For real though. Women have pasts. Many can have as much sex as they want with as many guys as they want. Plenty do. That’s just how they are. You can’t change it. Just accept it. You could break up with her. Get angry. And then look at the photos the next woman you fall in love with has and realize she was sucking two giant dicks at the same time instead of one. Then you’re twice as miserable and start all over. Or remember she’s not yours, it’s just your turn. Women have pasts and baggage, esp…
/r/askMRP05/05/23 01:28 PM
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Be a bro and share the vids with us
/r/askMRP04/05/23 11:29 PM
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I wish I could go back in time and not read this stupid post
/r/askMRP24/02/23 04:14 AM
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I think the key is how you feel not necessarily her actions. She is going to do what she is going to do. You can set boundaries and then enforce them. That’s up to you. If you want permission to say change your name or we’re done, you have it. But it seems like the real issue isn’t her choice about the name but your reaction to it. No strong, confident man should feel jealous, insignificant or insecure especially when it comes to someone from your LTR past. You’re not wrong in feeling that way b…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/22 09:13 PM
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Could she take a lower stress job with lower pay? It could give you the flexibility you need.
/r/askMRP08/11/22 08:55 PM
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You’re right. I could have worded that differently to get a better point across.
/r/askMRP19/10/22 01:21 PM
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What she does has no bearing on what you do.
/r/askMRP19/10/22 02:54 AM
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I can tell how serious you by your history of OYS
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/22 10:52 PM
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Thanks for sharing. I’ve been tempted by SB for all the reasons you shared. I’m in a position to easily afford it but hearing your honesty is a good reminder.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/22 03:37 AM
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Why did you let the sugar baby go?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/22 05:57 PM
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OYS 17 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids Stats: 6'2. 225 (-27 YTD, -1 WoW) Lifts: 1RM Calculated for 5/3/1. OHP 132.5. DL 252.5. Bench 197.5. Squat 277.5. Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1 and MAP. Non RP reading that has been useful: Wim Hof Method, Digital Minimalism, The Power of Ritual, Can't Hurt Me, Art of Stillness, Everything is Fucked, Happiness Advantage I haven't posted in 5 weeks…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/22 03:55 PM
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Puka shells and Affliction shirts
/r/askMRP26/09/22 01:15 AM
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Yes. Apparently I am.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 05:37 PM
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You’re missing the point. Women aren’t the end goal. I still have a hard time with this fact so it’s okay if you’re not quite there. (Edit. Or rather making women your mission will leave you miserable and unfulfilled.) Your life is the end goal. Around here we call it a mission. Women can break your mission or they can enable it. Find your mission. Devote your life to it. Add things that make your mission possible. Remove things that make it impossible. You want 10 kids. Good for you. What else …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 05:14 PM
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This is the main piece of advice I wish I knew when I was single and early 20s. Build the life you want and only add people and things that support it. If you want to spend your life taking care of crazy women, that’s your choice. But don’t let women distract you from the life you actually want.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 04:36 PM
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Absolutely. CC has been my default mode for a long time. I’m finding new ways I’ve used them. Mission. Journey. People. Experiences. All more important than destination. I know this. I just don’t quite believe it yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 06:04 PM
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As a recovering fat guy, I can tell you the best thing we can do is stop being fat. Everything else will come in time.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 05:24 PM
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Ask your trainer if you should be doing complex lifts like bench press, overhead press, squats and deadlifts. If they say yes, post those lifts next time. If they say no, ask them why they don’t recommend the foundational lifts for total body strength.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 03:00 PM
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Are you following a workout plan? A PR on a lat pulldown isn't a great marker for success in fitness. If you don't have a plan, go to r/fitness and find one in the wiki. If you have no clue, download Stronglifts 5x5 app and start today. Then find a better plan in the next month or so. Also, semen retention is absolute BS for energy. Use porn, don't use porn. Jack off or don't. I don't care. Not ejaculating has nothing to do with your energy levels. Don't hide behind bullshit when there is probab…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 02:33 PM
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OYS 16 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids Stats: 6'2. 226 (-26 YTD, -2 WoW) Lifts: 1RM Calculated for 5/3/1. OHP 115. DL 242.5. Bench 185. Squat 252.5. Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1 and MAP. Non RP reading that has been useful: Wim Hof Method, Digital Minimalism, The Power of Ritual, Can't Hurt Me, Art of Stillness, Everything is Fucked, Happiness Advantage Mission Become fit. Gain wealth…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 02:09 PM
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The general advice around here is lift, sidebar, STFU and OYS. So if you want a path to follow, do that. None of us are special so the same path works for all.
/r/askMRP31/08/22 02:46 PM
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Good adjustment. And to no one’s surprise, I DEER like a damn pro. Another area of BS I’m working through.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/08/22 01:03 PM
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Own Your Shit. Every Tuesday there is a stickied thread. If you haven’t participated, I encourage you to share where you’re at, where you’re going and what you’re doing next.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 10:12 PM
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To quote James Bergerac “Sidebar. OYS. STFU. Lift.” Then you can share pointless quotes for internet points.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 09:48 PM
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At a macro level, yes. Those things are proven to benefit overall mental health. And it’s already been useful to continue peeling away the layers of BS in my life. It’s not the only thing I plan on doing. It’s just my immediate next steps. I’m not concerned about the next N steps, just the next one.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 08:06 PM
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Thanks for sharing. At what point are you going to take a chance and be who you want to be instead of who you think others want you to be? This is a common theme I'm uncovering in my life. Sex is just one of many ways this is manifesting. The catalyst for this realization is recently deciding to be child free and being forced to redefine my life in a self-centric way. Now I have a new layer of fear that I'm afraid to act on the fact that I live in fear. Which is ridiculous. I know in my head tha…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 05:41 PM
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If you need help with finances head over to r/personalfinance
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 04:18 PM
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When I found MRP I had some major injuries. Someone shared with me that my fitness goal is to heal first then find the gains. So I’ll share the same with you. Heal. Recover. Then get after it. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 04:13 PM
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I had a conversation about work life balance with a fiend recently. I always like the idea of work life integration. I work when I need to and do other things when I need to. Sometimes I work at 11pm and most of my errands are in the weekday afternoons. He liked to use the term work life trade offs. I appreciate the small change. As another user posted, we can have anything but not everything at once. So we have to constantly determine the trade offs. That shift has helped with me work, the busi…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 04:11 PM
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Can you tell me more about your wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 02:10 PM
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OYS 15 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids Stats: 6'2. 228 (-24 YTD, -1 WoW) Lifts: SL 5x5 - Row: 160, Bench 155, Deadlift 205, OHP 105, Squat 170 Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1 and MAP. Non RP reading that has been useful: Wim Hof Method, Digital Minimalism, The Power of Ritual, Can't Hurt Me, Art of Stillness, Everything is Fucked, Happiness Advantage Mission Become fit. Gain wealth. Buil…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 02:00 PM
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Can’t Hurt Me audiobook is what made me realize I was on the wrong path earlier this year. I listened to it twice in a row and started lifting. Then found MRP. Goggins is a fucking legend.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/22 06:53 PM
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Still internalizing it. I’m fortunate that we both feel the same way about being child free. For now, I don’t have to act on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/22 02:18 AM
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You’re right. By DEER I just made myself look dumber.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 02:30 PM
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I’m still working through that. In my head I know I have to be willing to sacrifice my relationships (spouse, friends, colleagues, family etc) for the life I want. I just don’t fully believe it yet. Still trying to internalize that.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 02:29 PM
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I’d didn’t catch that I DEER. It’s obvious now. STFU is the answer. It’s been a while since I used a pro. Not opposed to it. That’s just where my desires are right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 07:28 PM
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OYS 14 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids Stats: 6'2. 229 (-23 YTD, -1 WoW) Lifts: SL 5x5 - Row: 160, Bench 155, Deadlift 205, OHP 105, Squat 170 Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1 and MAP. Non RP reading that has been useful: Wim Hof Method, Digital Minimalism, The Power of Ritual, Can't Hurt Me, Art of Stillness, Everything is Fucked Mission Become fit. Gain wealth. Build useful things. Surr…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 01:45 PM
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This is all great. Thanks for sharing. Focus on adding weight is pretty straightforward and a reminder that all this is actually pretty simple. I just overthink and make excuses instead of acting. A big reason I’m here. I was reading the recommended routines last night after seeing something about SL not being a great program. So your advice is good timing.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/22 02:39 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to comment. Any specific advice for improving my weight training or finding actual correct form?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/22 12:59 PM
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This is good advice. Thanks for taking the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/22 03:29 PM
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Good points. I think you’re right about seeing my own misery in others. It’s at least partly me projecting. I might be trying to protect my ego after the ban. I don’t think so but I could be wrong. I’m still trying to answer the question “why am I here”. And more importantly is this the best place for me. I’ll keep OYS till I have an answer. Thanks for taking the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/22 01:47 PM
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OYS 13 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids Stats: 6'2. 230 (-22 YTD, -4 since last OYS 4 weeks ago) Lifts: SL 5x5 - Row: 160, Bench 155, Deadlift 205, OHP 105, Squat 170 Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1 and MAP. Non RP reading that has been useful: Wim Hof Method, Digital Minimalism, The Power of Ritual, Can't Hurt Me, Art of Stillness, Everything is Fucked I was hit with a valid Rule 9 viola…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/22 12:59 PM
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Name it Cinnamon and tell your wife it’s the stripper you’re going to marry for your next wife. Tell her not to worry because she hasn’t been born yet.
/r/askMRP31/07/22 02:46 PM
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Good start. Once you get started you’ll figure out what works best for you. It’s easier to course correct when you’re moving than standing still. Good luck.
/r/askMRP26/07/22 06:19 PM
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Great advice I listened to a podcast recently with a psychologist who said too much journaling has a negative effect. It was a surprise me but it ended up making sense. When we focus on the negative, we train our minds to be negative. My mindset has improved since I switched from daily journaling to situation based journaling.
/r/askMRP26/07/22 02:24 PM
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I use a One Line a Day journal and write in it every night before bed. It takes 90 seconds and helps me capture the moments that matter. I keep a $1 journal on my desk and when I have negative emotions, anxiety or difficult challenges I write out what the situation is, what I believe about it, what’s actually true and what I am going to do. Basic CBT. Don’t overthink it. Pen and paper works best. Don’t let journaling become the goal. It’s just a tool.
/r/askMRP26/07/22 02:21 PM
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No one here can tell you what you to do. Only you know what you are willing to accept and tolerate. There is no right or wrong answer.
/r/askMRP15/07/22 08:08 PM
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If her actions violate what you want in a LTR, then you already know the answer. Cooking and cleaning can be paid for easily with maids and chefs. How much is loyalty worth to you? Only you can decide what is more important to the life you want to live and the quality of LTR you allow in your life.
/r/askMRP15/07/22 07:45 PM
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Primarily train kettlebells, but have recently started easing back into deadlifts with a focus on form I'm new here, too. Here is some advice, share your actual lifts. Sharing my lifts every OYS forces me to be honest with myself on where I am and what I'm doing. I had to drop some weights on my OHP and squat because of prior injuries and bad form. So I get it. I'm there too. But share the damn numbers. Even if you're just deadlifting the bar. Put "DL: 45 pounds". Be honest with yourself and be …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 07:26 PM
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The DOMS analogy is perfect. After a couple of months of lifting I know what to expect. I need to translate that to hunger and diet to get to the next stage.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 05:57 PM
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This is pretty solid advice for me. It’s so simple and dumb but I think it will be really effective for me. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 04:51 PM
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OYS 12 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids Stats: 6'2. 234 (-18 YTD, -1 WoW) Lifts: SL 5x5 - Row: 170, Bench 165, Deadlift 205, OHP 95, Squat 135* Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1. Non RP reading that has been useful: Digital Minimalism, The Power of Ritual, Can't Hurt Me, Art of Stillness, Everything is Fucked Mission I don't have a grand mission but I've been thinking and journaling through…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/22 04:02 PM
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I'm still developing my mission. I wrote in my last OYS that I'm starting to uncover some themes and trends around what I want out of my life. I don't have a grand mission but I've been thinking and journaling through how I want to live my life. There are a few trends that keep emerging. I want to live my life outside my home in the city and in nature. I love inner city and high-rise living. I own very little and would prefer to have the city as my back yard than a patch of grass. I want to crea…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 03:03 PM
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Thanks for being here and taking the time to comment. For IR7, if I'm being honest with myself, the idea of leaving my wife and starting fresh is scary and something I generally don't want to do. I wrote in my OYS8 that I am starting to understand that I need to put my mission before my relationships and be prepared to walk away from relationships if they don't serve my life and purpose. As of now, I believe there are more positives in my relationship than negatives. And that if I continue to be…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 02:47 PM
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OYS 11 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids Stats: 6'2. 235 (-17 YTD, -1 WoW) Lifts: SL 5x5 - Row: 170, Bench 165, Deadlift 205, OHP 105, Squat 135* Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1. Non RP reading that has been useful: Digital Minimalism, The Power of Ritual, Can't Hurt Me, Art of Stillness, Everything is Fucked Mission To become a man worthy of a great mission. Instead of moving across the c…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/22 04:40 PM
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Eating less food (usually) results in weight loss which (usually) improves health. Eating certain foods (almost always) results in an improvement in total health. Two different strategies, two different goals that are not mutually exclusive. Both are beneficial for different reasons. That being said, when I eat less, I lose weight. When I eat certain foods, I feel better physically. It’s pretty much accepted medical and scientific fact by now. If you’re suggesting I eat less food overall, increa…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/22 08:25 PM
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Thanks for being here. I can’t argue that my last week has missed some fire - especially around diet. If I’m honest with myself, I prioritized convenience last week instead of progress. Part of it was because of celebrating a career milestone and spending time with friends. But it was mainly due to falling in to old habits and patterns that was triggered by external events. It’s fair to say I didn’t “do the hard work” last week. If I were to do this OYS over again, I think I would state that my …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/22 03:12 PM
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You’re almost being useful but not quite. Care to try again?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 10:49 PM
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Great scene in a great movie. Thanks for at least being entertaining this time.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 10:30 PM
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I’m glad we agree that eating patterns and CICO are two separate strategies with two separate goals. That’s at least something useful you’ve brought to the conversation.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 10:28 PM
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Thanks for being here and for being direct. Something the other two commenters chose not to do. I agree with just about everything you said - except the idea of me weighing 175 is a joke. That part doesn’t matter for now though I have to get through 40 pounds before I can prove that point. You’re spot on with the BF%. I checked 10 days ago and it was 27%. My weight loss isn’t linear but it’s directionally accurate. So what if it takes 6 months? Or even a year? There is no destination when it com…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 08:37 PM
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I’m not sure what you’re getting at but thanks for being here. I posted that CICO is for weight loss. So I agree that eating less is the only useful path for weight loss. Weight loss is rarely linear, mine is moving in the right direction so I’m not sure what’s behind your assumption I have zero discipline. Could I have more? Of course. We all could. I chose to go out to eat which had a neutral affect on weight, negative affect on short term energy and positive affect on my social life. I don’t …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/22 03:49 AM
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I’m not sure what you’re getting at. But thanks for being here. I’m happy to discuss and listen to details and merits of different approaches to total health. My general approach is “nothing < something < best approach” and make small changes over time. That article was painful to read and didn’t say much - diets don’t work but they do if you have discipline, exercise is good, bodies have natural limits, genetics matter. It had zero conclusions or recommendations other than to work 23 hours a we…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/22 07:00 PM
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OYS 10 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids. Stats: 6'2. 236 (-16 YTD, -0 WoW) Lifts: SL 5x5 - Row: 170, Bench 160, Deadlift 205, OHP 105, Squat 195 Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1. Non RP reading that has been useful: Digital Minimalism, The Power of Ritual, Can't Hurt Me, Art of Stillness, Everything is Fucked Mission To become a man worthy of a great mission I don't have a grand mission bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/22 03:17 PM
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Thanks for the input and reminder of what’s true. I’m glad I made the decision to move my workouts to a real gym. It’s an easy way to workout away from my wife and start to build that aspect of my life on my own. I work from home so I’m going to start working outside of home regularly to build space. That will be an easy start for me as I figure out the life I want to build.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/22 01:41 AM
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The book opened my eyes to how I was choosing SM to create a digital life at the expense of a real life. This ties in really well with MRP. I had hundreds of virtual friends but I hang out with less than 10. What’s more important - likes on a screen or time with humans IRL? It has encouraged me to build an actual community. I highly recommend it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 05:04 PM
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I know my mindset is warped. I’m caught up her frame so much that Im falling victim to projected dread from her.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 03:47 PM
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OYS 9 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids. Stats: 6'2. 236 (-16 YTD, -1 WoW) Lifts: SL 5x5 - Row: 165, Bench 160, Deadlift 205, OHP 105, Squat 185 Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1. Non RP reading that has been useful: Digital Minimalism, The Power of Ritual, Can't Hurt Me, Art of Stillness Mission To become a man worthy of a great mission Fitness After 7 weeks, 5x5 is now engrained in my sche…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/22 03:34 PM
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OYS 8 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids. Stats: 6'2. 237 (-15 YTD, -2 WoW) Lifts: SL 5x5 - Row: 165, Bench 155, Deadlift 205, OHP 95, Squat 185 Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1. Non RP reading that has been useful: Digital Minimalism, The Power of Ritual, Can't Hurt Me Mission To become a man worthy of a great mission I'm starting to understand what it means to put my mission over my relati…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/22 03:20 PM
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I’m just being honest of where I’m at - which is about 7 weeks in to realizing my life isn’t where I want it to be. Every day I’m finding new blind spots and areas to improve.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 09:25 PM
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Oh yea. I’m peeling away more and more layers of the BS in my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 08:52 PM
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OYS 7 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids. Stats: 6'2. 239 (-13 YTD, 0 WoW) - currently traveling and haven't measured in 10 days. Lifts: SL 5x5 - Row: 165, Bench 165, Deadlift 175, OHP 95, Squat 175 Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1. Mission To become a man worthy of a great mission I'm starting to have more clarity around what I want out of my life. I've been journaling and looking inward. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/22 03:24 PM
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Alright. I’m in. I’ll report back in my next OYS on my first week with no porn.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/22 08:34 PM
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My general thought was to reduce then stop. But maybe cold turkey would be more effective?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/22 06:07 PM
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OYS 6 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids. Stats: 6'2. 239 (-13 YTD, -1 WoW) Lifts: SL 5x5 - Row: 155, Bench 160, Deadlift 185, OHP 105, Squat 175 Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1. Mission To become a man worthy of a great mission The last few years I've had a couple of cross country moves, 4 job changes and moved to a few different neighborhoods after trying to be a digital nomad for a while…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/22 02:25 PM
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R/personalfinance has a great post in their wiki called the Prime Directive. It’s a useful and practical guide to where to put every dollar you make.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 03:05 PM
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OYS 5 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids. Stats: 6'2. 240 (-12 YTD, -2 WoW) Lifts: SL 5x5 - Row: 155, Bench 155, Deadlift 185, OHP 100, Squat 165 Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1. Mission To become a man worthy of a great mission Fitness SL 5x5 has been way more challenging than the workout plan I was on before. I should have started with this. I'm traveling for the next two and a half weeks…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 02:26 PM
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OYS 4 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids. Stats: 6'2. 242 (-10 YTD, -1 WoW) Lifts: SL 5x5 - Row: 145, Bench 155, Deadlift 95, OHP 85, Squat 145 Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, some sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots in covert contracts. Reading RMY1. Fitness After my last OYS, I realized with the help by u/HornsOfApathy that my workout routine wasn't effective. I had been using the gym at my highrise and making do with what it had - smith machine, dumbbells, basi…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/22 02:29 PM
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Don’t hate on cycling. All forms of human powered locomotion are great.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/22 12:11 AM
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215 or so. And it might be closer to 30 months. I cycled a few days per week, walked everywhere, lifted a few days per week. Treadmill runs 1-2x per week. Rock climbed regularly. I was living in SoCal and my lifestyle was very different than it is today.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/22 05:32 PM
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As much as I want to argue with you, that is just my ego talking. I'm here to learn and grow. So if I sound like a pussy beta, it's probably because I am one. I've been using the gym in my high rise to make my workouts simpler - and easier since its just an elevator ride away. But I don't need easier, I need effective. I blocked off time on my calendar today to sign up at the gym down the street and hit a full workout. Its a 15 minute walk / 5 minute bike ride and has everything I could ever nee…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/22 03:33 PM
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OYS 3 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids. Stats: 6'2. 243. BF 25-28% (estimate). Fitness: Bench 185 for reps on Smith machine. 90 pound OHP. Low weight (60 lbs) Bulgarian split squats for knee injury. Weighted back extension to simulate DL for knee injury. Pull-up progression training. Long walks and cycling 2-3x per week for cardio. Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, Going deep on sidebar. Reread NMMNG as I'm finding new blind spots. Covert Contracts In my last OYS, someone commente…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/22 02:16 PM
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I’m not here to change my relationship. I’m here to change myself.
/r/askMRP09/05/22 11:04 PM
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I never thought of this as a convert contract. And honestly, I'm not sure what to think about it right now. I definitely have been thinking that if I become more attractive/fit/successful/rich then I will get the things I want. Some of those things are sex or attention or love from my wife. Which I get is a CC. But its also true to some extent. And honestly its been part of my motivation in the past, which might be why I've continued to fail in the same areas for years.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 05:08 PM
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OYS 2 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids. Stats: 6'2. 243. BF 25-28% (estimate). Fitness: Bench 185 for reps on Smith machine. 90 pound OHP. Low weight Bulgarian split squats for knee injury. Pull-up progression training. Long walks and cycling 2-3x per week for cardio. Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, Going deep on sidebar. Some feedback I got on my first OYS was that I was complaining without improving myself. That was pretty accurate. I didn't have much to share because I wasn't…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 03:51 PM
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I guess you're right - fit autists are better than fat ones
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/22 09:47 PM
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I appreciate the response. Rereading this post a few hours later makes me feel like a sad sack. Which is fair for a moment. Next OYS I’ll actually have something worth saying. I guess for now my OYS means I’m at step 1.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/22 01:26 AM
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Thanks for pointing that out.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 05:01 PM
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Thanks man. My brain automatically goes to complex systems, research and analysis. Trying to keep things simple for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 03:54 PM
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OYS 1 35m/33f. Married 3, together 13. No kids. Stats: 6'2. 243. BF 25-28% (estimate). Fitness: Bench 185 for reps on Smith machine. 90 pound OHP. Low weight Bulgarian split squats for knee injury. Pull-up progression training. Long walks and cycling 2-3x per week for cardio. Reading: Finished NMMNG, MMSL & WISNIFG, Going deep on sidebar. I have a lot of problems. But they mostly come down to me 1. not being attractive and 2. me not taking responsibility for the life I want. I don't have the sex…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 03:32 PM
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