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| 3 | So, some conclusions I got after 1 week tinder experience | guimafelipe | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 02:41 AM |
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| 7 | How to last longer in bed?Do a lot of foreplay before starting to fuck. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Jealous even of video game womenI don't know how I can help you. You have some deep insecurity problems. Why dont you try to talk about how you feel with your bf? | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 07:23 PM |
| 15 | Help me! What should I reply?Wtf. | /r/seduction | 04/07/19 03:16 PM |
| 2 | What's your 'direct' opener at night?There are a lot of contradictions on what to say. But there is something everybody agrees: be confident. So, nevermind the opener. Just try something and see what works for you. | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 03:45 PM |
| 3 | What is your ethnicity, age, and how is your dating life going?Black, 22, regular i guess. Focusing more on my work and studies. | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 04:12 AM |
| 1 | PartnersI would just dont care about this. It is things that happened years before she even knows that you exists and she probably changed a lot from that time. And maybe she dont like to talk about this because she is ashamed or something. We men care a lot for the numbers of partners the person we are with had as she have the obligation to wait to meet us as virgins. | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Has learning pickup actually helped you get women?Yep | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 04:01 PM |
| 7 | I'm new to the game and was wondering about timing.You dont need to rush everything. But dont delay forever also | /r/seduction | 01/07/19 07:40 PM |
| 8 | Make her feel important OR Be the bad guy?IMO, the better way is to not fake a personality. | /r/seduction | 01/07/19 05:24 PM |
| 20 | Does height matter to girls?Probably yes, but you shouldnt care | /r/seduction | 01/07/19 02:50 PM |
| 2 | My friends and family think my crush (20F) is below my (20M) standards...You have to decide if you want to satisfy yourself or your family members. | /r/seduction | 01/07/19 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Anyone up to do a 30 day challenge with me?Tell what is the challenge first haha | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 01:34 PM |
| 3 | How much tolerance can women have , when it comes to being touched by a man?I dont know the right answer for this. There are people who like being touched and others who dont. I am one of the first group. I think the best way to figure this out for a person is just trying and see how them react | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 12:46 PM |
| 4 | How much tolerance can women have , when it comes to being touched by a man?I think it depends of culture. I touch my friends these way too and its normal when you trust them and they trust you | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 12:21 PM |
| 4 | How to DM this girl on InstagramYeah, there is always the risk of being rejected. You can try in the way you feel that is the best. But do it | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 06:52 PM |
| 3 | How to DM this girl on InstagramDo it | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 06:40 PM |
| 3 | How do i respond to "i have dated many bad boys" shit test ?Just dont respond | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Girl at uni - too soon to ask her out?Ask her out. | /r/seduction | 21/03/19 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Does looks play major role?Well, the probabilities of she not being in my looks are low if im well dressed and clean. But she can still fully reject me for other reasons in my looks (im very short and thin for example). In this cases, there is nothing to do and i also will probably dont want to get envolved with a girl like that. In most of the cases, my looks isnt a good thing, but also isnt a bad thing. So, at the moment i start talking, thing can quickly start going in our favor. So, i just try to be myself and talk no… | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Does looks play major role?No tricks. I prefer to go the natural way of the 'game'. And I'm not good looking, I'm atractive. There are a lot of ways to compensate your "bad genetics" or any kind of excuse that goes this way. | /r/seduction | 15/03/19 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Does looks play major role?Nope. Im ugly and it works ok for me. | /r/seduction | 14/03/19 09:12 PM |
| 6 | Tips for picking up girls as a guy in a wheelchair. (not saying it limits me just like some tips)I Have no idea. I would do the same thing i already do without an wheelchair (with the physical limitations of course). | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | How do men seduce women?I still dont know. But works | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Can you finesse your way into a relationshipThats a risk that every man needs to take. But its better than forever friendzone | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Can you finesse your way into a relationshipWell, you can just tell her you want to be official | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 01:17 PM |
| -3 | How do I deal with drunk guys approaching my friendsWtf | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Most people's idea of confidence on this sub is delusionalI disagree a lot. But i understand your pov. | /r/seduction | 04/03/19 03:53 PM |
| 3 | How do broke guys get play?First: stop being broke Second: profit | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Should I text first?Text her if you want. Dont overthink it. But try to go for other options too | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 03:27 AM |
| 3 | How to give a compliment without losing valueWell. My way of thinking is simple: if i want to compliment something cool about her, a just do it. The problem is that most of guys try to compliment to get something in exchange. | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 03:05 AM |
| 0 | What do you guys put in your tinderbio?I just delete this shit | /r/seduction | 28/02/19 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Me and this girl have been seeing each other for a few weeks. We are obviously very attracted to one another but I'm not sure how to bring up the topic of making things official. Any help and suggestions would be greatly appreciated.Just say it if you feel thats what you want. People need to comunicate better | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl [F23] that I was seeing knows about r/seduction and noticed that I’m using this techniques - how to approach it?What im seeing is that you see seduction in a very different way than me. Im not ashamed of learning how to get better with women. And you talks like you are. And THIS is important because if you are ashamed of it, of course other people will view it as a bad thing. As i said, i talked about these things with all the gfs i had. And probably because i like it and i like to share the things i like with the person im in a relationship with, and it never was a problem to me. Really, you should not b… | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 01:22 AM |
| 3 | Girl [F23] that I was seeing knows about r/seduction and noticed that I’m using this techniques - how to approach it?Nop. And if you view this like manipulation, it is bad news for sure. Trying to be a more attractive person is not the same thing of manupulation. Manipulation is making a person do something they dont want to do and will probably regret later. Seduciton is making a person want do be with you and have sex with you. They are very different things. | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 01:08 AM |
| 3 | Girl [F23] that I was seeing knows about r/seduction and noticed that I’m using this techniques - how to approach it?Its not a problem if you dont see it as a "manipulation technique". Its seduction. Its like girls using make up. Its a technique and its very used by girls. I talk about seduction and seduction techniques with almost all the girlfriends i had and it was never a problem, is just like a hobbie of mine. | /r/seduction | 24/02/19 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Is my height perfect and will i grow?I think there is a ton of things that are more effective to improve than your height | /r/seduction | 23/02/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Help a clueless shy guy find out if this shy girl likes himAssume she likes | /r/seduction | 22/02/19 03:39 PM |
| 2 | How to solve "fapping arm" (assymetrical arms from masturbation) because it is one of the most underrated turnoffs.Hmmmmm | /r/seduction | 21/02/19 12:35 AM |
| 1 | What do women mean when they say they like a dominant man?I thought the exact same thing. Most of the times i heard about dominance it comes from a lazy woman (both mentally and physically). I dont like to pretend being dominant on everything, and i also like girls with some personality too haha | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is this sub so circle jerky?Because it works? | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 02:30 AM |
| 5 | How do you learn to get over rejections?The same way i get over things that dont go well on other aspects of my life. Just try to do my best next time and have fun | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | If I ask a girl out and get rejected, should I fight for her a bit more?Depends | /r/seduction | 25/12/18 03:44 AM |
| 58 | If you could use 1 opener for the rest of your life, what would it be?Hi | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you let your gfs/fwbs know that you read pua materialsYes. I like to talking about it with them | /r/seduction | 16/12/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Tinder stopped working after 2 daysI think the app tries to find people in a radius around your location. When first time using, your profile will appear for everybody around, but wont appear again after they swipe for some time. So, all the girls already swiped you or didnt opened the app and there are no new girls to receive your profile. I think its just a matter of time for new girls to appear in your region. So, try to open tinder twice a week only for example | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Tinder stopped working after 2 daysI think it happens because there are no more girls around. Try some days without opening it | /r/seduction | 14/12/18 11:15 AM |
| 4 | Why would a guy remember the outfit that you wore many months ago?Probably because it was an important moment for him. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Having a Girlfriend without knowing how to drive"how do you guys do it?": doing haha. I don't need to drive to live. There is always public transport and uber now. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Can you sense sexual tension?Keep giving him green lights and he will probably do the move on you =) | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Can you sense sexual tension?"Baby, you are so beautiful..." "HEY!" Sensual tension is when both people want to fuck but aren't in the right place and time to do. | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Advice on seducing my tired boyfriend?Your boyfriend is working too much time. I think its a deeper problem than only a sex issue. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 02:25 PM |
| 2 | [20 M] Comforting women has always been a painImo, you did right. Dont be overprotective. Dont treat other people as you were their savior. People need their space and solve their problems alone sometimes and if you force it more it could be really anoying. | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 04:15 AM |
| 9 | why is it a taboo and turn off for women to show any affection towards their boobsYou can compliment their boobs. But just after she feel confortable with you and dont feel like a peace of meat. A lot of girls like to have their bodies complimented at the right moment. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 11:14 AM |
| 6 | This is what happens to your body when you stop having Sex. No. 3 makes me really scared.Nice clickbait title | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 01:57 AM |
| 2 | How do I get better at gaming men?You can try a gay club to avoid homophobics. And just do what you normally do. If the guy is hetero, he will say without being harmful. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Could kino help me out of the friend zone?I really cant say what you should do. But i can say the worst thing you can do is accept being friends with her while wanting to be something more. Keep trying can work. But you might get better results by not hiding your interest. You have a pair of balls, let them take the control and take some risks. Its percectly possible to change what she think. But you need her to see you as a man and not as a sexless friend. And to be atractive, you need to be fine with yourself: to like yourself and you… | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Could kino help me out of the friend zone?Friend zone is a common topic and i think that only kino is not what will solve your problem. You need to change everything about the way you act towards her. You said you had fear of losing her and for me that is the root of the problem. A man who have fear of risk and dont go directly for what he wants is not attractive. Im not saying you have to go for all the girls you meet, but at the moment you realize you want to be more than friends, you must not hide it. So, i will say what i would do i… | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Wanna talk to the afro cutie in school... Horribly scared though 😓 😓Go there and say hi. Say your name after and tell you want to know about her. The rest is up to you | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Can I post a pic for people to tell me how much I look like complete garbage?Wtf You want to be sad or get better? | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 02:30 AM |
| 5 | Need help with securing a dateMaybe. I like to be more direct. Tell us what happened. I would probably bet a date to keep the humour. If you hit, she pays. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 03:39 PM |
| 0 | How do you handle seeing the person that rejected you?I don't care | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Is it limiting to think you shouldn't depend on your clothes to make yourself more attractive?The clothes you use can tell a lot of things about your personality. But i also prefer to wear things i like to use. I wont change my style to try to attract more girls | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 05:59 PM |
| 4 | When should you make your move during Netflix and Chill?Romantic Comedy. Like adam sandler movies | /r/seduction | 28/10/18 01:03 AM |
| -1 | Are there women that have standards for men approaching them?Confidence | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk 'attraction material' and 'no girls'works for me. i'm a 5'2 bald human (not goblin yet) | /r/seduction | 22/10/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Dont understand the book modelsHi. I didnt read this book and know nothing about what it says. But i will try to explain my point of view related to this "needy" thing. As i see it, is very simple: wanting something is different of needing something. There are things you need: air, water and food for example. But there are also thing you want: dance, play games, visit other countries and have sex for example. The fact you want them dont means you need it, but you will work to make them happen anyway. So, if you want to be goo… | /r/seduction | 22/10/18 05:52 PM |
| 7 | How to kiss a girl?Im 22 yo, and i have no idea of what im doing when kissing. I just try to enjoy the moment haha | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 04:42 AM |
| 5 | Why are comments like this allowed?Yeah, thats my points. You guys need to sleep too :) | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 04:37 AM |
| 4 | Why are comments like this allowed?Because mods are asleep and people are assholes. | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 04:23 AM |
| 2 | I have a girlfriend but was hit on last night and froze. How do I handle it the best way?Talk to your gf and set up the limits you can go with another girl and the limits she can go with another guy. Ideally they might be the same. After, you just follow the rules and dont hurt her trust in you. | /r/seduction | 07/10/18 08:58 PM |
| 4 | im working on a way for incels to get girls. will make a youtube video on it soon detailing the processExcuse me wtf | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | If you look for treachery in your wife too hard you will surely find it!Why | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 09:38 PM |
| 13 | Seeing others posts on Instagram makes me horribleDelete instagram and start living your life (you wont even need to advertise your experiences on it :D ) | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 04:14 AM |
| 3 | Okay, so people here told me to change my attitudeHi. I will shortly try to answer your points using my personal experience: - I try to make my happiness depend only on me. Even if im with a girl, its a shit idea to justify your happiness in her presence. - Well, the same way you stop being jealous of people who are richier or healthier. You just stop. - I like the process of approaching and seducing, my mindset is to just have fun. - There is me. - I say hi, or hello, or hey. And the rest is improvisation. I dont have openers and each situatio… | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 11:03 PM |
| 5 | Why do Pro PUA's still get rejected so much?There are a lots of reasons a girl can reject you that arent on tour control. You should focus on things that are in your control and do your best, but if you are black and she is racist, patience. She can have a boyfriend, she can have physical preferences, she can be in a bad mood today, whatever. But you really cant control it and cant know this informations before | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 10:16 AM |
| 3 | When should you tell a girl that you want to be more than friends?From the beginning, try to make it clear that you are a potential sex partner and not a sexless friend. You don't need to jump onto her and show your dick, but if you have the intention of being more than a friend and let this vibe flows, i think you would have no problem with it. The problem is when guys try to actively HIDE their desires and after a time, suddenly tells the girl he wants to date her, which is a very coward move. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Advice for 21 y/o virgin in college?Bro, what did you do to fuck up this hard? | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 01:01 AM |
| 2 | How often can I message girl on IGExactly | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 12:57 AM |
| 36 | I just got rejected on my first approach ever fuckYou follow her on instagram. You asks for her name. Spot the error? | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Dont know what to talk aboutTry to start little talks with people in general, not only women you are interested. It helps you get more sociable and used to talking with random people. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you lock in that it would be a date?Well, you can tell her your intentions?? Or say that it's a date idk But i would just go with the flow and act as it is a date. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Some conversations get boring for me; is it my fault for not saying and asking the right things or is it the fact that the other person is just not my type?There are LOTS of boring people around here. I just accept the fact that most of the girls i met have nothing to add in my life. | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Is it bad to tease/false-disqualify girl for being short?Depends. There are girls who can really feel hu rt by this and there are others who dont care | /r/seduction | 16/09/18 04:06 PM |
| 4 | Did i do anything wrong? Or everything wrong?Oh boy... It was kinda embarrassing... But keep trying. =) | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Can you guys confirm im the biggest loser ever? I guess im bland needy desperate boring. How to change?Well, what do you expected with this questions? They are clearly irrelevant and uninteresting. I would try to ask things about her that i'm really interested to know. | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 07:33 PM |
| 3 | How should I invite girl out (her twin sister would have to come as well)Oh, this is a hard one. I would call only the one im interested in. But when she talks about her twin coming too, i would make clear what are my intentions. | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 12:43 PM |
| 3 | What was the first message you sent to the last girl you met on tinder??"Hi" | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Personal opinions of how much looks matter?For me, it matters until the point where i can change (my clothes, my hygiene, my haircut and etc). When it comes to things i cant change (like my height for example), there is not even point in get worried about it so i focus on others things. | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 06:00 PM |
| 9 | I’m convinced that my looks are what holds me back from doing well with women. How should I even continue wanting to go outside.I have no idea of how you looks, but the way you talk for itself is already very sad, and it is sufficient to make people avoid get interested in you. Almost all the people i've met who thought the problem with their inability with seduction was in theirs looks ended up being people just trying to find a culprit for their problem, but this culprit never is something they can change (my genetics, my height, my whatever). Note when you say: "I don't think there's anything I can do about this eithe… | /r/seduction | 08/09/18 03:26 AM |
| 6 | If a girl you like, but is in a relationship starts complaining about her relationship, what do you do?The problem is that "i don't wanna fuck that up". You can make your intentions toward her clear and the choice of breaking up or not only she can make. My problem with this situation is pretending being friends while having second intentions with the fear of fucking something that is already bad. Also, having other options of girls is healthy too. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 11:24 PM |
| 9 | If a girl you like, but is in a relationship starts complaining about her relationship, what do you do?How to stop being a emotional tampon: you are one when yoh listen her problems without caring at all just willing to have a chance with her. So, if you dont want to listen, dont listen. Also, if you have intentions, show them. And, if she is with a guy who dont treats her well, sadly its her choice and she will need to deal with it. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 11:02 PM |
| 4 | How to approach girls in public transport?I used to just go and say "Hi" or something like this, and think about why i want to talk to her and use it to build a conversation. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | “I look young”Yeah. All the girls i dated were taller than me btw haha. Obviously there are girls will reject me based on these traits but it's ok. I really dont care about the things that are out of my control and there are a lot of people who dont care about it too. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 07:54 PM |
| 13 | How Do You Handle Constant Failure?If you continue doing the same thing, will get the same results. Try be more proactive and honest with your intentions. If you are failing by not taking action, better fail by taking the wrong action learn from this. If you see an opportunity to escalate, just do it and see what will happen :) | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 12:42 PM |
| 2 | “I look young”I'm 22. Have no beard ever and i'm also short. But you can ignore this "problems" and have sucess quite easily. Women often prefer taller and strong guys with beard, but it doesn't mean there are others nice characteristics atractive too. I don't mind my height and my null beard. I prefer to rely on the traits i can control | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 12:24 PM |
| 3 | New shit testThe problem with some people here is becoming blind and seeing the seduction process like a competitive game between you and the girl, where we see every action as a "shit test" and we try to not fail in any of them to be accepted by the girl as valuable man. The whole idea around shit tests is shit by itself and when she ask us for a simple favor like getting her some water for example, we just act rude thinking we are all cool but actually we start acting as douches. As I said, it depends. The… | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 01:54 AM |
| 1 | New shit testWell, it depends. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 01:42 AM |
| 5 | Dreamgirllol Ok, so go for it | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 08:38 PM |
| 8 | DreamgirlYou cant be in love with a girl who you have zero seconds of conversation with. You can go after her and find out how is she or just forget about it and go meet other girls. But dont idealize moments with a person who you know nothing about. | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 08:28 PM |
| 6 | New shit testIt depends of the situation. Not everything some girl asks is a "test". | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 08:25 PM |
| 8 | How to deal with customers vibing you?Just my opinion but i like to be 100% professional when working. But i would go after her when not working. | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Frame GamesI have no idea of what is it. And i'm ok with it xD | /r/seduction | 02/09/18 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be a master of seduction and not be a heartbreaker a the same time?Just be honest | /r/seduction | 02/09/18 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Is it really bad to lie about your height on online dating?There are girls who lie about their weights. But in my opinion, height is a very irrelevant information to put in online dating apps. | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 08:32 PM |
| 2 | How do you relax when talking to girls?The same way i relax when talking to my friends i guess | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 01:50 AM |
| 4 | Is social media a must have for dating?Nop. I dont have any active social media besides reddit. No instagram, no twitter and my facebook is empty and used only to talk in anime groups. Some girls find it a boring life and others think its atractive and mysterious. I just dont like the idea of spending my energy trying to market my life online to other people. | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 03:45 PM |
| 0 | When a girl says she has a boyfriend, how often is she rejecting you nicely.Quality is relative. To me, girls who tries to play little games with me to see my reaction are low quality. When i notice this, i lost almost all my interest | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 06:33 PM |
| 4 | When a girl says she has a boyfriend, how often is she rejecting you nicely.I just dont have patience for this shit. My goto response to proposital shit tests is just go away and find a better person to waste my time with. | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Theres a line between being a handsome ladiesman or a creepy looserAs we say in Brazil: Falou pouco, mas falou merda. | /r/seduction | 11/08/18 03:46 PM |
| 4 | Why is she delaying her response for the first time?Dont freak out. You can ask her personally when you see her. Maybe she just had a problem with her phone. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 12:39 PM |
| 12 | It’s actually amazing how little looks matter in comparison to confidence.It helps, like having two legs helps getting laid. But if you have only one doesnt mean you should be sad and give up | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 03:40 AM |
| 3 | When you’re interested in someone more than they are interested in you.The other people being not interested also turns me off. So its ok | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 06:42 AM |
| 0 | What are you guys doing on weekday nights?Studying =) | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 01:13 AM |
| 5 | If my parents are home, where can I bring a girl I meet at the club to?Stop finding excuses and go for a motel. | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 08:12 AM |
| 8 | You see a hot girl a club/bar and you approach her. What do you say to her?Hi The rest is improvisation | /r/seduction | 04/07/18 12:39 AM |
| 3 | The paradox of outcome independenceI care. Feels good to have the girl liking you. The same way that others thing can feel good too, like your country winning the world cup. But your country losing the world cup dont need to make you feel bad, the same way that beeing rejected dont need too. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | (26, m) No woman has ever been interested or attracted to me and I think I’m one of the ugliest people I know. Is it possible for someone with looks like mine to be attractive to a woman? (Pics in comments)Short answer: im ways uglier than you and im ok with girls. So thats not the problem. Good luck | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 06:42 PM |
| -3 | Relevant must read pua literature?Seduction Community Sucks, forgot the author. But was the las "pua book" i read, 6 years ago haha | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Can somebody explain Neediness?Neediness is when you NEED her. Wanting her is different of needing her, did you get? ;) | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 02:15 PM |
| 1 | What do I say after "Hi" and "I think you're cute"I just think about the things i want to know about her (like hobbies or what she likes) and talk a little about it to know her better amd talk about me and things i like. After, get contact and invite to go out another day or something. | /r/seduction | 02/07/18 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Lonely?Hot moms for me? 🤔 | /r/seduction | 28/06/18 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Ex Girl making me jealousIf youre feeling jealousy, she was successful. | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 01:38 PM |
| 34 | Shows interest then goes completely cold. Shit test?Trying to not look needy as almost everyone is this sub does | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 03:53 PM |
| 1 | First time on Tinder. Girl said she’s just looking for fun. How do I reply?Okay, i give up. You are right, i might be very sexy and only you know that. :) Haha, jk. Your mind is biased as fuck. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Is there a good first date alternative if the person you're into doesn't drink?Yep. We kissed a little but was just talking most of the time. Was fun for us, you should do what is fun for you too | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Is there a good first date alternative if the person you're into doesn't drink?Idk. It really depends of a lot of things. With my gf for example, in our first date we went for a movie and after we just spend the rest of the day talking at the mall | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 06:57 AM |
| 1 | First time on Tinder. Girl said she’s just looking for fun. How do I reply?Its cause your mind is biased. Even if i send you pic of myself and screenshots, you would still have something to complain and say that you are right. So, as i said: keep thinking like that and i keep living my way | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 06:54 AM |
| 3 | Is there a good first date alternative if the person you're into doesn't drink?These are just the pretext, you can do whatever you want after. If its bad, will end shortly. If its good, you can spend all day along together after the ice cream. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | First time on Tinder. Girl said she’s just looking for fun. How do I reply?You just to want any kind of information that slighty shows that your theory is right. If its the goal of the discussion, there is no point whatever i say. But you can still thinking your way and i will do my way and everybody stays happy. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Is there a good first date alternative if the person you're into doesn't drink?Ice Cream or Coffee | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 06:04 AM |
| 85 | Why has seduction evolved to be as complicated and confusing as it is today?It's not. Just this saturday i was in a bar with 2 friends. One of them goes to the bathroom, see a cute girl in a table. Just go directly to her and say "Hi, my name is ___. I find you cute, would you mind i sit here?" 2 minutes of talking they are kissing and we moved to her table with her friends. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | First time on Tinder. Girl said she’s just looking for fun. How do I reply?Definetly not, haha. None of these girls matched with me cause of my looks (only one, who said she loved my hair which is a small afro style). But no, i'm not even close of this top 20% threshold | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 04:27 AM |
| 1 | First time on Tinder. Girl said she’s just looking for fun. How do I reply?Hmm, i'm using for 1,5 weeks only, and i have a gf. So, i talked to some girls, had 3 dates, but it's hard to find one which accepts a threesome with my gf and my, i admit :'( | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 04:17 AM |
| -1 | First time on Tinder. Girl said she’s just looking for fun. How do I reply?Well, i'm ugly. Short, skinny and very nerdy. I just realized that the success of tinder is not being good looks, but is getting attention. And using pics to get attention. Most of the people try to get attention by how they looks, i just tried some alternative ways of getting good attention with pictures that are working for me as using my not handsome face/body was being a failure. And yes, some girls who talks to me there says they read my bio and liked it, so i will not remove it either. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 04:08 AM |
| 0 | First time on Tinder. Girl said she’s just looking for fun. How do I reply?Just changed my strategies with help of a female friend: she choose my pics (mostly of them are me doing something interesting) and wrote a funny/cool text in profile. Way better results than just pictures of my body/face doing nothing of course. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 03:56 AM |
| 3 | First time on Tinder. Girl said she’s just looking for fun. How do I reply?disagree with top 20% thing, worked for me haha | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 03:07 AM |
| 1 | So you think looks matter?"Girls dont like ugly guys" Now i completely disagree. Or i would be really fucked up haha | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 12:36 AM |
| 1 | So you think looks matter?Nop, i disagree at all. Of course there are some extreme cases, but i have seen some good examples in front of me where some very ugly guys can get the girls. Myself included haha | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 12:31 AM |
| 1 | So you think looks matter?I think its true, using my personal experience and some friends experience too. Being good looks is an advantage too, but having only it turn off the girls after a 5 min conversation | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 12:27 AM |
| 1 | So you think looks matter?Looks matter, but not the way most of guys think. I'm ugly, short and skinny. So, my tools are dreessing well and being clean and healthy, and works well for me. And summed with body language, voice tone and blah blah blah solve the "problem". | /r/seduction | 24/06/18 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Why does it evertime I say a girl is cute they respond with “aww”Nop. I downvote cause it has no sense. His question has no context | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on Married Women?I would keep distance. But you the problem is them, not you. If its not you, they can easyly cheat with somebody else. But i would not want to be part of this. | /r/seduction | 23/06/18 03:55 PM |
| 1 | [F/17] Need help learning dirty talk...If you can't do it naturally (like me), a good start is trying to roleplay as a fetish character and let your creativity free. Something like teacher x student for example is an easy start. And after you should get used to talk with more freedom. | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 04:29 AM |
| 3 | [F/17] Need help learning dirty talk...In wich situation? When having sex? | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 04:23 AM |
| 1 | So, some conclusions I got after 1 week tinder experiencebrazil | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 03:53 AM |
| 2 | So, some conclusions I got after 1 week tinder experienceMy friend is using just the "WOW THAT ASS". | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 03:29 AM |
| 1 | So, some conclusions I got after 1 week tinder experienceMainly the description. And when i did, i put 2 pics of my face (one of then in the beach and one in my room). She kept the pic in my room, added a picture of my self coding in a programming competition and another of myself with the president of my country when i was 17 yo. | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 02:46 AM |
| 9 | How do you know if a guy is just friendly chatting with you or its something more? I'm a girl btwIt's hard to say. But he can be the type of guy who is afraid of showing real desires and being rejected. So, you should not be surprised but I think we here on the internet can't say much just reading your text. | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Statusi dont understand what you are saying | /r/seduction | 19/06/18 02:15 AM |
| 1 | What are your go to openers for bars?I just try to be honest and say the exactly reason i want tank with her | /r/seduction | 18/06/18 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Is she interested or should I move on?So, what you did? Haha | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 06:27 AM |
| 2 | If a girl isn't nervous around you and is comfortable talking with you and starting conversations with you, does that automatically mean she doesn't see you as a romantic interest?Better late than later. If she is not feeling the same way and you do nothing, you will just suffer alone without find the answer. If she is feeling the same way and you do nothing, is worse. So, just do something. You need to stop guessing. Just take some risks and make your balls proud of you | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 04:31 AM |
| 3 | If a girl isn't nervous around you and is comfortable talking with you and starting conversations with you, does that automatically mean she doesn't see you as a romantic interest?It depends. But if you want her as more than a friend, take action. | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Is she interested or should I move on?You can say, i guess. But you need to learn that we need to take some risks in life. There is a risk of been rejected. But saying nothing and doing nothing is even worse | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Is she interested or should I move on?She might be frustated you did nothing Why not you show what you really want? | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Unorthodox seductionFor me its all the same. | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 01:13 AM |
| 11 | Do you guys ever worry about STD with all your attempts to sleep with many women?Just use comdom. | /r/seduction | 14/06/18 11:39 PM |
| 6 | [Time Sensitive] Is it already too late?My advice is: just do it. Better late than later. | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 10:09 PM |
| 1 | I feel sorry for virgins who depend on 'game' to get them laid for the first time.Its a nice advice, but i think people here will get it to personal haha | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | [HELP]Unphotogenic dude need good picturesIm not photogenic either. And my tinder is just a selfie of me made with my cellphone (with just one take), and is working for me. But i think what i wrote in the description is carrying me tbh. | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | How would you reply to this?I would answer "friday" | /r/seduction | 12/06/18 01:12 AM |
| 1 | I can’t flirt for any fresh hellIt was not so bad. | /r/seduction | 11/06/18 10:45 PM |
| 3 | For guys that don’t drink, do you find it more difficult to date and pick up women?Its harder but is also worth :) I want to experience and remember everything | /r/seduction | 11/06/18 10:40 PM |
| 3 | My weird mindset about seductionVery shitty relationship they had. Don't know how they would get married anyway. | /r/seduction | 11/06/18 02:17 AM |
| 5 | My weird mindset about seductionSo, you want a virgin? jk, i understand your mindset and i disagree with it. The first thing I though was: how he wants a girlfriend but don't want to meet girls at the same time? You just don't know if the next girl will be your girlfriend or not until you start interacting with her. This mindset of holding yourself for marriage or something else is cute and all, but is not realistic. The same is for your future girlfriend: she need to interact with some guys (including you), even if her object… | /r/seduction | 11/06/18 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Have you/would you ever give someone a book on seduction as a present?I have a friend in the same situation, but she is a girl. :/ | /r/seduction | 10/06/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | What do I do?I think there is no need to hold. Why don't you just ask her out? Have you ever talked with her? | /r/seduction | 09/06/18 01:48 AM |
| 3 | I have no clue on how to create attraction.When i started to study pua, i asked myself this same question. What worked for me until today is just these things: dont try to create, be attractive. I just dont think about it and also i dont try to hide my interest in the girl. I just try to stay cool and go with the flow and the attraction just appear naturally. | /r/seduction | 30/05/18 02:07 AM |
| 8 | If a girl holds out her arms and asks you to pull her up from the ground for whatever reason, does that mean she only views you as a friend?I think she wants help to get up from the ground. | /r/seduction | 28/05/18 07:16 PM |
| 5 | How can you not use women just for sex?Hmm. Using this logic, i dont also need friends for anything as i dont fuck them. | /r/seduction | 26/05/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Want to confirm some IOIs before moving forwardI just wana confirm before I ask her out. Just ask she out. dont wana fuck up relations at my gym. Nothing will be fucked up. The worse can happen is she saying no. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Just found out my Tinder date is taller than me, not sure how to respondMy gf is also taller than me. No oroblem about it. | /r/seduction | 19/05/18 07:22 PM |
| 7 | Is it possible to be "goofy" and "sexual"?I think there is no problem beeing goofy. The problem is not being sexual IMO. Funny people seems to pass the vibe they are trying to be validated as making the people around laught. I think you should also be more clear about your sexual intentions in these situations where you trying to seduce a girl to make clear you are a man too. Just think about why you are goofy and if you are this way for yourself and not for others. | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | How can people take the Art of Seduction by Robert Greene Seriously?I didn't read this. But i'm also not a fan of manipulation and derivations. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Next week is the last week of college lectures. How do I approach and ask out a girl by then?His balls will be proud of the man who carry them | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 03:01 AM |
| 1 | How to know when to start dating someone.I just dont like to be palaying these little games pretending im not interested. I would be honest with what you want and ask she out if you think its the right time. | /r/seduction | 17/05/18 02:55 AM |
| 3 | How to push through inexperience ?Having no experience and having no confidence aren't related things. IMO you don't need to lie about it, but the problem is that you feel bad about it, and that is what is disturbing you. If she asks, I would just say the truth. But the way I say it and the way I feel about it is what really matter in the end. | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 05:26 PM |
| 2 | help! i’m a college girl. how do i meet men?IMO, the relationship material thing depends also of the guy youre meeting. Some guys just dont to wanna enter in a relationship at the moment. All you need to do is try to figure out if he wants to have a serious relationship now and if he is not lying to you. | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 02:42 PM |
| 3 | How often is best to text girlfriend?If you want, just message her. She is your girlfriend. You dont need to overthink it. | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 05:29 AM |
| 5 | How do you suttly hit on a girl in front of her boyfriend?If the girl has the minimum of personality, she would just cut you off. | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 02:46 AM |
| 1 | How to behave with a girl that is 4000km away and we haven't seen for 13 years and nowYou can talk to her if you want. The biggest concern of the people here is you getting needy and trying to talk to her 24h/day, which is a bad sign that pass the message that you have nothing to do or nobody to talk to but she. But, if you are really interested on she, just make the move and try to go out in a date with her or something like this. My personal recommendation is to be clear and don't have fear to make the shot if you want she as something as more than a friend. Better late than ne… | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | What to doWhy didnt you try to get her before? | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 08:14 PM |
| 4 | So what does your 10/10 look like?She is my gf. Briefly i guess i can describe she as a very intelligent and funny girl. We both like animes and video games ans staying home, so it makes it all better to me. | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 10:27 PM |
| 5 | "If she doesn't give you the time of day, then you just saved a ton of time"She can have panicked, who knows haha | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 10:23 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedIMO, the best you can do is be direct and clear about what you want. If it doenst work, just forget about it and move on. | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 10:20 PM |
| 1 | How other girls react when they find out you have a smoking hot girlfriend?Nah. I prefer just stay home with her playing games, watching anime and having sex | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Sometimes it feels like I don't even want to change, and that freaks me out...I just call this confort zone. And its very common | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 02:30 AM |
| 3 | How other girls react when they find out you have a smoking hot girlfriend?Normal, I guess. But I dont try to show off my gf to other people too. | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Asking too many questions = ChasingDepends on what is your intention: keep her saying something or having a nice conversation. If is the second, i think it's just listen to what is she saying and using it to talk about something interesting for both. You dont even need to rationalize towards it, like when you are talking to a friend. But if you are not listening and are just trying to figure out what ask next while she is giving you all the clues you need, you would have a bad time. | /r/seduction | 10/05/18 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Why cant I be myself around girls?Yes, you can. Thats what I do. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 06:36 AM |
| 7 | Text message response time = interest in girl?Probally he was really waiting for your message and is trying to not being needy replying you immediately | /r/seduction | 05/05/18 03:50 PM |
| 2 | A girl (17f) invited me (17m) over to her house tonight, what should I bring/ wear?Wear commom clothes and bring comdoms for emergence | /r/seduction | 03/05/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Guys. How was your first time being someone's boyfriend or getting into a relationship?Advise: trying to pretend you dont have any jealous is a very childish behaviour in a relationship, although its a very encouraged behaviour in seduction communities. | /r/seduction | 02/05/18 11:33 AM |
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