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Field Reportguest123420/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 12:18 PM
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I'm not positive, but I feel like a large portion of this group (and reddit as a whole) is younger. I'm in my mid-30's and I'll share something that I've noticed: A lot of girls that I've "friend-zoned" in the past are now flings/hookups as we've gotten older. I was sure not to let them dictate the relationship or expectations as "friends", I am available and when it is appropriate and doesn't negatively impact my goals and lifestyle. We're older now and they are aware that I don't want anything…
/r/seduction15/07/20 03:38 PM
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*If you're not creepy and at least somewhat attractive.
/r/seduction07/06/20 06:52 PM
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These are called "turn-off" lines. Here's one more along the same vein: She is standing there doing nothing You: Your skin will make a great lampshade.
/r/seduction06/06/20 02:44 PM
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Asking for your opinion, I don't have social media, that seems to turn some girls off, what's you're opinion. Sometimes I feel like they think I'm "fake" catfishing, or just think I'm a weirdo for not having it. I'll sometimes ask for a number and they'll ask for my snap/insta and I've got nothing...
/r/seduction29/04/20 11:51 AM
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This is based on each person and each situation. I feel as though I have a strong text game (witty, humor, good question asking, etc) and I look at it as a form of foreplay. Sometimes, I admit, I overdo it with frequency or openness/topics, but that's a part of who I am and it helps qualify/disqualify some girls who I'd waste an evening figuring that out face to face.
/r/seduction28/03/20 11:12 PM
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Well summarized. It's important to only compare yourself to who you were yesterday and not to anyone or anything external. Discipline is what matters, going to the gym when you're not feeling it, choosing a healthier diet choice over junk, saying no to a sexual encounter that will disrupt the pattern of healthy habits you've laid out for yourself.
/r/seduction30/11/19 10:25 PM
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100% Situational and based on the girl I'm going on a first date with. One girl even said to me, "I am so glad you didn't try to kiss me on the first date, guys always try that, it never leads to a second date."... I didn't even hug this girl after the first date, I could just tell by her body language and personality that it wasn't a good move, so I played it cordial and set up a second date, kept escalating via text and in person, and the closed. Other girls, 100%- you might even be kissing th…
/r/seduction29/08/19 09:45 PM
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This is called hitting the fucking nail on the fucking head. I only have so much energy and I struggle at times to even invest it into my most important things. Now that I'm in my 30's I'm confident and content if I pass on chasing girls for a stretch of time because I need it.
/r/seduction06/08/19 02:24 AM
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Aw, cute :)
/r/seduction02/07/19 02:37 AM
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How did you not capitalize on the opportunity to send her an unsolicited dick pick? Noob.
/r/seduction25/06/19 08:28 PM
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Next time you see here be all like, "I really like the smell of your new shampoo."
/r/seduction14/06/19 04:24 PM
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Great write up, I'm a bit younger but am on a similar path. A question, I aim to be upfront of the first date to let her know my intentions, I am curious what your approach to this is? I typically see if there is any type of connection between us, mentally and physically, and if I wish to pursue. Then I ask "what are you looking for with dating?"... I like to let them answer that question first so I can gauge their situation and form my response, which is some variation of explaining how I am in…
/r/seduction14/06/19 01:45 AM
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Dick pic DM with your number scribbled on your wiener with a sharpie. You're welcome.
/r/seduction17/02/19 10:33 PM
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What you're saying isn't wrong, and I'm glad it worked for you. But for me, learning how to move on and improve myself without needing closure has been a huge positive. Being able to accept that something didn't go the way I wanted it to and that I am hurt, but moving forward anyway with an acceptance that I control my emotions and my next decision.
/r/seduction05/01/19 12:16 AM
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Woah, sage talk right there. Bravo, no bs
/r/seduction05/01/19 12:10 AM
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Boo fucking Hoo... it takes years to get jacked... it takes years to be successful at many things. Do you want to be awesome at things? Put the time in. Who cares if it takes 3 years? You have to start with one day. Set a goal that you know will take a long time and tons of work and then work every day towards its. You'll crush endless "minor goals" along the way.
/r/seduction23/11/18 05:09 AM
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6: Drop your magnum condom that you use for your giant dong at her feet
/r/seduction17/11/18 11:29 PM
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He didn't say where he was kissing her
/r/seduction25/10/18 02:32 AM
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Leave a voicemail or no if she doesn't pick up?
/r/seduction23/10/18 09:14 PM
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"I like bad boys"- her "Perfect, I'm bad at everything".
/r/seduction20/08/18 01:52 AM
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Touch the booty. But seriously, you gotta escalate. Sit on the couch, get closer, put your hand on her thigh, keep the conversation going, rub her arm, brush her hair... you'll eventually have to make a move, and it's all about your style and comfort level. Sometimes it's awkward for both parties, each waiting for the kiss to happen. Be respectful, but JUST DO IT
/r/seduction17/08/18 01:50 AM
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Unlike my balls after your mother visits me.
/r/seduction09/06/18 04:07 PM
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Find a place that there are woman in a place that you enjoy and feel comfortable...it'll make you more comfortable. If you hate clubs don't force yourself to go to one for the sole reason of pulling chicks- they'll see it on you. If you love clubs and can dance and have a blast on your own, they'll see it on you.
/r/seduction03/05/18 08:50 PM
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That sounds kind of dark... are you going to hurt these women?
/r/seduction23/04/18 04:17 AM
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She might be Candian and is just being polite.
/r/seduction23/04/18 04:16 AM
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OK, order a popcorn a nice big bucket of it. As subtly as possible, preferably when she's in the bathroom, cut a hole in the bottom of the popcorn bucket. Stick your penis inside of this hole. She'll reach in for some popcorn, find your dick, and at first be surprised, but will then be completely seduced. Disclaimer: I don't recommend this, but it was on Chapelle show in great moments in hookup history, made me laugh.
/r/seduction10/02/18 08:55 PM
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I would love to also know if there is a utopian country of clean-ish and beautiful women...
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 02:24 AM
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I'm really blowing this, on both TRP and here... I posted the one with questions to TRP and the one without to asktrp...sorry man, I'm a self admitting idiot in this situation. My questions that were included were- I'm also wondering what my move should be this weekend? I haven't responded to anything yet, should I let her come over? Do I spin for a bit or hard next?
/r/askTRP07/01/17 06:24 PM
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"Or if you always masturbate when you're bored and alone - get the fuck out of the house!" ...directions unclear, left the house, was still bored, masturbated on the park bench, now I'm on a list. Who's Meghan? She DTF?
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 02:15 AM
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Great phrasing and examples, and I agree that it isn't a hard number, as different girls have different experiences. I also find it hard to believe any number that does get shared by a girl, my ex wife (who you've seen the examples of in other posts) was very "side stepping" if that convo ever even got close to discussion, but lead me to believe it was a moderate number...fast forward to the hard convos during the dying embers, and I pressed and found out that by her early 20's this girl had bee…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 12:02 PM
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What would you, OP, and others on this thread consider to be a high N Count for various girls? Say, 21-24 HB7+, 24-27 HB7+, and 27-30+ HB7+?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 03:21 AM
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"The RP world is amoral" is still one of my last hangups. I try to lead an honest and virtuous life, not saying you don't, but even when I see clear opportunities to take advantage of a situation or person I freeze. I think if I could develop a bit more of an edge I'd be able to get more hookups, as I've seen results in my past doing just this. I've curious, from the community, where there are tradeoffs for the best results? Basically, where is it worth swallowing the good guy persona and going …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 02:49 AM
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Girls in your market are like parking spaces: taken, to far away, or handicapped.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 02:39 AM
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If they can crawl, they're in the right position.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 02:36 AM
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I must have misinterpreted it, I apologize.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 11:16 PM
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You don't have to exclusively, but pen and paper will be your best tool for results. IMO
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 01:53 PM
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Great post, and great advice, from someone who has been journaling for years and has many notebooks filled, albeit in disorganized fashion. As I have continued journaling certain points stand out and have evolved: positive talk is KEY. It is ok to recognize and admit a shortcoming, being honest is also important, but do not dwell on it or forecast that's how it will always be. Words like "I will", or even better, "I have learned from this, and in the future I will BLANK" are far better. I would …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 01:50 PM
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Yikes... those are scary assertions, at least IMO. Therapy was not expensive for me (I found one I could see for $5 a visit on a sliding scale, and one for $65 with more resources), and even if it was it is "expensive" it is totally worth it. Not forever, but when needed. That's akin to saying a gym membership is to expensive to lift, and mental health is very much as important as physical, if not more. Maybe not for you, but it is for many, so be careful with polar generalizations regarding som…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 01:26 PM
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Excellent follow up, thanks. And, that is how I usually text, the closest I come to emojis (I have literally sent 1 in my entire life) is :) For the most part I am to the point, but being a rather long winded fellow, conversationist, and probably thinking I am to clever... I could use some advice about the minimalism you employ.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 02:03 AM
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I know there's some hate coming your way for this, and I do understand the reasons, but that being said I am appreciative for the share.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 01:48 AM
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"man did that fly by". That's life, so fuck all the party and bullshit (Biggy!), get a dream job, kick ass, keep lifting, and make yourself awesome. Another year will fly by and you're just getting better. This just keeps increasing your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 01:34 AM
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Not much useful in your post as far as examples, but I want to take a moment to both congratulate you for seeing a therapist, and do a quick public service announcement to anyone who takes the time to read it, to hopefully glean something useful here: Seeing a therapist is not a sign of weakness. A lot of us struggle with mental health, and it is stigmatized in today's society as a sign of "weakness" or BP. Just like you're not going to listen to society for other tips, don't do it here. We all …
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 01:26 AM
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Please, elaborate on "stoic texting".
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 01:12 AM
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Right along with continually being shut down for sex after all the build up- dinner date, good conversation, come home and relax, quick back rub, initiate sex, "not in the mood". Once this happens a couple of times all confidence and masculinity are poof. Also a sign she's getting it somewhere else...
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 01:04 AM
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Same boat my friend. I got out of a terrible relationship that ended in a divorce after 4 months. It took me a year of self improvement and confidence checks to get back out there. Then, I banged a couple HB8-9's, met what I thought was a great girl, and fell right back into oneitis. 6 months later, here I am again, going sober, working out a lot more, focusing heavily on my career and betterment... The great thing is I know how to get back there now- I did it before form far deeper depths. This…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 12:56 AM
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Imagine if he took this time to go out, improve himself, and approach women? Even with a 5% success rate he'd be balls deep!
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 12:21 AM
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Letters to Lucilius #29 excerpts: "Of course, this is his choice. I’d rather speak to someone who wants to listen to what I’ve got to say. Even better, someone who will take my comments on board as a means to improve themselves. After all speaking to a person, one-on-one, is better than speaking to a crowd. I’m guessing that most people in a crowd only hear what they want to hear. They don’t hear what you have to say. Most of these people will simply react to what the crowd reacts to. But I supp…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 12:20 AM
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She was keeping it form me because I had directly, verbatim, explained to her that would not be OK with me. I had the conversation with her that, for the 99% most part, she has no need for male friends. Why? Because one person in a male/female relationship is always chasing sex with the other. Period. Yes, I have many female friends for decades+, and yes at times I have desired to have sex with them so bad, but they didn't want me because they were 21-25 and fucking any random guy they wanted an…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 10:45 PM
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Exactly, end of story. She even said to me as we were separating, "You do everything for/with me that I would ever want, but I just enjoy the attention I get from other guys, sometimes."... I said, great, go enjoy it ALL the time, without me holding you back.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 10:37 PM
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Seriously... Maybe these guys should find a professional ear, you know, a therapist, since she's likely not helping anyways and they are obviously seeking more than an ear- e.g.- a warm and wet place to shove their cock.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 12:36 PM
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Look, I was married, for 4 months. I caught her out at night hanging with guys "socializing, lending an ear, etc.", and it turns out all she is doing is seeking attention. Attention she could have gotten home and gotten from me. Now, she claims she never physically cheated, but that does. not. matter. She cheated on me far harder by making me feel like all my hard work, all my financial "meeting in the middle", all my comforting when she was down, was not enough. It took me a long time to recove…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 12:35 PM
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I feel bad for your husband.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 11:32 PM
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Very personal, and subjective, but if you feel as though your time spent alone is uncomfortable and unhealthy, that may be a sign. If you try all other means (diet, exercise, sobriety, positive activities and people, meditation, etc.) and still feel "blah", consider talking to someone. I have at various points in my life, it's a good check in, and not a sign of weakness. Mental health, though often taboo to speak of for a strong male, is a very real thing that will limit you in all other areas o…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 03:14 PM
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Well received, thank you for your time. I'm going to take some time to reflect on some of this, because I'll admit a lot of it is true. I think it is also me starting to notice more and more about my beta behavior as I reflect with RP perspectives. What I might have looked at as a strategic move to get laid was actually a moronic move to waste time and money.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 02:18 AM
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Looking for some feedback, don't hold back, it'll be taken as constructive. I've long been the paradox of a "good guy asshole", had lots of sexy female friends that I thought, "if I just keep this up, sex is bound to happen!", but at the same time, when I've needed to I've been able to turn up the game and get laid by playing the asshole role. I do prefer to be a "good guy", I am constantly complimented by my business associates, travel partners, friends, family, girls, etc. as one of the nicest…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 12:19 AM
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Start asking yourself, honestly, why no one calls you for an emergency?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 02:25 AM
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Appreciate it, especially that I control the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 10:23 PM
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Examples on make the transition? I get pretty sucked in when I start getting serious with someone.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 06:41 PM
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I wish I could do this, and I still might, but in my professional life I receive a lot of texts and I can't do the same drill.. I wish I could just turn them on for certain people (plates).
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 06:38 PM
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Additionally, he makes no comments...hmmm
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 06:36 PM
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I'll add to this with a common theme around here: stop needing and wanting the motivation to do anything, and start having the discipline to do it.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 04:26 AM
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You sir, and your perspectives and time explaining them, are greatly appreciated. I say this with humbleness, but with my intellect and delivery, this would be brutal to another human being. And, if it does still lead to fists, more of the same. Thanks again!
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 04:12 AM
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As with anything, be smart with your limits. The best thing to learn the first day of BJJ is to tap out (concede) early, and often to your opponent. Once you begin to learn your limits you can push it as far as you'd like, and I have been on the very of consciousness multiple times, and have had some very sore joints- all were from my ego/pride telling me to keep pushing. It is a gentle sport when done well, one you can do well into your old age (see Helio Gracie). You can go with no intentions …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 12:39 AM
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She's a dude, post op, proceed with caution.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 11:31 PM
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Close, he fought crime with his mutant turtle brothers.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 02:56 PM
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Not to argue semantics... bbbuuuttt, isn't that a big 4, maybe even 5? Ha, merry Christmas!
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 02:04 PM
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I will add to this, as I have trained BJJ for a few years now. Have an attitude when you start that you will be the nail, and the other practitioners, will be the hammer for about a year. Don't go in with ego, do not be upset when a 16 year old who weighs 130lbs submits you constantly, and don't worry about or compare your progression. Where you are in BJJ is where you are, and everyone else is the same. Strength in this sport, though useful, is not the point. It is made for the smaller man to u…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 02:02 PM
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Work when it is time to work, rest when it is time to rest. Just be sure you are completely immersed in the activity that you are currently involved in.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 04:01 AM
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Follow up- is physical altercation ever an option in your eyes? E.G.- guys has now called you out, pushing a finger into your chest, drawing you outside, calling you beta, trying to draw you in, emotions are boiling, frame is gone, so on and so on... put the guy in his place, or still, walk away with your head held high? Like I said, I am capable, but I never, ever, want to be involved in nonsense fights, there is NO winner.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 09:05 PM
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Thank. You. The more I digest the RP, the more this correlates in my mind as being correct behavior. Of course, me being my own unique little snowflake, will probably play it out in my own way/tone/voice/verbiage, but your direction of discussion is spot on. Elevate the situation that happened, not a situation that you're now instigation- i.e. picking a fight, calling him out, acting beta and trying to get your date to leave, etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 09:01 PM
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"Anger is a poison which does far more damage to the vessel it is stored than any surface it is poured on".
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 04:03 PM
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I had a mantra that I repeat in my head, sometimes when I have moment of weakness, but also when I am firing on all cylinders: My body is a weapon, I must perfect it. My mind is a weapon, I must perfect it. My soul is a weapon, I must perfect it. Over, and over, and over when I need it. One feeds the other, but only two leave the third starving. As my body improves, my clarity of thought improves. As my quality of thought improves, the quality of my life improves.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 03:03 PM
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Work in silence. Let your actions be the noise.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 02:29 PM
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Could I get your to expand briefly on proper reactions to other men physically touching, e.g. slapping the girl I am with's ass, or even attempting to be to pushy and condescending? I am capable (train BJJ) but unwilling to engage physically unless heavily instigated, so I am just wondering you advice on non-physical responses, while my emotions are bubbling. I get that part of me should not care, and if my girl responds positively to this man I should just leave her wherever we are. But, what i…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 01:58 PM
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You don't have a defined goal, and I am not saying this is the end all for everything, but it may start the snowball effect that will open your eyes to the rest. Start small, sounds like you need it, maybe get your posture fixed by doing dead lifts at the gym, as mentioned in another comment. If your goal is to be exactly what and who you are today, congrats, every day you will meet your goal. I am NOT that person for myself yet, so I have work to do, and I am off to do it.
/r/askTRP11/09/16 11:16 AM
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Bravo, there is a fine line between staying true to yourself and staying true for your rules, and navigating safely in today's social and judicial atmosphere.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 02:18 PM
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Agreed, I've been training BJJ for 3 years now(some boxing/stand up), there has not been a single choice and commitment that I have made that has prepared me more as an alpha, MENTALLY and physically. Knowing I have no fear in an altercation is one thing, but knowing I can defuse nearly any situation having that confidence is even better. I was never a fighter, though I did just fine, and now that I can handle myself in a fight I have even less desire to ever be in one. 99-100% of the time NO ON…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 11:05 AM
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documentary I do Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, and there is nothing you can do to prepare or compare to the cardio you can achieve in this sport. And, you learn a martial art, meet some great people, and improve mental fortitude. It's not punch/kicking and it is not overly taxing on the body, especially if you're clear with your intentions and injury history. I have a 45+ buddy with a terrible neck, still does it every day, dropped lots of weight.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 11:00 AM
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Swimming: arguably the best overall exercise for you body, cardio included.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 10:56 AM
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Great work, thank you. A lot that I already do, and a lot that I can add or refine.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/16 10:47 AM
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And a 100% of not getting fucked by her anymore, while she fucks everyone else!
/r/MGTOW20/07/16 10:29 AM
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Thanks, you havee confirmed what I strive to accomplish over the next decade.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/16 01:56 AM
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Can you please link this post, I can't seem to find it, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 07:28 PM
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