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| 1 | Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ?Are you retarded? Why are you spamming the thread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/26 10:10 AM |
| 1 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceWomen are not more empathetic than men, they're just seen that way. Just like just because McDonald's describes itself as a restaurant, that doesn't mean gourmet dining. Men and women are equally empathetic, depending on the person, and many women and men have less empathy than other women and men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:04 AM |
| 1 | The majority of men who seriously struggle dating and finding a partner were bullied in adolescenceThat's great, every single woman should not date men because they never show that they're interested. That will solve the dating crisis! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/26 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Are male virginity stats true?It's not that rare to be a 40 year old virgin, but 40 year old virgins lie more than 20 year old virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Are male virginity stats true?Women sometimes lack the foresight to understand that men who are virgins are sometimes really good people and deserve to be dated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ?I'm a little confused, because whenever I post that I am a virgin anywhere on reddit, people tell me to see a prostitute. I don't want to do that, but surely if so many people hated that idea, they wouldn't tell me to do it? Or are they just offering bad advice to be assholes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ?Looksmaxxing is one of the few incel terms I agree with, and 30 years ago all of the 90's kids did that in high school, too. It's a good idea, everyone should improve their looks to the highest standard they can to attract a partner. That being said, a skinny geek with average or ugly looks will likely never look like Brad Pitt, so I agree with being born into how others treat you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 10:39 AM |
| – | When Does Male Virginity Become A Red Flag?It may not be the same thing, but not every 43 year old virgin is a virgin because of the same reason that another 43 year old virgin is. If you actually believe that, you're lacking in exposure to people who have different life experiences than you. I'm not saying you have to date a 43 year old virgin, but in your argument, you likely don't know how much older virgins struggle. It wouldn't be a big deal if people would just accept older virgins. Some virgin men just decide it's not worth it to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 06:20 PM |
| – | When Does Male Virginity Become A Red Flag?And people wonder why men lie about being virgins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 09:03 AM |
| 1 | When Does Male Virginity Become A Red Flag?Is it a red flag if someone doesn't want children and his depression is now managed? Is someone who has a history of depression only compatible, in your eyes, with a woman who has a history of depression? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Men are not less shallow just because they claim “I’ll take any woman”.I know this isn't aimed at me, but I am empathetic for anyone, male or female, who can't find love. I don't hate people who are in my position. The problem is, though, a lot of women don't have compassion for men who are in my position, or would sit there and judge me for not having the luck that they have. The amount of women that simply won't date an older virgin makes me believe that they can't see through a man's eyes and see that many men just don't have the dating opportunities that they h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Men are not less shallow just because they claim “I’ll take any woman”.Men have less standards because they have to. I'm someone who has had high looks standards in the past. Do you know where that got me? Alone, because those women chose men who were also good looking. There are tons of average looking guys with average looking women, who fantasize about being with better looking women, but they settled because the likelihood is that those women wouldn't want to be with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 01:25 AM |
| 1 | "Women are happier single compared to men" is a case of extremely dishonest framingCats are great, but they are no replacement for human companionship. Same with dogs. They beat a blank, but sometimes you need to talk to and be with a real human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.I am a man and I've told the Kroger delivery drivers to leave my groceries outside. If I was in my underwear in my house, watching TV, and the delivery driver opened the door, saw me, and started filming, I would feel violated and I would be the victim. I'm not saying that is what happened here. But the reports seem to indicate that this is what happened. The police wouldn't have arrested her unless there was evidence that she committed a crime, and if there isn't, she'll be released soon enough… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:01 AM |
| 1 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.If he had propositioned her, that might be another story. But she filmed him without consent, and with his genitals exposed. She is a sex offender and I wouldn't want her anywhere where she could commit a sex crime again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 05:35 AM |
| 1 | As a 36 year old virgin, I'm worried about the rise of sexlessness among today's youthYou're saying the same thing over and over again, and not really explaining how therapy would help a 30 year old virgin? Assuming that he isn't some angry incel, the only thing therapy could do is help him with his feelings about being rejected by the wrong women so that he isn't bitter with the next person he dates. Therapy is not going to help him find the right woman, actually having a conversation with and dating the right woman would do that. I know it's hard for some people who are more at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:46 AM |
| 1 | As a 36 year old virgin, I'm worried about the rise of sexlessness among today's youthSometimes it is just as simple as the woman who would say yes is not near you. There are stories of men (and women, too) who upend their whole life, move to a different country or different part of their country, and find their person. Love isn't logical and a lot of it is just luck, and some men are just unlucky. I'm not saying that someone with toxic behaviors wouldn't benefit from therapy. Someone who is the textbook version of an 'incel' would greatly benefit from therapy. But sometimes that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 11:20 PM |
| 1 | As a 36 year old virgin, I'm worried about the rise of sexlessness among today's youthI know you're trying to help. But for some sexless people, all the therapy in the world won't help if they keep meeting women who aren't really interested in a relationship with them. Therapy is beneficial, but it won't necessarily always fix this problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 10:22 AM |
| 1 | As a 36 year old virgin, I'm worried about the rise of sexlessness among today's youthWhat I don't understand is how someone should have sex with someone they aren't attracted to, instead of having sex with someone they are attracted to? That person could also find an unattractive (to them) woman, but they don't want that. They're expressing frustration that it's hard to find someone they are attracted to and wants to have sex with them. What's wrong with that? Everyone wants to have sex with someone they're attracted to! I'm a lurker and don't want to debate past this, but I had… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 09:18 AM |
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