gunkinthewine Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Men are turned off by women approaching them CMV I only date women that approach me. That’s never a turn off, I wish more women approach men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/24 05:20 PM
-1	Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL? If there is no force, women do not marry men they do not find attractive, men might tolerate it for sex, but women do not. People may initially find each other attractive and lose that attraction over the years. There are many reasons for a dead bedroom, and this can happen to attractive people as well. Being a "Chad" doesn’t mean you will have a happy marriage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 02:11 PM
2	Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL? 1.1) Because my experiences align with rational, self interested behaviour from all sides A meaningless marketing phrase. He or anyone can write this about their experiences. 1.2) I've had many close female and male friends whereas many guys here haven't had many close male friends and very rarely have had close female friends On average (about friend count), yes, you may be right, but you don’t know that this 50-year-old individual has fewer friends than you do. And having friends doesn’t guara…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 02:04 PM
10	Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL? I’m just gonna ask out of curiosity: 1) What makes you think that your experience is more valuable than others’? Your example is more "out of touch" imo. 2) Are traits like 5’11”, a big penis, being educated, confident, etc., below average or undesirable for you? 3) If this guy is not attractive or below average, why do you think your girlfriend pursued him? Do you think this could be a norm, meaning that women generally pursue men who are less attractive than themselves? 4) Haven’t you ever see…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 04:16 AM
-7	Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL? No matter the subject, if we have a choice, we try to choose the best option for ourselves. Both men and women will try to choose the best potential partners for short-term or long-term relationships. However, we can assume that women have the upper hand compared to men in terms of selection and potential alternatives. A large part of attractiveness is universal. Both physical and character traits can be attractive or unattractive. When we observe a group of people, we can identify who is attrac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/07/24 03:37 AM
1	This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen" Honestly, it feels like half of the murican people I see on the internet (reddit) are autistic, and the other half are OF content creator/selling nudes/escorts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/24 08:31 PM
–	The gender ratio is almost even, so why are so many guys unable to land a single girlfriend, while every girl seems to be taken Indeed, “harems” do exist; there is no point denying that. There are not enough ‘datable’ men for every woman, so some women unknowingly or knowingly share partners. My friends are constantly complaining that the men they like and meet turn out to be married. Most of those who learn about the situation end the relationship, but some of them continue even knowing that they are married. However, it is unlikely that these cases alone are significant enough to contribute the gap statistically. Most …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/24 01:15 PM
3	Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other women In this context, "unrealistic" means hard to do/achieve/manage or unnatural. "Realistic" or "natural" doesn’t mean "let’s accept our body as it is, without changing it, just as it naturally gives or produces." With a $1 razor and half an hour a week, you can manage it by yourself. I manage my hair, beard, nose and ear hair, and some body hair too. If you dress up, brush your teeth, and apply sunscreen, moisturizer, and perfume, please shave as well. If you still find it "unrealistic", remember t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 03:57 PM
2	Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other women There is not single one "unrealistic beauty standart" imposed by men. Shave yourself and don't be obese that's all. Other than that try to be healthy, practice personal hygiene, dress in a way that compliments your body type and appropriate for the condition, these are common sense self respect practices tho. Any trend or "beauty standard" outside of these is intra-sexual competition, meaning competition between women. <image>	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 02:38 PM
0	Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other women Majority actually.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 02:21 PM
5	Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other women Shaving and not being obese are the only two things that men want. Even scar marks, cellulite, and plus-size bodies are sexy to men. No makeup is preferred over makeup, and natural body parts preferred over big fake breasts or filled up lips etc. So, I must agree with the OP here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 01:24 PM
1	Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other women Shaving and not being obese are the only two things that men want. Even scar marks, cellulite, and plus-size bodies are sexy to men. No makeup is preferred over makeup, and big or fake breasts are preferred over natural breasts. Filled lips are preferred over natural lips, etc. So, I must agree with the OP here.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 01:22 PM
14	Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other women Nobody on earth has been ignored because of not wearing heels.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 01:14 PM
1	Most of unrealistic beauty standards are imposed on women by other women Shaving =/= unrealistic beuauty standarts or “dolled up”	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/24 01:09 PM
–	"you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argument I agree that intimacy, affection, and sex are very important in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs. All living beings on earth are programmed to (1) survive and (2) reproduce biologically (the need for shelter and food is more important than having a relationship). However, it is a profound ethical and social agreement that you cannot fulfill your needs at the expense of others; even if it is a basic need, you cannot forcefully take what you want from other individuals. Statements like ‘I have no shelt…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 07:11 PM
0	Women don't really have high standards, they just like the exact same guy I think there was a study showing that women give more different scores to men compared to the ones given to women by men. I.e. it's harder for us to agree on which guy is attractive. If someone can link that study, I'd really appreciate it. It's the opposite in every study.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/24 06:16 PM
–	Sexual liberation is incompatible with civilization How can a society be healthy and civilized while enslaving and distributing half of its population? You have to assume (a) women aren’t human, (b) women are only good for sex, and (c) every man deserves a woman’s ‘service’ in order to adopt this dangerous and faulty mindset. Actually, this mindset is incompatible with civilization.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/24 01:48 PM
1	What exactly is the "blue pill" solution to solving a deadbedroom? “DB occurs because of man’s lack of attractiveness” is not always the case. Work-life imbalance, stress, lack of time (e.g., kids being around), mental or health issues can also lead to dead-bedrooms. Probably the most Bluepill solution is open communication. In an ideal relationship, where both parties are initially attracted to each other and not asexual, communicating your needs and issues, being understanding, and supportive can go a long way. As others have mentioned, getting a health check…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 08:13 PM
–	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. Wtf? It says Black and Asian people are genetically inferior. There is not a single statement that is true in that video, actually. Total waste of time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 02:38 AM
16	CMV: Every single man can immediately significantly increase his desirability to women by rescuing cats and kittens. The OP says that because she’s a woman, she has authority on this matter and is more justified than male commenters. However, some women in the comments have written “hell no!” to her advice. One even shared a study showing that photos of men holding cats are liked less by women. Honestly, giving general advice on these topics doesn’t seem very accurate to me. Also, (heterosexual) men might be more experienced in trying to impress women from birth, so saying “I’m a woman, so my opinion is more v…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 04:21 PM