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Probably gonna get downvoted to hell, but I gotta say... Posts like this are why some people think this sub is ridiculous. Dude, you have a fantastic girl. You say so yourself. Commitment isn't capitulation if she's what you actually want. Some of the advice here is awful. If a girl is a bitch, being nice to her makes no sense, yes. But if a girl is being nice, being loyal, all that? Being nice back is a good damn healthy idea. Also there is a lot more to a potential LTR than just frame. You nee…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 12:16 AM
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Pretty sure that post above was a joke. Also, why were you there? Sociological research? Lol Drinking, smoking, gambling, hookers, junk food, drugs, and too much television are definitely all poor lifestyle choices and probably bad for your mind, your body, and your longterm success. Pretty sure everybody knows that. But damn if those things aren't all fun in moderation. TRP seems like an odd place to act morally superior or something. Yeah we probably shouldn't model our lives after old Thailan…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 09:15 PM
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This is a great cautionary tale and anyone marrying a girl from a red light district is an idiot, but I do think there are some genuinely decent girls overseas. Not unicorns of course. They're still real fallible people with secrets and all that. Still, culture does play a role and I think where you grow up can affect how you look at relationships. No reason not to LTR a foreigner - even a thai girl. Just stay a bit cynical about it and make sure she has something to offer you beyond sex. In oth…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 08:38 PM
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Yeah, it's even worse than that really. Studies have shown that guys on low dose testosterone for a few months doing absolutely NOTHING workout wise, gain significantly more muscle than guys who lift weights for that same period. But.... if we're talking about natty lifting, who cares? Sure, lack of sleep, poor diet, high bodyfat, low social status, high stress, and a variety of other factors have been shown to negatively affect test levels, but baseline hormone levels are largely genetic so for…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 02:43 AM
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Yeah, some people are pretty blatant about it. Kinobody does offer some decent advice and good on the guy for the solid marketing and helping get people fit. Still, he should be paying Martin a fat royalty check because he's basically leangains, except flashier, less scientific and not nearly as strong (Berkhan's strength for his size and bodyfat -- hell for any size -- is insane)
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 09:20 PM
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https://leangains.com/fuckarounditis/ Original source from Martin Berkhan. If anyone ever asks me about working out, I tell them to read this. Considered by a lot of people to be one of the best articles ever written on lifting. As a side note, a ton of people in the online fitness world on youtube etc. are basically re-branding stuff Martin was writing about a decade ago. I'm not saying to make this dude your guru, but leangains has some fantastic articles on minimalist training and IF
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 04:20 PM
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Well... of course. In a truly Machiavellian sense, nobody ever really does anything for anyone that isn't self-serving on some level. Everybody on r/MGTOW probably understands that. Still doesn't mean you can't find women who are a little nicer to you, regardless of their motivations.
/r/MGTOW03/06/18 03:36 AM
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I know of course, AWALT to a degree, but... the women you've described sound pretty awful. I've also met plenty of women like the ones you've described, but I've also met some women from other backgrounds who are extremely sweet, very dedicated, and very family oriented. I've had girls like that cook for me, bring me surprise gifts, buy me a bunch of stuff, hell even write me snail mail letters just to be romantic. Like another poster said... I'm not saying this is your fault, but even if unicor…
/r/MGTOW02/06/18 02:33 PM
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You can make a plate an LTR, but you can't make a committed 2 year relationship into a sex thing. That pretty much never works backwards. Fantasies and reality are not the same. You're likely going to traumatize her AND yourself if you try this. I don't care how red pilled you are... after 2 years there is some attachment on both sides --- maybe more than your ego is allowing you to admit. Thats not me being all touchy feely it's just how human beings work. Take a minute to consider the possibil…
/r/askTRP03/11/17 10:26 AM
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Thanks. Maybe my perspective on her behavior is wrong. It's just hard not to feel like something is off when sometimes her disengagment... Well it almost feels like she is playing the male role and I'm pushed into some awkward, feminne role of seeking connection with her. It just doesn't feel like she's being feminine. It feels imbalanced.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 04:33 PM
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I think a massive dose of skepticism when it comes to the normal narrative and people in general is always a good idea, but I think TRP has 2 major problems. The constant harping on women's negative behavior does create a certain echo chamber affect. A lot of things cited as shitty female behavior on here are legit, and something you should be aware of, but some of it isn't really about evolutionary psychology specific to women so much as it's just about... shitty human behavior in general. Peop…
/r/askTRP10/01/17 05:37 AM
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If I go run with somebody who's not that fast, I'll just tell them, "Hey, I'm feeling good and want to speed up. Let's just meet back here at this time." They say, "Yeah, sure." No drama involved. It's not like the only options are either being some sniveling BP whiner or being a douchebag and abandoning somebody.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 05:19 PM
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I like your post, but the main reason I upvoted was the word "dames."
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:44 PM
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Dude, you might have taken a semester of Spanish and gotten an A in Philosophy 101, but you must have been sleeping in linguistics class. English is the most complex? Bro, do you even language?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 05:31 PM
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Thanks for a little sanity. All these guys making porn into some big deal are being drama queens. If you're beating it so often you can't get it up with a girl, do you have a problem? No shit you do. But that doesn't mean we all have this problem. It's like saying obese people have issues with junk food, therefore all of us should never ever eat any junk food. Fuck off, I'm lean and I love apple pie.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 04:15 PM
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As long as you have some self awareness and aren't attaching crazy expectations to people or demanding that reality conform to some romance novel... what's wrong with enjoying the fantasy? I don't expect some girl I'm seeing to suddenly invite over 6 of her closest hot Japanese friends for the dirtiest game of naked twister ever, but it's still fun to imagine.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 03:52 PM
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Yeah, kind of an over-simplification. You eat too much of the wrong kind of animal products for example, like some Atkins diet idiot feasting on high fat bacon and cheese all the time... Well you will be a fat ass on your way to heart disease. Some processed rice cakes on the other hand... probably not the devil.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 12:02 AM
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I'm probably going to join you in downvote hell because this isn't really balanced, but if you really don't care about your legs, fuck it, don't do legs. For aesthetics and upper body only, the most important thing is diet followed by lifts like: shoulder press (really lots and lots of shoulder work), chins (best by far), rows, bench (shoulders NOT too much chest matters more for aesthetics), dips, and some direct arm work. Forearms if you have the time, and some abs if you don't like what you h…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:14 PM
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The squat and the deadlift are strength training staples for a reason. So, when you say you don't do them people feel like it's sacrilege and they have a point. That said, do I think a shit ton of heavy squats and deads is necessary for an aesthetic physique? Not really. Low body fat and a good waist to shoulder ratio is king there. But on the other hand doing NOTHING for your lower back and legs isn't the best idea either.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:00 PM
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Reps of 15 are fine to start, but you need to start challenging yourself with heavier weight. I'm not saying that you need to start training like a power lifter doing reps of 2, but - for example - if you can do 12-15+ pull ups in a row no problem, it's time to strap on a weight belt and do some weighted chins. Same applies for other exercises. Reverse pyramid training is what I like. Start heavy, go lighter in following sets. These aren't exact numbers, but try something like 5 reps, then 8 rep…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 01:57 PM
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If you wanna look like Brad Pitt in fight club, the truth is your work out is less important than your diet. He wasn't big in that movie but he was lean as hell - he weighed like 150lbs. If you want to look like that naturally, you have to train like a possessed strength athlete while eating like an anorexic teenage girl.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 12:47 PM
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That sucks man. Still, respect for keeping your cool. I guess, when you're dealing with that level of crazy, that's really the only thing you can do.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:41 AM
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I am pretty much 100% sure there will be no follow through with this. I mean, she even walked in back in the moment. Still... You're right man. Hearing someone say that is some deeply scary shit.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:38 AM
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Yeah... I'm definitely not a reactive guy with women but you guys are fucking jedi masters of the game if u can hear a girl accuse of rape and have zero response.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:29 AM
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I thought the same. I looked at her facebook after she left (before I deleted her) and it seems pretty likely that she's got a bf back home.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:27 AM
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Hmmm.. You might have a point. I guess one girl or one lay doesn't really matter much in the big picture. Thanks
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:19 AM
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Thanks man. Stfu and stay calm is always solid advice and probably what I should have done here. Still.. If you could keep it completely together when a girl who was just having sex with you is suddenly running out the door and half calling you a rapist.... Well, you're a bigger pimp than I was the other day. On the bright side I suppose shitty experiences like this will help get me closer to... drama queen zen master. Haha
/r/askTRP25/07/16 03:16 AM
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An all or nothing attitude might have helped you in the beginning, but it won't long term. It sounds like you've gone from one extreme to the other. It's not about being super social, it's more about not being asocial or missing opportunities when they do present themselves. Also, being an interesting guy means having a variety of interests. Contrast is cool. Who would you rather be friends with, the meathead who lives at the gym and talks about nothing but sports and protein powders, or the guy…
/r/askTRP19/07/16 01:10 AM
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Yeah, I agree 100%. No one natty needs anywhere close to that much protein. Research I've seen pegs the max anybody needs at more like about 0.6g per pound of lean mass. So if you're 180lb at 15% bodyfat you need around 90g of protein, not 180g. Even that number is likely a little high for a recreational lifter and that much through diet alone is not that hard to come by. Personally I've dropped my protein intake fairly low before and found it had zero impact on my strength. The problem with thi…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 10:55 AM
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Dude, 200lbs at a normal height IS crazy massive if you're diced. Some classical era bodybuilders and jacked fitness models don't weigh anywhere close to 200lbs. Hell, guys like Mr. Olympia Frank Zane NEVER weighed that much and his nickname was "The Chemist." Here's the problem though. You're not lean. I know, I know... You're "close" to that 6 pack. But close doesn't count. Everyone wants to think they have 15% bodyfat and are "5lbs from a six pack," but most everyone is fooling themselves. Th…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/16 12:04 AM
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AlphaEndoGorillaKing disagrees with me. haha
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 08:30 PM
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Haha. This. Cruel, but fun. I have some obnoxious coworkers and sometimes I'll fast the rest of the day and then eat a stupid amount of junk food with that extra large Dr. Pepper right in front of them. If they bring it up I'll mumble something about my metabolism and P90X. You can almost see their brains melting.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 06:13 PM
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Haha. Thanks man. You're not wrong. Anyone who goes to the gym and has any sense of humor about themselves at all knows that bodybuilding is pretty much the gayest sport on the planet. Still, it can be fun and I think it's time efficient. A couple hours a week to look like a more muscular rock climber/gymnast isn't a bad trade off.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 10:55 AM
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Building muscle naturally is a very slow process. You could probably gain 20lbs in 6 months if you wanted, but it wouldn't all be muscle. Sure, you might need to up your food intake, but drastic increases are just going to make you fat. Find a solid strength training program based on mostly key compound lifts, i.e. chin ups, bench press, shoulder press, dips, squats, deadlifts, etc. Be patient, make steady increases, and track your progress in terms of lifts and weight.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 10:17 AM
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Hold up... You went from being a rock climber well under 200lbs to now being 255? Gaining that much in muscle naturally as an adult is physiologically impossible. You are either a lot fatter than you were or you're on the sauce. Don't get me wrong... I'm not a hater. That's your choice. But, as much as I like Rich Piana, I definitely don't listen to his natty fitness tips.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 09:20 AM
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Height Weight at 5% Body Fat Weight at 10% Body Fat Lean Body Mass 5′8″ 160 lbs. 170 lbs. 153 lbs. 5′10″ 171 lbs. 180 lbs. 162 lbs. 6′ 182 lbs. 192 lbs. 173 lbs. (stolen from leangains article on natty limits)
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 07:41 AM
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Well, I'm glad you're loosing weight now and to some degree everyone is different. Still I think low carb diets are a horrible idea for long term weight loss. If I was on that diet, I would be homicidal in a week. Most bro scientists have a brain aneurysm if you dare question the mighty God of protein, but personally I've cut my protein pretty low before, upped my carbs and had absolutely zero loss in strength while dieting down. Give it a try.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 07:09 AM
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Some big dudes are weak AF if you're talking relative strength to body weight. Number of big dudes at my gym who can put up a decent bench press? Lots. Number of guys who can do one armed pull ups? One.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 05:03 AM
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Solid advice. Solid pics. I actually agree with what you said, but I think a lot of advice out there meant for people who are pushing it to that next level can end up just being confusing and unhelpful to the average person. If you're really trying to max out your gains, some supplementation with protein or creatine is helpful, sure. But after years of messing with that stuff, I don't think it's gonna do THAT much for you. Also, there are definitely ways to design your workouts such that you can…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 04:51 AM
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Agree and amplify almost always works. "Omg, you got me. You're cute and you're cute and that old woman over there is super hot." It is Asia though.. No need to worry too much about it. You already have huge social proof just by being you and speaking English. Also, as I'm sure you know, East Asia is still pretty conservative or at least most people enjoy pretending they are. You barely even need ioi's sometimes. Just isolate and be aggressive. Still, I think u did okay and some testing was unav…
/r/askTRP10/07/16 03:56 AM
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