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| 2 | Hi, I’m the 18-year-old guy who has moved past the "red pill" mindset. I have a question that touches on red pill ideas: Is a man a protector and provider by nature?100% | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/26 10:55 PM |
| 2 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyThanks bro this is great | /r/seduction | 10/07/26 04:17 PM |
| 1 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyI don't need a whole guide or anything specific. Would you share any random thoughts or tips? Or even a top 3? | /r/seduction | 04/07/26 09:58 PM |
| 1 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyThat's good dude, generally I think therapy is good. It helped me a lot. I think people here view it as "you don't need it to get women" which is probably true. But I needed it for a lot of other foundational things that have helped me with women for sure. | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 06:50 PM |
| 1 | 32 years old and I feel like I’ll never be able fathom how people date casuallyWhat would you recommend? | /r/seduction | 28/06/26 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Here's how I've successfully gotten my dates to come over to my place. Quite simple.Good luck finding a woman to be your personal chef. If I was you I would just learn to cook better. It's fun, it helps you, and women like it. | /r/seduction | 22/05/26 12:13 AM |
| 1 | How long does it take a woman to decide that she wants to have sex with you?It doesn't, it can just delay things until they are revealed. | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 11:06 PM |
| 1 | “You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOT100% I think you nailed it. Take care of yourself mentally first if possible. But also, sometimes you just have to admit you're having a hard time and ask for help. For example, I recently went to an accounting firm to meet with a CPA. I basically said: "Hey, I was drinking heavily for many years and never did my taxes. I don't even know how to do them. I know I should have done them, but I was struggling. I have quit drinking now but I still know nothing about taxes. Can you help me file 7 year… | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 07:41 PM |
| 2 | “You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOTThink of all the insane shit doctors have to look at. They truly understand how gross and fascinating humans are. They won't judge us for our hair thinning | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 07:57 PM |
| 3 | “You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOTYeah I just noticed some thinning and I'm looking to get a script | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 01:41 AM |
| 6 | Some golden rules from a learned naturalHow old are you? I'm 30 and I'm 100% certain this wouldn't work for American women between 22 and 35. Maybe you are dating a different demographic than I am? | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Some golden rules from a learned natural100% | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 10:41 PM |
| 6 | Some golden rules from a learned naturalSounds fake. | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 10:40 PM |
| 3 | 25F Keep getting feedback I’m attractive but intimidating and hard to approachI think unless I have some indication that the person might like me to approach, I probably won't approach. So maybe try more eye contact, a warm smile, randomly being near that person, etc.. It's very very difficult to know when someone is open to being approached at random. With no indication at all, a lot of good dudes won't do it and you'll get stuck only being approached by people who don't care if they make you uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 07:10 PM |
| 2 | 25F Keep getting feedback I’m attractive but intimidating and hard to approachEvery human being who does this feels like that. It's inherently terrible and doesn't feel any better for me than it does for you. | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 07:08 PM |
| 24 | My boyfriend of 6 years is sexist\ redpill and it’s making me miserable I am thinking about leaving him soonSounds like a good dude. To get very far away from. Best of luck with that, do not delay. Do what you need to leave him firmly in the past in a way where he cannot contact you. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/26 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Men, how the hell do I know when to make a move while on a date with a woman?Thanks dude | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Men, how the hell do I know when to make a move while on a date with a woman?How do you escalate properly? | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?A lot of men have no interest in being with men whether paid or unpaid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?Thank you for taking the time to type this, I can’t tell you how helpful it is. | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 04:16 AM |
| 13 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?How do you communicate this beforehand? | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 01:35 PM |
| 2 | What percentage of single men are red pill?There are a lot of dudes in the world and she only needs to find one. She has good odds if she keeps trying. I’m 30 and while about half of my friends are married, the other half are fun liberal history teacher or programmer types. Plenty of dudes out there. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/09/25 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.Exactly, I’ve had meals in Germany over 4 hours. Which is even long for them but jfc. Once I was out of food, it was akin to being held hostage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.Just think of all the money you could save by not dating at all! Why pass up on those untold riches? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Going dutch on dates is the best way to weed out women with a parasitic mentality.In the USA, we eat dinner in the evening and dinner out generally takes an hour or less. Not saying it’s the best date, but Spain eating super late and taking a long time to do it is definitely the reason it’s more common here than there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 09:45 PM |
| 17 | I had one women pay for my drink in the corner store and another pay for my MTA fee and I still have a distain for women?That’s not an excuse, it’s an awareness of a problem within yourself that you will need to fix. With or without therapy, but I’d suggest with. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/08/25 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guyI bet there are a lot of folks on very shaky ground economically and want to wait until they are more stable. It takes longer these days to secure money and housing and things women want to see. | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 08:06 PM |
| 3 | What are your best openers for talking to a stranger on the street?I think I already do this with all types of people, but I get intimidated when it’s someone I would like to date. I’m not sure how to change this dynamic to make it feel more low stakes. | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | What are your best openers for talking to a stranger on the street?Is it possible to learn this power? | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 05:12 PM |
| 5 | So what if no girl fucks with you at all?Do you know at some point in the past? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/25 02:18 AM |
| 0 | How can a man get a relationship through social settings aka hobby groups, etc?Thanks! I’m looking forward to jumping in. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/25 05:11 AM |
| 0 | How can a man get a relationship through social settings aka hobby groups, etc?What type of counterculture are you involved in? That’s a pretty good idea. For me, I enjoy taking psychedelic drugs like shrooms or LSD on occasion. It’s not my whole life or personality, I’m not going on tour with jam bands or anything. But I believe in the power of psychedelics to change people’s lives for the better. I’m sure if I could find women that believed something similar, a connection could be built rapidly and we wouldn’t need to be exactly the same in every way because we have sign… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/25 11:14 PM |
| 5 | How can a man get a relationship through social settings aka hobby groups, etc?I see what you mean. It’s like listing Microsoft Word skills on a job application. It isn’t going to get you the job, it’s probably assumed that you know your way around text editing as a professional in 2025. What I’ve noticed is that regardless of what anyone says they want in a partner, few men will even get a chance without being attractive, interesting, and extroverted enough to get out and meet people somehow. I feel like most men need to be at least decent in 2/3 of these areas. Without a… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/25 11:09 PM |
| 2 | How can a man get a relationship through social settings aka hobby groups, etc?Did you realize that you didn’t want to spend your life with anyone and were happier alone? Or did you realize that your partner wasn’t the right person to spend your life with? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around?Awesome, I hope it continues to go well for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around?Sounds like you have much to be grateful for but you’re missing a piece. I’m in a similar boat, as many of my friends get married and grow more distant. I wish you the best of luck, and I’m sorry if I was an unnecessary level of aggressive about this. I guess I was more curious than anything else but I apologize regardless. Definitely didn’t mean to be a jerk or diminish anything you are passionate about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Nerdy men who want a partner who shares their specific interests are more delusional than women who want a partner who makes 300k a year in his 20sHey, I just wanted to say I really enjoyed reading your thoughts. You are very articulate and it was a pleasure to see a glimpse into how your mind works. I’m left leaning as well and it was kind of inspiring to see how you destroyed these goofy right wing talking points. Hope you have a great day! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around?I’m sorry you had bad experiences with this. But you can’t let this thinking go on for the rest of your life, it will do you no favors. Fuck what your sister thought, fuck what anyone in high school thought, fuck whoever made you feel badly about the things you love. Not all people and not all neurotypicals are like this. People aren’t all just one thing. There are tons of different people who all think differently about things. You can’t just blanket hate 100% of neurotypicals after having bad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 11:03 AM |
| 3 | Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around?My friends know I’m passionate about these things. That doesn’t mean I have to be thinking about them 24/7 or wearing One Piece regalia to the grocery store. Liking some art other people made in a super public way isn’t more important to me than having friends and enjoying my time with real humans who care about me. You sound very bitter but you’re making shit up about that other person you were talking to. You’re probably letting past trauma run rampant with ideas about how people are and how t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around?I mean, this person didn’t say any of that. You made it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 09:27 AM |
| – | Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around?I’ve lived in multiple countries too. They’ve been everywhere I’ve ever been. Shit, I have plenty of women that are my bros for all intents and purposes. If you’re not finding them, it’s 1000% you that’s repelling them. My problem is that many of them don’t want to date me. But it’s literal insanity to think they don’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:39 AM |
| – | Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around?I hope my country fails your assessment too. You sound miserable to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around?On what principle? Like what does this even mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:19 AM |
| – | Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around?What does a “golden gorgeous mind” look like in the real world? What kinda things does he do or say to get you this excited? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 07:14 AM |
| 1 | I think men act and feel more entitled to romantic success than they realiseI’m sure there have been many. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 02:45 PM |
| 34 | I approached a milf at the libraryI think it might be fine due to this being a super quiet library but idk | /r/seduction | 29/04/25 06:44 AM |
| 2 | I have strong anxiety due to redpill content.Everyone experiences anxiety around dating, it’s perfectly normal. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/25 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Most Men Will Never Get It, And It’s Their Own FaultThere’s a lot more of those than there are guys who know anything about psychology | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 06:47 AM |
| 3 | The Sad Reality Most Men IgnoreThey likely didn’t know you before, so the short answer is, it doesn’t matter. Resenting someone for liking you is a wild take. If they like you now, the rest doesn’t matter. Just enjoy it. | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 09:00 AM |
| 1 | What I noticed about men that have a hot girlfriend.I know this may sound crazy, but sometimes knowing the origin of a problem can help you solve it. Mind blowing wisdom, I know. You can thank my coding bootcamp for teaching me how to debug code. | /r/seduction | 06/09/23 03:39 AM |
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