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generalgumby_dammit/r/MenSupportMen21/12/24 02:24 PM
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support requestgumby_dammit/r/MenSupportMen28/08/24 05:40 PM
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I learned the lesson late in life that nice does not equal good.
/r/MenSupportMen05/02/25 06:24 AM
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I also come from a family with an emotionally distant father but doing emotional work like this with men has made all the difference. I can’t encourage you more strongly to seek one out.
/r/MenSupportMen26/01/25 02:38 AM
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I’d talk to her about it. Explain how it made you feel (which is what she wants, supposedly). If she’s emotionally intelligent she can hear what you’re saying. If not, she’ll get defensive and you know it’s time to look for a new person. FWIW the best therapists I’ve had have been men, particularly ones who specialize in men.
/r/MenSupportMen25/01/25 06:35 PM
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It’s never too late to reinvent yourself. You aren’t defined by your location or job. The only thing is you have to be willing to live with the consequences and outcomes. If you don’t have children or family that at least simplifies things but it really comes down to your commitment to your own life (which includes sacrifice for children especially). My motto after my life restart: flexible and resilient.
/r/MenSupportMen11/01/25 04:27 PM
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It’s not the emotions I find annoying, it’s just that it seems to come regardless of the topic or even if it’s not personal. Very odd.
/r/MenSupportMen22/12/24 01:12 AM
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That’s why I asked here.
/r/MenSupportMen21/12/24 07:09 PM
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Um, thanks for being helpful?
/r/MenSupportMen21/12/24 07:09 PM
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But you are learning and that’s key.
/r/MenSupportMen25/11/24 10:56 PM
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It’s not your job to fix their behavior. The only thing you can control is your reactions. Often people who have out of proportion emotional reactions are trying to manipulate you by at least getting a reaction from you. Unfortunately this is one of the things you have to steel yourself against in life in general whether you’re responding to a man or woman or boss or friend. Unfortunately, it starts by removing your emotions from someone like that but ultimately may lead to removing yourself ent…
/r/MenSupportMen24/11/24 11:51 PM
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