guiltymorty Archive

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–	Being "real" is generally bad advice for men specifically, but not for women You shouldn’t advise your autistic narcissist brother to be fake to get a relationship. That’s kinda predatory towards women, thinking they found someone decent only to later find out he’s a horrible person. If you are a normal man yes you can adapt and have great results. But pls don’t advise them to hide racism, sexism, being entitled, abusing to get women. How are women supposed to pick better when this is the advice you give to unlikeable men with bad traits? Women generally want genuine, ki…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/26 01:54 PM
10	Q4W: Where Should A Man Actually Go To Meet You? These questions are so dumb. If you’re attractive enough, anywhere besides like, a funeral, would fly. But if you’re not attractive, no place would work. It’s that simple. Highly dependent on the individual woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/26 10:13 AM
2	If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options. okay was just curious. can’t argue against your experience as I didn’t live that reality. It just doesn’t align with mine. I guess two realities can be true at the same time so yeah	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 02:09 PM
2	If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options. It might look as most women because the common denominator is that they’re women. What else do they have in common? Age, mental/psychological problems, being raised a certain way, never having to work for what they get.. etc. people who have done the work, healed and grown will not act like this. Because it’s literally embarrassing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 01:40 PM
2	If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options. I personally can’t see why any normal person would find it unfair that they aren’t being chosen for whatever reason, no one owes us anything. Whoever finds it unfair to be rejected is giga entitled. Maybe you think most women are like this, that’s not my experience. It’s very immature to think of it like the other person owes you, or you are gods gift so only stupid people reject you, or that there’s something wrong with them for rejecting you. in my circles (late 20s) that’s not what’s happenin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 01:21 PM
7	If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options. I mean a lot of women actually want to be chosen for who they are, their values and personality instead of what we have today. Lots of women dislike being sexualised and objectified (precisely being chosen for your looks), so would be an advantage for this portion of women. We might discover that men don’t like (values, personality) most women. Whoever wants to attract the other sex has to become desirable to them. Again, you can evolve or go extinct. This is what is being told to men in regard …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 12:30 PM
9	If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options. Well the result would be better for society. I don’t think most women would think it’s unfair to be rejected because someone doesn’t like their personality or there’s incompatibility. That’s pretty normal and something we already deal with in friendships. I don’t really care about unpleasant women not being able to attract a partner because they have to develop actual desirable traits and a personality that makes people want to be in a relationship with them. That’s.. actually extremely fair. Li…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 12:06 PM
15	If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options. It would work in women’s favor because if both parties are screening for actual compatibility and not just who will make my dick hardest, there would be far less bad relationships. Fewer relationships yes, but the ones that would occur would happen because of true compatibility. Men dating for looks and saying anything to get their dicks wet, and women falling for the lies is where most bad relationships happen. It’s always pick better, but true intentions and character is often hidden behind a …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/03/26 09:53 AM
2	Is having sex similar of a good laugh for women? I’ve had low self esteem and been insecure up until just a few years ago, so even when I was in LTR I still had that problem. I would say I still used sex like a tool to feel better about myself even then. When I healed, I lost interest in partnered sex completely, broke up with said partner. Been celibate since. An important note is that the sex I’ve had through my life has been mediocre at best. No partner has been able to make me orgasm, even when I asked, tried to guide, was vocal about my n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 11:31 AM
3	Is having sex similar of a good laugh for women? I never see an attractive man and immediately think I want to crack. That is never going to happen, my sexual desire for partnered sex is contextual. I need the right context, vibe, energy, chemistry etc to be open to it. Do I have sexual urges? Yes like most healthy adults. But I can just scratch that itch with a vibe and move on. I never need partnered sex. When I did engage in hookup culture many years ago, it wasn’t for sex directly, it was for external validation and ego boost. Had I not ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 01:53 AM
3	Is having sex similar of a good laugh for women? You described it perfectly. the urge/‘spontaneous’ sexual drive is for having an orgasm specifically, and we can just do that quickly with a vibs and get on with our day. There is no need for partnered sex, but it can be wanted (not needed) in the right context (the joke -> laughter was a great analogy).	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/26 01:47 AM
1	Why do women continue to pursue men after bad experiences? And why are they attracted to them? (I can’t speak for them but) to my understanding it is despite their heterosexuality. True some might discover they’re genuinely lesbian or asexual, but I’ve seen discussions about this topic where newer women in those spaces are asking questions like “why do I have to punish myself to protect myself (refereeing to the abstaining part of the B’s)”, so there’s at least a portion that are heterosexual, but they are choosing not to engage with men even though they have sexual/romantic attraction to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 01:32 PM
1	Why do women continue to pursue men after bad experiences? And why are they attracted to them? People like that are often insecure, have low self esteem, equate love with external validation (and can’t seem to give it to themselves), they have a weak sense of self and seek other people to meet their needs. Lots of people grow up with that blueprint. It is usually only when people do the work, heal themselves and become truly selective with the kind of energy they invite into their lives, that the loop breaks. A good example is women who go 4B - their reasons are the same you talk about, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/26 08:26 AM
1	What do you value? Option 3. I don’t care for financial stability, as long as we’re not talking chaotic instability (gambling, alcoholic, can’t keep a job, extremely reckless). Like I assume it means normal person but just low or average income? Then it’s completely fine. I’ve only ever dated broke men (not by intention - but looks, personality and values are way more important). Looks are important bc I need that for sexual attraction. I’m not one of those people who will suddenly see someone as attractive bc I g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/26 12:46 PM
–	What do women think about a guy who ignores them? He is invisible. She’s just trying to be polite and not make working together awkward or tiring. Maybe she even sees him as lonely, and her attempts to talk or hang around him is bc she doesn’t want to contribute to someone being isolated or ignored at work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/26 01:04 PM
3	For those of you who complain about men who complain about not getting sex in relationships, saying that they should just seek hookups instead, would you be fine with those men complaining about their lack of access to hookups? If not, what is the right way for a man to complain about a lack of sex? To me there’s no correct way to complain about lack of sex. It’s cringe either way. But of course I’m not the complain police and you can complain about anything you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/26 05:40 PM
6	Can you explain why you want more dates/vacations? I think this is because a lot of women like quality time and having different experiences as variety to the monotonous day to day life. And they post and talk a lot about it because it’s also signalling to other people that they are cultured and interesting. Personally I’m a homebody, I hate travelling and I spend most of my time at home playing video games, when I don’t work. But I can’t exactly say that to my colleagues at lunch right? because it’s not seen as something cool or interesting, it…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/26 12:51 PM
1	You're a slim, shorter (5'5 and under) 20-something Girl. What Are Your "Asks?" So I’m 5’2, slim and 29. When I was 20 I liked my men hot, but edgy and different. A lot taller than me. Musicians, artists, dj’s. I loved when they invited me into that word. I liked adventure and making crazy memories with them. Also I prefer fit/normal physique, just anything but fat really. Full head of hair, good hygiene, independent, a leader in his own life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/26 11:12 PM
–	Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness. Looks, but the dysfunction activates that “I can fix him” thing in me.. which just later evolves to I mommy them, lose attraction because I mommy them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 06:17 PM
–	Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness. I’ve been attracted to attractive men who are emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, broke, either an addict or a drug dealer, mentally ill. Dark triad :/ and yes I have attachment issues that I’m working on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 05:57 PM
–	Generally speaking, men never get to reveal "relationship skills" to women. They get filtered out long before that. This drives a lot of male romantic loneliness. I agree. But I’m curious what should we do about it? Not we as in society, but as individuals. I can’t force myself to be attracted and aroused by someone, if it’s not there. I know a lot of women talk about personality, kindness, empathy as attractive traits but are they being dead ass aroused by those traits? I get that it’s desirable and something they want in a LTR, but I don’t believe that those traits = sexual attraction and arousal. Unfortunately I am attracted and aroused by traits that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/26 10:10 AM
3	What do you think of the blackpiller called Wheat Waffles? I agree with him on a lot, and he confirms the reality I live in as a woman, personally. It might change later in my life, but most of his points are spot on. And I really appreciate that he is very objective and not bitter and spiteful towards women in the way he presents things. I never really took red pill seriously but I knew I wasn’t blue pill either. His views align with what I observe	/r/ExRedPill	22/04/22 05:35 AM
3	Is cold approach success a myth? Ah okay, well then my experience is only anecdotal. It does also depend on a lot of other factors other than looks. And can be difficult to decipher. Sometimes you go out to have fun with the girls, most men will be rejected. Sometimes she has a boyfriend. Sometimes you’re not her type. Sometimes there’s someone else she want attention from. Sometimes she has a “inflated ego” and thinks she can do better than you. Sometimes she’s not in the mood. Etc. for online dating you’re on the app for at t…	/r/ExRedPill	21/04/22 10:26 AM
6	Is cold approach success a myth? In my experience cold approach only works if you’re hot. Like no cap, I’ve never seen it work if you’re ugly or average. My current boyfriend cold approached me at a nightclub and literally the only reason I gave him my attention was because I was attracted to him. Otherwise I would have ignored him. It’s hard but it’s the truth. Cold approach and online dating have that in common	/r/ExRedPill	21/04/22 09:18 AM
4	How does female attraction work, or rather how does a man become attractive? For the modern day independent and financially stable woman money don’t mean shit. Status maybe for some women but most don’t give a fuck. What matters then? Looks, personality, chemistry, compatibility, values, priorities, love language, communication etc. (the latter ones plays a heavier role for the LTR), but essentially what makes us feel good, wanted, appreciated, understood, heard, seen. There’s physical attraction based on what we see, smell, feel, listens to etc, and then emotional attra…	/r/ExRedPill	13/04/22 09:37 PM