gumbare Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How do I become better at texting as well as starting random conversations with girls that I don’t know? Who says it should feel natural/normal to you? If you haven't ridden a bicycle it won't be natural to you to be good at it from the first try.	/r/seduction	17/03/20 03:12 AM
1	How do I become better at texting as well as starting random conversations with girls that I don’t know? Talk to everyone you can. Make comments, compliments to random people on public transport, while waiting in a line, stores, coffee shops, etc. If you practice having small talk and mini conversations with random people, you will get out of your head and gain social momentum. Momentum will allow you to feel natural to start a conversation with pretty much anyone. edit: you don't need some special texting skills, texting is just a tool to agree on where and when to hangout	/r/seduction	17/03/20 02:40 AM
1	Kind of lost on how to connect with women. In need of some advice. Cold approach	/r/seduction	19/06/19 02:21 AM
3	Too many questions? By asking questions you take. When talking to girls online focus on giving. Offer value and focus on your goal - to meet up. Don't chat too long, try to get her to meet you.	/r/seduction	18/06/19 01:55 PM
1	Super smiley girl at local Cookout Good job! Do more!	/r/seduction	14/06/19 01:02 PM
11	Should I ditch porn? Yes, quit watching porn. You can masturbate once in a while using your imagination	/r/seduction	11/06/19 07:04 AM
3	Approach anxiety at bars/clubs Lower your criteria for success. Every time you approach - you win already. First 3 approaches don't count. Warm up before the club by giving compliments to random people. When you get inside the club don't walk around scanning people, approach the first girl you see.	/r/seduction	09/06/19 10:39 AM
1	My challenge tonight. Go out and approach Lower a criteria for your success. Everytime you approach a woman you already won.	/r/seduction	09/06/19 08:19 AM
1	Missed opportunity Yes, you can befriend her and make it clear that you're just coworkers. You will stand out from other creepy "nice" guys that have a hidden agenda.	/r/seduction	09/06/19 07:04 AM
3	Missed opportunity I prefer to never have any romantic relationship with coworkers because eventually it complicates things. Don't shit where you eat. Keep it friendly, light-hearted and professional. There are so many women around, meet them outside your work.	/r/seduction	09/06/19 06:43 AM
3	Missed opportunity Don't try to hit on your coworkers, instead focus on cold approach	/r/seduction	09/06/19 06:32 AM